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Chris preston
February 25, 2025
Dr. Tom was my Doctor when I was growing up and he was the best. He always made me feel better. So sad that he is gone. He will surely be missed. Great doctor and great human being. Need more doctors and people like Dr. Tom.
Nancy
February 28, 2010
When our son was placed with us for adoption at the age of 18 months, he had a diagnosis of 'shaken baby syndrome.' Dr. Pinkstaff was so helpful to us, not only as a physician but as someone with a great deal of compassion, experience and wisdom. Also, he always had such a pleasant demeanor and he was so good with our son! He was an exceptional doctor ~ so gifted! I am so sorry for your loss!
Nancy Hayes Kirk
July 4, 2009
Mrs. Pinkstaff, John and family,
Dr. Tom was my and my sister's pediatrician from the time we were young children and when we both had children, he was their pediatrician. My daughter, who is almost 19, was 4 when Dr. Tom retired. We stood in his exam room and cried. He was without exception one of the best people I have ever had the privilege of knowing. I can't imagine a world without Dr. Tom in it, though I'm sure he was greeted with great joy in Heaven. I did not know of his passing until today.
I am so sorry for your and all of our loss, but we are better people for having known and loved him.
With great sympathy,
Nancy Hayes Kirk
Dr. Debbie Sowell
June 14, 2009
Dear Pinkstaff family,
I was shocked to see Tom's death in the national AAP News today. He was one of the great people that I had the privilige of working with in the Academy of Pediatrics.He was a wonderful and kind physician. I mourn his passing.
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Rebecca Stevens-Doan
May 7, 2009
Dr. Pinkstaff will never be replaced in my book. He was the best doctor that I ever had and I am now 32 years old. My favorite memory was him pulling the ball out of my ear...he will be greatly missed by all. My heart goes out to his family.
Marie Lester-Weiskircher
April 24, 2009
Dee and family,
I will never forget the years our families shared as friends and Tom as Greg, Jeff & Laura's Dr. and friend. I was so sorry to hear of Tom's passing as he will be sorely missed by all the lives that he touched over the years. Please know that my prayers will be with you in the coming months as "I have walked a mile in your shoes".
Jeff Lester
April 23, 2009
He was a terrific doctor and an even better friend of my dad. I remember his pipe (at least I believe that was him since it was a lifetime ago) but most of all his laugh.
Mauri McGill Austria
April 23, 2009
Dr. Pinkstaff gave me stitches under my eye from a dog bite when I was four years old (I am now 40) in Sikeston, MO. I remember him telling me I was "brave" (I had to ask my mother what that meant) and gave me a quarter for being so still. I remember this moment well and really thought the world of him. What a great doctor. My condolences to his family.
Donna Mandina
April 22, 2009
I was saddened to hear of Dr. Tom's passing. He was my daughters peditrician, whom just had a son of her own. The first thing she said was "Mom I want Dr. Tom to be his doctor" Only to find out he had retired. He was so well thought of and a wonderful doctor. He will be missed.
Ruth Greenberg
April 22, 2009
We were saddened to hear of Tom's passing. UofL's School of Medicine, Office of Medical Education, enjoyed having him on our various committees and students certainly enjoyed him as their mentor in the Interdisciplinary Clinical Courses. Please accept our sincere sympathies.
Mary Carolyn Adams
April 22, 2009
Dear Dee & Family,
I was very sad to hear of Dr. Tom's passing. I truly enjoyed working with him at Missouri Delta Medical Center in Sikeston, Missouri. He was always so kind and wonderful to his patients and their families. He was a joy to work with. My deepest sympathy to your entire family, I know that he will be greatly missed.
Marcie Burton
April 21, 2009
Doctor Pinkstaff was a joy to work with at UCHS. His presence changed the whole venue. I enjoyed his sense of humor and his tireless teaching efforts as a resident at Kosair's from 93-96. I am sure that he has been given a huge welcome home party by the saints!
