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Handumy Tahan Obituary

Handumy Jean Tahan, 83, died June 13, 2020, in Los Angeles having played pancreatic cancer to a draw.Born Handumy Jean Nabhan in El Paso August 29, 1936, to James and Mathilde, she was eighth of ten children. She and her brothers and sisters, June, Jerome, Johnny, George, Nick, Ruby, Georgette, Fred and Joseph, were loyal to one another all the days of their lives. Known as Norma in her youth, Handumy grew up in Texas at the height of the Great Depression and during the waning days of the Old West. She hung around her mother's luncheonette where she learned to cook American, Mexican and Syrian food. She played the tinny piano and cleaned spittoons at her father's saloon while cowboys played poker and told jokes. It is no wonder she could charm a snake out of its rattle.After graduating Austin High School in 1954, Handumy took an office job at Fort Bliss and then Beaumont Army Hospital. She moved to L.A. in 1961. She worked many years managing the offices of a Hollywood doctor to the stars.In 1971, she married William N. Tahan. They had twins Tut (Lorraine) and Joy (David). Bill's first son Nick (Diane) rounded out the family. Handumy loved Bill and considered their marriage to be the best years of her life. She and Bill worked hard, educated their kids, hosted and travelled. They volunteered at Our Mother of Good Counsel Church, Society of St. Vincent De Paul and Assistance League of Southern California. After Bill passed in 2003, Handumy ran her businesses, enjoyed her family and cared for her dogs. She was very proud of her grandchildren, Vivienne, George, Poppy, Will (Ashley) and Tyler (Tallon), and her great grandchildren Scotlend, Maddison, Ella, Emma and Daniel.Handumy will be interred on June 23, 2020 at 8:45 a.m., Forest Lawn Glendale – 1712 S. Glendale Avenue, Glendale, CA 91205. Covid-19 protocols will be observed. A reception will be scheduled at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to Our Mother of Good Counsel Church.

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Jun. 17 to Jun. 21, 2020.

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Patty Donald- Cohen Bray house

February 7, 2022

Your mother was an amazing woman. She will be missed and remembered in our house for her generosity.

THOMAS W COYNE

June 18, 2020

Handumy was a wonderful woman who always wore a smile on her face and welcomed all with open arms. She truly made you feel like one of the family. Thanks for all the good times, you will be missed.

Michelle Lackney

June 18, 2020

Dear Joy and David,
We are so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. She must have found great peace having her family at her side this past year. Thank you for the beautiful tribute. What a rich, exciting life life she led. Try to find comfort in your beautiful memories. Take care and let us know if there is anything you need.

Joe Nabhan

June 17, 2020

My sister Handumy. I have nothing but cherished memories of a wonderful and joyful person. My sister had a sense of humor and wit that was unmatched. The loss of my sister is especially hard for me.
I new Tut and Joy as infants and as youngsters. As time passed, I see them as adults and think "whew," my sister did good. Handumy's secret was love, religious upbringing, respect of her children and her husband Bill.
Handumy, I miss you already. I just can't shake the memories of years gone by. Give mama and papa a big hug for me. And please tell Robert That I love and miss him.
Sis, I love you.
Joe

Phyllis McDonald

June 17, 2020

Handumy was a lovely, gracious lady. She welcomed us to her home countless times, always had plenty of laughs and smiles for everyone. Im so glad to have known her.

Sandra Caluya

June 17, 2020

A great beauty - heart, soul and mind. Definitely a life to be celebrated and an amazing blessing to us all. So grateful to have loved and be loved by such a special lady. I will miss you so, but will always find joy in knowing you have re-united with your beloved William forever and ever.

Mary Hickey

June 17, 2020

What can I say? She left us all speechless with awe. A gracious and lovely example for us all. My heart goes out to her family and my serenity is in knowing she is at peace.

Bobbi Feyerabend

June 17, 2020

Dear Joy,
I send condolences to you and your family on the passing of your dear mother. I did not know her but reading about her life, I can tell that she was a wonderful person who led a bountiful life. I am sure that you will all miss her very much. Take Care.

Mary Lubin

June 17, 2020

I would like to say how much I loved (and always will love) my Aunt Handumy, especially when her tiny self was sitting on my lap or stepping on a ladder to reach up to kiss and hug me. She has always been an auntie I could look up to, admire, and have so much fun with. Her sense of humor was limitless, her love of her husband, children and grandchildren, and all of her family, knew no bounds. The generosity of her love and heart, way beyond. I'm grateful and honored to have known her for 65 years. God rest her in peace, with her beloved Uncle Bill. I love you, Aunt Handumy, and will always miss you. Until we see you again....Mary

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