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Mary VandenBoom Obituary
January 7, 1931 - February 9, 2022
Kansas City, Missouri - Mary Kay VandenBoom, beloved mother, grandmother, and friend to many, died peacefully in her Kansas City home on Wednesday, February 9, 2022 at the age of 91.
Mass of Christian burial will be held at 5:30 PM on Monday, February 14th, at Saint Peter's Church, 815 E Meyer Blvd, Kansas City, MO. Rosary will be prayed at 4:00 PM followed by a 4:30-5:30 PM visitation at Saint Peter's Church.
Mary Kay was born January 7, 1931 in Kansas City, Missouri to Frank and Cathleen Purcell. She attended Notre Dame de Sion, graduated from Mount Saint Scholastica, and went on to attend Avila College. She met Eugene "Gene" VandenBoom, Jr. and they were married on December 30, 1950 at St. Elizabeth's Church in Kansas City, Missouri.
In 1953, she, Gene, and their family joined St. Peter's Parish where she served in many volunteer roles up until her death. Mary Kay's dedication to her parish was of utmost importance to her. She was also a dedicated volunteer in various other roles such as, PTA President of St. Peter's School where her four children attended, RHS Sale-O-Rama, Cub Scouts as Den Mother, Kaleidoscope Volunteer, Saint Peter's Altar Society, Circle Prayer Group, Serra Club, and poll worker for local elections.
For 23 years, Mary Kay worked at Mercantile Bank (now U.S. Bank) at 63rd and Troost where she retired as Assistant Vice President/Customer Service.
Mary Kay was best known for her dedication to serving her community, her impeccable style, and her ability to make any stranger feel like a friend.
She was preceded in death by her loving husband, Eugene Henry VandenBoom, Jr. on April 26, 2007. She was also preceded in death by her daughter, Mary Christine Stanton on March 7th, 2021, and her parents, Frank and Cathleen Purcell.
She is survived by her sons, Dr. Eugene (Gene) Henry VandenBoom III (Kathy) of Kansas City, Missouri, Francis (Frank) Purcell VandenBoom of Baltimore, Maryland, and James (Jim) Hugh VandenBoom of Kansas City, Missouri; her son-in-law, Mark Stanton of Liberty, Missouri; her grandchildren, Theresa Helms (Jesse) and Joseph VandenBoom; her great-grandchildren, Elias, Jonas, and Maeve Helms and Ary VandenBoom; her sister, Francis Borders (Ed-deceased); and her nieces and nephews.
In lieu of flowers, donations honoring Mary Kay can be made to St. Peter's Parish Endowment Fund.
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Patrick Byrne
July 17, 2024
Marcia Dennis (Thorman)
May 20, 2022
I just learned about Mary Kay´s passing. She and my mother were friends. Mom died two days after her 100th birthday. Mary Kay gave her a darling 100th birthday ornament. I cherish it. As newlyweds back in the early 80s, my husband Jim and I would occasionally overdraw our meager account. We´d go to Mary Kay at Mercantile and she´d fix it. Bless her heart.
bob gum
March 18, 2022
Correction please My sentence should read May Jesus Place his healing hand upon you sorry that i said healthy hand bob
bob Gum
March 18, 2022
Frank I never had the pleasure of meeting your Mom but it sure sounds as though she was a wonderful Christian who brought love and joy to many . I truly hope she had a happy death and know she is with our Lord and Savior now . May Jesus place his healthy hand upon you as you morn her passing . Bob gum
Joe, Sue, Frances, Jeff Vandergriff
February 18, 2022
We send our prayers in solidarity with you for a wonderful mother.
Please accept our condolences for her passing, and the celebration of the powerful faith she helped instill in you. All the best! Be well. Joe and siblings
Maria Roth
February 14, 2022
Rest in peace Mary .
Laura Dold
February 14, 2022
Mary Kay was a friend of my mothers from the St Peter´s widows group. She was the matriarch of St Peter´s parish. From stories I´ve heard, this is a big loss to the parish and the community. My condolences to her family and loved ones.
Kate Meiners
February 13, 2022
Mary Kay would visit my mom, Rose Marie Super, when she lived on Edgevale Rd. and was incapacitated after a fall. We all loved her and I looked forward to her visits because she was so entertaining! She had a heart of gold! Rest In Peace Mrs. "Boomer" and God Bless you and your entire family
Sandee VandenBoom
February 12, 2022
I am so sorry for your loss. Mary Kay was a beautiful, loving person whom I adored. I will miss her dearly. My thoughts and prayer are with you.
Darla and Fred Kiedrowski
February 12, 2022
We have enjoyed so many fun dinners with her. She was never short of comments and making people feel comfortable in any environment. She will be missed.
Louis & Linda Tate
February 12, 2022
Frank we are so sorry to learn of your mother's passing. I know that her illness and passing has been hard on you. Although I never met your mother, her obituary reads alot like my mother's. A christian lady who loved her church, family and community. I'm sure that if she were here she would tell you to mourn no more because she is now in a better place. We love you brother!
Louis
Kathleen Bradley
February 11, 2022
Mary Kay was always so kind to me and my family when we lived in Kansas City. I am sorry to hear of her passing, as I know she will be missed.
Cathie and Rick Thomas
February 11, 2022
Gene and Kathy
So sorry to hear of your mother’s death. My mother died on Feb. 7th and is the 3rd entry behind your mom on the Muehlebach site. It’s tough to lose our moms. Thinking of you and hoping you find peace in your mom’s passing.
leo f kallenberger
February 11, 2022
SORRY GENE YOUR MOTHER WAS ALOVELY LADY
Marti Lee
February 11, 2022
Mary Kay and I spent many years together working in Southtown. She was a dedicated, joyful and a great friend. She made a difference in the community and will be well remembered.
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