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Michael Bette Obituary

Bette, Michael, 55, owner of Central State Mechanical and full time Jayhawk fan, passed away Oct. 29, 2014. He is preceded in death by his father, Werner Bette; and survived by his wife of 29 years, Paula Bette; children, Ryan, Brandon, and Alexa Bette; mother, Edith Bette; siblings, Thomas Bette and his wife, Linda and Heidi Bette; aunt, Gisela Bette; nieces and nephews, Parker, Hayley, Alex, and Emily. Rosary will be held at 6:30 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 2; and a funeral mass will be held at 10 a.m. Monday, Nov. 3, both at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton. Memorial fund has been established with Catholic Family Credit Union to benefit the Bette children.

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Oct. 31 to Nov. 2, 2014.

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November 19, 2014

Paula- My heart goes out to you. Just learned today of your loss. So shocked and saddened. (I) Will be in touch. Ann K.

November 5, 2014

Sorry to hear of Mike's passing, Paula. Although I hadn't seen him or you since you guys met, I have fun memories from Goddard High Class of '76 also. God bless you and your family in this time. Kurt Byars

November 3, 2014

I will always be here for You. Always to listen ~ not to "know it all". You & Mike were always Family to me.... Love & Prayers to You all. xxxo, Judi

November 3, 2014

Oh Paula, our hearts hurt for you all. You & Mike were the only ones that were behind & beside me. I Love You Both Forever! Always here for You ~ xxxo, Judi heart hugs sweetie! God Bless and Prayers from theonelikeyou! haha

November 3, 2014

Dr Bette and Mrs Werner Bette-
We just heard about the Mike's death
at church on Sunday. Our family is deeply saddened by the news of your loved one's death. Our deepest sympathy to you and his family.
The Melzer family

November 3, 2014

Paula and children-
Our family just heard of Mike's death.
We are shocked by the news.
Unfortunately, it is too late to attend the rosary or funeral.
You are all in our prayers.
With sincere sympathy,
The Robert Melzer family
(Bob, Joan and Rob)

November 3, 2014

Paula and kids. We hope you know how much Mike and your family meant to us. The BigDogs was the best time of our lives.
Bob and Traci Futo

Brad & Kelly Little

November 3, 2014

Paula,
Kelly and I were so shocked last night to hear of Mike's passing. Know that you and you kids are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jen Kern

November 3, 2014

Paula,
Dan and I are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dan and Jen

Shari Dalal

November 2, 2014

Paula and family, We are so sorry to hear about Mike. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Shari Dalal and family (MHS)

November 2, 2014

Paula, Alexa, and family, we were really sorry to hear the news of your husband/dad passing away. We will continue to pray for your family during this difficult time. Sincerely, Kristy and Sarah Smith and family.

Gretchen Wyant-Fox

November 2, 2014

Paula and Heidi,
I am so sorry for your loss. I always thought Mike was very nice. He was in my graduating class at GHS '76. I will keep you all in my prayers. God knows, He cares, lean on Him.

November 1, 2014

Paula, so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! Don McCorkle

Amy Bumpurs

November 1, 2014

Mrs Edith Bette,
David and I are so sorry to here about Mikes passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this difficult time. Your long time neighbors, David and Amy Bumpurs

Debbie Horst

October 31, 2014

Paula,
I am so sorry to hear about Michael. You, Alexa & your sons are in my thoughts and prayers.

October 31, 2014

Paula and Heidi, I am so sorry for your loss of Mike. Although I haven't seen him in years, he was a great friend to my ex husband years ago, and I was lucky to have known him then. I am praying for all of you at this difficult time. In time, may you find comfort in the memories you have of him. Rene' Hendricks (formerly Tambling)

Diana Tuders

October 31, 2014

We only knew Mike for a short time but he was a kind man. We're so sorry to hear of his passing. May God comfort your family.

October 31, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, I have special memories of us growing up, Love you.
Kurt J. Stanley

Kathy Messner

October 31, 2014

Dearest Paula - I can't even begin to tell you how sorry I am to hear this shocking news . The neighborhood at Briarwood will really miss him as will I . Please know Sarah and I will keep you and your beautiful family in our thoughts and prayers .

Keely Brown

October 31, 2014

Such heartbreaking news to hear. Paula please know I am a phone call away... extra hugs to Alexa and the boys.

Dieter Reinhard

October 31, 2014

Paula, we are so sorry to hear Mike passed away. Praying for you and your children to find peace.

Susan Fox

October 31, 2014

Thinking of you and praying for your comfort.

October 31, 2014

Paula,
We are so sorry for your loss. We are praying for strength for your family as you navigate this difficult time.
Jessica Shurts (MHS)

Maria Rey

October 31, 2014

May God bring you strength at this difficult time. May you all find comfort in the happy memories. Sincere condolences to Mrs. Edith Bette ,Mrs. Paula Bette and our dear Heidi and all of the family. We are having a mass said Saturday in rohnert park at st Elizabeth Seaton Church for Mike. With our love, Maria Rey and Erik Sens and Fernando Rey

October 31, 2014

My sincere condolences to the Bette family for the loss of your loved one. May prayers strengthen you and memories comfort you, and may our Lord Jesus Christ and God our Father, who loves us, comfort your hearts and "make you firm". (2 Thessalonians 2:16, 17)

pam hendricks

October 31, 2014

Paula and kids . I am so sorry for your loss. Having lived next door to you for 16 years you've been great neighbors.I always appreciated Mike's help outside when he would see me working on some task. I always knew that I could count on mike to let me borrow some obscure tool that he surely had in his garage. He will be missed.

Gary Yost

October 31, 2014

Paula,kids and family,
May God's Grace and Blessings be with Mike, with you Paula and your childen, and Mike's mother, brother, and sister. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you! Favorite neighbors and friends for many years, our families literally grew up together. Mike was a special friend and will be missed. I'm sure his just rewards are awaiting him from our Heavenly Father.
Our deepest sympathy,
Gary, Tyler, Christine, & Bryant

Judy Koegeboehn

October 31, 2014

Paula: We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May the love of family and friends bring you comfort and strength. --The Koegeboehn Family (MHS)

October 31, 2014

OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. WE HAVE KNOWN THE BETTE FAMILY FOR MANY YEARS AND OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY GOES TO EVERYONE IN THE FAMILY. OUR SINCERE REGRETS AT THE LOSS OF MIKE.

THE MARKANO FAMILY

Elaine & Trent Sauder

October 30, 2014

Paula & kids, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you through this extremely difficult time.

Courtney Murphy

October 30, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Paula, and your whole family. So glad that softball brought us together, and we had the chance to get to know Mike if even for a short time. I still remember him helping Lexa shop for new cleats, and when he went and bought all those ice cream sandwiches for the girls at the Colorado team practice. He was a lot of fun to visit with, as well as a great coach. The Murphy Clan

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