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JAMES KAISER
November 11, 2025
I think this is a great pic of Gary & Mary with Joe Louis (Heavy Weight Champ) and Bill Kaiser (Mr. PowerBilt and 3X KY Open Champ) & Gay Brewer (67 Masters Champ who also played PowerBilt Clubs). Please let me know if this is the Beckers?
Will Johnson
December 13, 2022
Dear Jeremy.
So sorry for you loss.
Yours Truly.
Will Johnson
July 3, 2019
Our heartfelt condolences to your family. May beautiful memories bring you a sense of comfort, always. John 6:40
June 4, 2019
Thank You
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Pat and Chris Bowles
July 24, 2018
Gary,
May God-bless and keep you.
May God's face shine on you.
May God be kind to you,
And give you peace.
Mary, we will humbly accept some of your pain this day as you try to make sense of your loss of Gary.
We are so sorry. Love,
Mike & Lisa Ritchie
July 22, 2018
I remember Gary standing in front of the Epiphany community giving the homily. I always felt that Gary was speaking to me and more often than not what he said would bring me to tears. Gary once told my husband That I have the gift of opinion. I have never been quite sure what to make of that.
Mike and I feel honored to have known you and Gary. Mary, may you and your family find peace in the memories you share of a truly gifted and spiritual man.
Mike & Lisa Ritchie
Holly Moremen
July 19, 2018
Mary , I had the privilege to meet you many times (@Copy Cat Video) and Gary a few times when I managed Miracle Dry Cleaners and he dropped off his amazing white cuffed shirts and stylish suits. I wanted to tell you Im thinking of you and your family during this difficult time of your Lives. You take care
Betty Carney
July 18, 2018
We send our condolences to you Mary. Perry and I remember so well our visit with you and Gary as he began his Diaconate journey. The Louisville archdiocese was blessed to have you both. May the good Lord keep you in his loving care.
Rhonda Curry
July 18, 2018
Mary, I am so sorry for your loss. Gary will always be remembered for his dedication to helping others.
Carmelita Dunn
July 16, 2018
Mary, My prayers and sympathy at the death of your grand partner,
My all your special memories offer you and your family comfort and peace.
Blessings and hope,
Sister Carmelita Dunn
Mike and Linda Sostarich
July 16, 2018
We are forever thankful for Gary's (and Mary's) support when we opened our travel agency many years ago. Always thoughtful and compassionate. Earth weeps and heaven rejoices. We hope to see you again in paradise. Many condolences to the Becker family.
July 16, 2018
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
gary tucker
July 15, 2018
my name is gary tucker.i was one of garys first clients here in louisville ky.i will always remember gary and the great case he won for me concerning churchill downs.i was sadden to hear of your loss i will always remember gary,such a nice kind caring man who always put the people first.god be with you gary and your wonderful family.
Tc Aikens
July 15, 2018
The loss of a cherished loved one leaves a hole that only God can close, however the cherished memories we have of them can last a lifetime.
July 10, 2018
I am so sorry for your loss. May you receive strength and comfort from God. "He will make you firm, he will make you strong, he will firmly ground you." - 1Peter 5:10
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