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N. Roman
December 6, 2023
Cannot believe we are going on 17 years in a few weeks. Your son must be so big. Never got to meet you personally but your sacrifice affected my family sincerely. My children father served with you. Everyone was heartbroken. You are remembered this Christmas, again. And again. Rest in peace Jason.
Matt F
May 29, 2017
I walked passed your stone today (Memorial Day) in Highland Park. We never met, but we went to the same high school where you graduated a few years before me. We both ran track, we both served with the 10th Mnt Div around the same period. I came home, you did not.
May your memory and spirit live on through your family and friends.
Rest brother. We'll carry your load.
Scott Harris
December 25, 2015
Thinking of you, as I do, every Christmas Day.
You were a friend of my brother and served along side him. You had his back and that means a lot to me.
I could never thank you enough for your sacrifice.
December 25, 2015
Thinking of Sgt. Jason Denfrund on the 9th anniversary of his passing. Forever remembered. He did not go in vain.
m vazquez
June 15, 2014
Thoughts and prayers for the Denfrund Fam.
Kate Dickson
May 22, 2013
Armed Forces Day and Memorial Day are part of this month. Jason and the Denfrund family continue to be respectfully remembered in our hearts.
Kate Dickson
March 22, 2013
Now it is the 10th year anniversary of OIF. He will always be the face of the War for me. The young man I met at Dry Hill Ski Area with his new snowboard, his army buddy, and the wrong socks. Jason chose to make the North Country his home. He will always be one of ours. I visited his boots at the moving memorial when it was in Grant Park in Chicago a few years ago. Never forget. Always remember. We owe that to him. Blessings to his family and friends.
Peggy Childers
December 25, 2012
To the family and friends of Sgt. Jason C. Denfrund:
Always remembering Jason. "Some gave all."
December 24, 2012
Another year has gone by and still your lost has not been forgotten. I will always remember brother.
Jamie Wienk
December 23, 2012
Well Jay.. Its that time of year again. it'll be 6 years on tuesday. Its a little hard to believe. I still feel like it was yesterday that you left us. And I still miss you as much if not more. Think of you all the time and wish you would just come home!!! I miss my big brother!! I love you more than words can say and miss you like crazy!!
Cheryle Racanelli
November 30, 2012
God Bless the Denfrund Denfrund Family
November 17, 2012
Thank you Jason for your service and sacrifice.
wayne
February 24, 2012
Happy Birthday Bro.
Diane wienk
February 23, 2012
Happy 30th my Boy!!!!!
Peggy Childers
December 25, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Jason C. Denfrund:
Please accept my remembrance of Jason on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
cheryl martin
April 9, 2011
thankyou sgtjasondenfrundthankyou for you serving protecting our countryiwillneve forgetabout what you died formygod be with your familyintheirtimeof sorrow
Jay... Niagara Falls 2000
February 26, 2011
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February 26, 2011
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February 26, 2011
Roxi Wulf
February 25, 2011
Happy Birthday, Jason!!!!You are truly missed by all who loved you. Roxi Wulf
Jamie Wienk
February 23, 2011
Happy Birthday Big Brother!!!!! I miss you and love you soooo much!!!!
Diane Wienk
February 23, 2011
Happy Birthday Jay! Once again you have sunny day. I love you forever son.
Jamie Wienk
February 14, 2011
I've been thinking about you so much today Jay. We are going to see Jayden this weekend. I can't wait for Maddy to meet him. I've been making sure she knows who you are. I say your name and she points to your picture. I really wish she could have met you. I'll give that sweet little boy of yours a big hug and kiss for you. I miss you so much Jay. I wish all of this was just a really bad long dream. I just want to wake up one morning and have you home, where you belong. I love you!!!!!
Peggy Childers
December 25, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Jason C. Denfrund:
Remembering Jason on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kyle Sheppard
December 25, 2010
Hey Brother. I have been thinking about you a lot today and I thought that it was about time that I finally put something on here. I just want you to know that there isn't a day that goes by that I don't miss you and feel guilty for not being there to do something when this all happened. I have struggled with that since it happened. You were a great friend, leader, mentor and father. I only wish that I would have had more time around you because you made everyone you ever knew a better person and I thank you for that.
Love and Miss you brother.
"SHEP"
"DELTA II" "SPEARHEADS"
Diane Wienk
December 24, 2010
Happy Birthday my son. I miss you so very much! Love you forever.
