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SILL, Julia Ryder "Be courageous and be brave And in our hearts you'll always stay Forever young" Rick and Bonnie Sill of Pasadena lost their youngest daughter, their "teen angel", Julia Ryder Sill, on Tuesday, January 18, 2011. Julia was a sophomore at Fairfield University, Fairfield Connecticut, majoring in Communications and active in the Glee Club. She graduated from The Westridge School for Girls in Pasadena where she could always be found on stage or on an athletic field. Her extended family and countless numbers of friends and loved ones will miss her vivacious spirit, hilarious sense of humor, and open and caring heart. Her sister Caroline and brother Michael know that she is keeping people laughing wherever she is.
A memorial service will be held at The Westridge School Auditorium, Saturday January 22nd at 1:00 PM - 324 Madeline Drive, Pasadena, CA 91105, 626-799-1153. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Julia R. Sill Memorial Scholarship at the The Westridge School for Girls. "Send me away with the words of a love song. Lord make me a rainbow, I'll shine down on my family They'll know I'm safe with you when they stand under my colors."

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Jan. 20 to Jan. 21, 2011.

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Janice Raby Neely

January 14, 2025

I can feel Julia's vibrant personality shining through fourth grade math class at Westridge. She will always hold a special place in my heart !
Janice Raby Neely

Janice Raby Neely

January 14, 2024

Julia always brought laughter to her fourth class at Westridge. She had such a big heart and deeply cared about others. I still cherish a thank you card written by her. Julia will always hold a special place in my heart.
Respectfully,
Janice Raby Neely

Lynn Murphy

January 14, 2023

What a spunky and vivacious soul! I remember Julia proclaiming when she was about 6 years old that she would be the first female pitcher in the MLB! Your spirit lives on beautiful girl. Xoxoxo, Lynn Murphy

Lynn Murphy

January 14, 2021

I can't believe that it has been 10 years since the world lost Julia. To the Sills, her legacy lives on at Westridge, Fairfield, Pasadena Little League and everyone who had the pleasure of knowing her. That kid! My favorite Julia memory is when she told me that she was going to be the Yankee's first female pitcher! That to me is Julia in a snapshot!

Claire Miller

February 2, 2011

You'll always be my best friend Julia. I miss you so much and my love is with with your family now and forever. Visit me time to time and I promise to live my life in your honor.

Peter Radsliff

February 1, 2011

This message is from Peter, Shana, Laura, Madeline, Jill and Michele, Rick's fellow members on the Aging Technology Alliance board. To Rick, Bonnie, Caroline and Michael, please accept our deepest sympathy and condolences. We are all keeping you, and Julia, in our thoughts and prayers.

January 30, 2011

http://fairfieldmirror.com/2011/01/26/“forever-young”-a-tribute-to-julia-sill/

Chigger von Brecht

January 26, 2011

Rick, Bonnie and Family: Cannot imagine the heartache and grief you are dealing with now. I have thought of your family often during the past week. Prayers are coming your way.

Jeff,Vicky,Kevin,Corinne Botsford

January 25, 2011

Our hearts are heavy. Please know your family is in our daily thoughts.

Alice Driscoll

January 25, 2011

To Rick and Bonnie, Caroline and Michael
There are no words we can say that will say enough; may the thoughts and prayers from your many friends be of some comfort at this time. You are wonderful people who will find a way to get through this with courage and fortitude. With love, Alice and Johnny

January 25, 2011

Rick, Bonnie, Caroline and Michael,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always remember Julia as such a vibrant human being full of energy, passion and a real sense of humour.
Take strength from your family and may your God be with you all.
Mark and Anna L ....

Fairfield Alumni '91

January 25, 2011

As an alum of Fairfield who lives locally, I would like to send my heartfelt condloences to Julia's family and friends. Keep the faith and always remember the good times. God bless you all.
FAIRFIELD, CT

Diane, John and Ian Weatherell

January 25, 2011

Bonnie, Rick, Caroline and Michael - We wish we had the words to comfort you...the sorrow it too deep and words are hard to find. Julia had a beautiful spirit and we know you all carry that with you. We pray that God will lift you and give you His peace and comfort.
John, Diane and Ian

A verse from Isiah that has given us comfort:

Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and His understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. Isaiah 40:28-31

We love you.

January 24, 2011

Bonnie & Rick and family, our thoughts are with you and we grieve with you for your loss.

