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John Edwin Proctor, Stilwell, KS, died August 1, 2009, at KC Hospice House, after battling leukemia for 5 months, with his family at his side. A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m., Wednesday, August 5, at Atonement Lutheran Church, 9948 Metcalf Ave., Overland Park, KS. Memorial contributions can be made to Metro Lutheran Ministry or Community LINC. John was born March 8, 1933, in Lansing, MI, to Stanley and Lucile Proctor. He lived in SE Michigan. He started school in 1938 in a one-room country school. John graduated from South Lyon High School in 1951, lettering in basketball and track. He attended Michigan State University, and got his degree in Ornamental Horticulture, became a member of Alpha Gamma Rho Fraternity, and lettered in Cross Country. But more importantly, he met his future wife, Marilyn Johnson. They were married on November 26, 1955. John served in the Army and was stationed outside of Honolulu, at Schofield Barracks, where he and Marilyn lived until 1957. After a few short stops, they settled into Saline, Michigan, while he worked for Niagara Chemical, and then later worked for what is now known as Bayer CropScience. In 1977, John and his family moved to Stilwell, KS, when he became a Product Manager for Bayer Corp., working in many capacities until his retirement in 1998. He was instrumental in the research and development of many of the innovative pest control products, such as Merit, being marketed today by Bayer Advanced TM. John was a member of the National Pest Control Association, The National Turf Grass Association, and the Chemical Specialties Manufacturing Association to name just a few. After retirement, John and Marilyn traveled the world. Besides his family and friends, his greatest loves were fishing, gardening, and working on genealogy. John seldom missed a grandchild's orchestra concert or soccer game. He was a member of the Sons of the American Revolution and their color guard, The Mayflower Society, The Huguenot Society, The Delano Kindred, The Soule Kindred, and The Alden Kindred. John was active with his church, Metro Lutheran Ministries, and Community LINC, where he served as a very active and helpful volunteer up until his diagnosis of leukemia. John is survived by his wife Marilyn of 53 years; his son Tobin Proctor and wife Denise; his son Bradley Proctor and wife Beth; four granddaughters, Hannah, Bailey, Micah, and Brooke; his sister, Nancy and her husband Richard Simpson; nieces and a nephew, as well as many friends. Arr. D.W. Newcomer's Johnson County Chapel, 11200 Metcalf, Overland Park, KS; (913) 451-1860. Condolences and fond memories may be left for the family at www.dwnewcomers.com.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Aug. 3, 2009.

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Patricia Winter

August 9, 2009

Marilyn, I never met you and John but my dad did, Tom Kroon. He will always remember his times with you and John doing genealogy. You are a great cousin. My sympathies to you and your family. Pat Winter (Kroon)

Harry McMenemy

August 6, 2009

Dear Marylin:
The loss of a Dear Friend like John Proctor should make us all witness to the fact "That the GOOD Guys" are also vulnerable. At this time my prayers are with you and Proctor Family. My memories of our time in Hawaii will live with us for ever.
Harry and Carol

August 5, 2009

So very sorry to have lost John so early in his life. Since he was one year younger than me, I knew him since he was an infant. I shall always remember the family reunions, baseball & football games on the farm, the horses and old red fire enghine at Apple Crest Farm. We were blessed with a great cousin - and you a great father. He will be missed. Anna and Len Stark (cousin), Fairfield Glade, TN

Gerald Simmons

August 5, 2009

To the Proctor Family. I have lost a great former co-worker and a trusted friend in John. I know your loss is much greater. Please keep the great memories close as I will. GOD bless you all.

August 5, 2009

John was a good friend and one of the reasons I am glad to be associated with Bayer. God bless him and his family.
Fred and Judy Donaldson, Waldo, FL

Robert Ontman

August 5, 2009

Peace and the God of All Comfort be with you and your family. John was a treasured member of our volunteer maintenance team. He didn't fix things, he skillfully crafted them. We will miss him until the resurrection. Thanks for sharing him with us.

Mabry Anderson

August 5, 2009

I worked with John during the 80s when I was in the Kansas City office of Bayer. John was always a good friend to all, but above all, a good man. He'll be missed by many.

Sandy (Snow) Edson

August 4, 2009

Dear Marilyn and Sons -

My heart is sad at the loss of John and the void he leaves in your lives. He truly was a kind man and good friend to me at Bayer and beyond. I'm so glad I was able to chat with him on his birthday in March, and will miss hearing from him. Please know you're in my heart and thoughts at this sad time.

Debbi Adams

August 4, 2009

As a young married with our first "fixer upper" home, John came
over one day and walked around the
house telling me what every plant was
and how I should take care of it.

John your knowledge of plant material and willingness to share helped us tame the jungle around our house. Now I have a landscaping business and John
you gave me the jump start.

Julie Panney

August 4, 2009

i will miss John very much. We shared an interest in genealogy. My grandparents were Emma's sister fannie and my grandfather wasClarence Edwin nephew I also enjoied his vists to our home in Grand Rapids. My thoughts as well as my mother are with you at this dificult time. I lost my father 12 years ago so I know how hard it is. . They say time heals I will also remeber how generous he was in helping me with any question I had. I will always miss him.

