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BORN
1944
DIED
2010
Judy Bailey Obituary
on June 27, 1944, and passed
away peacefully on May 12,
2010. She is survived by her loving
husband of 39 years, Bruce;
a sister, Laralee Roberts of
Grand Rapids, Ohio; and a
brother, George Roberts of Logansport,
Indiana.
Judy was a professional
model, a social worker and a
public defender, mentored by
two high profile members of the
legal profession - F. Lee Bailey
(no relation) and Melvin Belli. A
1970 graduate of the University
of Toledo, College of Law, she
entered a profession then dominated
by men and ultimately had
a highly successful career as an
attorney specializing in business
and family law. She was the first
woman to defend members of
the U.S. Armed Forces in court
martial cases in Europe.
Judy was also the first woman
hired by the Riverside County
Public Defender's Office in Riverside,
California. Later she moved
to La Jolla where she continued
her legal practice and became
president of the La Jolla Bar Association.
She was quoted as
saying, "as attorneys, we want to
bring about change in our society
by both preserving the good
things and changing the bad
things."
Judy was a member of Chaine
des Rotisseurs, La Jolla Chapter,
and a graduate of the Culinary
School at the Oriental Hotel in
Bangkok, Thailand, the German
Cooking School in Stuttgart and
the French Cooking School in
Paris.
A funeral mass in Judy's
honor will be held on Thursday,
May 20, 2010, at 3:00 pm at
Mary, Star of the Sea Catholic
Church in La Jolla. In lieu of
flowers, the family suggests that
donations may be made to the
San Diego Humane Society,
5500 Gaines St., San Diego, CA
92110.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Judy Bailey
Chris and Martha Workman
May 21, 2010
Bruce:
We have just learned of Judy's passing and send our thoughts and prayers your way. Judy was wonderful and we were blessed to cross paths with her in our lives. Judy's grace, charm and humor touched our lives and, obviously, the lives of many others.
Ellie Duncan
May 20, 2010
Bruce, Judy was loved by so many and we all share in your loss. She was beautiful inside and outside. I always see her with that beautiful smile and hear her soft soothing voice and her cute little laugh. . How honored I am to have called her friend. I will miss her so much. Remember: What the heart has once loved, it will never forget.
Tamara Friend
May 20, 2010
I just found out about the passing of Judy. I don't know what those of us who knew her will do without that big, beautiful smile. And that enormous spirit of unending belief and kindness. There will never be another "Judy Bailey'.
I am so very grateful to have known her and experienced that radiant 'sparkle' only she possesed.
Tamara Friend
May 20, 2010
Just to let you know we are thinking of you. Vic says "Hang in there!"
Judy and Vic Leftwich
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Douglas Swope
May 19, 2010
Bruce, I was sadden to learn of Judy's passing. I will miss Judy and want you to know that I wish there was something I could say or do to comfort you. Your sorrow is shared by everyone who knew and loved Judy. Swoper (San Diego).
David & Debbie Ramirez
May 19, 2010
Bruce- Our thoughts and prayers go out to you on the loss of your lovely wife, Judy. We are very sorry.
Vi Fisher
May 19, 2010
Dear Laralee, I am so sorry for you and your familys loss. I send the whole family my regards. May God be with you all in your time of need. May she rest in piece. Vi fisher
Mary Gantzos
May 18, 2010
Bruce:
I was shocked to hear about Judy. We will really miss her visits to Toledo and Monroe and our fun dinners. Everytime I look at our doorway I will think of Judy. She redesigned it when she was in Monroe. We are very sorry. Take Care.
Robert and Mary Gantzos
TODD, LORI, ABIGAIL AND VICTORIA
LORI (KUJAWA) KILPATRICK
May 17, 2010
UNCLE BRUCE,
WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU AND AUNT JUDY AS THE UNCLE AND AUNT WHO EVERYONE DREAMED OF HAVING. WHO ELSE COULD SAY THEIR UNCLE AND AUNT FLEW THEM AND THEIR 2 BROTHERS AND 2 SISTERS ACROSS THE COUNTRY MANY TIMES-JUST TO SPOIL THEM ROTTEN ? HOW MANY UNCLES AND AUNTS WOULD DARE TO TAKE ON 5 KIDS UNDER 12 YEARS OLD FOR WEEKS DURING SUMMER VACATION ? YOU GOT US ALL ON THE SAILBOAT, I DON'T KNOW HOW YOU KEPT US ALL FROM FALLING OFF. I CAN'T EVEN COOK T.V. DINNERS FOR MY 2 KIDS, BUT SOMEHOW THE TWO OF YOU COOKED HOME COOKED MEALS AND ENTERTAINED US AT A NEW PLACE EVERY DAY. I REMEMBER YOU TAKING US TO OUR FIRST TRIP TO DISNEYLAND (THAT WAS WHEN YOU NEEDED MULTIPLE TICKETS FOR EVERY RIDE). WHO ELSE CAN SAY THAT MY AUNT WON ME THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS AS MY ATTORNEY ? WHO ELSE CAN SAY THEIR SUCCESSFUL UNCLE AND AUNT LEFT THEIR GLAMOROUS CALIFORNIA HOMES TO VISIT US IN GLOOMY TOLEDO, OHIO ? ONLY THE TWO OF YOU WOULD RESPOND TO THEIR GREAT NIECE'S SCHOOL PROJECT TO SEND DIRT, SO THE CLASS COULD STUDY HOW THINGS ARE DIFFERENT IN CALIFORNIA. THE TWO OF YOU HAVE ALWAYS GONE ABOVE AND BEYOND FOR US. WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER AUNT JUDY FOR HER DETERMINATION. I KNOW STAGE 4 PANCREATIC CANCER IS EXTREMELY PAINFUL, BUT I NEVER HEARD EITHER OF YOU COMPLAIN. UNCLE BRUCE, WE WILL KEEP YOU IN OUR PRAYERS.