Jennifer Moore
April 21, 2009
Dr. Tom was my son's pediatrician when he was very young. He is 18 years old and still remembers Dr. Tom "pulling" a ball out of his ear at each visit. He was a wonderful and kind doctor. My thoughts and prayers are with the Pinkstaff family.
Nancy Crewe
April 20, 2009
Dr. Tom was a kind, caring, and encouraging man and a top notch physician. He was my son Luke's pediatrician for several years. He will be greatly missed.
carmen stokes-patterson
April 18, 2009
My family met the Doc in 1992 after a divorce and he was the greatest with all of us. He didn't know that I was scared of closed in places would come in with his smile and help all of us relax.We will miss him dearly Lexi,Noel,Taylor.Dalton and grandaughter Celeste. Thank you doc for everything hope you have many great memories like us. Carmen
Terry Durbin
April 17, 2009
My daughter and I loved Dr. Pinkstaff. He was my daughters pediatrician from the time she was born in 1980, until she was 17. I never went there for an appointment that Dr. Pinkstaff didn't come skipping into the room, or singing, and he always had a big smile on his face. He was genuine. I feel so blessed to have had him as my daughters pediatrician for all those years.
cindy putman
April 16, 2009
Many people have ask me to give the directions to watch Dr. Pinkstaff on WCTE's House Call .
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April 16, 2009
My wife and I had the honor of working with Dr.Pinkstaff in the Pediatric Clinic at the Univeristy of Kentucky. What a remarkable man. He touched so many lives with his kindness, love of people, especially children, and joyfulness. We will greatly miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family during this time.
Dr. Pinkstaff will always be remembered in our hearts.
Dan and Allie Gallo
Kristen Frarey
April 16, 2009
Dr. T will surely be missed. I will always remember his dedication and passion for teaching our community about autism. He was a kind and wonderful man!
Reggie Brown
April 16, 2009
Although we did not know each other; Dr. Pinkstaff's appearance on our program will always be remembered and appreciated. Our deepest sympathy to his family.
Belinda Brawner
April 16, 2009
Dr. Pinkstaff was our daughter's pediatrician in Sikeston, Missouri. I remember how loving and kind he was every time we would bring her in for an appointment. It seems like only yesterday when he told us he was moving to Lexington, Ky. We were so sad but we knew that the children of Lexington was getting a wonderful pediatrician. We have thought about Dr. Pinkstaff many times thru the years. We were so sad to hear of his passing. He was a wonderful person and a very loving pediatrician to all his kids that saw him. To his family we want to thank them for sharing him with his patients. We are truly sorry for your loss.
Cindy Putman
April 16, 2009
What a blessing it was for me to spend one short hour with this remarkable man. He was such a delight that the guys in our production truck wanted to meet him after the broadcast.He was warm and charming, like a cross between Mr. Rogers and Santa Claus. His natural ease with people really shined in a room of strangers. How sorry I am for your loss but feel blessed to have had one hour to sit by his side.
The staff of WCTE TV and Algood School sends their prayers.
Our "Focus ON Autism" show can be viewed @ www.wcte.org
Tonia Wheeler
April 15, 2009
Jane,
You and your family are in my prayers. May your great memories comfort you during this time.
Synthia Scott-Burchell
April 15, 2009
Jane,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours during this time.
Wanda & Anthony Lavely
April 15, 2009
Our daughter has already signed the guest book, but Wanda and I would like to add our condolences. As parents of three young children in Lexington, Dr. Pinkstaff was our "security blanket." Later, when we moved to Louisville, Dr. Pinkstaff even saw the kids at his clinic whenever they needed him. Ironically, we learned of his death when our oldest daughter tried to contact him for advice in her current pregnancy regarding vacininations and autism. We mourn his passing. Sincerely, Anthony & Wanda Lavely
Charolette Workman-Garland
April 15, 2009
Dr. Pinkstaff was my physician growing up. I will never forget his cheerfullness and how he had a nickname for all his patients. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
Vanessa Lavely
April 15, 2009
To the Pinkstaff family:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you can take some comfort in knowing how much joy your husband/father/grandfather brought into so many lives. Dr. Pinkstaff was my pediatrician when I lived in Lexington, Kentucky, though my siblings and I (current ages 25, 27, and 28) returned to see him even after we moved (and long after the age at which most people stop seeing a pediatrician!). It still makes me smile to remember how excited I was when Dr. Pinkstaff “magically” pulled a rubber bouncy ball out of my ear during each checkup. Thank you for sharing him with our family. We will remember him fondly.
