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Gary Becker

1939 - 2018

Gary Becker obituary, 1939-2018, Louisville, CA

BORN

1939

DIED

2018

Gary Becker Obituary

LOUISVILLE -Gary Becker, the founder of the Becker Law Office, was a caring and compassionate man, not just to his family and friends, but to the many people his law firm represented. Gary was a driven and determined attorney and an energetic advocate for those less fortunate than him. He was curious and complicated and uniquely fashionable. He loved good food, parties, arts and culture. And he lived a radically examined life, increasingly devoted to the spirit. Gary was born on May 8, 1939, in Tell City, Indiana. He attended Indiana University, where he earned both a bachelors and a law degree. He was a distinguished trial lawyer for 20 years in Tell City. In 1985 he founded the Becker Law Office in Kentucky and grew it into a successful plaintiffs' advocacy practice that continues to this day. After his retirement from active engagement in the Becker Law Office, he moved to Santa Barbara, California, where his mission became totally focused on his charitable and philanthropic work. He died peacefully at home on June 21, 2018. Gary was drawn to those in need and he promoted and supported many social justice organizations. He was particularly passionate about JustFaith Ministries based in Louisville, which transformed him; Fonkoze USA, which brought him into solidarity with the poor; and La Casa de Maria Retreat Center in Santa Barbara, which became his spiritual home. He served as a Deacon at the Catholic Church of the Epiphany in Louisville, before retiring to California to be near his children and grandchildren. Most people remember Gary for his pioneering advocacy for injury victims when he became one of the first lawyers to start advertising for his legal services on television in 1985. Met with criticism, Gary raised awareness about the common man's ability to make claims to seek fair compensation against insurance companies and powerful corporations. When he started the Becker Law Office in Louisville, Gary already was a successful trial lawyer in Southern Indiana and was remembered as such for decades after he left Tell City Indiana, making Louisville his home. He obtained a successful acquittal for a man accused of murder and represented dozens of local farmers against the government's condemnation of their farms for the construction of Highway 64 and for the Hoosier National Forest lakes, which affirmed his calling for justice by representing the common man. Like Abraham Lincoln, and all lawyers prior to the creation of large, corporate law firms in the early 1900's, lawyers engaged in commercially protected free speech by advertising their services until these powerful corporate firms had the practice banned. The US Supreme Court overturned that ban in the late 1970's. Afterwards, lawyer advertising became commonplace. Gary will be very greatly missed by Mary, his wife of 54 years, and by his daughters, Holly (married to Dermott Downs,) and Candice (married to Curt Schwarm,) and his son, Jeremy Becker, as well as by his granddaughters, Tallulah Downs and Ava Schwarm. He will live on in the memories of his sister, Meredith Oberhausen, his mother-in-law, and his many sisters-in-law, brothers-in-law, nieces, nephews, and friends. And he will be missed by his colleagues and former employees at Becker Law Office. His family gives thanks for the fine caregivers who tended Gary at home during his last years. And the family is grateful for the support of the members of Social Venture Partners, the Catholic Church of the Beatitudes, and the Immaculate Heart Community. Gary was always grateful for the many gifts in his life and he sometimes expressed this in poetry. In this world of too much pain Love has broken through again. I want to celebrate - Break out the champagne! There will be a memorial celebration of Gary's wonderful life at a church service to be held at the Catholic Church of the Beatitudes in Santa Barbara, California, at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, September 1st, followed by lunch. A dinner and wake will be held on the evening of Friday, August 31st.

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Published by Lexington Herald-Leader on Jul. 15, 2018.

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JAMES KAISER

November 11, 2025

I think this is a great pic of Gary & Mary with Joe Louis (Heavy Weight Champ) and Bill Kaiser (Mr. PowerBilt and 3X KY Open Champ) & Gay Brewer (67 Masters Champ who also played PowerBilt Clubs). Please let me know if this is the Beckers?

Will Johnson

December 13, 2022

Dear Jeremy.
So sorry for you loss.
Yours Truly.
Will Johnson

July 3, 2019

Our heartfelt condolences to your family. May beautiful memories bring you a sense of comfort, always. John 6:40

June 4, 2019

Thank You

Pat and Chris Bowles

July 24, 2018

Gary,
May God-bless and keep you.
May God's face shine on you.
May God be kind to you,
And give you peace.

Mary, we will humbly accept some of your pain this day as you try to make sense of your loss of Gary.
We are so sorry. Love,

Mike & Lisa Ritchie

July 22, 2018

I remember Gary standing in front of the Epiphany community giving the homily. I always felt that Gary was speaking to me and more often than not what he said would bring me to tears. Gary once told my husband That I have the gift of opinion. I have never been quite sure what to make of that.
Mike and I feel honored to have known you and Gary. Mary, may you and your family find peace in the memories you share of a truly gifted and spiritual man.
Mike & Lisa Ritchie

Holly Moremen

July 19, 2018

Mary , I had the privilege to meet you many times (@Copy Cat Video) and Gary a few times when I managed Miracle Dry Cleaners and he dropped off his amazing white cuffed shirts and stylish suits. I wanted to tell you Im thinking of you and your family during this difficult time of your Lives. You take care

Betty Carney

July 18, 2018

We send our condolences to you Mary. Perry and I remember so well our visit with you and Gary as he began his Diaconate journey. The Louisville archdiocese was blessed to have you both. May the good Lord keep you in his loving care.

Rhonda Curry

July 18, 2018

Mary, I am so sorry for your loss. Gary will always be remembered for his dedication to helping others.

Carmelita Dunn

July 16, 2018

Mary, My prayers and sympathy at the death of your grand partner,
My all your special memories offer you and your family comfort and peace.
Blessings and hope,
Sister Carmelita Dunn

Mike and Linda Sostarich

July 16, 2018

We are forever thankful for Gary's (and Mary's) support when we opened our travel agency many years ago. Always thoughtful and compassionate. Earth weeps and heaven rejoices. We hope to see you again in paradise. Many condolences to the Becker family.

July 16, 2018

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

gary tucker

July 15, 2018

my name is gary tucker.i was one of garys first clients here in louisville ky.i will always remember gary and the great case he won for me concerning churchill downs.i was sadden to hear of your loss i will always remember gary,such a nice kind caring man who always put the people first.god be with you gary and your wonderful family.

Tc Aikens

July 15, 2018

The loss of a cherished loved one leaves a hole that only God can close, however the cherished memories we have of them can last a lifetime.

July 10, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss. May you receive strength and comfort from God. "He will make you firm, he will make you strong, he will firmly ground you." - 1Peter 5:10

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