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Cheryl Cooper
August 14, 2008
My sincerest condolences to you today, as you mourn and rejoice the birth and departure of your precious Derek. I grew up next door to Jeff Risner. My name was Cheryl Steely at the time, now I'm Cheryl Cooper. My son Christopher was murdered on November 8, 2007, by a drunk driver while riding his bike.
Jeff, if you read this, please know that I am praying for you and your family. I know your pain, and I am so very sorry you lost your sweet son. Our boys were almost the same age.
Much love and thoughts go out to you and yours.
Misty Daniel
August 21, 2007
Ok seriously... I cannot get you off my mind. When I was there I did not get your number. I need that! Kris you have always been so wonderful to me and I just cannot believe that this could happen to such wonderful people. Please call me I would love to come over and just sit with you. You guys can make it through this. You have an awesome husband and I know he has made this a little easier for you. As I said, call me and I will just hang with you. Cry, laugh, talk whatever you want to.
I love you guys!!!
Kelly Lewis
August 21, 2007
My name is Kelly Lewis and I co-taught Derek's history class last year. He was such a leader in our class. He was very easy going and worked so well with other kids or by himself. He asked such insightful questions. We loved seeing his sweet smile every day. He was a joy to teach.
August 21, 2007
HI JEFF, SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE LOSS OF YOUR SON, MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. SANDY TOOT
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Cindy (Wade) Braithwaite
August 21, 2007
I am so very sorry to hear the news. What a terrible loss. Derek was such a sweet little boy. I was proud to be his step-mother (many years ago) and proud to know him. He always has, and always will, hold a special place in my heart. It sounds like he turned out to be quite a wonderful young man. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
Stacy Johnson
August 20, 2007
Jacquie and Family,
I was so sad to hear about Derek's passing. I live on the north side of K-10 and Smiley's Golf Course, the accident was very close to my home and I instantly said a silent prayer when I heard the news. Jacquie, incase you don't remeber me I worked for Dr. Lynne. My prayers are for all of Derek's famliy.
Warmly,
Stacy Johnson and Family
Kimbley Martin
August 20, 2007
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
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August 19, 2007
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Heidi Hart
August 18, 2007
Everyone in my family is sorry to hear about the loss of Derek. We have been friends with the family for a long time, so it really put all of us in shock to hear of his death. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your whole family.
Linda Slagle/Pippenger
August 18, 2007
Grandma Gloria and Grandpa Jim, Sometimes you see a name from your past and it's good this time my heart aches for the both of you. Keeping you in my prayers.
Debra and Dave Bruns
August 18, 2007
Dear Jeff and family,
I worked with Gloria and even though I never meet Derek I feel I new him through his grandmother. You could tell Gloria was very proud of him. My prayers are with you all.
Tina Michael & Family
August 18, 2007
Jackie & Family,
I am sorry for your loss. All of you are in my prayers and will continue to be. Derek was a true blessing to everyone he met.
Genea Edwards
August 18, 2007
Kris and Family,
I can't express how sorry and saddened I am to hear about Derek. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences.
Jay Renfro
August 18, 2007
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Jay, Beverly, Tommy, and Jack of Harold Estates.
Jennifer Mooney -- LSNHS History teacher
August 18, 2007
Derek's family,
I enjoyed meeting you at the visitation last night even at such a painful time. I can not imagine what you are feeling now as I feel such a sense of loss and I only knew him for a short time. My thoughts are with your entire family.
Cathy Wade
August 17, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and yours in this time of mourning.
D Tharpe
August 17, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Connie Wattjes
August 17, 2007
Kris and Dennis, I was shocked and saddened to hear about Derek. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lori Richardson
August 17, 2007
Dennis and Family,
My thoughts go to you and your family in your time of sorrow.
Lori, Melissa, Colleen, and Matthew Richardson
Diane O'Donnell-Ejjaidali
August 17, 2007
I'm so sorry to hear of Derek's untimely passing. It was an honor to have been one of his middle school teachers; I will always remember Derek's wide smile and great sense of humor. May you all, especially Dustin and Megan, find peace with the help of loving friends and family. We love you, Derek.
CINDY JOBES-LUTMAN
August 17, 2007
Our deepest thoughts and condolences are with you and your family at this difficult time. I had the priviledge of knowing Derek when he and my son, Jordan played basketball together, in competeitive basketball, with Coach Jones.
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. May you find peace and strength through the Lord.
kiersten callahan
August 17, 2007
Derek was my neighbor,he rode the bus with me pretty much every day after school. There was a lot of things that happend on the bus.. The first thing was he tought me how to filck people in the head, and when he was least excepting it I would catch him off guard and flick him. He would do the exact same thing to me. It was just fun playing around with him. Another thing he would do on the bus was he would just be sitting there and out of no where he would just start crancking up and every one would look at him and wonder what he was laughing about, and he said that he was listing to Lary The Cable Guy on his ipod. I am so thankufl that I got the chance to met Derek.
