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September 24, 2015
Dear Roy, my thoughts are with you and your family during this very sad time. From all I have now read, Judi sounds like an amazing life force and I am happy for both of you that you had such an exceptional life together. Her inimitable beauty, grace and goodness will live on in the many lives she touched. With sympathy, Bernice
Howard Boschan
September 23, 2015
No words are going to express how much I am going to miss my Aunt Judi Kaufman. She was without a doubt one of the most devoted and inspirational people I ever met, and I am blessed by this amazing woman every day of my life. Thank you Aunt Judi, for sending pure love into the world. You always have, and will always be, an amazing and beautiful shooting star. you will live long in the hearts of those you love and inspire. Rest in peace.
Shadow Gorrill
September 23, 2015
Wonderful women. Met Judi when Susy was a student at Brewster Academy. Judi did much for the parent weekends at BA. Sorry for your loss to the Kaufman Family.
Patty Balch
September 23, 2015
Judi was an an incredible woman and our lives were so enriched by knowing her. The entire Balch Family is so grateful for her work with Art of the Brain. Judi is forever in our hearts.
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Saul and Ann Levine
September 22, 2015
We send our deepest condolences and love to Roy and family. Judy left an immensely Positive Emotional Footprint...Saul and Ann

Judi at Thanksgiving
Cedar Boschan
September 22, 2015
I was a simple hayseed from Indiana in my early 20s when my love interest - her nephew, Howard Boschan - brought me to Judi's home in Beverly Hills for a holiday dinner.
Judi, ever the consummate hostess, made a strong and gracious first impression. Her warm and confident manner eye contact, direct and eloquent words as well as her sense of style red lips, nails and statement necklaces - were distinctive and conveyed both strength and femininity; this was a woman of substance who knew her power and owned it.
While she stayed true to that first impression over the past fifteen years, Judi has proven to be a deep and meaningful figure in my life.
When I think of who I want to be now and at the end of the road I couldn't imagine a better role model than Judi, because she embodied it all - to the hilt! Some of her qualities that I admire include:
1. Focus on what is important: Love & Kindness
By the time I met Judi, she had already battled brain cancer once, and, perhaps this brush with death granted a clear view on what was important, which included loved ones and people in general. She was one of those people who looks you in the eye, grabs your hands, connects with your heart and leans in for a Vulcan mindmeld, so to speak. Besides her talent for connecting one-on-one, there was no greater supporter of our blossoming family than Judi when my husband and I learned we were expecting, because she knew the power of love.
2.Fight On the surface, initially, Judi and I had very little in common (which is why her acceptance of me is so striking), but as I grew to know her, certain commonalities were revealed. Judi, validated the tenacity I possess by demonstrating how it can be channeled for the benefit of human kind. She supported causes that she knew to be important, regardless of politics or location whether in the continent of Africa or in Los Angeles, right or left wing. Her most high profile battle, of course, was against cancer, both personally and through the non-profit she started, Art of the Brain, through which she led efforts to fundraise multimillions in the fight against cancer. Ultimately, when you, a loved one, or your or their descendants ever battle cancer and win, you can thank Judi and her powerful commitment to fighting better treatment for this insidious disease.
3.Openness, generosity and going beyond the call of duty Actions always speak louder than words and Judi and Roy started with embracing me as part of their family in many respects before it was even official. There are too many examples of the Kaufmans' generosity to list, but one more recent example is when Judi and her daughter Jennifer hosted a huge baby shower for Hazel and me. The gifts included an amazing framed poem by Judi, which hangs on our wall for Hazel to grow up reading, and a bassinet, which is a family heirloom. There is simply nobody else in our world who would do something like that for us. This rare giving without expectation of reciprocation is *deeply* inspiring to me and I am committed to paying it forward. In this way, the Kaufman legacy will certainly continue and, hopefully, propagate.
4.Loyalty and commitment Judi was loyal to me personally during some low points in life, when it would have been much easier for her to take a different path. I know she let her conscience be her guide and this meant more to me than I ever properly expressed to her. Moreover, when I think of a couple who made it through several decades and who still have a spark, Judi and Roy are at the top of my list. Judi's and Roy's compatible union is simply inspirational and it gives me the strength to renew my commitment to our marriage through thick and thin for this I am profoundly grateful.
5.Appreciation of beauty, but not superficiality Beauty is far from everything, but what would life be without it? Judi exemplified this, not only with her great sense of fashion and interior design, but also with her art such as her photographs and her words and the art of others (she and Roy were patrons of my husband Howard's art). Judi's beauty was mindful, and her mind was beautiful.
6.Free spiritedness After several battles with brain tumors, Judi apologized that she was less inhibited than she used to be and she tended to freely express her thoughts, even when they may be considered unconventional or embarrassing. First of all, there was no need to apologize - I never heard her say anything that was outright embarrassing. Regardless, I think it was important to her at this point to be real and authentic to who she was during the limited time she had left. I think we can all learn something from this when we are worried what other people may think. Remember, life is too short!!!
I deeply regret not spending more time with Judi. However, I am certain not one day will pass without me attempting to channel some of Judi's distinct qualities, although, as everyone in her family knows, she was the genuine article, the inimitable dear one who won't stop filling our hearts with her loving energy just because she has moved on to a new plane of being.
Namaste, Judi. The light of your vivacious life force will continue to guide our lives and we will never forget you.
Sincerely and with love to you and all of your loved ones,
Cedar
September 22, 2015
Dearest Roy, You will always know you did the right thing and married a nice girl from Pasadena. Our Judi was a force of nature, and with you by her side, indomnitable. Your alliance is a blessing to so many in this world. Teo and I send our love, prayers, and hugs to you and your precious family. We will all be seeing "Judi red," and her smile, for a long while to come. Bryndie
September 22, 2015
So sorry hear of the loss of our friend Judi...Max and I and our family spent many happy hours together and my Samantha and her Jennifer were very close friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time and this memorial time of year...
Judy and Max Bryer
Beverly Cohen
September 22, 2015
So sorry for your family at this time. She was a brave and beautiful woman and fighter.
Roslyn Rosenblatt
September 22, 2015
Our love and admiration are with you. Judi was an Eishet Chayil and your family was her army! With all sympathy from my family, cousin Roz Rosenblatt
Norena's
September 22, 2015
Sorry to read about her passing. Our deepest condolences to you and your family.
Williams
September 22, 2015
We are sorry to hear of your loss. Our condolences to your family. Try to remember the beautiful memories that you shared together. Matthew 11:28-30
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