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KEMPER DURAND Obituary

DURAND, KEMPER BARTLETT - 73, died Saturday in a chair by the fire. His death was typical of his life: quiet, unassuming, and tidy. Our community has lost a true gentleman. Kemper was a modern scholar with a diverse range of interests and expertise. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, brother and uncle; an exemplary lawyer; a noted art photographer; a theatre and jazz drummer; a world traveler; a mountaineer; and a cherished friend. Beyond the accolades, awards and approbation, Kemper is best remembered for his gentle manners with everyone he met. He was not a pillar of the community, as some are described -- he was the glue that holds a community together without being obvious. His ability to connect with anyone in a sincere and warm directness set him apart. Everyone who knew him understood he would always be there in a time of need with a hug, his quiet presence or wise counsel. In a last act of giving, Kemper donated his body to the Genesis Donor Program for the benefit of medical research. Kemper's family requests that those who knew him take a moment to spread some kindness in the community.

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Published by Knoxville News Sentinel on Feb. 6, 2013.

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A.W. Simmons

March 3, 2013

Lillian, I did not learn of Kemper's death until I received the Chronicle today. I was in NY and no one told me. Please accept my sympathy and know that I am thinking of you.My Best wishes come your way. A.W. Simmons,jr

February 14, 2013

What an unexpected and unwelcome surprise...my condolences. Tom Gettelfinger

James A.H. Bell

February 6, 2013

Kemper and I were friends, albeit seperated by 400 miles. I recently sent him a federal case, and he handled it with the flair of a freshman lawyer, and the wit of a genteel Southern gentleman. Kemper was, at all times, Kemper, every day, everytime. We are saddened by his passing and untimely death.

Bill Givens

February 6, 2013

Dear Lillian: I'm so sorry to hear of Kemper's passing. I remember such good times with both of you, especially during the production of "Joseph" at Calvary and the Playhouse. I still have my t-shirt from your party. Your kindnesses were many. Much love to you and your sons.

February 6, 2013

Lillian
I remember times at Calvary that when I was in some sort of distress. known to the congregation, Kemper made sure to speak to me and give me gentle and soothing words of wisdom. His caring was a gift that I won't soon forget. What a phenomenal couple you two made. I missed you both when you left Calvary. I will make sure to pass on a kindness to someone in his memory.
Ginny Strubing

LaRita Bearden

February 6, 2013

Continued prayers to the family. Kemper was the the so wonderful, he will be truly missed.
God Bless

Jennifer Zinkus

February 6, 2013

Lillian,

Matt and are saddened to learn of Kemper's passing. He was such a phenomenal person and will be missed by so many. We are blessed to have been able to share so many celebrations with the two of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Love,

Matt and Jennifer Zinkus

ben bennett

February 5, 2013

Lillian, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Madison really had grown very fond of Kemper, and all of the Bennetts truly enjoyed meating you both at Madisons graduation.

Karen and Tim Soro

February 5, 2013

Oh dear Lillian! You have our deepest sympathy- Kemper was quite a guy- the world needs more like him. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.

Jeannie Kienzle

February 5, 2013

Dearest Lillian, Bartlett, and Jennings...I was so saddended to hear of Kemper's passing. You and Kemper were one of the first couples that I met in Memphis...truly one of my favorites...we had some lovely times together..Kemper was one of the finest human beings I have ever known..always a kind word, encouragement, and such a lovely sense of humour!! Love and hugs to the entire Durand family

Scott Lebowitz

February 5, 2013

Lillian,

Kemper was truly a kind and gentle soul. We were fortunate for the opportunity to meet him and have him as part of our community at the gym. He will be missed. My sympathies to you and your family.

Marie-Stéphane and Wolf von Essen

February 5, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Ruth Bowen

February 5, 2013

Please know that you have my deepest sympathy. Kemper was such a nice, nice person and such an intelligent man with a great personality.

Ruth Bowen (ret. Asst. to Judge Harry W. Wellford)

Wanie Norton

February 5, 2013

We have lost a stellar human being. May he rest in peace. Love, Wanie and family

Elizabeth Glasgow

February 5, 2013

Yuu will truly be missed Kemper!

Bill & Nancy Pitt

February 5, 2013

Lillian, Nancy & I are grieved to hear of Kemper's death. We loved him through your sharing him at reunions. His was a kind spirit and a perfect soulmate for you. We will do something good for someone in his honor. Our love goes out to today, and the days to come.

Lt. John T. Dwyer (MPD-Ret.)

February 5, 2013

Mr. Durand was one of the finest attorney's I ever had the pleasure to work with. He was always well prepared, and meticulous, in his research of a particular case.
Even though we may have worked at opposing ends of some of these cases, we always maintained a feeling of appreciation, admiration, and respect for one another. We never began or departed one another, without a firm and friendly handshake. He was a consumate professional and gentleman.

If you want to find a person who really did want to make a positive difference for his clients and humanity...you need look no further beyond Mr. Durand.
He truly believed in the goodness of human beings, and giving the underdog a square shake.
No one could ask for better qualities in a man.

Dale Keever

February 5, 2013

I remember Kemper for his wit most of all as one of my West High school class mates. I'm sure he will be greatly missed.

February 5, 2013

Lillian - I am so sorry to learrn of Kemper's passing. I will always have fond memories of Kemper and me growing up together and the times BA and I shared with you both.
Chuck

Philip Southall

February 5, 2013

I'll truly miss this wonderful friend and gentleman.

Dr. Helen Hiatt

February 5, 2013

Dear Lillian and Family,
I am so sorry to learn of your sudden loss. May you find Peace in the days ahead.

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