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for Earlene Harmon
Brenda L Dollard
October 8, 2025
Mama it's been 21 years seems so long ago I love and miss you and Dad.
I'm sure Willie's up there celebrating with you all . It just seems so surreal that Willie's not here with us. I love and miss you all so much. I hope you all are enjoying one another give hugs and kisses to everybody in heaven for me I love you You're Brenda Lee
Brenda Dollard
October 8, 2024
Mama it's been 20 years ago we lost you. I miss you and dad so much.The grandkids are almost grown. Brandy has a candy business going,hopefully she can get it going and make money.
I take after you mom with my health issues and poor Willie isn't the best either. Well mom just wanted to say I love and miss you and dad soooo much.
Brenda
October 8, 2023
Missing you sooo much momma. Love you
Brenda
October 8, 2022
Mama it's been almost 18 years that you left this I miss you and Dad so much. This whole world has changed so much for the worse you're probably better off not being here mama cuz you wouldn't want to see what's going on in this whole world that's not pretty but we're all surviving I hope you and Daddy are enjoying yourself in heaven you're in a much better place you just wouldn't want to be here with all the crazy stuff that's went on in this world I love you and Dad so much and miss you guys so much I love you and Dad one of these days we'll meet again
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Brenda Dollard
November 13, 2005
MOM
I COME OUT TO VISIT YOU,DAD AND GRANDMA YESTERDAY.LITTLE EDDIE CAME ALSO.HE PUT YOU AND DAD A ROSE AT THE FOOT OF YOU ALLS STONE.I BROUGHT YOU AND DAD OT A BLOWN GLASS ROSE AND LEFT IT .I MISS YOU ALL SO MUCH. ONCE THIS IS NO LONGER AVAILABLE I WILL CONTINUE TO WRITE THRU ON THE CEMETARY SIGHT.MOM I WISH YOU COULD BE HERE FOR WHEN BOOS' BABY IS BORN.HAILEY STILL LOOKS AT YOUR PICTURES AND SAYS MAMA HARMON I SAY YES THATS MAMA HARMON. HA AND TYLER MISS YOU AND DAD.THEY WILL CONTINUE TO KNOW THAT YOU AND DAD WERE GOOD GRANDPARENTS HOW YOU WAS SO SPECIAL TO THEIR MOMMY.THANKS FOR ALL YOU AND DAD DID FOR BRANDY AND I.YOU WERE THERE WHEN WE NEEDED YOU 2 THE MOST.THANKS SO MUCH!!WELL I WILL CLOSE FOR NOW AND PLEASE WATCH OVER US. LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SOOOO MUCH, BRENDA LEE
WILLIE HARMON
November 12, 2005
MOM IT HAS BEEN OVER A YEAR NOW SINCE YOU LEFT US BUT IT STILL HAS NOT BEEN EASY FER ANY OF US KIDS AT ALL. YOU WERE AND ALWAYS BE OUR WHOLE WORLD. DAMN WE MISS YOU MORE AND MORE EVERY DAY. SOME DAYS ARE HARDER THAN OTHERS OF COURSE. BUT ON YOUR ANNIVERSARY DATE OF PASSING (1) YEAR AGO. MAN IT SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY TO ME FER SURE. I'LL NEVER FORGET YOU OR DAD NEVER.
WE LOVE AND MISS YOUR MORE ALL THE TIME. WE ARE TRYING TO KEEP IT TOGETHER BUT IS VERY HARD.
I WISH YOU WERE HERE TO LISTEN TO 61 COUNTRY WITH ME STILL. I MISS THOSE SATURDAY MORNING WITH THE MEMORYS AND YOU AND I SINGING TO MOST OF THEM SONGS PLAYED. THAT REALLY MADE MY DAY KNOWING YOU AND I LOVED THE VERY SAME SONGS FER SURE.WELL MOM I WILL SEE YOU LATER
LOVE ALWAYS(WILD WILLIE) I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU.
b dollard
October 29, 2005
Mom
Had to write to tell ya I was thinking of ya.Love and miss you soo much..Keep watching over all of us.I love and miss ya dearly.Hailey ,Tyler and Boo miss ya too.Keep your pretty baby blues upon us and keep us all safe .til later Love Ya Your BRENDA LEE
Kristin Carter
October 13, 2005
HI GRANDMA! IT SEEMS SO SHORTLY THAT YOU JUST LEFT US ALL. IT SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY WITH THE HURT EVERYONE IS SUFFERING BUT IT'S BEEN A FULL YEAR. I KNOW THAT YOU ARE HAPPY AND WE ARE ALL VERY GLAD OF THAT EVEN THOUGH, EVERYONE WOULD LOVE TO HAVE YOU BACK HERE ON THIS EARTH FOR TODAY, TOMORROW, AND ETERNITY. I WOULD LOVE TO TURN BACK TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU AND KEEP US SAFE. I WILL WRITE AGAIN SOON.
KRISSY
mindy harmon
October 10, 2005
Grandma
I havent wrote in awhile and I just wanted to say hi and I love and miss you. I have been thinking alot about you both. Will thinks of you guys all the time he misses both of you dearly. This next week will be very hard for everyone but I know the both of you are happy and together. Well I better go love and miss you mindy
brenda dollard
October 9, 2005
Mom,
I had to write to you to let you know I have been thinking of you and dad constantly for the past couple of weeks pretty much non-stop,I guess knowing the 1st anniversary of you leaving us is so near.Just a couple days away,it has really been bothering me,I have been really on edge lately and crying alot.I know it is just missing the 2 of you so much.please watch over all of us kids and grandkids as this is going to be 1 trying week for all of us.We all love and miss you and dad soooo much it is still hard to comprehend that the 2 of you are no longer with us.Please watch over us Mom!!!well i will write again soon so You and dad sleep tight until I write ya again.I love and miss ya much>>>Love your BRENDA LEE....
Brenda Dollard
September 25, 2005
MOM,
Thought I would write to tell you how I LOVE and MISS you so so much.I don't think time heals pain.My pain from loosing you and dad is as great today as it was when the 2 of you left us.I came out and visited you all today and brought you both some pretty flowers with butterflies on them.I put the flowers I took off from you and dads grave and put on grandmas.Mom in 2 weeks it will be 1 year you left us It still fills like yesterday.My pain is no less for you and dad being gone.I know you are in a much better place and not suffering any more but it still does not ease the pain.Well MA I will stop here and will write agin soon.I LOVE and MISS you so much,LOVE YOUR BRENDA LEE!!!!
Shauna Davis
September 20, 2005
Mom,
I cannot believe you have been gone almost a year already it seems like yesterday,I miss you and love you so very much,it hurts so bad,but at least your not suffering here anymore ,and now you have Uncle Norm and Grandma Gladys with you and dad and Grandma Brock.I hope you all threw One Hell Of A Party up there in Heaven when they joined you all. Well I better close for now until next time.I Love You Momma,Your Shauna May
Kristin Carter
September 12, 2005
Grandma -
Hi there just wanted to say hi to you and Grandpa.Wanted to let you know that I was still thinking of you and miss you alot. I heard that Great-Grandma Gladys will be joining you guys soon. Please watch over her and I know you'll see her soon. Talk to ya soon
Love Krissy Bear
Brenda Dollard
August 20, 2005
Mom,
I had to write to you and let you know that I was missing & thinking about you.I miss you so much.It don't seem like you have been gone from us almost 1 year.It does not seem possible.I can not believe it is true,it still feels like a bad dream that I haven't woke up from.Mom today is Little Hailey's 3rd birthday.Mom you would be so proud of her and Tyler.They are such adorable kids.Maybe honery but they are my awesome grandbabies.Well gotta get ready for Hailey's birthday so I will write ya again soon. I Love & miss Ya-Love your "brenda Lee"
brenda dollard
July 28, 2005
MOM
I WROTE TO YOU YESTERDAY TO SAY HI,MISS YOU ,AND LOVE YOU BUT IT DID NOT COME THRU.WELL MA MY NEIGHBOR WILL BE JOINING YOU AND DAD IN HEAVEN NOW AS SHE PASSED AROUND 9:30 AM TODAY.PLEASE WATCH OVER HER.SHE WAS 51.STILL SO YOUNG.WELL I WILL BE WRITING AGAIN SOON. LOVE AND MISS YA YOUR "BRENDA LEE"
BRENDA DOLLARD
July 16, 2005
MOM,
I HAD TO WRITE TO YOU AND DAD TO LET YOU KNOW THAT I WAS THINKING OF YOU ON YOUR ANNIVERSARY.HAPPY BELATED ANNIVERSARY...I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO DEEPLY MA...HOPE YOU AND DAD CELEBRATED IN HEAVEN.JUST SPOKE WITH BOO. THEY ALL JUST GOT BACK FROM OCEANS OF FUN...POOR HAILEY IS ALREADY ASLEEP.SHE WORE HER SELF OUT.WELL MA I WILL WRITE AGAIN LATER,I LOVE AND MISS YOU AND DAD SO MUCH!!!LOVE YOUR BRENDA LEE.
