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Published by Los Angeles Times from Dec. 1 to Dec. 2, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Martin HERSHMAN

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100 Entries

Alex Lamm

September 3, 2022

My dear Martin,

I have thought of you and your family many times over the years since we were neighbors. I often wondered where everyone went after you left for Europe. I am so incredibly sad to learn of your passing. Just know, your sweet demeanor and loving attitude is something I will never forget! We were all lucky to have known you and seen your sparkle. You and Danielle were the sweetest, and Stefanie you meant so much to me. I am sending you all my love and warmth. You will never be forgotten, sweet Martin.

Stefanie, Michael Danielle and family ... you are always in my thoughts.

Deepest sympathy,

Alex Lamm

Mike Richardson

November 25, 2021

Still think about you my friend. Wondering what you would be up to. Every time I drive through CA I wish we could hang out again if only for 5 minutes.

Richard Russo

November 26, 2019

Still in my thoughts Martin.

stefanie hershman

March 22, 2015

I miss you everyday and I will always remember your generous heart and constant smile.
Your in my heart and soul at all times.
I Love You Dearly,
Mommy

Danielle Hershman

March 13, 2015

Hey,

Martin - Not a day goes by that I don't think about you, mention you, or wonder about you. Missing you Tons.

Love You Lots,

Your Big Sister

May 12, 2014

martin
thinking about you always miss you so much
uncle joel

erin bridges

March 14, 2011

martin, i wihs i would have kept in contact with you more often when i moved away from california. i could never express to you how good of a friend you were to me, when i needed someone the most. you have a heart of gold and meant alot to me. im sure you didnt know that tho, but i know you do now. you probably helped made me a better and stronger person, and for that i thank you... remember the time i really wanted to come home and youve been saving up your money for ages and you offered to buy a plane ticket home for me? that was probably the nicest thing anyone has done for me.. and then we go to vegas and the first 40 minutes to being there you had this theory you wanted to test out and dropped 500$ on roulette haha.. even tho we got in arguements alot, it was never directed towards you, but you were smart and i know you knew it wasnt... i dont think i would have been able to make it out of cali without your support and all the talks we had, you were great. but i know you must be in a better place and i hope to see you again one day. save me spot in line. :) xoxoxox always and forever

Kieran Morris

January 12, 2011

Martin,

It's been way over a month now and I still cannot comprehend what has happened. It was only a short while before, that we were talking about how some of the best times, and memories, of our lives were the times we spent in fifth grade together. Those have been playing over and over in my head and they truly are unforgettable.

I remember seventh grade, I had to give a speech to you to say goodbye in front of the glass. You had to go home early though because you had hit your head on a slight at the water park. Secretly, I was glad you left early. Only because I couldn't face saying goodbye to you. Once again I missed my chance, and once again I wasn't ready to say bye so soon, to such a true friend.

The memories we shared together will live on with me. The BB gun fights, the wrestling, singing songs on your computer, the net nanny, times with lucky. I would need a whole book just to write them. One of my favourites was when in 5th grade we were playing pictionary, and I had to draw a dog. Literally, within two seconds you got it an people thought we cheated. We didn't, we just understood each other.

You'll always be an amasing friend, and I'll miss you.

Kristen Clavel

December 24, 2010

Martin,

Tonight we are missing you so much. I always felt this was a special time when we would get to spend time with you. One of my fondest memories was the day after Christmas when you, Lucas and me hung out playing the Wii all day. We kept laughing because Lucas beat us at all the games.

I will hold every moment I spent with you close to my heart.

Much Love,
Auntie Kristen

Doc

December 18, 2010

My deepest sympathies Danielle, to you and your family.

Corinne (Brown) Hohn

December 16, 2010

Stephanie, Michael and Danielle,

I can't find words to express the deep sympathy we feel for you and family.
Stephanie you have been so helpful, so many miles away, to our daughter Stacy. We know that Martin, such a beautiful young man, will be missed beyond measure. Our hearts and prayers are with you.

Sarah Chadorchi

December 13, 2010

Dear Martin,

I hope you’re in Heaven and in peace. The memories I have with you will never die. I met you in sophomore year at Beverly. We had an English class together as well as other class. The first day I saw you I thought you were cute. You were always laughing and had beautiful warm smile. We used to ride the bus together, and walk Lucky while watching the sunsets. I had crush on you as you found out later on. It was before winter break I gave you that case for your PSP and a love letter. Do you remember Alex saw me give it to you. After, seeing you turn red and Alex having the card in his hand. I just ran off that day since I was shy. I remember the day I asked you for your cell phone number. You were sitting in the tree and shocked. But than you were so cute and turn your cell phone over and told me the number. You shared with me some inside deep thoughts, the secret bus stop, laughs, smiles. In 11 th grade you weren't there. I felt lost without you. I was thinking you went off to Europe. I kept thinking of you every day saying he going to come back. Than senior year came around, I had to accept the fact that you moved away. Then one day senior year I saw you in the hallways. I thought it was fate and sign. I didn't even tell the teacher I am going to leave. I just left the class. I wanted to give you a hug. I wanted to know everything that happened. But you were acting really mature that day while I was trying to act silly and try to make you laugh. I know this won't be a good bye but more like a see you later. Since you and I will bump into each other again.
Love Always, Sarah C

Dear Mr. Hershman and Mrs. Hershman and Danielle and all the family,
I am very sorry for your lost. Martin was an intelligent, funny, sweet, caring, mature, young man. The memories you have with Martin should make you smile and laugh. Since, he was always trying to make people feel good. I don’t know the pain that you feel. But I know my dad and grandma does. Losing a child is hard. But he is up above and in Heaven being an angel which he was on earth. We all will meet up with him again. You raised a one of a kind man. I hope you all find strength.

