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Matthew Joseph Dillane Jr., 62, Overland Park, Kan., formerly of Indianapolis, passed away Monday, July 19, 2010. He was born in Indianapolis on September 7, 1947, to Matthew J. and Anna L. Matthews Dillane. Matt attended St. Philip Neri Grade School and was a 1965 graduate of Cathedral High School. He also attended Purdue University and was a member of Phi Kappa Tau Fraternity. Matt spent 28 years in the banking and investments services business. His career began at Indiana National Bank in Indianapolis, Ind. In 1983 he moved to Kansas City to become a senior manager in the Cash Management and Corporate Services Departments at Boatmen's First National Bank of Kansas City. His career at Boatmen's included the positions of senior vice president of Boatmen's Investment Services' Kansas City office. He went on to become president of Boatmen's Investment Services at the corporate offices in St. Louis, Mo. In 1998, after a 28-year career in banking and investments, Matt became a managing partner at Arwood and Associates, a recruiting firm in Overland Park, Kan. In July 2002, Matt expanded his career horizons when he became president of Junior Achievement of Middle America. He guided non- profit work at Junior Achievement for seven years and was instrumental in helping equip hundreds of school children in the Kansas City area toward a bright future. Prior to coming to Junior Achievement as its president, Matt spent six years as a member of its board of directors and a member of its executive committee. He served three years on Junior Achievement's Funding Finance Committee and was a recipient of the Junior Achievement Bronze Leadership Award. Matt's other non-profit work included serving time as a member of the board of directors of the Marillac Center for Children in Kansas City. Matt was a member of Kansas City's Downtown Rotary Club, and an active member of Church of the Ascension in Overland Park. Matt was preceded in death by his father and is survived by his wife, Diane Dillane; children Stephen, Michael, Slavie and Toni Dillane; grandchild Marti Dillane; mother, Anna Dillane; sisters Susan M. Powell (Michael), Theresa A. Dillane, and many nieces, nephews, cousins and dear friends. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Monday, July 26, 2010, at 1 p.m. at St. Mark Catholic Church, 535 E. Edgewood Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46227. Visitation will be held at St. Mark Church on Monday from 11 a.m. until the time of Mass. Burial will be in Calvary Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to the memorial fund for Matt Dillane at Metcalf Bank, 15100 Metcalf Ave., Overland Park, KS 66223, payable to Diane Dillane. Online condolences may be shared with the family at orileyfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Jul. 23, 2010.

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Mike Dugan

September 28, 2010

To the Dillane Family:

I was lucky enough to have Matt as a classmate while at Cathedral High School.
Matt was a top notch student,athlete and a friend for All of us.He will be surely missed.
You will be remembered in my prayers.

September 1, 2010

Candle burns for you. Diane and Slavi and Toni and Terrance

Olen Dobkins

August 11, 2010

Diane,

Barb and I are so sorry to hear of Matt’s passing. We will be praying that you and your family find peace
during these difficult times.

Mark Richards

August 10, 2010

We at Marillac were very sorry to hear of Matt's death. Matt was on our board of directors back in the early 1990's and he provided us leadership when we needed it most. When he returned to Kansas City Matt and I reconnected and remained in contact. We will miss him greatly. We will keep you and your family in our prayers and thoughts.

August 4, 2010

Mrs. Dillane and Slavi-
I am so sorry to hear of your husband / father's death. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Please let me know, as school starts, if there is anything I can do.
Sincerely,
Miss Sally Sparks - LKMS Resource Teacher

Jerry and Patti Weakley

July 30, 2010

Diane,
Patti and I are so deeply saddened to return home from a trip and learn of this terrible news. Matt was such a positive person with a wonderful personality and sense of humor. I respected him so very much for his desire and hard work to improve the lives of so many young children through his work on the Board of JA and then as its president. We will miss him and send you and the family our most sincere prayers.

Pamela Miller

July 27, 2010

I knew Matt during our days at Boatmen's, and touched base with him when he joined Junior Achievement. Matt was a very good, kind man who always wore a smile. My sympathies to his family and all those whose lives he touched.

Paula Willett

July 24, 2010

I met Matt through Rotary and will really miss him. Matt was such a kind soul and it made you feel good just to be around him. My heartfelt sorrow goes out to Diane and the kids. Matt was taken from you far too soon.

Kelly Dennis

July 23, 2010

I enjoyed working with Matt at Boatmen's bank. He was a great leader for the Investment Banking Unit. He will be missed, my thoughts and prayers go to his family

Bret Watson

July 23, 2010

Matt was a close friend and his influences will last forever. He was a very special one of a kind person. The loss of my friend cuts deep and he will be missed by many but not forgotten.

July 23, 2010

Diane and family, Darrell and I are so very sorry to hear about Matt. What a shock! Our deepest sympathy to all of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sincerely,
Darrell and Jan Huff

Andres Dominguez

July 23, 2010

I had many a conversation with Matt, about financial education and asset building. A man of dignity who always wanting to do what was right for young people.

Andres M. Dominguez

Dale Erickson

July 23, 2010

My prayers are with you Diane...please give Toni a hug from me.

Dale Erickson (TLC for Children & Families)

Don Stebbins

July 23, 2010

Those who knew Matt well will miss him dearly. His untimely loss is felt and is hitting us hard. We were blessed by his friendship and will continue to sense Matt's spirit, and we will be here for his family who he loved very much.

Nancy Scheer

July 23, 2010

We were so sorry and shocked to hear the terrible news. We have run into Matt several times fairly recently and he seemed great. Our condolences to you, Diane, and the children. Nancy and Dave Scheer

Shauna Scheidegger

July 23, 2010

Stephen -
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Father. I love you and will be thinking about you and praying for you. Love Cookie

IRISH BLESSING
May you see God's light on the path ahead
When the road you walk is dark.
May you always hear,
Even in your hour of sorrow,
The gentle singing of the lark.
When times are hard may hardness
Never turn your heart to stone,
May you always remember
When the shadows fall-
You do not walk alone.

July 23, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of Matt's passing. Matt was more than just a close friend, he was my confidant and brother. I will miss our sprited discussions about politics as well as issues in general. Matt was a great person and very much a gentlemen. God bless you Matthew.

Steve Holmes

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