Shauna Davis
July 14, 2005
Mom,
I forgot to tell you " Happy Anniversary". Love Ya,
Shauna May
Shauna Davis
July 14, 2005
Mom,
I miss you sooo very much,it still hurts as much as the day you left us,I wish you and dad were still here with all of us,we all miss you so very much,its just not been the same since you left us,its still like it was yesterday.Well today Paul & I celebrated our 15th anniversary,but it was not the same since you and dad were not here to celebrate it with us ,like we always did together,I wish you both could have been here to celebrate your 49th anniversary tommorrow.But unfortunatlly thats not going to happen so you and dad will just have to spend it in heaven together.Well mom I guess I will close for now,I just missed you sooo much and thought I would write to you again since it's been awhile.
I Love and Miss You Sooo Very Much.
Love Your,
Shauna May
mindy harmon
July 11, 2005
Hey Grandma
I just wanted to say hi and love you. Will and I finally got married so I am finally a Harmon. It wasnt the same with out the two of you but we knew you guys were very happy and still celebrating with us well love ya and talk to you soon. love
mindy harmon
brandy groves
July 6, 2005
Grandma,
hello just wanted to say hello and say that i love and miss you its very different now that you and grandpa are gone i wish you would be able to be here for our new baby thats gonna be hard well love and miss you love brandy
brenda dollard
July 4, 2005
MOM,
I WANT TO SAY HELLO AND MISS YOU AND DAD SOOO MUCH.I CAME OUT TO THE CEMETARY TODAY TO VISIT YOU ALL AND FOR DADS BIRTHDAY.I LOVE AND MISS YOU ALL SO MUCH.HERE LATELY IT HAS REALLY BEEN TOUGH.THEY SAY IT GETS EASIER WITH TIME BUT I CANNOT SAY THAT it has yet.it seems like yesterday you passed.In 3 months it will be 1 year.mom it don't seem like it.It has been the saddest 9 months of my life.Well I am going to bed now,I LOVE and MISS you ALL so much....Love Your BRENDA LEE.
brenda dollard
June 7, 2005
MOM,
I COULD NOT SLEEP SO I THOUGHT I WOULD WRITE TO YOU.LINDA AND I CAME OUT AND VISIYED YOU AND DAD ON MEMORIAL DAY.I COULD NOT BELIEVE ALL THE PRETTY FLOWERS THAT YOU ALL HAD.I MISS AND LOVE YOU 2 SOOOOO MUCH.SO MUCH HAS CHANGED SINCE THE 2 OF YOU HAVE LEFT US.THE CAR SHOW IS THIS WEEKEND IN MEMORY OF YOU And DAD.I WILL WRITE YOU BACK AND TELL YOU HOW IT WENT.WELL MOM I WILL WRITE YA LATER...UNTIL THEN I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.....
Brenda Dollard
May 26, 2005
MOM,
GOOD MORNING!!I WENT TO MAKE SURE YOUR NESSAGE WAS IN THAT I WROTE TO YOU THE OTHER DAY AND IT WAS NOT.I DON'T UNDERSTAND.DADS WAS IN THERE AND I WROTE PRETTY MUCH THE SAME IN BOTH OF YOURS.WELL ANY WAY LINDA AND I WILL BE OUT THIS WEEKEND TO VISIT YOU AND DAD.LINDA WANTED TO MAKE AN ARRANGEMENT TO BRING OUT FOR YOU AND DAD TOO..SO HER AND I WILL COME OUT.I WILL GET SOMETHING FOR GRANDMA ALSO.MOPAR IS PUTTING ON A CAR SHOW JUNE 11TH AND 12TH IT IS GOING TO BE IN YOU AND DADS MEMORY.THE T-SHIRTS AND PLAQUES ARE GOING TO HAVE DADS 48 ON IT.I CANNOT WAIT TO SEE THEM.WELL MOM I WILL CLOSE FOR NOW AND I WILL SEE YOU ALL THIS WEEKEND.I LOVE AND MISS YOU SOOOO MUCH."LOVE YOUR BRENDA LEE"
brandy groves
May 12, 2005
Grandma,
Today has just been one of those days today has been 7 months without you after i relized that i have had a bad day i miss you and grandpa so much it is one of the hardest things i have ever had to go through besides all the things we had to go through with hailey after she was born. we have decided to have another child partr of it is because its a security because we keep losing people in our family and we have always had a big family and i want to keep it like that and also so i can stop being scared of being alone when i get older. i love you very much and i miss the hell out of you .
love boo boo
brenda dollard
May 8, 2005
MOM
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY! I CAME OUT TO SEE YOU AND DAD TODAY.TODAY WAS WORSE FOR ME THEN YOUR BIRTHDAY.I CAME OUT CLEANED YOUR HEADSTONE OFF AND BROUGHT YOU A WREATH.I SPENT CLOSE TO AN HOUR OUT THERE WITH YOU ALL.I VISTED GRANDMA BROCK,STANLEY,UNCLE JOE.I CLEANED ALL OF YOUR STONES OFF AND MADE SURE EVERYONE HAD A FLOWER OR 2.IT WAS ENJOYABLE VISTING EVERYONE TODAY AND TAKING CARE OF YOU ALL.IT WOULD BE BETTER IN PERSON BUT THAT IS IMPOSSIBLE.WELL MOM I WILL BE BACK LATER,UNTIL THEN TAKE CARE OF EVERYONE. I LOVE AND MISS YOU SOOOOO BADLY.LOVE "YOUR BRENDA LEE"
mindy wilcox
May 8, 2005
Hey grandma
happy mothers day. I really missed you today. We all went to dinner and It just wasnt the same without you there to keep us laughing. although I know you are having lots of fun up there but not to much wait for us
love ya min min
brenda dollard
May 8, 2005
MOM
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!IT IS NOT A HAPPY MOTHERS DAY FOR ME WITHOUT YOU HERE.I WILL MAKE THE BEST OF IT .I WILL BE OUT TO VISIT YOU AND DAD AFTER WHILE.I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.I THINK THIS IS ONE OF THE WORST YEARS OF MY LIFE HAVING TO BE WITHOUT YOU AND DAD,WELL HAPPY MOTHERS DAY MOM..I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.LOVE YOUR "BRENDA LEE"
BRENDA DOLLARD
May 6, 2005
MOM!!I JUST WROTE TO DAD.iI HAVE HAD A BAD WEEK.YOU AND DAD HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR ME,BUT I AM HAVING TO GO IT ALONE NOW SINCE YOU AND DAD ARE NO LONGER WITH US.BUT YOU KNOW I AM A BIG GIRL AND WILL HANDLE IT ON MY OWN AND THE HELP OF MY FRIENDS.PLEASE WATCH OVER ME,BOO AND HER FAMILY.II WILL BE OUT SUNDAY TO VISIT YOU ALL AND SEE YOU FOR MOTHERS DAY.WELL I WILL SEE SUNDAY!!!!!!LOVE YOUR BRENDA LEE!!!!!!!!
brandy groves
May 1, 2005
Grandma,
i have been missing you and grandma so much i am sad that you are not going to get to be here for when we have our next child but so much has changed for me since you have left i am afraid of being alone and we have had a big family and thats what i am use to i mean something happens to my parents i don't want to be alone thats another reason i want to have another child everyone has their own opinion about it but it is what i feel is right for my family i miss you terribly love you lots your boo boo.