George and Jill Hedenkamp

August 4, 2009

John was our gardner extroradinaire and a ready source for our lawn problems. In the fall of 1998 we wanted have a great lawn if we were to easily sell our property the following spring. He looked at the lawn, estimated the seed we would need, looked again and then said "double it". He was right, by next spring we had the best looking lawn in Stanley and easily sold our home. George and Jill Hedenkamp

Jim and Nancy Getts

August 3, 2009

Marilyn, Toby, and Brad and families,
We will always remember John fishing on the Big Manistee River at Coho Bend Campground. He always had a smile and we would rejoice with him when he had luck on the river. He will be missed, but not forgotten.
Sincerely,
Jim and Nancy Getts
Toby...thanks for all the e-mails.

Donna Ewins

August 3, 2009

I was very sorry to hear about John's passing. We only corresponded about genealogy, but I know he was passionate about his research and wanted to do it as carefully as possible. I hope someone in the family continues his work.

Vicki Laudig

August 3, 2009

He was a kind man and will be missed

Vicki (Johnson), Scott and Melissa Laudig

August 3, 2009

Marilyn,
So sorry to hear the news. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Bob, Cindy, Taylor and Kristen Svec

August 3, 2009

We'll miss John at the 5 Sat. service and eating out....and the Bkft. at
1st Watch on Weds,. Also the Apples he always shared with everyone.
Our prayers are for Peace to All your Family, may the Happy Memories be trasurers you will remember and share. LOVE & PEACE
Marian and Clark Twedt, Leawood......"IN GOD WE TRUST"

Cindy Simpson

August 3, 2009

Mom said the hospice was a very nice place and that Uncle John went very peacefully. I'm so sorry I can't be there for the service, but I'm hoping I can come for a visit sometime soon. Every time I forget and put my elbows on the table, I can remember the feeling of fork tines prying my elbows off the table...ah, wonderful Thanksgiving meals, with Uncle John trying to convince me that rutabaga and parsnips would not kill me. Love you all and I hope you can remember all the wonderful times you had with your husband and dad, John.

August 3, 2009

Marilyn,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Anita Gass

Eric Scheck

August 3, 2009

While we were in school, your folks were always like a second family-- always generous and caring. I'll miss your dad, Brad, and glad to have said 'hello' before he passed. Give a warm hug to your mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Beth and the girls, and the rest of the family.

The Schecks

Barbara Burns

August 3, 2009

Marilyn, Toby and Bradley:

I am so sorry about the passing of your husband/Dad. I have had a lot of wonderful times comparing our family tree (Latson/Proctor) with each other. I just wish that I could of meet him in person with we first started our combining the families. My prayers are with all of you at this time.
God Bless all of you.

Ric Rubeo

August 3, 2009

Dear Brad & Family,

I am very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Kathy and I are praying for you and your family - that through this trouble, His peace and love will surround you today and always.

Much Love, The Rubeo's

Karen Siladi

August 3, 2009

So sorry about the passing of your Dad. What a great job you did on the obituary. What an interesting man! I didn't know he was such a jock at one time, he was just your Dad to me. My Dad passed away 2 years ago from Leukemia as well and I know you went through a lot of the same experiences but I've always believed it was a gift that process. We didn't just get a phone call that they had had a heart attack or stoke but rather we got the chance to say goodbye. I hope your Mom is doing ok. Its hard to lose your life long partner. Be good to her since she will be sad and lonely. Toby I hope you are doing well. You did a great job keeping people informed. I know you were a good son and you were lucky to have such a good man for your Dad. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Veldon Sorensen

August 3, 2009

I worked in the office next to John for several years in Kansas City. John was a favorite in our home because he was generous in sharing free seats at the Royals baseball games. My children all remember John because of the Royals t-shirts and towels. Those towels are in nearly every water photo we have during those growing up years. While I have not kept in close contact with John since his retirement but his passion for life, gardening, travel and genealogy are well remembered. Humanity has blessed for his presence and his kind, thoughtful influence will be missed. Thanks also to Toby for his thoughtful updates that helped us to be a part of John's journey if only through our prayers and thoughts.

Our condolences to all of John's family

Veldon, Diane, Amy, Audrey, Monte and Scott Sorensen

HAROLD CURRY

August 3, 2009

I WILL MISS JOHN FOREVER.WE HAD MANNY HOURS TO VISIT ON THE LAKE .AND MANY MEMORIES, AND TO THE FAMILY ,YOU ARE ALL IN MY THOUGHTS TODAY. YOUR FRIEND HAROLD.

Beth Smith

August 3, 2009

Wishing you comfort in the memories you have and in the love of your family. Marilyn, my mom shared a fond memory of John sharing a corner of your yard on Hillcrest so that she could grow daffodils that she loved! She always admired his gardens, as you know. Our heart goes out to all of you. He is sure to be missed.

Greg Pagano

August 3, 2009

William Wadsworth wrote:

“ The best portion of a good
Man’s life- his little,
Nameless unrembered acts of
Kindness and love.”

John Proctor was a good man. He left a legacy. While you are grieving, remember also to be proud.

From one who is a better person for having known John.

August 3, 2009

Marilyn, Toby and Brad,
How I grieve for your loss knowing that you have lost a great, strong and wonderful presence in your lives. Remember, people go away but love goes on and lessons we learn from those we love are embedded in our hearts.
May God and the power of the resurrection be with you all.
Carolyn and Emerson Wilson

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