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Jimmie Lee Stelson

1933 - 2019

Jimmie Lee Stelson obituary, 1933-2019, Bremerton, WA

Jimmie Stelson Obituary

Jimmie Lee Stelson

Bremerton - Jimmie Lee Stelson, 86, died of pancreatic cancer at home in Bremerton, Washington surrounded by his wife and four daughters on August 14, 2019.

Jim was born to Nellie May and Earnest Nathan Stelson in Gypsum, Kansas on April 2, 1933 during the Great Depression. During WWII the family moved to Colorado Springs, Colorado. When Jim was in 7th grade his father died of a suspected brain tumor. He joined the Army National Guard at Colorado Springs High School and signed up for the Army, until they learned he was actually under-age after a jeep accident at Ft. Hood nearly led to his leg being amputated. They sent him back to graduate CSHS in 1952. He got a full-ride scholarship to play football at Colorado College and after a year, joined the U.S. Navy "to grow up and find myself." The Navy sent him to Washington, D.C. for Fire Control Electronics school in 1953, where he met his future wife Judy at a USO dance. But the Korean War was on and Jim was deployed with the Pacific Fleet. When he was not manning the machine guns, he and Judy exchanged international love letters and on August 26th of 1957 they were married in Washington, D.C.

He returned to Colorado College, then was accepted into the University of Alaska at Fairbanks. After driving the not-yet-paved Al-Can highway in their green carry-all nick-named "SheHasta" (as in She Hasta make it!), he and Judy endured minus 50 degree weather, and in 1960 he graduated with a Bachelor of Education degree. Daughter Janelle was his graduation gift four days later. The only teaching jobs available were in the Alaskan "bush", so he instead was recruited into the first class of Alaska State Troopers based out of Anchorage, where Joanne was born in 1962.

But he still wanted to be a teacher. Jim earned his Masters degree in Education Administration at the University of Washington in Seattle, and when he was offered a teaching/coaching position with East Bremerton High School, he became a "Knight". He was twice selected "Teacher of the Year" and coached his wrestlers to 8 Olympic League championships, along with being an Assistant Football coach and scouting recruits for the UW Husky football team.

It was a wonderful time in his life, including the birth of his third and fourth daughters, Julee and Jeri.

Jimmie Lee's next big adventure led him to an Education Specialist job with the U.S. Department of Defense at Fort Eustis, Virginia. In 1990 he was deployed to the Middle East to teach the Saudi Royal Air Force how to fly helicopters. Wild times! Based at KKMC, 40 miles from the Saudi/Kuwait/Iraqi border, at one point a SCUD missile landed 100 yards from Jim's apartment.

In 1994, the U.S. Marine Corps hired Jim to work out of its headquarters in Quantico, Virginia, deploying him to bases around the country to teach systems training.

Retirement in 1997 saw Jim and Judy's return to Candy Cane Lane in Bremerton, Washington, but in no way slowed him down.

He enjoyed hunting, fishing on his boat "Nanook", volunteering with Central Kitsap Presbyterian Church, being VP of the Poulsbo Sportsman Club, working out at the YMCA--and eventually downsized into Silver Creek Meadows— a neighborhood for "older folks" as he called it, where he and Judy made great friends.

Through the church, between 1999 and 2011, Jim made a dozen trips to Oaxaca, Mexico to work with the Mixe Indians, and did similar work in Kenya, Africa.

For their 50th anniversary in 2007, he and Judy cruised from Venice, Italy to Greece, Turkey and Croatia... one of many trips in a life of service to God, country and his family that took him to all 50 states and around the world.

And we are going to miss that voice! Whether he was in the classroom, down on the mat shouting encouragement to his wrestlers, or coaching his football players from the sidelines, it was impressive... even recognized by KBRO radio in Bremerton, where he announced numerous sporting events.

Jim is survived by Judith Allen Stelson, his wife of 62 years (he is being buried August 26th on what would have been their anniversary) and his four daughters, Janelle Stelson of Lancaster, Pennsylvania; Joanne Stelson

(husband Steve, sons Joseph (wife Courtney) and Carl with former husband Corbin); Julee Stelson Longridge of Bainbridge Island, WA (husband Mark Longridge, Chris, Rachel, Ian and Olivia Longridge); and Jeri Stelson Weaver of Lancaster, Pennsylvania (husband Gary Weaver, son Grant Weaver).