Brenda Dollard
April 29, 2005
Mom,
had to write ya.I was looking in the newspaper this morning and i came across something about Mothers Day and it hit me hard.one week from sunday is Mothers Day and this is our 1st Mothers Day without you.Your birthday was hard enough now 3 weeks later is Mothers Day.this whole last 6 months has been so hard without you and dad.I guess I keep my sanity by knowing God only takes the "Best".And having Boo and my grandbabies. Mom wishing you could see them now Hailey is getting so big and tyler is too. you know they are my pride and joys.well mom i got to go for now I will write you later.I love you and Dad and miss you sooooo much.LOVE YOUR "BRENDA LEE"
brenda dollard
April 25, 2005
HI MOM!!!!LINDA AND I CAME TO THE CEMETARY TO VISIT YOU,DAD, AND GRANDMA.I TOOK GRANDMA OUT SOME FLOWERS FOR HER BIRTHDAY.I KNEW YOU WOULD WANT THAT TRADITION CARRIED ON.I BROUGHT YOU AND DAD SOME FLOWERS OUT TOO.I CLEANED YOUR HEADSTONE OFF.YOU AND DAD HAD A FEW FLOWERS OUT THERE. IT LOOKED REAL NICE.I TOOK ANOTHER ANGEL OUT THERE ALSO.I AM GOING TO GET ANOTHER ANTIQUE CAR FOR DAD, HIS IS NOT LASTING VERY WELL.WELL I AM GOING TO GO WRITE DAD NOW,SO UNTIL LATER!!!!!I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH MOM!!!!YOUR "BRENDA LEE"
Kristin Carter
April 20, 2005
Hi there grandma-
Just wanted to drop in and say hi. The other day I thought it was coincidental that me and Brandy went garage saling and the numbers of two different houses were 5014. It was very wierd. That made us both think of you. Well I hope you are happy up there in heaven with no more worries. Living the time of your life now. Well I guess I better go for now. Til next time
I LOVE YOU
Krissy
brandy groves
April 12, 2005
Grandma,
i just wanted to say happy birthday i love you so much it hurts that you are not around i miss you and grandpa so very much mindy,hailey and i came out and visited you both today that was hard mindy and i both cried we miss you guys so much this was not the way we wanted to celebrate your birthday i put that tulip in the ground so with your magic touch maybe you can keep it a live well i will let you go for now but4 i will be back soon i love and miss you happy birthday love your boo boo.
Shauna Davis
April 12, 2005
Mom,
Happy Birthday,I miss you so much,my birthday won't be the same this year without you and dad here,me and you use to celebrate our birthday's together pretty much every year,so this year will not be the same for me,but I will try and do the best I can to celebrate it for the both of us,if it's possible.Well I guess I will close for now I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you today,so Happy Birthday up there in heaven,Love and miss you both,hope you all are up there in heaven celebrating today. Love your Daughter, Shauna May
BRENDA DOLLARD
April 12, 2005
MOM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ,HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU,HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MOM,HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU.MISS YOU & LOVE YOU.LOVE "YOUR BRENDA LEE"
brenda dollard
March 31, 2005
MOM
THOUGHT I WOULD WRITE YA AGAIN TODAY.I WROTE YOU AND DAD YESTERDAY,BUT FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON YOURS DID NOT POST.WELL WANTED TO SAY HELLO AND I LOVE & MISS YOU AND DAD SOOO MUCH.YESTERDAY WAS 2 MONTHS THAT DAD WAS TAKEN FROM US,JUST DON'T SEEM RIGHT.IT IS STILL HARD TO COMPREHEND SOMETIMES THAT THE BOTH OF YOU ARE GONE FROM US.THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT DON'T GO BY THAT I DON'T THINK OF YOU BOTH.YOUR BIRTHDAY WILL BE HERE IN 12 DAYS,THAT IS GOING TO BE VERY HARD FOR ME,HAVING TO CELEBRATE YOUR BIRTHDAY WITHOUT YOU.WELL MA GOTTA GO FOR NOW.WILL TALK TO YA SOON. I LOVE AND MISS YOU....YOUR BRENDA LEE
KRISTIN CARTER
March 29, 2005
Hi there grandma. It's been a while since I've gotten to write you. Happy Easter!!!! I will write you again soon. I just didn't want you to think that I had forgotten about visiting you because I sure haven't. So until I talk to you again. I love you and keep an eye out for me and my family.
Krissy
BRENDA DOLLARD
March 27, 2005
MOM,
HAPPY EASTER!!!BOB AND I HAD OUR USUAL DINNER TODAY.IT WAS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU AND DAD.HOW I REMEMBER DAD AND YOU COMING DOWN LAST YEAR,AND YOU LOOKED SO LOVELY IN THAT DRESS I BOUGHT FOR YOU FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY/EASTER.MOM I WISHED YOU COULD OF SEEN HAILEY IN HER PURPLE DRESS THAT SHE PICKED OUT AND TYLER IN HIS SUIT.THEY WERE SOOO ADORABLE.WE ALL THOUGHT OF YOU AND DAD TODAY.IT WAS NOT A HAPPY EASTER FOR ME TODAY WITHOUT THE BOTH OF YOU..WELL MA I GUESS I WILL CLOSE FOR NOW.I WILL WRITE YA AGAIN SOON....UNTIL LATER..I LOVE AND MISS YOU DEARLY..LOVE YOUR "BRENDA LEE"
WILLIE HARMON
March 20, 2005
HI MOM, I WANTED TO SAY HAPPY ST. PATTY'S DAY TO YOU,DAMN WE REALLY MISS YOU SO MUCH. BUT I DO KNOW YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE NOW AND NOT SUFFERING AT ALL. I AM SO GLAD I CAN SAY I HAD THE BEST MOTHER A PERSON COULD EVER ASK FOR IN THE WORLD. I STILL THINK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY ALL DAY LONG. AND YES I STILL SING THE SONG "THANK YOU FOR TOUCHING MY LIFE" BY TONY DOUGLAS THANKS FOR BEING MY MOM. I'LL BE BACK ON HERE SOON. LOVE ALWAYS YOUR SON. WILLIE THE RACER.
BRENDA DOLLARD
March 18, 2005
HI MOM,
JUST WROTE DAD A NOTE.LET HIM KNOW THAT THIS ST PATRICKS DAY WAS NOT THE SAME,AS YOU AND DAD HAVE MADE IT A TRADITION THE LAST SEVERAL YEARS TO EAT DOWN AT MY HOUSE.BOB AND DAD WOULD EAT CORNBEEF/CABBAGE AND YOU AND I WOULD EAT MEXICAN FOOD.IT JUST WASN'T THE SAME. BOB HAD CORNBEEF/CABBAGE,BUT HE SAID IT DIDN'T TASTE GOOD.I KNOW THAT IT WAs cause you and dad were not here.I DID NOT EAT MEXICAN,I ATE MAC/CHEESE.I WILL BE OUT THIS WEEKEND TO VISIT YOU AND DAD.WELL MOM I WILL GO FOR NOW AND I WILL WRITE AGAIN SOON.I LOVE AND MISS YOU SOOOO VERY MUCH.LOVE YOUR BRENDA LEE.
brenda dollard
March 1, 2005
MOM,
I WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT I WROTE YOU AGAIN THE OTHER DAY WHEN I WROTE DAD AND FOR SOME REASON IT DID NOT SHOW UP AGAIN.I DON'T GET IT.WELL ANY WAY BOO,KRISSY,ALL YOUR GREAT-GRAND KIDS WENT TO THE CEMETERY WITH ME .WE TOOK PICTURES OF ALL OF US STANDING BY YOU AND DADS HEADSTONE.AND THEN WE WENT TO YOUR FAVORITE MEXICAN PLACE.MOM I THOUGHT OF YOU AND DAD WHILE I WAS EATING TOO.YOU AND DAD DID A TREMENDOUS JOB ON THE STONE.IT IS BEAUTIFUL.MOM,YOU AND DAD WOULD BE SO PROUD.DAD DID NOT GET TO SEE IT BEFORE HE PASSED.NOT EVEN 3 WEEKS AFTER HE PASSED IT WAS ON THERE.I WAS SO IN "AH" WHEN I SAW IT I JUST STARED AT IT AND CRIED.I DON'T THINK YOU AND DAD REALLY REALIZED THAT IT WOULD BE SO BEAUTIFUL.I KNOW I AM SOUNDING LIKE A BROKEN RECORD BUT I JUST CANNOT HELP IT...WELL HOPEFULLY YOU AND DADDY-O ARE UP THERE CELEBRATING YOUR NEW LIFE UP THERE WITH ALL THE REST OF YOUR FAMILIES AND WATCHING OVER ALL OF US DOWN HERE.KEEP AN EYE DOWN ON TYLER AS HE IS COMING DOWN SICK.PLEASE HAVE ALL THE ANGELS WITH YOU AND DAD WATCH OVER TYLER AND HAILEY..WELL MOM I GUESS I WILL CLOSE FOR NOW,YOU BE GOOD UNTIL NEXT TIME.I LOVE YOU MOM!!!GIVE DAD A HUG AND A KISS FOR ME...I LOVE YOU AND DAD...YOUR BRENDA LEE
Kristin Carter
February 23, 2005
Hi there granny it's me Krissy. Just wanted to write you and tell you that I love you. It's been quite a while since I wrote you. I have been pretty busy. I know you knew what busy meant raising all five of those kids!!!!! Praise the lord to ya.(hahaha)Well I went part-time at work so now I can stay at home with my kids and I love it. I know you and grandpa are having the times of your life giving each other hell up there. I know grandpa tried to live his life without the woman of his life and he just couldn't bear to keep you out of his sight or mind. He's finally at peace now knowing where your at and what you both are doing. You guys have a wonderful new life up there in heaven together again at last forever. Nothing now can split you guys apart from one another. And you both can live "happily ever after" or so the fairytale goes. Please keep an eye over me,Pat, Jacob and Ashley. By the way grandma you would of laughed your head off to see the way that Jacob and Tyler play together. They love each other dearly. And Ashley adn Hailey too. What one doesn't think of the other one does. I know you are looking down laughing at them though. I am very glad we are all communicating. I know it's what is best and ecspecially for the kids. Well I will go for now. Til I talk to you again I love you very much........
