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Orpha Gay Obituary

COLUMBIA CITY - Orpha Jeanette Gay, 98, of Columbia City, Indiana, died peacefully in the company of family at 10 a.m., on Tuesday, Oct. 14, 2025, at her home.

Born on April 13, 1927, in Larwill, Indiana, she was a daughter of the late Russell and Emilie (Breisch) Watson.

Growing up in Larwill, she completed Larwill Elementary School and attended Larwill High School.

On July 3, 1943, she married Dale L. Gay. They made their first home outside Larwill, then moved to a farm near Liberty Mills. In 1948, the couple moved to Columbia City, where Dale owned and operated Dale's Service Station. Dale died on Nov. 25, 1977.

In addition to being a homemaker raising the kids, Orpha provided private laundry and ironing service to area families. She assisted her husband with his business until his death, and later worked at the Stop-N-Go convenience store on West VanBuren Street.

Remembered as a good cook, she prepared delicious meals for her family. She enjoyed growing flowers and plants around their home, and in her senior years, liked to watch the birds. She was a fan of Judge Judy and often watched her court case shows. Caring and nurturing, Orpha raised a special needs grandchild, Bobby.

Surviving are a daughter, Trudy Mosley, of Columbia City; daughters-in-law, Deborah Gay and Kathy Huston, both of Columbia City; grandchildren, Troy (Angie) Gay, Jodi (Kris) Parnell, Jade Gay, Aaron (Lindsey) Mosley and Michael Mosley; and great-grandchildren, Chase (Magda) Parnell, Bryce Parnell, Maya Gay, Zach Powers, Tyler Huston and Trinity Mosley.

Additionally, she was preceded in death by sons, Gary and Dennis Gay; grandsons, Robert "Bobby" Gay and Neal Mosley; brothers, David, Bill, and Creed Watson; and sisters, Gloria Gibson, Ruth Barnes, Lucy Parret and Annie Sheets.

The funeral service will be held at 2 p.m., on Monday, Oct. 20, 2025, at Smith & Sons Funeral Home, Columbia City.

Burial will be beside her husband at Greenhill Cemetery.

Visitation is from noon until the service on Monday at the funeral home.

Memorials in Orpha's honor are to the Humane Society of Whitley County.

The family would like to thank dear neighbors Barb and Steve Lalone and Nicholas Steill, for their care and support, and Parkview Home Health & Hospice for their excellent care.

Condolences may be sent to www.smithandsonsfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by KPCNews on Oct. 18, 2025.

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Joanna Ewing, Daniels

October 20, 2025

Sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed talking with her when I was young.
A neat lady. Joanna Daniels Wanted to attend the funeral but
have a doctors appointment at that time.

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