CHERYL MARTIN
November 27, 2010
thankyou SGT JASON DENFRUND FOR SERVING AND PROTECTING OUR NATION AND COUNTRY YOU PUT YOUR LIFE ONTHE LINEFOR MINE AND IWILLNEVERFORGET THIS THANKYOU TO YOU AND WHATYOUR FAMILY HAD TO SACFFICEI WOULD LIKETO THANK VERY MUCH AND MY PRAYERS ARE WITH THEM MY GOD BE THERE FOR THEM IINTHEIR TIME SORROW
jamie wienk
October 8, 2010
I'm really thinking about you a lot these last few days jay. Mom went to see your little boy this weekend. I wish I could have gone with her. I am definitely going next time. I cant believe he is already 4. We miss you so much jay... I just want you to come back home. I want my big brother back... they say its supposed to get easier in time but it hasn't yet and it's been almost 4 years. Is it ever going to? I miss you and love you soo much jason.....
Wayne Marston
October 1, 2010
SGT Jason Denfrund, I thought of you today, among other days. I remeber the last time we spoke to eachother, and I wish it was more of a conversation. Im sorry you lost your life, Im sorry your family was put through this tragedy. I will always remember you.
CHERYL MARTIN
July 16, 2010
HI THRERE MY NAME IS CHERYL MARTIN AND WOULD LIKE TOTHANK SGT JASON DENFRUND FOR HIS SERVICES AND PUTTING HIS LIFE ONTHE LINE FOR THEUNITED STATES OF AMERICA MYHE REST IN PEACE NOW AND IWOULD PRAYFOR HIS FAMILY ALSO THANKS MAN,
Roxi Wulf
April 26, 2010
I think of Jason often and think of all the fun times that were shared between me and my family through all the years of his life.
He was great soldier that will be missed always among family and friends.
Take Care to you and your family during this trying time. As the years keep going it will get easier by the minute and year.
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Roxi Wulf
jayden michael
April 25, 2010
jayden- jays little boy
April 25, 2010
jays 28th birthday
April 25, 2010
jamie wienk
April 25, 2010
we miss you so much jay. i wish you could be here to see your neice. i know you would just love her to pieces. but she will always know who her uncle jason is. i have already started talkin to her about you. its so funny.. she acts like she knows you. she sits here and just stares at the pictures. i know your here lookin down on her. and i know your keepin your eyes on us. i love you and miss you so much jason. i miss you more and more each day.
Playing Kings
Scott Harris
March 6, 2010
Jason served with my brother Jon. I think of Jason every Christmas and remember his sacrifice and those made by so many of the fine men and women who have served in the military.
Your family is my family's thoughts. I found this picture and wanted to share it with you.
mom
December 25, 2009
Happy Birthday my beautiful son. Love u forever J.
Peggy Childers
December 24, 2009
To the parents of Sgt. Jason C. Denfrund:
I know your pain
I know your sorrow
It feels as though there's no tomorrow
It's Christmastime
Your child is gone
But know that from the great beyond
He's watching you
And is so proud
Wanting you to sing strong and loud
Allow this Christmas season in
So loving life can begin again.
Donna Gillette
December 24, 2009
On this day and with each day that we enjoy our freedom, I would like to give thanks and let you know that I do not take our troops for granted. May you experience God when you feel your loss.
December 16, 2009
I will never forget you. You are one of the finest soldiers I have ever met and allways led by example.
November 24, 2009
I miss you brother
Charlie Gili
October 1, 2009
To the Family of Sgt. Denfund,
Our family sponsors a campaign to support the children of NYS soldiers. We have a gift offer for Jason's child(ren). Please contact us. We would be honored if you would accept our gift. God bless you.
Respectfully,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of NYS Hockey Players Support Our Troops!
Diane wienk
July 6, 2009
Jammie,
I am Jasons Mom. Do you have any idea how long Jason looked for his stuff? I would love to have that.Please call me.716-257-9540. Diane Wienk
Jammie Lowery
July 4, 2009
If you are a member of Sgt defrund family pls contact me. We were roomates in Germany for years. I have his belongings and want to send them to his family.
Sherry Kruse
April 23, 2009
I am with Veterans Assistance Commission of Lake County. In honor of your son, we have donated a brick with his armed service and area of service engraved on it, which is placed at the Veterans Memorial at CLC. A Memorial Day Ceremony will take place on May 22, 2009 at 12:00 noon at the College of Lake County in Grayslake. There will be a US Navy Honor Guard, Color Guard, Echo Buglers, saluting battery (cannons) and the Chaplain from Great Lakes will be participating. I see that you live in New York, so if he has any friends or family members in the area that would like to attend, please let them know about it. If you have any questions or concerns, please let me know at [email protected]
Your son is a hero and he is in our thoughts and prayers.
Nikki Ennis
February 23, 2009
Happy Birthday Jay! Josh and I miss you so much! We love you!
Kenna Larra
February 23, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,500 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Diane Wienk
February 23, 2009
Happy 27th Birthday my Beautiful son where ever you are today.LO
VE YOU FOREVER!!!!