XOXOXOXOXO
Kriss y
BRENDA DOLLARD
February 16, 2005
MOM,HOW ARE YOU DOING?I HOPE YOU ARE WONDERFUL.DAD JUST COULD NOT BARE TO BE WITHOUT YOU ANY LONGER MOM.HE WAS JUST SO LOST WITH YOU NOT HERE THAT HE HAD TO BE WITH YOU AT LAST.NO MATTER WHAT, DAD WAS "A STAND BY YOUR WOMANS MAN".DAD DID NOT LET TIL DEATH DO US PART GET IN HIS WAY.HE WAS DETERMINED TO BE WITH YOU IN YOUR NEW LIFE.MOM HAILEY AND TYLER MISS THE BOTH OF YOU SO MUCH.AND BOO ALSO.I TRY TO ASSURE BOO THAT YOU AND DAD ARE BOTH IN A BETTER PLACE,BUT THAT DON'T STOP THE HURT ANY LESS.WE JUST MISS YOU 2 SOOOO MUCH.I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY GOD HAD TO TAKE YOU 2 FROM US SO SOON.YOU AND DAD STILL WERE YOUNG.GOD ONLY KNOWS THE ANSWERS TO THAT.LOSING ONE OF YOU WAS BAD ENOUGH,BUT TO TAKE BOTH OF YOU IN 3 MONTHS IS ALMOST TO MUCH TO HANDLE.WHY WHY WHY?????WELL MOM CAN'T WRITE ANY MORE,I WILL WRITE MORE LATER....LOVE YOUR BRENDA LEE
Shauna Davis
February 8, 2005
Mom,
I just wanted to let you know I have not forgotten about you,it's just been so hard we lost you now dad,the pain is just so unbearable,
but all of us know at the same time, dad could not bear being without you any longer,and I totally understand that, you were his whole world , like you both were my whole world so I totally understand how he felt,but I have to keep in mind, one day we will all be reunited up in heaven together again and when we do we will have one hell of a party.Mom just watch over dad up in heaven with you okay, I know you will.I miss you so much mom it hurt's, but I hope in time it will get easier for all of us,especially with both of you gone now.Well I better close for now mom,I just wanted to let you know I haven't forgotten you, it's just been more then I could bear. I Love You Mom Forever & Alway's, Your Shauna May
Brenda Dollard
February 4, 2005
GOOD MORNING MOM.ACTUALLY IT'S NOT A GOOD MORNING.IT'S A LITTLE AFTER 5A.M.,I COULDN'T SLEEP SO THOUGHT I WOULD WRITE TO YOU.HOPING YOU AND DAD ARE REJOICING ONCE AGAIN.MOM ALL OF US KIDS ARE IN SO DISBELIEF OVER THE PASSING OF DAD AS IT WAS TO SUDDEN.I GUESS IT WAS TOO UNBEARABLE FOR HIM TO LIVE WITHOUT YOU ANY LONGER HE HAD TO BE WITH YOU AT LAST.DAD WAS NOT GOING TO LET "UNTIL DEATH" DO US PART STOP HIM FROM BEING WITH YOU .I HOPE DAD IS HAPPY ONCE AGAIN.WE CANNOT BE MAD FOR HIS SELFISHNESS AND WANTING TO BE WITH YOU.DAD JUST COULD NOT LIVE WITHOUT YOU.DAD WAS DETERMINED THAT HE WOULD BE THERE FOREVER AND ETERNITY.MOM PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND DAD FOR ALL OF US KIDS.I LOVE AND MISS YOU AND DAD!!!UNTIL LATER,YOU AND DADS-"BRENDA LEE".....
brandy groves
January 31, 2005
Grandma,
this is the hardest thing i have had to go through you have not been gone that long 3 months and 2 weeks now I have to try to deal with both of you being gone life is just not fair you both were more then my Parents you were my second parents thank you soooo much for helping my mom raise me i will never forget all the wonderful things you have done for me and i just want to think god for letting me have such wonderful Grandparents you will be missed greatly i love you soooo much this is just to much to deal with every day is a challange for me and here lately its not been good cause i cry for you Grandma everyday now the challange just got harder cause i have lost you both. I LOVE YOU BOTH MORE THAN YOU EVER KNEW
brenda dollard
January 30, 2005
MOM
I HAD TO WRITE YOU AND LET YOU KNOW THAT DAD IS ON HIS WAY UP TO HEAVEN TO REUNITE WITH YOU AT LAST.DAD LEFT US IN THE EARLY A.M. TODAY TO BEJOINED WITH YOU ONCE AGAIN.LIFE IS NOT FAIR.WE HAVEN'T GOT TO EVEN BEGIN OUR HEALING PROCESS OF YOUR LOSS YET.NOW WE GOT TO DEAL WITH THE LOSS OF BOTH OF YOU.IT IS ALMOST TO MUCH TO DEAL WITH.I GUESS THE PAIN OF YOUR LOSS WAS TO GREAT FOR DAD TO DEAL WITH AND JUST WANTED TO BE WITH YOU FOR EVER AND ETERNITY.BLESS DAD!!! MOM PLEASE WATCH OVER BRANDY-YOU AND DAD -AS SHE IS NOT DOING WELL WITH THE 2 OF YOU GONE..I LOVE AND MISS YOU BOTH...LOVE YOUR BRENDA LEE
brenda dollard
January 23, 2005
GOOD MORNING MOM!HOW ARE YOU AND THE REST OF THE ANGELS DOING IN HEAVEN?I BET YOU ALL ARE BETTER THEN MOST.MOM I HAVE BEEN SICK FOR 5 WEEKS.WENT TO DR TUES,HE GAVE ME MORE MEDS AND TOOK ME OFF WORK TIL MONDAY.JUST CAN'T SEEM TO GET RID OF THIS.I GOT TO GET BETTER CAUSE MY GRANDBABIES ARE WANTING THERE MAMA.MOM I MISS YOU SO MUCH AND LOVE YOU SOOOO,AS SOON AS I GET OVER THIS I WILL BE BACK OUT TO VISIT YOU AND GRANDMA @ THE CEMETARY AND BRING YOU PRETTY FLOWERS.WILLS BIRTHDAY IS TUESDAY!!UNCLE TOMS BIRTHDAY WAS YESTERDAY.WELL MOM I WILL GO FOR NOW AND I WILL BE WRITING AGAIN SOON!!UNTIL THEN I LOVE AND MISS YOU...LOVE YOUR BRENDA LEE....
brandy groves
January 12, 2005
Grandma,
I just wanted to write you because today is not a good day for me i have been having my crying spells because today is 3 months that you left us and i have been having a very bad day and another thing 2 days from my birthday is 3 months you have been gone and this is my first birthday without you here if i blow out any candles i will be thinking of you then.I still can't believe you are really gone well i will close for now please always remember that i love you and that i miss you deeply you are my guardian angel love your boo.