Julie (Casper) Callihan
August 17, 2007
Kris and family, my heart is heavy and I wish I could ease your pain and sorrow. Know that you and your family are loved and that Derek will be in our hearts forever.
Larry Basso
August 17, 2007
My condolences,and prayers for you and your family with deep sympathy.
Carole Shick
August 17, 2007
Kris-There are no words to express how very sad I am for you & your family. May God hold you close & know that I am praying for you.
Carole
Kim Francis
August 17, 2007
Dear Derek's family, my heart breaks for you. Believe me I know what you are going through and feel so badly that I can't be with you to give some comfort as my good friend Lynne did for me when I lost my son Dustin in May. Just know that I am thinking and praying for your family during this very difficult time. Sincerely, Kim
Gina Dobson
August 17, 2007
Kris,
I can't even imagine what you are going thru. Just know that we are all thinking of you and are prayers are with you.
Mary, Kris Cornelius Micheala, Morgan Dyer
August 17, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
York Jewell
August 17, 2007
Derek's Family,
I had the pleasure of having Derek in my class at the Freshman Center. He was a wonderful young man, always having a smile on his face; always willing to help where help was needed. I am so sorry for your loss. You will all be in my prayers!
Nate Northcraft
August 17, 2007
Thank you Derek for making the daily grind of basketball practice much more enjoyable with your pleasant demeanor and great sense of humor.
Your presence and hard work contributed greatly in making the freshman 2005-2006 season a memorable one.
Sherrie White-Mayfield
August 17, 2007
I remembered Derek from Little Folks Daycare. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. This is a horrible tragedy and I'm sorry for your loss. God Bless you guys.
Janet Williams
August 17, 2007
Dear Family,
I can't imagine the pain you must be feeling at this time of such a great loss. My family will pray for your family, and may God continue to touch and lift each one of you through this difficult time. Janet, Danny & Austin Williams
Beth Whitworth
August 17, 2007
Words cannot express the sadness our family feels at your loss. We know that losing a child is not something you expect or even have capacity to deal with...but you will. Depend on prayer and each other to help you through this very difficult time. Know that in time, your pain will lessen as your memories of your son glow in your hearts forever. Beth Whitworth and son Paul
Chandra Williams
August 17, 2007
My sympathy goes out to Derek's family. He was a wonderful student, and I was sad to see him move to Lee's Summit, but I knew he would do great things wherever he went. Heaven will be truly blessed to have an angel like him.
Chandra Williams
RPHS teacher
Stacey Farrill
August 16, 2007
What a wonderful gift we have lost that heaven received this day. Know that you are in our prayers and our thoughts. Your son was a great person, one that will be missed much.
Bob, Kathy & Angela Wallace
August 16, 2007
Dennis & Kris,
We are so deeply sorry for Your loss. There are no words that can ever sooth the pain, with time we do hope that you will find some comfort. We do want You to know that you are in our thoughts & prayers always.
God Bless You
Dana Erdman
August 16, 2007
From the parents of Ray-Pec, constant prayer for peace and comfort from the Heavenly Father who knows all too well knows your pain. We hurt along with you.
Thor Nelson
August 16, 2007
Jacquie,
We are so sorry. Our thoughts are with you.
Thor and Cara
Susan Nissen
August 16, 2007
I am so sad that we have lost such a pleasant young man. I'm happy that I had the honor of meeting Derek at RPHS before he transferred to Lee's Summit. Please know that the Ray-Pec staff is thinking of you and we're available if you need anything.
LINDA GRITTEN
August 16, 2007
DENNIS AND FAMILY,
ONLY GOD AND TIME CAN EASE THE PAIN ...
WHEN TERRY AND I LOST OUR DEAR SWEET BRANDON AT AGE 16 WE WERE TOLD "ALWAYS REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES" AND ONE DAY YOU WIL BE ABLE TO DO THAT ...LOVING MEMORIES YOU WILL HOLD DEAR.. UNTIL THE TIME YOU WILL ALL BE TOGATHER AGAIN IN THE LOVING ARMS OF OUR HEAVENLY FATHER
Janet Apgar
August 16, 2007
Dennis and Kris, We are so very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if there is anything we can do. Joe, Janet & Danny Apgar
Andy Lally
August 16, 2007
Dear Kristen,
We are praying for you and your family in this time of loss and sorrow. If there is anything we can do please let us know.Much love to you, your mom Kathy and your entire family. Love Aunt Devi, cousins Andy and Andrea Lally
John & Gina Schafer
August 16, 2007
Dennis, Kris and Family,
I cannot imagine this type of loss, but know that your strength to come through this will come from our God. Gina and I will pray not only for you guys but for the rest of the family. Mike Barnett sends his prayers also.
Jenna Kelley
August 16, 2007
Dennis and Family,
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Lori Wells
August 16, 2007
To Derek's loved ones:
I had the privilege of getting to know Derek last spring at LSNHS. Even in that short amount of time, I could tell he was a special young man. He always had a smile, a sparkle in his eyes, and was eager to meet whatever challenge was put before him. A beautiful light has gone out. My heart goes out to you in this time of unimaginable loss.
misty Daniel
August 16, 2007
Dennis and Kris-
I am so very sorry to hear what has happened. You have been heavy on my heart and I wish I could be there with you. Please call me if you need anything at all.