Nancy Westman
January 5, 2009
I met Jason as a young child, My husband was his cousin. I remember A boy who loved his Father and cherished the time spent with his "DAD". I am again thinking of the child full of hope as I contemplate my own childs service to his country. Thank You for your sacrifice and honor. You will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN........
Eric And Nancy
In Memory of Jason ~ (Debra Estep)
January 1, 2009
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Jason, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Peggy Childers
December 25, 2008
To the family of Sgt. Jason C. Denfrund:
Jason gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
lee birch
December 19, 2008
its been 2 years next week and not a day goes by that i dont think of you and what you did for the spearheads it was an honor to serve with you brother rest in peace
Diane Wienk
November 23, 2008
Your holiday is here my son. I remember the smells for you and the way you remember the house. I miss you every minute of every day but I will always bring this day into this home for you. I love you J forever. Mom
November 11, 2008
I miss you Jay! We all think about you everyday not just today.. today we honor you and your brothers! Love you!
Kim Smith
August 25, 2008
Although I never knew Sgt. Jason Denfrund, I keep his family and other fallen soldier's families in my prayers. Thank You for serving our country, and keeping us safe.
May he rest in Peace with the Lord.
Rico Roman
August 22, 2008
God Bless you Denfrund. I'll never forget you brother. This walk this weekend you'll be in my thoughts. To the family of Denfrund if there is anything I could ever do let me know. You'll be in my prayers. Roman
June 16, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Denfrund!
Brian Parisi
May 26, 2008
I pledge to never forget....thank you, Jay, your ultimate sacrifice will never be forgotten. We all miss you terribly.
jamie wienk
March 23, 2008
we miss you so much jay.. you are always in my toughts i love you big bro!!!
jamie wienk
March 23, 2008
his beautiful stone in cattaraugus
jamie wienk
March 23, 2008
Jay, Justin, and Jake
Aunt Chris Kilby
March 22, 2008
This is how we will always remember you, big guy with a big heart. Always taking care of the little guys. Love and miss you the Kilby clan from Michigan.
Melissa Carlson
February 10, 2008
Jay,
Your Birthday is coming up and Anthony and I can't stop talking about you. The one memory that sticks out is your speech at our wedding, how you ever did that being as drunk as were still amazes us. Were going to have a baby in October, how I wish you could be here. I know how much you loved being a father, and how proud you would be to a god father too. We decided to name a lil girl Jaylon, in honor of you, we thought you would like that. Jay, Anthony and I love you very much and will never forget you, you will have a special place in our hearts.
Memorial Wall in Illinois
February 2, 2008
Jason's Memorial in Cattaraugus, his Home
February 2, 2008
ROBERT DEROHN
December 22, 2007
Jason, what can I say? you were one of the finest that I had the privelage to ever know. You will always be in my heart. I'm sorry for that day but I know we did everything right. To Jayden, Always know that your father was one of the finest to ever serve and always do your best in whatever you do. To Randy and Diane, anytime you need anything contact me.
December 22, 2007
December 22, 2007
December 22, 2007
December 22, 2007
Nikki Lulas
December 14, 2007
Jay,
It is hard to believe that you have been gone for almost a year, I remember when you would be gone for months and months doing what you loved, but it was easier then because we all knew you would be coming home. I hope you are relaxing up there, making friends, and making people laugh....I miss you everyday and I know that your mom, dad, sisters, and the rest of your family and friends miss you. I am getting married in 9 months and it has been hard for me to know that you wont be there to dance with me or stand up with Josh but I know that you will be in all our hearts that day. I know that you would be proud that Josh and I.I love you Jay
thinking of you always
Mom wienk
December 9, 2007
My son, my friend, my everything,
I miss you every minute of every day. My Jason is my reason for my life. With you gone I struggle with why I`m still here.In love you forever J.
Daniel Roman
December 5, 2007
To the family of Sgt. Jason C. Denfrund I write you today with a heavy heart. Jason was by far one the best soldiers that the army has produced. Always motivated , professional and, determined. I remember sitting around with him joking and always quoting the movie The Big Lebowski. Or times when I was feeling down and, he would talk to me, letting me know that things will be okay. He was a great Soldier and a great friend. Theres not a day that goes by when I don't think of him. I miss him very much. God Bless
Corey Hollister
October 20, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go out to his wife, son, daughter,and family. I had the pleasure of serving with jason on his last deployment and on this deployment of 06-07. He was a great man , father , friend , and soldier.We would always share stories about our sons and family on almost a daily basis. He was a great and loyal friend to me and everyone in 1ST Platoon Speraheads. Many soldiers looked up to him for guidence and leadership. He will always remain in my thoughts. We love you jason as a friend and a brother. " Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down him life for his friends."