Kimberly Hiller
April 15, 2009
I'm so sorry to hear of Dr. Pinkstaff's passing. My father was a Lex Clinic surgeon, and Dr. Tom treated my children on occasion. He was such a tremendous doctor with a warm personality and will surely be missed.
My prayers are with your family.
larena huff
April 15, 2009
Dr. Pinkstaff was my pediatrician-I remember him always letting me get in the treasure box and he always managed to pull a bracelet or a coin from behind my ear - he always knew how to make people smile!! He will truly be missed.
Jennifer Williamson
April 15, 2009
I was stunned and deeply saddened to hear of Dr. Pinkstaff's passing. I had known of Dr. Pinkstaff for years, as he was the pediatrician for many of my friends growing up. But, I was recently blessed to have met this wonderful man and doctor in person when I took my foster child to see him at the Commission, and then at UK. He was always warm, compassionate and caring, and yes an AWESOME bedside manner. He put a smile on everyone's face. I just can't express in words what this man has meant to so many children in need. The community and the children will miss him so much. God Bless you and keep you. Our deepest sympathy to his family.
Liz Pelphrey
April 15, 2009
Words cannot describe what a blessing Dr. Tom was to our family. Truly one of God's angels put on earth to comfort and heal. We will never forget you Dr. Tom!
Dave Weber
April 15, 2009
Anyone born in Olney has to be a great guy. Our sympathy to Joyce, Phil, and Dr. Pinkstaff's family.
Dave & Liz Weber
Shorye Payne, M.D.
April 15, 2009
Thanks for Dr. Pinkstaff sincere service throughout his career to quality healthcare.
Jennifer Meredith Garner
April 15, 2009
Jane, sorry to hear about the passing of your dad.
Dot Peace
April 15, 2009
Dee and family: I met and worked with Dr. Pinkstaff here at UK in peds clinic. He was one of God's Specialties and has surely earned his Wings. I enjoyed making coffee and sharing everyday with him. He was my buddy! Can't express how much he will be missed. Your family are all in my prayers. Dot
robby parrish
April 15, 2009
im very sorry to hear of toms passing. he was a remarkable , loving and caring dr.,father and grandfather. he will be greatly missed.
valorie Turner
April 14, 2009
DR. Pinkstaff keep my kids laughing when ever they had an apt. He was such a pleasant and happy person. 27,29,32 yrs old.My prayers are with you.
Mark McDonald
April 14, 2009
I was deeply saddened when I heard the news yesterday. Tom was a friend, a mentor, a father-figure and a colleague to me. I had the privilege to serve as a resident for him over 10 years ago. We shared the city of St. Louis as a theme to many of our conversations. Despite not seeing him for 7 years, we were reunited last May when I surprisingly ran into him at UK when I was there interviewing. When returning again in September, my only request was that I have lunch with Tom Pinkstaff. He never changed- always sincerely remembering everything about my personal life, my family, my career with unbelievable detail. His bedside manor was unmatched. The respectful way he treated patients, parents, students, residents and colleagues should be an example to all. I have never had the pleasure of meeting you, but Tom spoke highly of all of his family. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I will miss him dearly, but will never forget him.
Teresa Conley
April 14, 2009
Dr. Tom was my three children's pediatrician and they loved going to see him. He was also my grandson's Doctor. He will be greatly missed. He was a kind and genuine man.
