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Mary Staponski Obituary

Mary Beth Staponski, 52, of Kansas City, MO passed away Sunday, October 30, 2005 at the Alpine North Nursing Home, Riverside, MO. Mass of Christian burial will be held at 11 a.m. on Wednesday, November 2, 2005 at St. Ann Catholic Church, Excelsior Springs, MO with Father William Caldwell officiating. There is no scheduled visitation however friends may call anytime Tuesday, October 1 from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. at the Polley Funeral Home, Excelsior Springs, MO. Burial will be in the Hillcrest Cemetery in Excelsior Springs, MO. Mary was born on June 22, 1953 in Kansas City, MO the daughter of Benjamin and Buhrl (Reed) Staponski. She graduated from Excelsior Springs High School in 1971. She attended the University of Columbia and graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree. While attaining her master degree in gerontology (the study of aging). She was commissioned to draft several bills that later became some of the laws used today for the care of the elderly. She received a law degree and served as Jackson County prosecutor. Survivors include one sister, Ann Elgin-Snyder and husband Brian of Kansas City, MO; two brothers, Joe Staponski and wife Vollie of Excelsior Springs, MO and Ben Staponski, Jr. and wife Brenda of Greenwood, MO; aunts and several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by both of her parents. (Arr; Polley Funeral Home, Excelsior Springs, MO (816)630-3388).

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Published by Kansas City Star on Nov. 1, 2005.

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Kathy (Blair) Washburn

March 3, 2006

I remember Mary from my teenage years. She was always smiling and upbeat. She had such drive and determination, and her life's accomplishments attest to that. My condolences to her family. Heaven is all the richer since she arrived there. You have my deepest sympathy.

Debra Bernier (Carder)

November 16, 2005

Mary is once again that young, strong, happy-go-lucky girl we all once knew and loved. Enjoy the other side until we join you there, my old friend. And, thanks for all the memories.

cathy and john cosentino

November 2, 2005

Our prayers and thoughts are with the family. She will be sadly missed.

Greg Werle'

November 1, 2005

The memories from our friendship as youths will always be there.

Kendra Tuck (Reed)

November 1, 2005

We had way too much fun together for lots of years. She will be missed, but I know she is at peace. My condolences to the family.

Chris Gorman

November 1, 2005

My thoughts and prayers go out to Mary's husband and family.

Patrick O'Dell

November 1, 2005

She was a wonderful soul to have known. I do remember her from High School. What a laughing, funny and really brilliant personality she had. Our condolances go out to her family in this time of great loss. May her soul rest in Heaven with our Lord.



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