brenda dollard
January 11, 2005
MOM
HELLO,HAD TO WRITE YOU TO TELL YOU HOW BAD I MISS YOU AND WISH YOU COULD BE HERE.I COME ACROSS THE OBITUARY CLIPPING OF YOU TODAY @ WORK AND THAT REALLY GOT ME GOING.I CRIED FOR YOU AND TO KNOW THAT TOMORROW IT WILL BE 3 MONTHS THAT YOU HAVE BEEN GONE.YOU ARE GONE BUT BY FAR FORGOTTEN.WE ALL MISS YOU SO DEEPLY.MY LITTLE HAILEY AND TYLER STILL HAVE NOT FORGOT ABOUT THEIR MAMA HARMON.EVERYTIME THEY COME OVER HERE THEY STILL HAVE TO LOOK AT YOUR PICTURES ON THE WALL.MOM FRIDAY IS "BOO'S" BIRTHDAY AND I ALREADY KNOW THAT WILL BE A BAD DAY FOR HER CAUSE YOU WILL NOT BE HERE FOR HER.SHE MISSES YOU SOOO MUCH.SHE TALKED TO ME THE OTHER DAY AND TOLD ME SHE WASN'T LOOKING FORWARD TO THIS BIRTHDAY WITHOUT YOU.I TRY TO ASSURE HER YOU ARE IN A FAR BETTER OFF PLACE THEN YOU WERE WHEN YOU WERE HERE,YOU ARE NOT SUFFERING ANYMORE.BUT IT DOESN'T MAKE THE PAIN ANY LESS OR GO AWAY.WELL MA I WILL CLOSE FOR NOW.I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO DEEPLY.UNTIL LATER..I LOVE YOU!!!!!"YOUR BRENDA LEE"
brenda dollard
January 2, 2005
MOM,
HELLO AND HAPPY NEW YEAR.HOPE YOU ARE REJOICING UP IN HEAVEN.WE ALL STILL MISS YOU THE SAME AS THE DAY YOU LEFT US.WE ARE GETTING BY ONE DAY AT A TIME,WE THINK OF YOU ON A DAILY BASES.I WAS WATCHING SOME VIDEOS THE OTHER NIGHT.THE ONE THAT I REMEMBER THE MOST IS ONE DAY WE ALL WERE IN MY POOL AND YOU WERE IN THERE HAVING A GOOD OL TIME LAUGHING AND CARRYING ON.THAT IS THE ONE THAT REALLY MAD ME SAD KNOWING ONE DAY YOU WAS HAVING A GOOD TIME AND THE NEXT YOUR HEALTH IS FAILING YOU.THERE WAS A LOT OF HOLIDAYS ON THE TAPES BUT I NEVER WATCHED THEM TIL THURS NIGHT.BELIEVE ME I CRIED A LOT JUST SEEING YOU IN THEM.BUT I WILL SURVIVE MA.I WENT OUT TO VISIT YOU TODAY,I BROUGHT YOU A BEAUTIFUL ANGEL AND HAD BOB PUT IT ON A BOARD AND PUT IT DOWN IN THE GROUND FOR ME.IT IS BEAUTIFUL JUST LIKE YOU MOM.I DIDN'T GET TO STAY LONG AS I WANTED AS I HAVE BEEN SICK AND STARTED TO GET OVER IT NOW I AM COMING BACK DOWN WITH IT AGAIN,GOTTA GO BACK TO DR AND FIND OUT WHATS WRONG.WELL MA GOING TO GO FOR NOW,I WILL COME BACK TO YA LATER.UNTIL THEN....LOVE YOUR BRENDA LEE....
brandy groves
December 28, 2004
Grandma,
i wanted to write you and let you know how much i miss you so much these holidays have not been the best because you were not here to share it with us hailey misses you she keeps getting your picture out of the file cabinet and when i went to the hospital to go see pat she kept wanting to go back to the rooms cause she was looking for you
and she was saying grandma she don't understand where you are but she misses you and that makes me sad because she wants to see her mama harmon.grandma remember how much you have always mean't to me and i love you like a rock (rock solid).hope you have a happy new year in heaven.
mindy wilcox
December 25, 2004
hey grandma
merry christmas, this has been a hard time today but we have all been hanging in there and giving grandpa lots of lovin for you. I miss you so much you were like a grandma to me and i will never forget how welcome you and this family have made me feel. I love you and will never ever forget you. will and I went and seen my sister today at the hospital and every time i go up there it is so hard because she is also on the third floor and i walk right past the waiting room where we all were at. I love you and thank you for everything you have brought to this wonderful family love and miss you
love mindy
BRENDA DOLLARD
December 25, 2004
MOM,
I WANTED TO TELL YOU MERRY CHRISTMAS..WE ALL LOVE YOU AND REALLY MISS YOU.THIS IS NOT A HAPPY CHRISTMAS..DAD IS NOT TAKING THIS TIME OF YEAR VERY WELL.HE WENT OUT AND BOUGHT HAILEY,TYLER,JACOB, AND ASHLEY CHRISTMAS PRESENTS AND WRAPPED THEM ALL BY HIS SELF.MOM, DAD DID A SUPER JOB.DAD AND I WAS TALKING THE OTHER DAY AND DAD BROUGHT UP THE CHRISTMAS THAT YOU HAD THE WHOLE LIVING ROOM FULL OF PRESENTS. WE BOTH HAD TO LAUGH.MOM CHRISTMAS IS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU.I HOPE YOU ARE HAVING YOUR OWN "MERRY CHRISTMAS" IN HEAVEN.WE ARE HOSTING THE CHRISTMAS DINNER AS USUAL,EVERYONE WILL BE COMING BUT DONNA AND FRED.SHE IS HAVING HER OWN LITTLE DINNER.MOM NOONES COOKING CAN COMPARE TO YOURS,I TRY BUT IT NEEDS YOUR TOUCH.MOM I KNOW IN YOUR OWN WAY YOU CAN GIVE IT YOUR TOUCH,SO TODAY IN YOUR BUSY SCHEDULE PLEASE TAKE TIME OUT TO GIVE OUR DINNER YOUR SPECIAL TOUCH AND SAY A SPECIAL GRACE FOR ALL OF US.BELIEVE ME WE MISS YOU SAYING THE GRACE AT OUR DINNERS AS WELL.WELL MOM HOPE YOU HAVE A MERRY CHRISTMAS.I LOVE AND MISS YOU....AS YOU KNOW...YOUR "BRENDA LEE" LOVE YA MOM!!!!!!
Kristin Carter
December 23, 2004
Hi Grandma--
I just wanted to write you and wish you a Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!! I know everyone will take it hard this Christmas because they all said that this was your favorite holiday.We all know that you will be gracing us with your presence by watching over us to make sure our holidays are safe. Sorry I haven't written in a long time. I've been very busy with Jacob and Ashley. Just remember one thing that no matter what happened I still always did love you and I'm glad that we are all keeping in touch with one another again. I'll be writing you soon. Love ya lots granny.
Kristin
mindy wilcox
December 21, 2004
hey grandma
It has been awhile since i have wrote. I miss you. Well Im sure you know I found my sisters and now my life is more complete but except for the part of it that misses you. thank you for watching over us and keeping everyone safe. grandma will you please watch over my sister and make sure she is okay because I still need time to get to know them.
miss you and love you
love "Cindy"
(mindy)
brandy groves
December 19, 2004
Hello Grandma,
just wanted to drop you a few words
i sure do miss the hell out of you
i am still in shock that you are really gone and that you are never coming home it is so sad because i wanted you to get watch my kids grow up you were the one that i could come and talk to you and you would do every thing you could to make it better now i can not do that and it hurts i miss you like crazy i have not been the same since you left me i am having a very hard time with it i have so much hurt inside me why did it have to be my grandma they took away? i have to go now because i can not stop crying just know that you mean't the world to and that i love and miss you deeply love your boo boo.