Kimberly Wright
April 14, 2009
I'm sorry to hear the lost of a special person like Dr. Pinkstaff, he was my daughter pediatrician and she love him to death, he was always a happy person no matter if he had a bad day or not. My prayers are with you and yor family.
The Wright Family
Jackie Evans
April 14, 2009
I have 3 daughters, now 23 to 28 yrs old. My husband and I interviewed many pediatrican's while pregnant with our 1st daughter. When we talked with Dr Tom, there was no doubt he was the one. He was truly a unique, wonderful doctor and person, my girls just loved him!! We were all very sad when he left for UofL when my oldest was 14. He made you feel like you and your children were the only ones in the world that mattered! He was always there when you needed him! I will never forget you Dr Tom! There will never be another like you!!
Judy Quinlan
April 14, 2009
My fond memories of Dr. Tom are of a magic pediatrician who would pull balls ffrom my children's ears. Their wide-eyed reaction was priceless. He would sing a song about their name as he entered the examine room. Dr. Tom would always ask "and how is mom?". When he came into Winn-Dixie he would always make you feel he had all the time in the world to visit. As the years would pass, he began talking of his grandchildren with such genuine love. You could tell, they brought him such joy. We will all miss this gem of a man. He was very special.
Jessica Heath-Ahlgrim
April 14, 2009
I feel extremely blessed to have had the opportunity to work with Dr. Pinkstaff. He was truly a ray of sunshine, and always had the most pleasant disposition. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and loved ones, may his ray of sunshine live on.
Jennifer Hatton-Shell
April 14, 2009
Dr. Pinkstaff was my childhood doctor. He was the best. I always knew that he would find Smurfette in my ear. He was a wonderful Doctor. I am sorry for the loss of such a great man.
Lynda Sanders
April 14, 2009
To all of the Pinkstaff family,
I first met Dr. Pinkstaff when I was a resident at UK in the late 80's. I got to know him better after starting into practice at Central Baptist Hospital here in Lexington. Tom always had a kind word for everyone and was truly a delight to know. He will be sorely missed. My deepest sympathies.
Nicole Martin
April 14, 2009
I had the pleasure of meeting Dr. Pinkstaff just this past October. He was always full of energy and spirit. He made me and my son always feel welcomed and never was hesitant about answering any questions. He will be greatly missed by all who have had the pleasure of knowing him. May his family find peace in their time of sorrow, but know that they will meet again someday.
"Jude" Elliott
April 14, 2009
I worked with Dr. Tom for many years, and enjoyed every minute. He was always a ray of sunlight when he entered a room,
All my love and prayers to Dee, and family as well as his many many friends and work "families".
Sandy Vice
April 14, 2009
I had the pleasure of working with Dr. Pinkstaff at the Commission. He was the kindest, funniest physician I have ever seen! He made me feel very welcome, and like I had known him for years even though I only knew him for a short time. Dr. Pinkstaff was constantly telling me to "take the rest of the day off!". Thank you Dr. Pinkstaff for blessing my life just by knowing you. You are truly missed.
Richard Giles
April 14, 2009
I am honored to have known and also have the opportunity to be associated with Dr. Tom as a colleague working with young people with learning disabilities, and providing hearing tests for his patients. I will always remember his great sense of humor and love for the children he served.
LaShondia Higgins
April 14, 2009
I had the pleasure of working for Dr. Pinkstaff at the Medical Home for Coordinated Pediatrics. I loved him and our patients loved. I will truly miss him he really was a great man and taught me alot. I LOVE YOU DR.PINKSTAFF and you will always be in my heart thanks for everything.
Emma and David Henry
April 14, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about Dr Pinkstaff, he was my childrens doctor as well as a coworker to both myself and my husband at Lexington Clinic. We also sonsidered him to be a friend and a part of the family
Lisa Slone-Logan
April 14, 2009
With Gods help, may your wonderful memories carry you through your loss.
