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Mary Duke Obituary

Duke, Mary Lou, 74, passed away peacefully in the arms of her daughter, Tuesday, September 14, 2009. Visitation Friday, September 18 at 1 p.m., with services to follow at 2 p.m., at Lakeview Funeral Home, Wichita. Mary Lou was born in Beloit, KS to Bob and Ethel Metz on November 13, 1934. She lived in Mankato, KS before moving to Wichita as a child. Married to Bobby Duke, Mary Lou loved to spend time with her family as the generations continue to expand. She had an extreme passion for gardening, loving flowers of all kind, as well as enjoyed showcasing her talents with the many crafts she loved to create. Mary Lou was an employee of Beechcraft for over 30 years, where she had many dear friends. She was wonderful cook who loved to entertain for family and friends alike. Most importantly, she was a loving wife, mother, sister, grandmother and friend to all. She will be greatly missed. Mary Lou is preceded in death by her parents and brothers, Homer and Carl. She is survived by her husband of 60 years, Bobby; daughter Debra Jones (Thomas); sons, Roderick (Janet) and Cory (Rose); sister, Sharon Collins; 11 grandchildren, 6 great-grandchildren and a host of relatives and friends.

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Published by Wichita Eagle on Sep. 17, 2009.

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Mel & Shari Grimes

November 14, 2009

We are very sorry to hear of the passing of your wife and mother. While we have never met either her or you we were very close to Leona & Tony and miss them both every day. Leona was my Dad's (Ray Grimes) Niece and Leona and him were raised together by Mae Grimes after Dad's parents passed away. May God be with you today and always.

Jamie Williams

September 18, 2009

Bobby,

I enjoyed my time with Mary. She was such a lovely person. I got to know her quite well while I had the privelage taking care of her during her dialysis treatments. She will be greatly missed. You and your family are in my thoughts.

Mark Berndsen

September 17, 2009

What a wonderful thought provoking picture of your beautiful, loving, and generous wife and mother. Bobby, Rod, Debra, and Cory and entire family we are so sorry for your loss. With prayers thinking of you all.

Sue O'Brien

September 17, 2009

I extend my heartfelt thoughts and prayers to each member of Mary Lou's beloved family. I always enjoyed her sweet spirit and radiant smile, and know that part of her will forever remain in the hearts of those who loved her. Blessings........Sue O'Brien

S. Wheeler

September 17, 2009

I send my condolences to the family and all her loved ones. Very sorry for your loss

Hattie J

September 17, 2009

I will miss Ms Mary, and that smile, and "Hi honey, when I speak to her at Davita.

Rachael Whitney

September 17, 2009

My heart felt sympathies for the entire Duke family. I am sorry for your loss.

Sandy P

September 17, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Julie

September 17, 2009

I worked with Mary Lou about 30 years ago at Beech, she was the sweetest woman you would ever want to meet. I am sorry for your loss.

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