Sincerly,
Raechel Regan
October 15, 2007
It is with great sympathy that I offer my condolences to Jason's family. I had the priveledge of growing up with Jason. He was a good friend to so many. I will be forever indebted to our service men and women for all they have done and are continuing to do to assure that we are safe here at home. I will keep your family in my heart and prayers and I know deep within my heart that Jason is with the Lord, still protecting us and keeping us safe.
Gary & Connie Patriquin
October 1, 2007
Diane,
Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your son Jason. Your memories of him wiil live on in his son. I will pray for you and your family
May God Bless you
Spc. Ben Killmeyer
September 24, 2007
Sgt. Denfrund, from your sacrifice i have learned what a real hero is. you are the epitome of what every soldier strives to be. with your passing, you grant your brothers in arms a profound sense of awe towards how selfless a man can be. may God watch over your family and may we all never forget what it means to live, love, and sacrifice. you are missed.
Jon Harris
September 18, 2007
Jason,
This is one of the most difficult experiences in my life. You were not only one of the most dedicated Soliders I have ever met, but you were one of the finest individuals I have ever met. For your family, I am sorry that I couldn't do more that day. Deaton and I and all the others did our best. For Jayden, your father was the best. He loved you and was very, very proud of you. You will always be a Spearhead, and it was my honor to serve with you.
Michael Keasler
August 19, 2007
Jason,
Not only were you a great man, but you were also an incredible leader, soldier, and friend. Your loss was hard and not a day goes by that I don't think of you and the times I spent with you.
To your family, I want to extend my deepest sorrow and offer my hand in assistance with any issues.
You will always be a part of me and all those you encountered. Godspeed Jason
August 7, 2007
I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 5, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Denfrund and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
SPC Brandon Deaton
July 29, 2007
SGT. Denfrund, you are dearly missed brother. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. SFC. Harris and I did all we could, you saved my life by telling me to get away. I miss you man, I hope your family is being strong, you will NEVER be forgotten.
Your Brother In Arms,
Deaton
Kim Schaus
May 28, 2007
Diane, Randy & girls, You are all in our prayers today as we remember the ultimate sacrifice Jason paid for us. We think of you often and pray for you.
Kim & Kevin Kevin ,Brian & Kelly
Joel Frank
May 28, 2007
There hasn't been a day that has gone by that Jason wasn't in my thoughts. I was once his platoon leader, and he was everything I could have ever asked for as a soldier. He was a friend and a small part of me died with him. I will never forget you and I will always carry with me fond memories of our time together in 1st Platoon. Spearheads!
Bill Harszlak
May 28, 2007
Thank you for his service to our country and the sacrifice made.
May you always find comfort in knowing that you and the world have been blessed to have had Jason in your life. May his spirit live forever!
Robyn Garside
April 16, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR LITTLE ONES. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Blake Huelsman
February 12, 2007
I was stationed in
Vilseck, Germany with Sgt. Denfrund. Im very sorry for your loss. He was a great friend and I will always remember the good times we had togeather.
Mike Eckley
February 6, 2007
May god continue to bless you and your family thru these tragic times. I am so sorry for your loss. Jason sounds like he was a great soldier, person, father, son, human being. my condolences.
Lee Sirotnak
January 28, 2007
Please accept our sympathy for your loss, and our prayers that God sustain you in this time of sorrow. We are ever thankful for the work and sacrifice of your Soldier, Jason, and will honor his memory by keeping him and your family in our prayers.
George Obourn
January 23, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss our son was killed in Taji on Oct.4 and I know first hand that there is nothing I can say that will lessen your pain. I will just keep you in our prayers.
George Obourn
Father of Spc. George Obourn Jr.
Wayne Pugh
January 20, 2007
Jason,
You were the first soldier I met when I came out to your location. You always had a smile on your face. I am truly honored to have known you! I was there when you left this earth and I will always remember you! May God bless your family and keep them strong.
You will always be remembered my friend!
John and Patricia Harvie
January 20, 2007
We offer oursympathies to the families for the loss of your loved one. We are brother in-law and sister to Jim and Debbie Lockhart, the grandparents' niece (Debbie). We have had the pleasure of seeing Chloe when she has visited Virginia Beach.
Andy Shelton
January 18, 2007
I served under Sgt. Denfrund in Ft. Drum, NY. He was the first that offered his friendship to me. He was my first real friend, he will be greatly missed. I pray for his wife, kids, and family. Im sorry for his loss, he will be greatly missed
kathy busekist
January 18, 2007
Jason was a good young man.He was his own kind of person,full of spit-fire and We loved watching him play football. We wish your family peace & we are so sorry for your loss.John&Kathy Busekist,and girls.
Cindy Szepe
January 17, 2007
Jason, thank you for your sacrifice for our Country. We will forever be indebted to you.
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