From the family of patient Braxton Steele Adams.
Kristie McFarland
April 14, 2009
I worked with Dr. Pinkstaff almost a year at University of Ky in the general peds clinic and every day he was here was not a dull one. He was always so lively and a great person to be around. He always asked how you and your family were doing... He generally seem interested and cared. Then of course he would tell us to take the rest of the day off so now Dr. Pinkstaff it is your turn to take the rest of the day off. You helped so many people and we are extremely sad to see you go. We can only hope that your memory will live on and that you are in a better place. Thanks for being such a great man and teacher.
Jill Lowry
April 14, 2009
Dr. Pinkstaff's love for and dedication to children will live on through those who knew him and through the countless pediatricians he trained. I am honored to have worked with him at Kentucky Children's Hospital.
Kristy Young
April 14, 2009
Dr. Pinkstaff was my pediatrician. I will never forget him, and the funny things he would say to ease my anxiety during visits. I feel blessed to have known him as my pediatrician. He will be missed by many.
Jan Barkett
April 14, 2009
I was very sad to hear of Dr. Pinkstaff's death and extend my deepest sympathy to his family. Although he practiced in Sikeston only a few years, he was loved and respected by everyone who knew him.
Melissa Linton
April 14, 2009
I had the honor of being taught by Dr. Pinkstaff during my first year of medical school. He taught me so much about being a physician and I feel so blessed just to have known him. I don't believe there are many men like him left in this world and he will be sorely missed, but in the hearts of many forever. My heart and prayers go out to his family.
Donna Maloy
April 14, 2009
Dr. Tom was an amzaing man and gifted care giver. He was the first doctor my kids (now 25 and 28) ever had. My kids LOVED going to see him - even if they were sick. When my son was little he told me "when I grow up, I want to be a magician like Dr. Tom." How sweet he was. The first thing he asked when he walked through the examining room door was, "how is Mom doing." He made me feel so good about their care as I'm sure he did with all of the parents whose kids were his kids.
Dr. Tom - you will be missed! My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Becky Wathen
April 14, 2009
I worked with Dr. Pinkstaff for some time and I feel blessed to have known him. He always made us smile and was loved and respected by both staff and patients. He will be greatly missed.
Brenda Shearer
April 14, 2009
I am so sorry for this loss. I could not imagine raising our children without the help of Dr. Tom. What an amazing man and physician. The contribution he made to our lives continues. I hold all family and friends in my prayers. Namaste.
Brenda Hickey
April 14, 2009
To the family, my deepest sympathy. I worked with Dr. Tom during his UCHS years and I will miss his infectious laughter, his wonderful stories and his beautiful uplifting nature. I will truly miss you Dr. Tom.
Therese Moyler
April 14, 2009
My condolences to the family of "Dr. Tom" as he was called by many. Dr. Tom was the pediatrician for my kids. When they were sick, he always made them feel better by showing them a magic trick of pulling pencils from their ears. He touched many lives and will never be forgotten. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
The Moyler Family
Kelly Dauk
April 14, 2009
Dr. Tom is one of those special people who will always remain in those he cared for, taught and worked with. I am truly blessed to have known him.
Art & Kathy Nonneman
April 14, 2009
It is not possible to express how much Dr. Tom meant to this community, and to us personally, over the years. Many persons profess Christian faith but fail to live it. Tom's life reflected the reality of God's love for all. His example and our memories of him live on.
Laura Ebert
April 14, 2009
Dr. Tom took care of me and both of my children. He always had a smile on his face, a jax ball in his pocket, and an answer to your question. A true hero on behalf of children and a great man among men. He will be missed.
April 14, 2009
Dee and Family,
Please know that we will pray for your healing over the loss of Tom. He has been a blessing in our lives and will certainly be missed. As deep as our hearts are saddened by this, we know that yours must be all the more so. We're grateful that God gave us Tom as long as He did. Now it's God's turn to enjoy Tom's quite, calm, and comforting presence.
