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Kenneth BERTOK Obituary

BERTOK, Kenneth July 4, 1957 - March 12, 2011 Ken passed away at age 53, after a one-year battle with cancer. Ken is survived by his wife of 23 years, Tina and their son Alec. He was born in Toledo, OH and earned an MBA and a BBA from the University of Toledo. Ken joined McCormack & Farrow as a Partner in 2001. He had over 29 years of management recruiting and human resources experience. Before joining McCormack and Farrow, Ken was Senior Vice President of Client Services for a west coast recruiting management firm. Prior to that, he worked in Corporate Recruitment at First Interstate Bank and in Human Resources at Ohio Citizens Bank. Ken is past President of the Orange County Chapter of the National Human Resources Association (NHRA). He was a member of the Center Club in Costa Mesa, CA and an avid sports fan. He will always be remembered by his kindness and generosity, by everyone. Also surviving are his sisters Barbara (Ed) Turner, Carol (Bob) VanNewhouse and his brother Chuck (Chris) Bertok, in addition to a number of brother and sister-in-laws, niece and nephews. He is predeceased by his parents Charlie and Clara Bertok and his niece Amy Turner. He was a member of the Greek Orthodox Mission Church of Orange County (GOMSOC). In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to: GOMSOC, 27129 Calle Arroyo, Suite 1803, San Juan Capistrano, CA 92675. Please visit mortuary website for services information. O'Connor Mortuary (949) 581-4300 www.oconnormortuary.com

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Mar. 14 to Mar. 15, 2011.

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Mark Spoor

September 28, 2011

Ken was both a client and later a mentor. He was a classy guy who was respected by all who work with him. Happy trails Ken. You will be missed.

Joyce Preest

April 5, 2011

I was fortunate enough to work with Ken in the HR department at Ohio Citizens Bank. He was a kind, thoughtful, intelligent and witty young man. My husband, Dan, and I are so sorry for your loss.

Melissa Turner-Neal

March 17, 2011

Uncle Ken was only 16 when I was born. My how time flies! I found today the Brown Teddy Bear he brought to me when he visited for the first time. I'm so glad I got to grow up with such a loving and funny person! You will be missed and heaven has gained one heck of an angel! I love you Uncle Ken.

Laura Morefield

March 17, 2011

Dan's and my sympathy to the Bertok family as you cope with your loss.

--laura and dan morefield

Holly Biggs

March 16, 2011

My Uncle Ken was a very strong man. I am going to miss him greatly but his memories will live on always in my heart and in the rest of the familys heart. My thoughts and Prays are with my Aunt Tina and Alec and the rest of the family and his friends.

Susie Basanda

March 16, 2011

Ken was my first supervisor in the recruiting consulting world. He would always be so chipper when visiting our client companies. He bounced when he came down the hallway.

Prayers to your family.

Margaret Long-Dame

March 16, 2011

My condolences to the Bertok family. Ken was a good and close friend during high school, we called him Fred! He always had a smile, we laughed alot, and enjoyed life! We have another angel from those days. Prayers and God Bless.

March 15, 2011

Having known Ken for 9 years since coming to the US, he was one of the kindest people I have ever met.

My heartfelt sympathy to his family.

Richard Munro

Chris Maloney

March 15, 2011

Godspeed Ken!

John Biggs

March 15, 2011

Uncle Ken you will be missed, exspecialy during the Holidays. One memorie I will never forget is that he was the first male to step up and do the dishes during the holidays. My love and prayers go to Aunt Tina, Alec, and all those that he left behind.

March 15, 2011

Sending Ken's entire family my deepest and heartfelt sympathies. I've known Ken professionally for 25 years. He was the utmost professional and one of the kindest, most respected and supportive people I've ever had the pleasure of knowing and working with. He loved his family deeply and was such a proud father...always lit up when speaking of his son! He will truly be missed by all.

Loren Greenfield

Barb and Ed Turner

March 15, 2011

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Joseph Pasquinelli

March 15, 2011

My condolences and prayers to the Bertok family...I was a close friend of Ken's during our high school years, and the one lasting impression of Ferd (a nickname a few of us called him) is that he always made us laugh, and that's a memory that will last forever..God Bless

Jerrilyn Nicholson

March 15, 2011

Kathy & Dennis,
Sorry to hear the news of your brother-in-law's passing. He is now at peace after his long battle. Your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers for strength to get through this loss. I would like to share this poem with your sister and family:

Those we love remain with us
for love itself lives on,
and cherished memories never fade
because a loved one's gone.
Those we love can never be
more than a thought apart,
far as long as there is memory,
they'll live on in the heart.

Sue Whitfield

March 15, 2011

My condolences to the Bertok family. I had the opportunity to talk with Ken recently and he was as positive as always and a true professional. He will be missed.

David Demont

March 15, 2011

I knew Ken professionally for more than 20 years and always found him to be 'top class' among his peers. My sincere condolences to his family, with hope that many warm memories of a terrific guy will comfort them

Wini Van Horn Bowman

March 15, 2011

I went to High School with Ken and he was such a nice guy. My thoughts and prayers are with his family

Debbie (Romay) Archie

March 15, 2011

Bertok Family - God bless you and keep you during this time of loss. Ken is now with his parents whom I loved dearly.

CJ

March 15, 2011

Bertok Family, I am sorry for your loss of your loved one, May you find comfort in the God of comfort.

Lois Aey

March 15, 2011

Tina & Alec,
Sincere sympathy is sent from our family to yours. My mother, Dorothy Blanchard worked with Clara and they were friends for many years (bless their soles). I met Ken years ago. Our heartfelt sympathy go to you and your family.

Gregory Gates

March 14, 2011

Ken was always such a gentleman who made everyone feel special. It was a pleasure to have worked with him many years ago and to call him a friend. My heart goes out to Tina, Alec and his extended family during this especially difficult time.

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