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for Paula Vannaman
Vanessa Clayton nee Cubberley
February 8, 2010
Dear Verity and Family
I just wanted to let you know how extremely sorry and sad I am to hear about your mum and what you and your children went through. I cannot believe that such an awful tragedy could happen to such a wonderful family. I have such fond memories of my stay with you and your family all those many years ago.
All my love
July 14, 2009
Don, Words cannot express how very saddened I am to learn of Paula's " death. Unfortunately, I was away from my home (in Corpus Christi, Tx.)without my computer so I didn't receive Carolyn's email until this morning. Words cannot express what I'm feeling for you - nor am I about to tell you I know what you are going through. However, having lost "my treasure, Eldon" in October of '07, I do know some of what you are dealing with - my heart is so very heavy for you. I remember those happy times (for 8+ years) when we all met on Wednesday evenings for great fellowship and Bible Study - you and Paula, Jim and Carolyn, Max and Bonnie, Rob and Susan, etal. (I still have Eldon's notes from all those studies). You and Paula were such an intricate part of those evenings. Knowing that words cannot ease your pain, I still want you to know that I will pray for you - for comfort in this terrible loss, for peace in knowing that Paula (and Eldon) are where we happily will be someday, and for the knowledge that our Lord is there with you even when you don't think He is.
Love,
July 14, 2009
Dear Dr. Vannaman and family,
I am very saddened to hear about Mrs. Vannaman's passing. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers in the days ahead of us.
God bless you and keep you,
Heather Hamtil
Bob Bruno
July 13, 2009
Dr. Vannaman and family, I am saddened to hear of Paula's passing. You are in my prayers.
Beth Hampleman
July 12, 2009
Verity, I'm so very sorry to hear about your mom and about the accident. Your mom was a kind and lovely person. I've been praying for you and your family and will continue to in the weeks and months ahead. Praying too that your and your children's injuries are healing well. Take care, and God bless you. Beth (Sullivan) Hampleman
Nancy Rohr
July 10, 2009
Dear Verity and Family,
I am saddened to hear about your loss. Your whole family has been in my thougths and prayers daily. I and many of your friends are here to support you in any way and as long as you need.
Sincerely,
Nancy Rohr
Alyson Walter
July 10, 2009
Dear Verity and Family,
I learned of your mother's death and your injuries only today (Friday, July 10th). I am so very sorry for your loss. I would absolutely have attended your mother's funeral, had I known about it in time. There are no words adequate to describe the depth of my feelings of concern and compassion for your family at this time. Please accept my most sincere condolences and those of my family.
Most Sincerely,
Alyson Walter and Family
Barbara McKinley Voss
July 10, 2009
Dear Don,
You were my first friend on this earth and I have always wished and will always wish the best for you. From the entries in this guest book, it sounds like you found the best. I am deeply sorry for your loss and will add my prayers, with your many friends, for you and your family.
Kamey Batiz-Wilson
July 10, 2009
Dr. Vannaman & Family,
So many memories of my youth revolve around your family. From swimming in the pool in High School to playing Bunko with "the girls" at your house, many years later. They are memories I will always cherish.
Paula will remain the angel looking out for all of us in my heart.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Julia Handy
July 10, 2009
Dear Dr. Vannaman,
I haven't seen you in many a year, but I wanted to express my sincere condolences in the loss of your wife. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Julia (former receptionist at PPA 1990-1993)
July 9, 2009
Don, I laugh and I cry when I remember those crazy days in Wichita when Paula let me be in the "gourmet club" even though I couldn't cook. Our kids were the same ages and I always remember that Paula never raised her voice to them while I had to yell just to get their attention. I accused her of "talking them to death until they could't take anymore and promised to be good" What a great Mom and a great friend. Lastly I can't leave out our trip to New Orleans where you sold your micrscope at the last minute so you could go. Now there was a couple who knew their priorities. I'm so glad we got to visit a few years ago in KC, lost touch again, but never forgotten.Dick and I are so sorry for your loss and extend our feelings to the kids. I am in touch with Jerry and we will plan to see you later. Love, Barb and Dick Nolen
Jennifer Pottinger
July 8, 2009
Verity and Family, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I remember her warm smile fondly. She will be greatly missed.
Jay Tarr
July 8, 2009
Dear Don-Just wanted to drop you a note and express my deepest sympathies on your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayer. Cherish the good times and memories they will help comfort you in the days ahead. Jay, Bri and JP Tarr
Hilda Devillier
July 8, 2009
Don,
Was saddened to hear of the death of your wife..
Please know that I am thinking of you at this time...
Hilda Messer Devillier..Lake Charles.La.
July 8, 2009
Dear Don and Family, Our daughter, Gretchen, just informed Larry and me of Paula's passing. You and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. She was a beautiful, caring, and loving person to everyone and remember that she loved her family dearly. Paula was like another daughter to my mother. We shall miss her. Susie and Larry
Monica Laycook
July 8, 2009
May her legacy live on in those she loved so dearly. My heart goes out to you in your time of mourning. May you find comfort that she is at peace and in a better place than any of us.
Charlotte Shanahan
July 8, 2009
Don and family, we were so sad to hear that Paula passed away. She was so wonderful to us. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. Your extended family in Colorado. Char, Tracy, Tom and Tommy
Samantha Wier
July 8, 2009
My heart goes to the family...I am sooo sorry for your loss she was a vribrant and wonderful woman... Musch love SAM
Joan Danitschek
July 8, 2009
Dr. Vannaman,
I had a nice talk with your daughter Sunday night at the community pool where we live. We just met and she shared with me that her mother recently passed away. We moved back to Wichita two weeks ago from Kansas City. While in Kansas City and before your retirement last summer, you took care of our two boys, Reese and Blake. Our friends highly recommended you as a peditrician. I'm so very sorry for the loss of your wife. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Much love and many prayers,
Cherie Durkin
July 8, 2009
Dr. Vannaman and family, I am so sorry to hear that Paula has died. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Cherie Durkin (i worked with Sharon Cain)
Janis Smalley
July 8, 2009
Don, I am so sorry to hear about Paula. I have thought of you often over the last year (especially every time Logan gets sick). We will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Janis, Colin & Logan Smalley
De Jones
July 8, 2009
Dear Verity, Dale and family,
Know that you are close in the thoughts and prayers of many people who love you. May you find comfort and healing in the company of friends and family.
We will be here for you when you return home.
Peace be with you!
De Jones
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