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for Anita Bergman
mary millen
May 9, 2010
Greg, I think of you and your son so very often. Though I didn't have the honor of meeting Alex, I know he is an amazing little boy and very blessed to have YOU for his DAD. When I sang at your wedding, Anita gave me a lovely wind chime. I have it in a very special tree out on our land where I have started a memorial garden.
I hear it and see it almost every day and think of Anita. I can almost hear her laugh and have very fond memories of getting tickled with her. I wish you and Alex the absolute best of everything as you build a new life together. Love, Mary Millen (Bergman)
Michael Armstrong
October 5, 2009
Mrs. Bergman, I miss you so much and I would love to have told you that you were my favorite teacher and shaped who I am today. You were such an inspiration to me and hope to take on the life lessons you taught later on into my life.
Stephanie Taylor-Rymer
September 23, 2009
I have such fond memories of Anita at Blue Jacket and Hocker. Her smile lit up the room, or let you know she was up to something. I cherish all my memories of her and the great time we had growing up. My deepest sympathy to her family.
Stephanie Taylor Rymer
Retta Whinnery
September 19, 2009
Greg, Alex, and Mary,
I was so very sorry to hear of your loss. I offer my deepest sympathy.
Please let me know if there is anything I can do.
Allison Gossick
September 19, 2009
My son was one of the lucky ones who spent a fantastic year in Mrs. Bergman's classroom. She was an outstanding 6th grade teacher and the entire Highlands community is mourning her loss.
Please know how special she was to my son and to our family. She is one of those teachers who did make a difference (over and over and over again).
Pang Xiong
September 18, 2009
Mary, Greg, Alex, and Steve, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your lovely Anita.
I did not know her personally but when I met her the past few times and at the store I worked at, she was a caring and loving down to earth person. I will always remember her sweet smile and great friendship.
May God be with the whole family while you all are going through this very difficult time.
Jennifer (Bray) Hansen
September 18, 2009
To the Smith and Bergman Families,
I went to school with Anita stretching back to Hocker. I was stunned to hear the devastating news. My heart pours out to you all. I can't imagine what you all are going through. Even though we haven't kept in touch- we always seemed to run into each other over the years and catch up. She will be missed deeply. May you all have the strength and courage you need in this difficult time.
Bob and Michele Hashagen
September 18, 2009
September 18,2009
Dear Bergman and Smith families,
Please accept our sincere condolances for the loss of your beautiful Anita.
We knew her in her late teens and early twenties, when our son, Matthew dated her. She was alway so full of life and laughter and added so much to our family gatherings. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times.
Bob and Michele Hashagen
Carl Myers
September 18, 2009
Greg, I was without words when I heard the news of Anita. I remember her at the old store so many times I went there to shop. I know that kids that have not had a chance to become one of her students will have lost a true teacher. I am sorry for your loss.
Millie Eitel
September 18, 2009
Greg, Alex and Family: I have know Anita since Junior High and will always remeber her positive attitude, beautiful smile and the way she always remembered me when encountered. She had an aura about her that made you feel special. I will always remember the stories she told me of the trips her and Greg took to Hawaii. I felt I was living the beauty of the Islands thru her. I will never forget when I found out her and Greg were together and getting married and when Alex was going to arrive. The joy in her eyes melted your soul. I grieve for all of you and Thank you for letting me spend the time with her in ICU. It was a great gift for me and I will never forget it. God Bless all of you. Millie Eitel (Campbell)
Emily (Clay) Rose
September 18, 2009
Greg, Alex and The Smith Family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Anita. I went to school with her from 7-12 grade. She touched many lives of those around her with her smile and positive outlook. She will be missed dearly by family and friends that she has made through out the years. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Ingrid Adel
September 18, 2009
Even though I hardly knew Mrs. Bergman, she made a nice impression on our son Lucas during the five days that she was his teacher. He knew it was going to be a good year and was ready for it! My deepest condolences to all the lives that Mrs. Bergman touched, especially her family, friends, students and colleagues. May God give you strength during this very difficult time.
Tish Duckworth
September 18, 2009
Greg & Alex, Mary & Steve:
Anita was one of the three amigos and our dear friend. She brought so much life to our world, and we will cherish the memories in our hearts forever.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Tish & Audra
September 18, 2009
Greg ,Alex and Family
I am so sorry for your loss. Nothing hurts more than losing someone you love so dearly. She will be greatly missed, but the memories you have of her will live forever and hopefully bring you comfort and peace.
Cheri Piersee
Shawnee KS
COONS FAMILY
September 18, 2009
My family is so sorry for your loss.I knew Anita from high school and she was a great person.
