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for Jacob Allen
Richard Earles
July 21, 2004
Dear Allen family,
I wanted to write a note just to say that I'm so sorry. I went to school with Audra and I can't imagine what it would be like to lose a classmate let alone a sibling and family member. In honor of your son who I only knew briefly, I would like to say "thank you." My sister Dacia graduated with Jake and seeing the pain she feels from this brings tears to my eyes. But that pain is brought by the genuine friend in Jake that she has lost. She speaks higher of that boy than any other she has known, and so once again, thank you for the loving, respectful friend that you put in my sister's life. I know that God in Heaven is taking care of him, and may He comfort you as only He can.
Sincerely,
Debbie Galliart
July 20, 2004
DEAR ALLEN FAMILY,
I DID NOT KNOW YOUR SON JACOB. MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND ALL OF HIS FRIENDS THAT KNEW HIM. I CAN ONLY IMAGINE WHAT YOU ALL ARE GOING THROUGH. I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR YOU. GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!
robert brougher
July 19, 2004
I never knew Jake but wanted to express my sincere sadness at his loss. May you find some small measure of comfort knowing that others are holding you and your family and your beloved son in their hearts.
Gerri DeHart
July 19, 2004
My Dear Family:
There are no sufficient words to ease your loss, sorrow and grief. I can only say, my heart goes out to you. We will never be able to rationalize an irrational act. I was deeply touched by Sandy Bruce's depictions of your Jake. The fact that he was always willing to help others.....that he befriended those younger than him (what a shining, life long example he gave them), and most importantly, that Jake had a very strong faith in God. I just know he made an impact on many, many lives that no one is even aware of.
I feel sad that I did not know Jake personally. I feel thankful that through your words and the words of others that knew him, that he has touched my heart. Thank you for sharing Jake with those of us that did not have the honor of meeting him.
Jesus said, "You are the light of the world...Let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven."
Matthew 5:14,14 (NRSV)
Jake definitely was a "light of the world" and I feel strongly his "light" will continue to shine through your family, his brothers and sisters, his friends and even through people's lives he touched, however briefly, that you are unaware of.
Maybe, you can draw on the strength of Jake's knowledge, at a very young age, of how to live and how to treat others which is God's will for all. It takes many years for some of us to learn this and some never do.........
Jake's story will be passed on to my four grandchildren at an appropriate age.
My prayers for your strength, my love from someone that cares and my thoughts of you and Jake for a long, long time to come.
Craig & Sharon Holsinger
July 13, 2004
I didn't know your son, Jake, but what a blessing he must have been! I will continue to pray that God wraps you and those who loved your son in the comfort of His Loving Arms. Craig and Sharon Kay (Ast) Holsinger
Nancy Goldston
July 11, 2004
I knew Jake when I worked at Argonia High School the 1996/97 school year. He was a fabulous young man and was always very warm, friendly, outgoing and would do anything to help someone out. I am in awe and shock that he is gone. Jake will be truly missed and he and his family have been in my prayers since I heard of this tragic event and will continue to be in my prayers. Jake is now with an awesome God!!!
Sincerely, Nancy & Shelby Goldston and Brianne Grimm
Josh Sylvester
July 11, 2004
I didn't know jake very well, we played argonia in football at the bi-district level, and i met him once at the unit conference. he seemed very enthusiastic and friendly. I am very sorry for your loss.
Keri Boley
July 11, 2004
I don't know your family, and I never met your Jake, but I am very sad for your loss. May God's grace be with you and may your beautiful memories stay vivid forever.
God's Peace be with you and all of Jake's family and friends.
Charlotte Moore
July 10, 2004
Though your heart must hold deep saddness at the lost of the one you loved, may it also hold the blessings of the life you shared and the love that will always be a part of you. Praying that God will comfort your heart, uplift your spirits, and carry you through this time of saddness to a place of peace. (Jake's friend- David's Aunt)
Esther
July 10, 2004
To the ~*Allen Family*~ From the Andrews & Walters - Tribe.
And Arapaho prayer
Son: Who is Man Above?
Father: 'Man Above' is the Creator, He is higher than all people and the Universe, He has no beginning and no end.
S:Is He good?
F: He is all good.
S: Then why do we fight other men?
F: Because there is evil in men too.
S: You pray every moring?
F: Our teepee's face the Moring Sun to remind us to give thanks every moring.
S: What if there is no reason to give thanks?
F: Then the fault is within yourself.
S: I'll pray with you tomorrow.
F: No, you must meet the moring sun & great silent alone. It prepares your mind to face the day & makes you thoughtful in all things.
You both as parents did a fine job in having to raise your Son, Just know that 'Man Above' is with you all . And your in our prayers Randy & Esther Andrews,Britt Walters (now Urusquieta) Jessica, & Ms.Em (Emily)Walters.
Priscilla Rinehart
July 10, 2004
We are orginally from South Haven and our son Todd, who graduated in 2003, remembers playing sports against Jake. He remembers him as a "cool" guy. Our prayers are with you and your family as well as all the kids in the school. In a small town, everyone hurts when a child is lost. May God hold you close and ease your pain. Greg, Priscilla, Chris, Todd and Eden Rinehart.
