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BARBARA JEAN SPIVEY

1934 - 2017

BORN

1934

DIED

2017

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Buck Ashcraft Funeral Home

710 Ed Carey Drive

Harlingen, Texas

BARBARA SPIVEY Obituary

BARBARA JEAN (CRUM) SPIVEY Born in Tulsa, OK on June 26, 1934 to Gilbert and Edna Crum and welcomed into God's embrace on July 14, 2017. Barbara grew up in Birmingham, AL, went to Auburn University, and on a summer break after her second year she met Chuck, who was traveling with the Princeton Seminary Choir. Chuck was staying as a guest in the home of Barbara's parents. He fell in love with her at first sight. It took many letters between them for her to realize that Chuck was a gift given to her from God and on June 25, 1953, they married. They then moved to Princeton, NJ, for Chuck to finish his degree in Theology. Once ordained, Chuck was called to be a pastor. Soon followed their 5 children: Dan, Allan, Randy, Steve and Suanne. They moved to the Kansas City area in 1962, where Chuck and Barbara started the Knox United Presbyterian Church. Barbara organized the Women's Fellowship, taught Sunday school, and worked together with Chuck for 31 years to build the church. In 1993, they retired and hit the road in their 5th wheel trailer, traveling this vast country. They landed in the Rio Grande Valley, which they have called home since 2005. Barbara was well-known as the recipe go-to person, collecting large numbers of cookbooks over the years. She was loved by all who met her; she never met a stranger who was not soon her friend for life. Barbara is survived by husband of 64 years, Rev. R. Charles (Chuck) Spivey, her 5 children, 13 grandchildren, and 7 great-grandchildren. A memorial service will be at 2 p.m. Saturday, Oct. 21, at Knox United Presbyterian Church, 9595 W. 95th St., Overland Park, KS. A private burial will follow the service. In lieu of flowers, please send contribution to the Barbara Spivey Memorial Fund at Knox United Presbyterian Church 9595 W. 95th Streeet, Overland Park, KS 66212. You are invited to sign the guestbook or share a memory at www.buckashcraft.com

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Published by Kansas City Star on Oct. 15, 2017.

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