With love, Ramona, Paul and Barry Bradlyn

Karin Callahan

January 24, 2011

Dear Bonnie, Rick, Caroline and Michael,
I am brokenhearted to learn of Julia's passing. My love and prayers are with you all. I hope you find comfort by sensing her spirit with you, as she must surely be, forever at your side. Much love, Karin Callahan (McCormick)

January 24, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sadness. Barbara, Lauren and Jessica Murphy

Kathy & Jim Phillips

January 24, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories bring you comfort.

January 24, 2011

Dear Bonnie, Rick, Caroline, and Michael,
We three Sorenson women are so heartbroken for you. We know the pain of sudden death and are praying faithfully for you to have the comforts of a God who draws near to the brokenhearted. Know that you are deeply loved and held by so many.
Anita, Alden, and Morgan Sorenson

Thomas Larkin

January 24, 2011

As Julia's Communication teacher last semester at Fairfield (she laughed when I told her I grew up in Arcadia just minutes away), I was deeply saddened by the news of her passing. With heartfelt blessings to the Sill Family, know that she was a standout spirit. Julia made me look forward to seeing her in class. I loved teaching her, learning from her spirit, and engaging her humor. We all appreciated her intelligence and facial animation! My class will never forget her opening speech which could have gotten her on Saturday Night Live. I do miss her. And, I'm blessed that relationships live on forever.

Charles Roberson

January 24, 2011

Rick, Bonnie, and Sill family; we are incredibly saddened by your loss and will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Lisa Phillips

January 24, 2011

Dear Sill Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. We pray for peace and understanding in the loss of Julia.Our son was a friend of Julia's at Fairfield.He admired Julia and spoke highly of her over the last two years.

Regan Bermudez

January 23, 2011

Bonnie, Rick and family - I am saddened by your loss and send my warmest condolences your way. I feel fortunate to have met Julia & remember her warm, vibrant spirit. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

The Martinez-Davis Family

January 23, 2011

We send our love and prayers to all of you in Julia's family. We can not imagine the sadness of your loss, but we will hold her in our hearts.

Melinda Chen

January 23, 2011

I remember Julia when she was in my lower school class, and chose to play bass just because. She was always fun in class, always tried her best, and full of insight. Very spirited she was, full of life. To her family, I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for what you are going through. Peace be on you all.

Bridgette Tolbert

January 22, 2011

Julia always managed to make me laugh when I was around her. She was in my sister's class, so as I was five years younger than her, I looked up to her as the epitome of what Westridge School is all about. Julia, you will always hold a special place in my heart. You were so accepting of everyone and your infectious humor will be missed.

Bizza Robinson

January 22, 2011

I remember playing with Julia on Euclid and how vivacious and upbeat she always was. She will be greatly missed-my deepest condolences go out to your entire family...My God be with you guys.

Kevin Mary Kerry Megan Plagman

January 22, 2011

We send Peace & Love to the Sill & Durand families. Our hearts are connected.

Marlene Middlemiss

January 22, 2011

Rick,Bonnie,Caroline and Michael-Words cannot say how sorry we feel. All our Love and Prayers are with you now as you go through this unthinkable time. Love Mary,Michele and Marlene

January 22, 2011

Rick, Bonnie, Michael and Caroline - You are all in my heart and prayers as you endure the unendurable.
peace, connie greyshock

Janice Raby Neely

January 21, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I will always remember Julia's vibrant smile in fourth grade at Westridge.

Jasmine Love

January 21, 2011

Julia was a bright light, and a wonderful human being. She brought so much joy to so many at Westridge and beyond, and was sheer amusement in a body. She was a wonderful young woman who now shines brightly among the stars. My thoughts are with her mom, dad, sister and brother, her whole extended family, and the oodles of friends that will miss her forever. Know she was loved, even now.

Erin Hartmann

January 21, 2011

Rick,
I am so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Melodie Kosman

January 21, 2011

All my thoughts and prayers go out to Julia's family. I will forever remember her great laugh and ability to make others smile.

Teri Barton

January 21, 2011

Our thoughts, prayers and love are with you all. Teri Barton

Erin Hartmann

January 21, 2011

Rick,
I am so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Mike DeLisio

January 21, 2011

My thoughts are with Rick, Bonnie, and the whole Sill family.

Chad Deckman

January 21, 2011

Rick,

I'm sorry. Our prayers are with your family.

Lynn Murphy

January 21, 2011

I am thinking about everyone who is mourning this tragic loss and am sending my deepest condolences to the Sills. I just picture Julia in her Yankees uniform standing on the mound at Yankee Stadium doing her thing. An amazing young woman.

Katie Jubelirer (Hassan)

January 21, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

January 21, 2011

I would like to send warm healing light to the Sill family ... I know my thoughts join with the entire Westridge family as we all remember funny, vibrant Julia. ~Diana Day

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