PLEASE LET US KNOW IF WE CAN EVER RETURN THE FAVOR. WE LOVE YOU.
Mike Marlatt
May 17, 2010
Bruce - My thoughts and prayers are with you on the loss of Judy. She will always be with you in your heart.
Sylvia Monaco
May 17, 2010
Bruce, you celebrated life with Judy that others could only dream of. Judy did not just pass through, she lived her life to the fullest and made most of her dreams a reality. Her number one priority was making her husband smile and she achieved that. You two had fun together. She was the most amazing person I ever met. I cherish my friendship with her. I am saddened for your loss, but know that you were blessed to have a long, loving marriage and friendship.
Sylvia Monaco
May 17, 2010
Bruce, you celebrated life with Judy that others could only dream of. Judy did not just pass through, she lived her life to the fullest and made most of her dreams a reality. Her number one priority was making her husband smile and she achieved that. You two had fun together. She was the most amazing person I ever met. I cherish my friendship with her. I am saddened for your loss, but know that you were blessed to have a long, loving marriage and friendship.
A photo we both enjoyed Maui 1992
Sylvia Monaco
May 17, 2010
Patricia Westlund
May 17, 2010
Patricia Pohlman Westlund
May 17, 2010
Bruce:
Judy, a strong and vibrant woman, will always be remembered for bringing that strength and vibrance to every situation with her grace and dignity.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Dan & Carolyn Bamberg
May 17, 2010
Bruce
You know how much I will miss Judy; Her generous spirit, sense of adventure and our regular lunches together. Marty and I feel a deep sense of loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Teresa and Marty
Rolando Reyna
May 17, 2010
Bruce:
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your lovely wife Judy. My most sincere condolences to you. Just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts. Your Friend, Rolando Reyna
May 17, 2010
Bruce, We will long remember Judy's wonderful grace and glorious smile. Our very fond memories of her will live with us forever. Kaye and John
Clay Welch
May 17, 2010
There is no doubt Judy will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of great sadness over this loss.
Doug & Elyse Sensabaugh
May 17, 2010
Bruce,
Though we never had the privilege of meeting Judy, our hearts ache just knowing how this loss must be so deep to you, knowing that you two surely shared so many years of special moments and memories.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
May 16, 2010
We will miss her very much......John and Pat Anthony.
May 16, 2010
We will miss Judy's beautiful smile and lovely ways. Our deepest sympathy, Bruce.
Dom and Marie
Maria Teresa Varshavsky
May 16, 2010
Bruce; Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal......You have an Angel in Heaven as you did while she was on earth! God Bless You. Maria Teresa "MT"
May 16, 2010
Bruce,
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Rod
Roger Usborne
May 16, 2010
Judy was a beautiful, gracious and lovely lady. Together she and Bruce were a handsome couple who always made you feel welcomed in their fabulous home. We will miss Judy tremendously and offer our sincerely condolences to Bruce. Be strong, my friend, you are upmost in our thoughts!
James Amberg
May 16, 2010
Bruce, I never met your wife, but I am sure she was your treasure. I was sad to hear of her passing. Be strong.
May 16, 2010
We are wrapping our arms around you
Bruce...
Liz and Rog Usborne
Lori Hecomovich
May 16, 2010
My heart is saddened....She was a very loving person and I am glad that I was a part of her life
Lori Hecomovich
Lois and Bob Farrar
May 16, 2010
"SOME STARS ARE SO BRIGHT,
THEY JUST CAN'T SHINE AS LONG".
WE ARE THINKING OF YOU, BRUCE.
.....Lois and Bob Farrar.....
May 16, 2010
Bruce and family:
Pleasse accept my deepest sympathy for your loss, They are sent with a prayer that cherished memories will bring you peace.
Geri Mockensturm
Sister of Bernadine Roberts
Wendy & Joel Speiser
May 16, 2010
We are saddened by Judys passing. She was a warm woman full of passions. She was a true friend. We will miss her.
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