Randall Bennett
August 16, 2007
Jacquie, I am very sorry for the loss, and really, words don't mean much now...but our prayers are with you and your family. Randy and Kathy.
Kenny & Connie Best
August 16, 2007
Words cannot express our thoughts right now, you are in our prayers. We lost track of time, but we remember Derek and always will. May God bless you and help to ease your pain.
Joyce Eilerman
August 16, 2007
Dear Dennis,Kris and family, there is nothing i can say to take away the hurt but i am truly sorry for your loss,truly truly sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Shirley Dodson
August 16, 2007
Dear Dennis, Kris and Grandparents
I am deeply saddened by Derek death.
I pray that you might have strength in the coming days. May the good memories of the good times together you had together help to ease your sorrow. With much love and sympathy I will remember you and your family in my prayers.
SCOTT LUTMAN
August 16, 2007
DEREK'S FAMILY,
THE LOSS OF DEREK HAS SADDENED OUR FAMILY DEEPLY. I HAD THE PRIVILEDGE OF KNOWING AND COACHING DEREK, AS HE WAS A FRIEND AND TEAM MATE OF MY SON GAVIN AT RAY-PEC. HE WAS A WONDERFULL YOUNG MAN AND WILL BE SADLY MISSED. MY FAMILY WILL HAVE YOU ALL IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
Blake Felix
August 16, 2007
I am so sorry about Derek. We played ball together and I had just talked with Derek on the phone last week. I will miss Derek, he was a great guy.
Judy Lopez
August 16, 2007
Derek's Family,
I worked with Gloria Derek's Grandma. Derek held a special place in her heart. May the Lord's loving arms comfort your family at this time. I will keep you in my prayers.
Jess Schopper
August 16, 2007
Jackie, Jeff, Stephanie and Ian,
Words cannot express the sorrow and emptiness we feel. You all are in our prayers. We will find some comfort knowing Derek is now in Heaven as one of God's angels, forever watching over us. We will cherish the time we had with Derek and keep him in our hearts. He will forever be missed! Please let us know if we can do anything.
Jess, Zack, Noah and Aiden
Trey Harvey
August 16, 2007
I am deeply saddened for your loss. The hurt hits all of us - but especially those of us with kids of a like age.
John & Michelle Seimears; Eric Hiles
August 16, 2007
Our heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. I enjoyed watching Derek and Dustin grow up with my son Eric. He will be missed.
Sue Honn (previously Wade)
August 16, 2007
Dear Jeff,
When I heard the name on the news I sat straight up and my husband, asked what? I said I believe I know that teen. I hoped I was wrong, but my gut told me otherwise.
I am so very sorry, I only knew Derek for a short time while you and Cindy were together, but I do remember what a darling little boy he was, and from reading about him, know that he was a wonderful young man.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Shelly and Chuck Pankau
August 16, 2007
There are no words to express the loss you are feeling at this time. I am so sorry to hear about Derek. He will be greatly missed. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers each day.May God give you courage, strength and hope.
Mary Rounds
August 16, 2007
Dennis & Kris My heart goes out to you! May you find peace in Your heart and God, Bless You All durning this time of need and You have each other to hang on to get you through this and be there for each other. May God Bless You and Your Family.
Tammy Kratzer
August 16, 2007
Derek will be missed deeply. He had a great personality and a kind heart. No words can express the loss of a child, our hearts and prayers go out to your family.
Marty, Tammy, Kayla and Austin
Mike & Rhonda Taylor
August 16, 2007
Jeff and Jackie,
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dana Wise
August 16, 2007
Dear Kris and Dennis, please know that you and your family are in my prayers and in my heart. Sincerly, Dana Wise
Shari Orr
August 16, 2007
our thoughts are with you.
Shirley & Vince Calandra
August 16, 2007
Words cannot express what you are feeling, I know, I lost my own son. I will pray for your strength and the will to go on. Derek will live on through the wonderful memories and the love that you had for him. Keeping you in our prayers.
cathy Johnson
August 16, 2007
There are never words to ease the loss of a loved one but please know our thoughts and prayers go with you that you might find the peace and grace to endure your difficult days. May God Bless you and know you are loved and thought of. Cathy & Jon
Kenny, Robin, Matthew and Jamie Baum
August 16, 2007
Derek's Family,
We are very saddened to hear about Derek. Believe us when we say that we are lifting your whole family up to the Lord in prayer for strength and guidance during this very difficult time.
Jeff Swift
August 16, 2007
Gloria and family, I am so sorry for your loss of Derek. I worked with his Grandma Gloria at ATT and she was always so proud of him and talked about him all the time. May GOD take care of all of you and help you cope with your great loss. My prayers are with you.
Jeff Swift
Kathy Butler
August 16, 2007
Jackie-My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. If there is anything I can do please don't hesitate to call.
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