BRENDA LEE DOLLARD
December 13, 2004
HELLO MOM,
IT HAS BEEN A FEW DAYS THAT I CAME ON TO YOUR GUEST BOOK TO SAY HI. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH. NEVER A DAY GOES BY THAT I DON'T THINK OF YOU AND WISHING YOU WERE STILL HERE WITH US.BUT SOME DAY WE WILL ALL MEET AGAIN.WE ALL MISSED YOU BEING THERE FOR TYLERS 6TH BIRTHDAY.TYLER AND HAILEY ALWAYS LOOK AT YOUR PICTURES AND SAY MAMA HARMON. I SAY YEAP THATS MAMA HARMON AND SHE IS UP IN HEAVEN NOW.THEY LIKE TO GO INTO YOUR "MOTHERS ROOM" THAT I MADE FOR YOU AND LAY ON YOUR BED AND THEN LOOK AT THE PICTURES OF YOU ON THE WALL.OH MA I FOUND THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PICTURE AT A SALE WITH 2 ANGELS ON IT.I HUNG IT AT THE HEAD OF YOUR BED.AND ALSO PICKED UP 2 MORE ANGEL FIGURINES FOR YOUR ROOM. IT IS LOOKING PRETTY GOOD IN THERE. YOU WOULD REALLY ENJOY IT WITH ALL THE ANGELS THAT ARE IN THERE AND OTHER MEMORIES THAT ARE IN YOUR ROOM.WELL MOM I WILL BE OUT SUNDAY TO PUT YOU AND GRANDMAS CHRISTMAS DECORATIONS ON. OF COURSE I AM PUTTING PURPLE GARLAND AND BULBS ON FOR YOU AND GRANDMA,WITH OF COURSE ANGELS ON EACH OF YOUR GRAVES.MOM I THINK OF HOW HAPPY YOU WOULD BE TO KNOW THIS.WELL MOM I AM GOING TO CLOSE FOR NOW ,BUT I WILL BE BACK TO TALK TO YOU MORE LATER.UNTIL THEN SLEEP TIGHT..I LOVE YA,YOUR BRENDA LEE
brandy groves
December 5, 2004
Grandma,
I wanted to write you it has been a little while since i have wrote so i figure it's about time.Grandma i miss you so much i still can't believe your gone like that song goes (DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU GOT UNTIL ITS GONE).thats the truth ! this has not been a good year for me not even 2 months ago i lost you and now 2 days ago i lost OHOH life is just not fair Tyler cried again tonite about ohoh telling me that he misses him and the only thing i could say is i know i miss him to. and then when i went with mindy to go see her sister at the hospital and when we walked in the room she pointed at the bed and said ma and she was wondering where you are and that hurt so much she loves you so much now i know that you will watch over ohoh for me i wish you could of stuck around to watch them grow up(tyler & hailey) i miss you grandma i love you i will be back later to write you again.
brandy groves
December 5, 2004
Grandma,
I wanted to write you it has been a little while since i have wrote so i figure it's about time.Grandma i miss you so much i still can't believe your gone like that song goes (DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU GOT UNTIL ITS GONE).thats the truth ! this has not been a good year for me not even 2 months ago i lost you and now 2 days ago i lost OHOH life is just not fair Tyler cried again tonite about ohoh telling me that he misses him and the only thing i could say is i know i miss him to. and then when i went with mindy to go see her sister at the hospital and when we walked in the room she pointed at the bed and said ma and she was wondering where you are and that hurt so much she loves you so much now i know that you will watch over ohoh for me i wiss you could of stuck around to watch them grow up(tyler & hailey) i miss you grandma i love you i will be back later to write you again.
Shauna Davis
November 26, 2004
Mom,
Happy Thanksgiving today,we had our normal family dinner at Brenda & Bob's house. It sure was hard for all of us today without your smiling face being there,but we know you were there in spirit watching over all of us.It was even hard celebrating a holiday today,but we know you would want us to keep that family tradition going on,so we cannot break that tradition.It has already been 6 weeks since you left us,but it still seem like yesterday,it has been a very emotional week for me without you,it really hit me hard this week,I guess it finally sank in that your not coming back home anymore and that your really gone, but I know in spirit your here with each and every one of us , you have gave some of us signs letting us know your still here in spirit with us,I really miss you so much momma,and it gets harder each day that goes by that your not just a phone call away no more,I miss our talks we use to have and our mother daughter times we shared, like I said before you were not only my mother, but my Best Friend too, I miss those special times we once shared,but at least I will have the special memories from them. And I know with Christmas coming up,that is going to be even harder because that was alway's your favorite holiday, you & dad alway's made sure us kid's alway's had the best christmas's any child could ask for,all of the special memories I have of christmas and just knowing you are not going to be there this year to make more memories is going to be the hardest,but we will all try and still have a christmas in your memorie this year. Just because we know it was your favorite holiday season. Dad is still having a hard time getting adjusted to you not being there anymore and knowing you will never be back home,but like I told him,it is going to take sometime.He love's you and misses you sooo very much. Well mom I guess I better close for now until next time.You are my #1 Guardian Angel. Love your Baby Girl,
Shauna
brandy groves
November 26, 2004
Grandma just wanted to say hi and that i miss you sooo much today was a hard day for me because this is our first Thanksgiving without you its so hard grandma i keep wondering if it will ever get better but to me it keeps getting harder and harder i miss me and your talks i can't even do that now you just don't know what you mean't to me you were more then my Grandma you were like my second mom and also one of my best friends its hard because when i see things that have things that say Grandma on them it makes me sad because i think i can no longer buy things that say that anymore for you.this has really hit me pretty hard and thats causing my depression because this is one of the hardest things i have ever went through by losing my GUARDIAN ANGEL Remember I Love You HAPPY THANKSGIVING I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU BRANDY.
brenda dollard
November 24, 2004
HI MOM IT HAS BEEN A WEEK THAT I HAVE WROTE ANYTHING SO I FIGURED IT IS ABOUT TIME.I VISIT YOUR BOOK DAILY TO KEEP UP ON ANY NEW ENTRIES BUT THEY HAVE SLOWED DOWN A BIT.TOMORROW IS THANKSGIVING, IT'S NOT GOING TO BE THE SAME WITH YOU NOT HERE,YOU WERE ALWAYS THE ONE TO SAY GRACE FOR AS LONG AS I COULD EVER REMEMBER,AND ALWAYS MADE THE BIG MEALS.WELL WE WILL HAVE OUR TRADITIONAL BIG MEAL BUT WE WILL MISS YOU SAYING GRACE.WE WILL ALL SAY OUR PRAYER AND INCLUDE YOU IN IT.TODAY WAS NOT A GOOD DAY WE HAD ABOUT 6-8" OF SNOW. YOU KNOW THAT I DIDN'T LIKE DRIVING IN THAT STUFF ANYWAY SO I HAD BOB TAKE ME.MOM IT HAS BEEN 6 WEEKS THAT WE LOST YOU IT SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY.I WILL BE COMING OUT TO THE CEMETARY AND VISITING YOU WITH SOME MORE FLOWERS FOR YOU AND GRANDMA.I HOPE YOU AND GRANDMA ARE REJOICING ONCE AGAIN.WELL MOM I WILL CLOSE FOR NOW AND I WILL WRITE YOU AGAIN SOON. HAPPY THANKSGIVING AND I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SOOOO MUCH.
brenda dollard
November 18, 2004
MOM
I COME HOME @ LUNCH EVERY DAY TO SEE IF THERE ARE ANY NEW ENTRIES IN YOUR BOOK. I PROBABLY LOOK AT THIS 4-5 TIMES A DAY AND READ ALL THE STORIES PEOPLE WRITE TO YOU AND ABOUT YOU. MOM EVERYONE LOVED YOU. II LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.I STILL CRY ALOT AND SOMETIMES IT JUST SO UNBEARABLE TO KNOW YOUR NOT JUST A MILE OR 2 AWAY ANYMORE, BUT YOUR SUFFERING WAS UNBEARABLE FOR YOU,SO I CAN'T BE SELFISH AND WISH YOU WERE STILL HERE IN THAT SENSE. BUT REMEMBER I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.SO DOES BOO,TYLER AND HAILEY. THEY WILL ALWAYS BE THE APPLE OF YOUR EYE. WELL MA GOTTA EAT A little lunch and get back to work ,so until later I love you...