Jeff Thomas
September 18, 2009
Greg, I'am so sorry to hear of your loss with Anita's passing. Knowing the two of you all these years makes this harder to comprehend. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Becky Dukstein
September 17, 2009
At Hocker Grove Junior High, Anita and I became fast friends, and I have many fond memories of our friendship together during our teenage years. Although I hadn't seen her since we left the halls of SMNW, I will always remember her kindness, big smile, and positive personality. She definitely made a positive impact on all those around her, even when she was a 7th grader at Hocker Grover Jr. High. My heart goes out to the Smith family and to her husband and son. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this very difficult time.
Matt Parker
September 17, 2009
Greg, I am sorry for your loss. Anita was one in a million. I remember you and I visiting her at the Grocery Store next to Shawnee 1. God Bless Brother.
Renee Razook
September 17, 2009
We were so very saddened to hear about the loss of Mrs. Bergman. My son Dylan was blessed to have Mrs. Bergman as his 6th grade teacher. She taught with such strength, love, and commitment towards her students. We were very fortunate to have the opportunity know and love Mrs. Bergman. She will live in our hearts and memories forever.
September 17, 2009
I'll miss her humor, sincerity, and of course her stories about Alex. We've lost a wonderful teacher, friend, and co-worker.
September 17, 2009
I worked with Anita for the last 3 1/2 years and she definitely made work a lot of FUN. Anita had such a passion for children and teaching in general. She also loved Greg and Alex with all her heart. Anita was an incredible woman and her memory will live in my heart forever! God Bless. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Love,
Nancy Magill
September 17, 2009
I am thinking of the literally hundreds of lives that Anita (Mrs. Bergman) touched during her decade at Highlands. Her love and her smile have been magnified and multiplied by exponential degree resulting in a whole number so large that only she could patiently explain it to a 6th grader, or a 6th grader's parents. Our family counts ourselves fortunate to be amongst this huge saddened throng.
I know that 2008 was a special year at Highlands. I know that the Tug-of-War title fell that year, but in my mind I am hearing only, "Bergman, Bergman, Bergman!". Our daughter, Sophie, would have loved to return to visit her sixth grade teacher in the coming years. Though this will be impossible for both of them to enjoy, I want you to know that Sophie will see her in the Safe-Seat of Memory, and in the Wildwood of her heart forever.
With the deepest sadness and sympathy,
The Mann Family
Kim, Rusty and Sophie - Highlands Class of 2008
Benjamin Carlson
September 17, 2009
I was in Anita's 6th grade class in 2002-2003, I can proudly say that she was the best teacher I ever had. She taught me much more than the necessary school subjects, she taught me life lessons. Last year as they began to deconstruct Highlands, they offered a last chance look at the interior, the trouble makers from our grade went back to say hello and thank Mrs. Bergman for putting up with us. She was gone at the time, at the races I believe but I am glad that we were able to leave her a few notes on the board for her to read when she returned the following week. My prayers are with her as well as her family.
Matt & Stephanie Hashagen
September 17, 2009
Anita was a very special person who will be missed by many. Our prayers go out to Greg, Alex, Mary, Steve and all those who have been blessed by knowing Anita.
Jim Hart
September 17, 2009
I am truley saddened to hear about Anita's passing. I worked with Greg at SFD during the time they found each other at the store, and we all knew from the start they were made for each other..Her smile and personality will always remain formost in my memory. Rest in peace young lady!
September 17, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss..your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Kristen Apple
Michelle Sherley
September 17, 2009
Greg and Alex,
I am so sorry for your loss. Keep her memory alive in your heart so you are never without her. You both are in my thoughts and prayers.
Melissa Hemenway
September 16, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about Anita. It was truly unexpected by everyone. You and your entire family will be in my prayers.
Shannon Peters
September 16, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Ryan Pyle
September 16, 2009
I am very sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you and praying for you and your family. You are in my thoughts.
Laurie Doerflinger
September 16, 2009
I was in her 6th grade class in 2007-08. She changed my life she was an amazing teacher and an inspiration to us all. My classmates and I all miss her. We remember all of the stories she used to tell us and how much joy Alex brought to her. I will never forget her.
Ken Koch
September 16, 2009
Greg, I am at a total loss for words. I can hardly imagine how you are keeping it together. It was an honor to call Anita my friend since junior high back in the 80s and I always thought the two of you were great together. Please know that you, your son, and all of Anita's family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything else I can do please don't hesitate to ask.
Christine Huffstutler
September 16, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. Anita was an adventurous, smart, funny and loving person who will be missed by all who knew and loved her. She has brought happiness to so many people. I hope the memories of all the wonderful times you shared will help sustain you.
Joseph McMillen
September 16, 2009
Both of my children had Anita as a teacher. Her gifts in the classroom were exceptional. We are deeply saddened by her passing.
Cyndi Sigman
September 16, 2009
Thinking of you...praying for you. Take comfort in knowing that Anita is truly in a better place...wrapped up in God's arms.
Cyndi and Breanna Sigman
Diane Zimmerman
September 16, 2009
I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your mother, wife, friend sister, and daughter. She was an outstanding teacher, and indeed, had a passion for her job. My sympathies go out to you, and I will keep you in my paryers for some time to come.
