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Valley Stauffer Susan Marie Cox

Valley Stauffer Susan Marie Cox obituary, Long Beach, CA

Valley Cox Obituary

Susan Marie Cox Valley Stauffer, 79, loving wife, mother, sister, grandmother and friend to many, sadly passed away at her home in La Caada Flintridge, CA. Born to the late Wyman Morrell Cox and Frances (Emerson) Cox, Sue was raised with her sister Constance Jean on a horse ranch in eastern Washington and graduated from Clarkston High School class of '57. After graduation, she was crowned Miss Rodeo of America 1958. Sue remained an active supporter of the Miss Rodeo Association and served on the national board. Sue was also a volunteer and docent at the Autry Western Heritage Museum in Burbank, CA, where her Miss Rodeo wardrobe is in the permanent collection. In 1959, she attended the University of Oregon, joined the Pi Beta Phi sorority, married Kent Ronald Valley from Lewiston, Idaho, in 60 and then transferred to the University of Idaho, graduating with honors in 62. They had two daughters, Karla Frances Valley Bendel (65) and Karen Marie Valley (69) and moved to La Caada, CA, in 1973. In 1986, Sue married James Henry Stauffer from Downey, CA, and enjoyed a full life that included the arts, friends and riding the local trails. Throughout the 40+ years as a resident of La Caada, Sue received various awards for her outstanding work in the community. But she was best known for the "Outreach" Youth program she pioneered in 1978, serving as Director though 2000. Located on the local high school campuses, Outreach helped hundreds of troubled teens find the support needed to help with social and emotional issues. She also served as a member of the city Parks and Recreation committee from '00-'07. Following Outreach, Sue became a popular columnist for local newspapers and magazines featuring restaurant reviews and chef interviews from the area. In 2016, she launched http://www.columnsfromstauffer.com where many of her articles are still found. A "Celebration of Sue's Life" will be held after the first of the year. Donations may be made in Sue's memory to The Miss Rodeo of America Scholarship Foundation (https://www.missrodeoamerica.com/p/scholarships/151).

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Published by La Cañada Valley Sun on Dec. 12, 2019.

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Andy Kejmar

December 16, 2019

I hope that you received my message thanking you for helping me graduate from LCHS Sue. I am certainly not the only one with such gratitude as you were there to help us all. You were always there to encourage us to achieve our potential. Godspeed my dear friend may you rest among the stars and return to us soon.

Nancy

December 13, 2019

My most heartfelt thoughts, prayers and condolences to the family of Sue Stauffer. We have shared many, many precious holidays together throughout the years, which are locked within my heart forever. We all miss her more than words or expressions can say. The emptiness in our hearts are not explainable or comprehensible, but she is in the Heavens above with our Lord and Savior and at peace forever, with no more pain or suffering. God bless you all and may He give you the strength you need to carry on without her.

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