Jim was preceded in death by his son, who died at birth in 1970, his parents, and his brother Fred Stelson of Port Lavaca, Texas.

The memorial service for Jim Stelson will be held Saturday October 12th at 2:00pm at Central Kitsap Presbyterian Church, 9300 Nels Nelson Road in Bremerton, WA 98311.

Memorial donations may be made to the Salvation Army in Bremerton, to USO.org or to Central Kitsap Presbyterian Church.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Kitsap Sun on Sep. 1, 2019.

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Carol Pittman

August 28, 2023

I remember Jimmie Lee when we were all kids together and we all remained friends throughout the years. My heart goes out to Judy, on this anniversary.

arnold

August 27, 2023

One of a kind. A very good man. I was blesses that our paths crossed. Love to all the Stelson's. What a family.

Monica Glick

October 16, 2019

God bless the Stelson family at this time of loss. Sending prayers for all of you.

Erin (Eichhorn) Ingraham

September 23, 2019

Rest In Peace Mr. Stelson... you were, and will always be, my favorite teacher. Prayers for your family... Erin

Arnold L Wagnon Jr.

September 11, 2019

Life lived the right way. Faced challenges, never let them stop him. Life well lived. I was lucky to have a friendship with him from 15 years old, to 60. Every time I talked to Judy and Him, I called them Mr. & Mrs. Stelson. They always told me, "Wag, it's Judy and Jim." I would reply, "Ok, Mr. & Mrs. Stelson." I not only love them both, I respect them even more, Thus, Mr. & Mrs. Some things in life we would change, in our most private thoughts, Each of us have something we would change. The Stelson's are not one of them. Love and respect, Wag.

September 7, 2019

A very kind and knowing teacher. Fifty plus years later he still crosses my mind. Thank you for your wisdom Mr. Stelson.

Jane (Loomer) Widrin

September 7, 2019

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Janelle and Joanne hold special memories from my childhood. I'm sorry for your loss.

September 6, 2019

Dear Judy,
I am so sad to learn of Jim's passing, but amazed at the life the two of you lived after he left EHS.

I still remember the day Lynn Hughes and I married in 1971 and he kidnapped my from the reception! Crazy guy always.

Sally Grahl

Mary Kay Crouch

September 6, 2019

I am saddened to hear of Mr. Stelson's passing.

He left an indelible mark on the fortunate individuals that came into his life, whether you were a student, athlete, friend or the many that were helped through volunteering.

His booming voice was almost as big as he was in stature. As a former student, an East High School Knight, and friend to his daughters, I know firsthand his passion for teaching, his presence during coaching, the lessons he brought to the classroom and the wrestling mat that have remained with us to this day. Above all else, and most importantly, were his roles as husband, to his wife Judy; father, to Janelle, Joanne, Julee and Jeri, and how completely devoted he was to his family.

Rest in love Mr. Stelson, you will be missed.

Bob Noll

September 4, 2019

Mr. Stelson was one of my favorite teachers. You knew exactly what he stood for. I may not have agreed with him on everything but I always respected him. He was a real life John Wayne and will be missed.

Carol and Ray Pittman

September 3, 2019

Jimmie Lee was a good man: brave and true. We will miss him. Carol and Ray Pittman

Diane Thornton

September 3, 2019

He was a good man and a great teacher! What a full and devoted life he had! Praying for his family! He is a true Angel now!

William Norman

September 2, 2019

Thank you for your service prayers to you and your family ppl like you make this country great

1967-68 season

Bob Zornes

September 2, 2019

Wrestling for you at East High School was quite the experience and good times. In large part, it was your inspiration that led me into the world of coaching. I always enjoyed you coming to the wrestling matches I was coaching and, of course, you were never shy about rendering your opinion. You always got a rin when I asked you to kick a folding chair just for old times sake.

And our lunches were a highlight of the month for me. I'm gonna miss those, Coach.

R.I.P.

David Rust

September 1, 2019

My sympathies. Mr Stelson was quite admired. I remember his booming voice in the classroom and over the PA for football. Rest in Peace.

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