LeRoy and Ann Ast
July 10, 2004
Dear Joe and Brenda,Our thoughts and prayers and with you and your family through these difficult times. LeRoy and Ann Ast
Sarah Fisher
July 9, 2004
Allen Family-
I went to grade school with Jared and I knew Jake a little bit. I am so sorry for your loss and I want you to know that you are all in my prayers, as well as the prayers of everyone else around here.
Cindy Vondrasek
July 9, 2004
Dear Joe and Brenda,
I am so sorry for your great loss. I know it is small comfort, but please know you and your family are in my prayers and thoughts.
Jeanie (Robertson) Patterson
July 9, 2004
Brenda,
I don't recall ever having the pleasure of meeting your Jake, but from what Taylor and Junior have told me he was an outstanding young man. It saddens me that the world has lost a young man who I'm sure would have made an impact here on earth. And now I'm sure he will look over his loved ones and will always be your Guardian Angel. I can't even imagine the pain you and your family are going through. My heart aches for you all and I do not know of any words that I can say to help ease your pain. I can only let you know that since I first heard of your loss I have been praying for you and your family that the Lord Jesus give you the strenght to help you to endure the days ahead. God Be With You All.
Jeanie (Robertson) Patterson
Noma Curtis
July 9, 2004
Brenda and family,
I am lifting you up in prayer. God is our comfort and our strength. May you feel His Holy Presence in a very strong way during these sad and painful times.
Noma Curtis
David and Laura High
July 9, 2004
In our feeble attempt to express our sorrow over your tremendous loss, we turn to prayer and request that your spirits rise "with wings of eagles" to soar in victory with Jake. May such thoughts ease your pain and angels carry you while you begin this journey. Prayers from around this area rise on your behalf.
Susan Berry (Haskins)
July 9, 2004
I never met this young man but he has touched the hearts of many who did and I just want to add my prayers and sympathy to his family and friends who cared for him so much.
Dave L.
July 9, 2004
We have never crossed paths, but I can tell you have lost a wonderful young man, and my heart is aching for you. Know that many are grieving with and praying for you in this time of sorrow.
Gracie & Kevin Fisher
July 9, 2004
Brenda and Joe,
We can not begin to know how you must feel or even to express our sympathy deep enough but we wanted you to know that we are thinking of you constantly and praying for all of you to find some way to deal with this. Know that God is there to help.
April Langford
July 9, 2004
Dear Allen's:
I am sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I meet Jake one night while I was in Argonia. He was a great going guy and was always the happy one. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. I know what it is like to loose someone very close to you. God Bless From All In Caldwell!
john white
July 9, 2004
My heart is out to you for I know this pain all too well. both of my sons and wife were killed in a car accdent. I feel for you and my prayers are for you and the family. I hope that you all will have happy lifes and live each day as it's last
Ron Burnett
July 8, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and may God be your guideing light. Son of Ray and Norvella Burnett of Conway Springs
John, Janet, Garrett Cook
July 8, 2004
Just to let you know you are in our prayers. Garrett played ball with Bryce in all stars a few years back.
God Bless you all.
Molly Novascone
July 8, 2004
I am Karen Lange's niece and I just wanted to let you know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.
"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." - ISAIAH 41:10
Lori Holt
July 8, 2004
So sorry to hear about your loss. My daughter, Kristen Cink, had many wonderful things to say about your Jake: friendly, kind, fun to name a few. Kristen who just graduated from Cheney,knew of Jake through Student Council and Forensics. We have no words to ease your pain but please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Karla Bower
July 8, 2004
I wish there was some way to ease your pain and sorrow, and hope that it helps comfort you to know that you are surrounded by so many people who love you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Rosanne Arnold
July 8, 2004
We are so sorry for your loss. I am Galen Greene's sister. Laramie told be of this tragedy. We will say a rosary for your son and your family. God Bless. Rosanne, Rick and Family.
Jessica Walters
July 8, 2004
To the Allen family:
May God be with you now when you need strength and comfort more than ever. I knew Jake well and he will be missed by all who knew him. I pray for you all and I just wanted to express my sympathy in some way.
-PFC. Walters
Darrin and Jenni Doll
July 8, 2004
We are so very sorry for your loss. May God Bless you and keep you in his loving arms. Jake is right beside him watching over you. If there is anything we can do please don't hesitate.
donna bengecook
July 8, 2004
god bless your family, our prayers are with you.
Mark and Pam Kendrick
July 8, 2004
We are at a loss for words, just know we are here if you need anything. You are in our prayers.
With love, Mark & Pam and Girls
Mark and Kim Becker
July 8, 2004
We are sorry to hear of your loss. May God Bless you all. Your family will be in our prayers.
Carolyn, Katie & Ken Morrison
July 8, 2004
We learned yesterday of your great loss. We are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Deanna Zoglmann
July 8, 2004
God Bless your family. May god help you and your family through your loss. Your all in my prayers.
Jason & Gayle Hill
July 8, 2004
We cannot begin to imagine your suffering, but our thoughts and prayers are with you every single day. May God wrap His loving arms around you.
Vickie
July 8, 2004
Brenda, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Samantha Heasty
July 8, 2004
I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.
Samantha Heasty (Mrs. Heasty)
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