Shauna Davis
November 18, 2004
Mom,
It's been alittle while since I've been in here to talk to you,so I thought I would come and talk to you.It's been 5 weeks ago that you left us, and not a day get's easier,the only thing that get's me through it is knowing you are in no more pain and don't have to suffer anymore,because I know you didn't want to live like that anymore,that's the only thing that makes me have peace within myself.I miss you so terribly bad that it hurt's so much, knowing I don't have a mom any more,we had a very special bond between us ,you were not only my mother, but my best friend to, I could alway's pick up the phone and call when I needed someone to talk to and knew you would be there for me and listen.I was sick recently and boy did I miss not having your mom love there when I needed it, like the song say's (* You Don't Know What you Got Till It's Gone*) and boy does that hold true, no one can ever replace the love of my Dear Mother.But we will all be ok in time,it's just very hard knowing your gone and never will come home again. But one day we will all be together again, and boy will it ever be a big shindig.I guess I better close for now it is 6Am in the morning and I need to get some rest now , but know that your in my thought's and prayer's each and everyday.Like I said before there's not a minute that goes by that Im not thinking you.I Love You & Miss You Soooo Very Much Mom. XOXO
You are my *Guardian Angel*
Love your Baby Girl,
Shauna
Love Your Baby Girl, Shauna
mindy wilcox
November 17, 2004
hey grandma
its been awhile so I thought I would right you I miss you so much. You are a wonderful grandma. It makes me feel so good to be a part of your family and to be loved by you guys as much as I love you guys. I know will misses you so much and he tries to keep busy to keep his mind off of things. We are getting along great and I am sure that is thanks to you watching over us. thank you grandma for allowing me to be part of your family and I hope you know how much i love you. well i dont want to bore you so I will let you go know I will talk to you soon love you always and forever. mindy
A young rocker who turned into a Cowboy - T.K.
Thomas - T.K. Haynes
November 17, 2004
Hello Earlene,
I do not know where to start. I have known you since I was 10 years old. You were a big part of my life as I was growing up. I know you probably wondered if I would ever make it through my youth knowing what kind of H**** Raiser I was. Only by the GRACE of GOD did I make it through it and prospered in life. I should have visited you more often when I came in town. I am sorry that I didn't. But I am blessed that I did get to see you one last time before you left to be with our Lord. I know you are in a better place now where you are no longer in pain. Some day I will see you again and get another hug.
You will be missed terribly by me and I you will always be in my heart and thoughts.
With love always,
T.K.
Donna Gayle
November 14, 2004
I miss you MOM more that you will ever know.All the things you said we would someday miss are being missed. Your voice,your smile,your blue eyes but most of all your love. Just knowing that you were there if we needed anything was enough and now that is all gone.. Somedays I don't even want to deal with the day. I just wish time could always be good and we never knew any saddness but thats not the way it is. When you left a part of my heart went with you. Please know that and always remember that no one can take the place of a mothers love or the love for her child. I miss you so much.
Brenda Dollard
November 12, 2004
Mom,
I just had to write to tell you I LOVE YOU and MISS YOU so much.Today is a month that you have been gone,it seems like an eternity already.That poem that BOO wrote to you is so beautiful like yourself and I know that you are looking down on us and watching over all of us..."MOM I LOVE YOU"!!!!!!!!!! YOUR BRENDA LEE......
Dawn Kemp
November 12, 2004
Brenda, Brandi, & Family,
I just want you to know how sorry I am for your loss. I know you miss your Mother very much. I read your entries in this book and your love for her shines through. Just know that she lives on in each and every one of you. Not only in memories and thoughts, but in the very depth of who each of you are. She and your Dad raised a fine family. The values they have instilled in you live on in your daily lives. And to me, that is quite a testament in it's self to the kind of Lady she was. What a tribute to her you all are! She lives on in each of you! And I know she is proud of her family.
Brandy Groves
November 11, 2004
Hello Grandma i miss you so much you never actually know how much you miss someone until they are gone well i found this poem and i made copies for if anyone wants a copy but i am going to type it here for you Grandma.
(First Chrismas In Heaven)
I see the countless christmas trees around the world below.
With tiny lights,like Heaven's stars,reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular,please wipe away the tear,for i am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I here the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear,but the sounds of music can't compare with the Chrismas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you,the joy their voices bring.
For it is beyond descriptson,to here the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me,I see the pain inside your heart.
But i am not so far away,we really aren't apart.
So be happy for me,dear ones,you know i hold you dear,and be glad that i'm spending Christmas with Jesus Chris this year.
I sent you each a special gift,from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory of my undying love.
After all,love is a gift more precious than pure gold.
It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other,as my Father said to do.
For i can't count the blessing or love he has for you.
So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear.
Remember,I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I LOVE YOU GRANDMA MY GUARDIAN ANGEL.
Stephanie Johnson
November 10, 2004
MOM IT'S STEPHANIE YOUR MEXICAN DAUGHTER. I HAVE BEEN TO YOUR HOUSE SINCE YOU HAVE LEFT US AND IT SEEMED SO WEIRD YOU NOT BEING THERE I MISSED YOUR SMILE AND YOUR HUGS AND KISSES WHEN I WALKED IN TO YOUR HOUSE. I KNOW YOUR FAMILY MISSES YOU VERY MUCH, ESPECIALLY DAD. I KNOW THAT EVERYONE WILL BE FINE. YOUR FAMILY WILL NEVER FORGET YOU AND NEITHER WILL I. YOU WERE A GREAT MOM TO ME AND YOU WERE A GREAT MOTHER TO ALL YOUR KIDS. I HEARD AND SAW ALOT BEING AROUND SO LONG AND WHAT I LEANED FROM YOU AND DAD IS THAT IT REALLY DOESN'T MATTER WHAT POSSESIONS YOU HAVE, WHAT REALLY MATTERS IS HAVING A FAMILY THAT IS A FAMILY AND LOVES EACH OTHER UNCONDITIONALLY. YOU ARE A GREAT LADY AND I WILL MISS YOU DEARLY.
ALL I CAN SAYS IS THANK YOU FOR YOU.
I LOVE AND MISS YOU
STEPHANIE
Brenda Dollard
November 9, 2004
MOM
I COULD NOT STAND TO THINK I COULD NOT COMMUNICATE SOME HOW WITH YOU,SO I CALLED IN TO MAINTAIN YOUR GUEST BOOK SO IT WILL REMAIN ON LINE FOR AYEAR AND IF IT GETS USED IT WILL REMAIN ON LINE LONGER.I MISS YOU SO MUCH.I AM MAKING MY DOLL ROOM INTO "MOTHERS" ROOM FOR YOU WITH OF COURSE YOUR FAVORITE COLOR PURPLE AND I WILL HAVE YOUR ANGELS IN THERE AS WELL AS THE PLANTS THAT PEOPLE SENT YOU.MOM I WILL KEEP YOUR MIND BODY & SOUL ALIVE AS LONG AS THE GOOD LORD ABOVE LETS ME.WE ALL MISS YOU SO MUCH.THERE IS NOT AWAKING MOMENT THAT YOU ARE NOT THOUGHT OF.POOR DAD IS NOT COPING VERY WELL.HE CAN'T HARDLY STAY IN THE HOUSE ANY MORE.HE WENT TO THE LAKE FOR A WEEK NOW HE WENT TO INDIANA WITH AUNT BETTY.MOM PLEASE WATCH OVER DAD AND THE REST OF US DOWN HERE.YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE THEN WE ARE CAUSE THE WAR JUST KEEPS GETTING WORSE.WELL MOM I PROBABLY TALKED YOUR EAR OFF SO I WILL CLOSE FOR NOW AND I WILL BE WRITING TO YOU AGAIN REAL SOON.ALL MY LOVE MOM!!!!!!!BRENDA LEE
Kristin Carter
November 9, 2004
Hi there granny. I just thought I would come sign your book again. I was sitting here at work thinking of you. The song I hope you dance is on right now by Leann Womack. The words are just amazing. Well grams I know that you are watching down over me and my family. I hope you are very peaceful and having the best time of your life right now. Now that you can see everyone from where you are. I love you very much and miss some of things that could of been done and said with us. Well just remember I love you very sincerley. Guess I'll get back to work now. Tell grandma we said hello and grandpa too. My kids have given me hugs and kisses and have asked about you and for you. Pat also says hello.It's kind of hard trying to explain to Jacob but I think he's beginning to understand a little bit better. He thinks that your in some kind of "Disneyland" is what he calls it. I know you would laugh right now about that. Well I'll talk to you later. Love you very much and miss you always.