Jeff Hudson
September 16, 2009
On behalf of the Men and Women of the Shawnee Fire Department, please accept my most sincere condolences in your loss. Many of us know Anita and know what a caring, friendly, and nice person she has always been to all of us. We have fond memories of Anita from her work at the Store next door to our Fire Station in Shawnee. Our Fire Department family stands ready to assit your family should you need anything.
Jeff Hudson,
Fire Chief
City of Shwnee, Kansas
Donna Cahill
September 16, 2009
Greg,
It is with a sad heart I type this, not even being able to comprehend your loss. Anita was such a great person and you plus her made a wonderful team. Know we are thiking of you, praying with you and here if you need anything. Larry and I feel blessed to have known Anita. She will live on through all those she touched. Her mission was complete here on earth at a young age but remember to hope in the time when you will reunite with her. Donna Cahill
Elisha Churchill
September 16, 2009
Our son, Henry, was thrilled to learn he was going to be in Mrs. Bergman's class this year. This is a devastating loss. She shined very brightly at Highlands, touched many lives and will be sorely missed. Our hearts ache for you and your family.
Denise Kitzmiller
September 16, 2009
Greg and Alex,
Her laugh. Her smile. Her sense of humor. Her dedication and love for her students. Her eyes when she looked at Alex with such love and pride or when she'd tell of Gregs heroic actions. She loved her men! I will miss all of these "gifts" and all of the others that will pop into my mind in the future.
She was authentic, "what you see is what you get".
I was blessed to see her in some of her best elements, teaching and mothering.
She has touched my life as I know she has touched ALL those who have known her.
I will always remember her.
My prayers are with you and your family.
Elaine Hager
September 16, 2009
Anita's passion for teaching and ability to recognize every student's potential made her one of the best teachers, if not the best, I have ever known. She made a huge difference in my daughter's life, and that will continue on with her.
Anita's legacy is in the children that she taught, may they all make her proud.
Kim Mann
September 16, 2009
We are so very sorry for your loss. We grieve not only for the loss of Mrs. Bergman, but the loss of all those children who will not have the opportunity to have her as a teacher. She made a big impact on the life of our daughter, Sophie. We will always remember her. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
September 16, 2009
To Greg, Alex and Anita's family - my family's thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I have the absolute fondest memories of Anita as a student teacher in my classroom and I became very proud of the outstanding educator she became over the years. She truly had a passion for teaching, loved all of her students, and made an everlasting difference in their lives. Please take some comfort in knowing these things. Steve Vandemark
Jay & Amy Felton
September 16, 2009
Greg,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Shon told us the tragic news. She sounds like a lovely person with so much to give to the world and your family. I know your little boy will miss his mom so much. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers. Let us know if you need anything.
Eileen Bole
September 16, 2009
Greg and Alex, As a Highland's staff member, I will miss Anita's laugh and her beautiful blue eyes. She was a very special person and will truly be missed by all who were lucky enough to have known her. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family.
Molly Emert
September 16, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I was in Mrs. Bergman's first 6th grade class back in 2000-2001. So sorry about the loss, she will be remembered as a great teacher, as she has inspired me to be an Ele. Ed teacher as well.
Kelly Reynolds
September 16, 2009
It still doesn't seem real that this has all happened and our family will never be the same without you! You were an amazing Aunt, mother and wife to my Uncle Greg. You will be forever missed and loved Anita!
MARY MILLEN
September 16, 2009
Greg, I am so terribly sorry! I have so many lovely memories of our times together... I know words don't bring much right now. Anita was truly an angel, with a radiant passion for life that shined brightly in this insane world.
You and your family are forever in my prayers and thoughts.
September 16, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Joe & Colleen Gadwood, Shawnee, Ks
Gary & Kristi Schumacher
September 16, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May you find comfort in all of your treasured memories.
Tyra Alldaffer
September 16, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with Anita's family, students, co-workers, and all who are grieving her sudden passing. She was a vibrant woman that will be greatly missed by all who knew her.
Lisa Pfeiffer
September 16, 2009
Greg, I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Anita was a great person that will truly be missed.
The Pfeiffers
michelle lowe
September 16, 2009
Mrs. Bergman was our daughter Hope's 6th grade teacher. My husband, Kevin also went to school with Greg. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and you family at this time. the Lowe Family
September 16, 2009
We were fortunate enough to have Mrs Bergman as 6th grade teacher for both of our sons Derek, and Bob at Highlands. Derek was in her inaugural class and she was at his HS graduation as well as both Boys' Bar Mitzvahs. We cherish her memory and will never forget her kindness and spirit of heart.Craig,Kay, Derek and Robert Martin
Shirley Bauman
September 16, 2009
To the Bergman and Smith families,
I'm very sorry to hear about Anita. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
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