Blessing be with you all.
Doug and Sharon Bruce
Misty Doty
April 14, 2009
I was honored to work with Dr. Pinkstaff. He was a joy to work with and to watch him interact with his staff and patients. He will be greatly missed. We all will have an empty spot in our hearts.
Amy Thomas
April 14, 2009
Dee and Family
I am so grateful that I had the pleasure of knowing Dr. Tom. He always had a way of making things seem alright. I will cherish the memories forever. I feel as if I have a special angel on my side now. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Emily Jackson
April 14, 2009
Dr. Tom was my pediatrician growing up. He was a great man who made the trip to the doctor easy for children and their parents. I wish my doctors now would find bouncy balls in my ears and hear She-Ra in my stomach! He will be greatly missed.
Ron & Donna Chapman
April 14, 2009
The most caring and loving person we have ever known. It was a great pleasure to call Dr. Tom our friend.
Dan Fulton
April 14, 2009
To all of the family, my thoughts and prayers are with each of you. "Dr. Tom" enriched the lives of everyone he touched and I am grateful for the opportunity to have known him.
Bryan Jackson
April 14, 2009
Dr. Tom was my doctor for at least ten years. I loved how he'd always find those bouncy balls stuck in my ears! He was always the most comforting and gentle man.
My sympathies to Dr. Tom's family; they have lost a wonderful man.
Fred Jackson
April 14, 2009
Dr. Tom was the first doctor our children remember. He was a wonderful man and physician. Even when the children were sick, their visit always ended with a smile, a hidden ball trick and a laugh. Dr. Tom will be missed by all.
Ellen Strode
April 14, 2009
I have had the pleasure and honor of working with Dr. Pinkstaff here at UK and he was a warm, loving and caring person both inside and out and I will truly miss him.
Amy Walls
April 14, 2009
Dr. Tom, how can i find the words to express our appreciation, grattitude, and love for you? He was the best Pediatrician for our foster/adoptive children, anyone could ever ask for. We started taking our little ones to him when they were less than a week old and they had the honor of being one of the first patients at the new pediatrics practice for foster children. Dr. Tom always had a smile on his face and a song in his heart. He gave our girls little nicknames we will never forget, and he truly cared about the children more than any doctor I have ever seen. He not only made sure the children were healthy and feeling well, but he always had the parents in mind too, and wanted to know how you were doing. He will never be forgotten and will be missed. We will tell our children when they are older what a wonderful man he was, and how he helped to care for them in their first days of life. We love you papaw Pinkstaff. -Amy, Suzanne, (Brenna, Melani & Dalia) God Bless all the family of Dr. Pinkstaff, thank you for sharing Dr. Tom with all of us.
James Farley
April 14, 2009
He was the best.
John & Phyllis Cronin
April 14, 2009
Dee and Family,
John and I are saddened by the passing of Tom. Our prayers are with you. We regret we are unable to attend the services for Tom as we are still in Florida. He was a very special gentleman devoted to children.
Phyllis and John Cronin
Connie Hatton
April 14, 2009
Dr. Tom was the greatest, barr none. His memory will long outlive him. Any child that had him loved him, as did their parents. I know that HEAVEN just became a far greater place as our beloved DR TOM is there. To his family, please accept our deepest sympathy
Carol Hatfield
April 14, 2009
Dr. Tom took care of his parents as well as his kids. The world was a better place for having him in it. His humor, kind matter, and true concern for others will be greatly missed. We love you, Dr. Tom.
Angela Gilliam
April 13, 2009
Dr. Pinkstaff was my daughter's pediatrician. He was extremely caring and loving to the children and such a friend for the parents. He was mine and my child's favorite doctor. We will always have fond memories of him.
Meagan Taylor
April 13, 2009
Dr Pinkstaff was my doctor growing up. He would always sing as he came in the door. He was the absolute best! But, anyone who knows him already knows that! I have recently been taking our foster children to him on Waller Ave. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
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