Krissy Bear
Shauna Davis
November 8, 2004
Mom,
It's been almost a month you have been gone now , and everyday it get's harder and harder for me, knowing I cannot walk two house's up to see you anymore,knowing I cannot come in and give you hugs and kisses and to tell you I Love You anymore and to be able to get those hug's and kisses back from you and to hear those 4 word's back from you " I Love You Shauna ". You never realize how much you miss those small little things, that mean so much to you, until you don't have it anymore, and boy do I miss it so much. And I am fighting to get over Bronchitis right now and I sure wish I only had your motherly love here with me right now, you never know how much that kind of stuff mean's till you don't have it anymore. And as the day's keep going it's getting harder and harder for me to deal with, and with the holiday's approaching too. Just knowing your never coming home again,and knowing I don't have a momma no more hurt's so bad.I know I will alway's have you in mind,body,spirit, but it's not the same feeling as having you here with me,I miss you so very much mom and I will alway's love you and never forget you or the special bond we alway's have shared, nothing or no one can ever take that away from us, you will alway's be my " #1 Guardian Angel " Thank you and Dad so much for everything you have did for Paul and I ,you don't know how much it has meant to us, we could never have repaid you two for everything.Thank you soooo much for the 35 wonderful years you were there for me mom, you have made (and Dad) me who I am today and I want to thank you for that. God could have never gave me a better set of parents then you and dad , I will cherish that forever, I thank god everyday for bringing me into your lifes. Because without you and Dad I would not be here right now, and have been able to enjoy and experience all the wonderful thing's in my life, and to be the person I am today with out all of you and Dad's wonderful guidance and support you have given me through the years. Thank You soooo much for being the best mom you could of been. I guess I will close for now so the tears don't start to fall again, I Love You and Will Always Miss you soooo very Much.You just get the rest you so well deserve , and enjoy the time you have now with Grandma & Grandpa , and we will all be together again some day, but until then you watch over all of us down here and keep us healthy and safe.
FeFe sure misses you Grandma, she still goes and looks for you every time I take her to your house.I will take good care of Dad for you mom. You know I will,well I will close now,I Love You Mom Alway's and Forever,
Your Baby Girl,
Shauna
brandy groves
October 31, 2004
hello grandma its me again i just want you to know that i love you and i think of you every day i miss you so much and am in this deep depression because i lost you it hurts so bad grandma that i can not hug or kiss you and tell you i love you i just feel so empty because you are gone its so hard even to drive by your house knowing that if i stop by i still am not going to get to see you and that is just so hard we were so close and that is what hurts the most but you will always be my guardian angel i love you grandma and i miss you more then you will ever know i will never forget you i promise you that thank you so much for being the grandma that you was you were the best and i do mean the best.
Shauna Davis
October 29, 2004
Mom,
It's hard to believe you've been gone almost 3 week's now,it seem's like yesterday,I miss you so very much it hurt's,there's not minute's in a day that don't go by that I don't think about you,but I know one day we will all be together again,but intil then we have to stay together as one big happy family and love and support one another.And be there for each other.We all are taking good care of Dad and watching over him. I know you were alway's worried about all of us, but we will all be ok, you just rejoice up there in heaven with Grandma & Grandpa and have a good time,And I will do all the worrying down here with the family,and watch over everyone.I will take over where you left off,don't you worry about that.I love you and miss you soooo very much,And Grandma FeFe & Teddy miss you too, everytime I take FeFe up to your house she goes looking for you. Love Your Baby Girl,
Shauna Davis (Harmon)
brenda dollard
October 28, 2004
MOM
I JUST HAD TO WRITE YOU AGAIN,I MISS YOU SO BAD.I SET AND LOOK AT THE COLLAGE ANN & I MADE OF YOU WITH LITTLE HAILEY AND SHE JUST POINTS AT YOUR PICTURE,I REMIND HER THAT IS HER MAMA HARMON.I CRY ALOT JUST KNOWING YOUR NOT HERE WITH US ANYMORE. I KNOW YOU ARE IN A FAR BETTER PLACE BUT I STILL MISS YOU SO MUCH,I LISTEN TO THE CD IN MY VAN AND JUST CRY THINKING OF HOW YOUR NO LONGER HERE.BUT THAT IS OK YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY AGAIN AND YOU CERTAINLY WAS NOT HAPPY WITH THE WAY YOU HAD TO LIVE FOR THE LAST COUPLE OF YEARS. MOM I WILL BE OK,IT'S JUST THE HURT IS STILL NEW AND I CAN'T GO HOME NO MORE TO SEE YOU. DAD MISSES THE HELL OUT OF YOU SO BAD,HE HAS HIS MOMENTS TOO.WE TRY TO MAKE HIM GET OUT AND GO SO HE DON'T BREAK.MOM REMEMBER ALL OF US KIDS,GRANDKIDS,&GREATGRANDKIDS LOVE YOU SO MUCH.ALSO DAD TOO!!!
kristin carter
October 21, 2004
Hi there grandma it's me "krissy bear". I miss you alot and can't believe your gone. Iknow you are in a far better place and one day me and my family will join you there. Well I just thought I would come visit you and tell you that me, Pat, Jacob and Ashley said hello and we love you very dearly and always will.
Love you very much
Krissy Bear
Lisa, Rob, & Cody Clemans
October 17, 2004
We have only known the family for a short time, And already We love them dearly. To all the family,(and future family) We will be praying for you, We are sorry for your loss. But We know that you are a very strong family, and will overcome every thing. We are very gratefull to have the opportunity to have a great friendship with every one of you. With all of our love and prayers
The Clemans Family
Paul Davis
October 17, 2004
Mom were going to miss you, I am so thankful to of had a mother-in-law
that was so caring and thoughtful,
It has enriched my life i never knew what a Real Family was until
i married shauna. You was the backbone of this family and we will miss you so very much!!. But i know that you are in a better place now without suffering i know that you are in heaven and i am glad to have
shared the many great years with you and the family I want you to know that i will always try to be the best husband to shauna and love her forever....
I will always remember you and thank you for being the person you was..
Love your #1 Son-In-Law Paul
mindy wilcox
October 16, 2004
hi, grandma I have known you for about five years now and I couldnt have come into a better family. We have our ups and downs but know matter what this family is very special and we have you and grandpa to thank for raising five wonderful kids and your help in raising wonderful grandchildren to. Now it is your turn to let us take care of everyone and you rest and have fun. I couldnt have asked for a better grandmother and when me and will have kids you will always be remembered. love and miss you sssooooo much. love always
mindy
brandy groves
October 15, 2004
Grandma
I LOVE YOU i miss you already you and Grandpa mean everything to me its so hard to say good bye i can't believe i am not gonna get to see you any more it hurts because Hailey tries to look for you when we go up to your house and you are not there she don't understand where her mama went she loves you so much and she will miss giving you hugs and kisses just like i do thank you so much for helping my mom raise me i can never thank you enough you are more than my grandparents you both are very special to me you are like my second parents we always had a special bond thats why its so hard to let go you are my guardian angel i love you and i miss you so much it hurts.
love ya Brandy (Boo)
Shauna Davis
October 15, 2004
Mom,
I am so sad your gone, but I know your in a far off better place no more suffering, no more pain. Your up in heaven rejoicing with Grandma & Grandpa. You were the best mother any child could of asked for,we will miss you so very much, but with God's help we will make it through this, you will alway's be in our thought's and prayer's,at least your at peace now. And Dad and us 5 kid's will be ok with God's will. We will watch over Dad and make sure he is taken good care of, and one day we will all be together again. But until then, I want you to know how much I love you and will miss you.Thank you for making me who I am today.
I Love You, Mom
Love & Miss You Soooo Much,
Your Baby Girl,
Shauna
Brenda Dollard
October 14, 2004
MOM,
Your Great-Grandkids LOVE YOU & WILL certainly miss getting to know you as they grow older,but they will be told of how you and DAD are super Grandparents...Tyler & Hailey will always remain "THE APPLE OF YOUR EYE" I remember how Little Hailey would always have a smile for you and come & pat you on your leg and climb up on you and give you a Hug & Kiss.I will never let them forget who there GREAT-GRANDPARENTS ARE. I LOVE YOU MOM!!!
The Saylors Family
October 14, 2004
We are sorry for the loss of your mom, but your right she is in a better place and not suffering any more.
The saylors Family.
Brenda Dollard
October 14, 2004
MOM,
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.IT IS SO HARD WITH YOU NOT HER ANYMORE.BUT WE ALL WILL BE OK,YOU ARE NOT IN PAIN ANY MORE.YOU CAN BE WITH YOUR MOM AND DAD NOW.YOU PAID YOUR DUES ON EARTH NOW IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO HAVE THE REST YOU SO DESERVE. THANK YOU AND DAD FOR ALL YOU DID FOR BRANDY AND I,WHEN I NEEDED YOU 2 THE MOST.I COULD NEVER REPAY THE 2 OF YOU FOR ALL THE THINGS YOU HAVE DONE.DAD WILL BE OK,ALL "5" OF US KIDS WILL TAKE CARE OF HIM!!! MOM I LOVE AND MISS YOU...LOVE YOUR DAUGHTER
BRENDA LEE
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