2010, 2003

Niek Loots

December 12, 2010

Niek Loots

December 12, 2010

Martin,
The first time I saw you, we where about 12 and just about to play a football game with Jimmy. Remember those days? It was really warm that day, and there was dust all over the field. After a couple minutes we found ourselves in the penalty area and I kick the ball to you, together with a bunch of dust. You couldn’t see a thing anymore… I ended up getting tackled, and we got a penalty, do you remember? how you had to take it. You couldn’t see and ran straight up to the ball, it was a beautiful shot, hit the net.. you had to confirm whether you scored or not ? I don’t think if we ever laughed that much before. We had to sit on the bench, because we couldn’t play a serious match anymore.
After that it has been nothing more than smiles and good times, like remember when we played SSX Tricky, for hours to beat the game… when we nearly had it, the file got erased, so we did the same thing the next weekend…
Martin, you are the most joyful, respected, and intelligent young man I had to pleasure of meeting, my Condolences, go out to your family, who have always open heartedly invited me to your house. To Let us run around your house with lucky.
Martin you will be missed, and always remain in my heart.
Rest In Peace

Lisa Stagnaro-Dean

December 11, 2010

Dear Michael,Stephanie and Danielle,and all the family ..

There are truly no Words to share to help with the sorrow at this time,
We are so sorry and our whole family mornes for you all..
We havn't seen Martin since we were at Andy's(my dad) and Lindas when he was just a little boy.. but always thought of all of you as part of our family..
He will be truly missed --
He is now your Angel .
Please accept our deepest -heartfelt condolences. May God bless you all and give you strength to get through this and help you throuh this time of sorrow and remember he will be watching over you.
He will be missed, God Bless .. We love you ... John, Lisa James and Sabrina Dean

Alessandra Hochuli

December 10, 2010

Martin,
I am so sorry to hear about what happened. I miss you so much. I remember when we went to petco to look at the hampsters before Kelton they were so CUTE. You were an amazing person and had a heart of gold. I will always remeber the fun times we had together. I will never forget you.
Love,
Ali

Richard Russo

December 9, 2010

Dear Martin, You have been in my mind and in my heart all week. I have been thinking of that little 5th grade guy who joined my football team and played his heart out for me. That little 6th grade guy with the big blue eyes, deep voice and cheeky smile who played in my middle school play in grade 6. The guy who recited in Hebrew for me whilst under a table in my office when he was preparing for his Barmitzvah (he was too shy to stand up and recite it in full view!). That big guy who visited me with friends three years ago and told me that the principal was looking for him because he had accidentally done something wrong (and he was only visiting the school for a day!) - there is much more Martin. We had so much fun together. So many laughs. I missed you when you left us at AIS and I miss you even more now. It was wonderful to have been your teacher and to have shared a bit of your life. My love and my thoughts to Danielle and your dear mum and dad.

December 8, 2010

Stefanie, Michael and Danielle,
I am so very sorry to hear about Martin's passing. My heart breaks for your family and what you are having to endure. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May you find peace in prayer and love and support from family near and far.

With much love,
Stacy (Hohn) Wyszkowski and family

December 8, 2010

Martin and Lucas Xmas 2009

December 8, 2010

Geert Maes

December 7, 2010

No words can describe the loss that we felt when such a young, wonderful person is taken from our life.
The day you left us was a very bad day for all who knew you.
Our prayers and love go out to you and your family.
We will miss you and remember you forever!!
Hope you will rest in peace...

Sincere condolences,
Geert & Evelien.

Barry Outen

December 6, 2010

Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer.

Our Sincere condolences,
Barry, Lisa, and Savannah Outen

Laurie Cummins

December 6, 2010

Dear Stephanie and family,

How does one even begin to comfort a friend who has lost a child? There aren't adequate words. I know what a warm, loving person you are and, after reading the glowing memorials, I sense that Martin was the same. The photos highlight a smile that could warm a planet; no wonder so many guestbook visitors have commented on its beauty.

My heart aches for you and your family, Stephanie. If, as you deal with the grief, you need a listening ear, please feel free to call on me. Inadequate as it seems, it's all I know to offer when distance separates us this way.

Sincere condolences,
Laurie

anna schellens

December 6, 2010

Dear Stephanie, Michael and Danielle,
Martin was a lovely person that Anthony and Christopher loved spending time with. We had some wonderful times at your home in Belgium and at mine. Martin always had a smile on his face and that is how we will remember him.
Stephanie, from one Mom to another who feels your pain so deeply, I can't even begin to tell you how sad I feel for your tremendous loss.
He will be missed by so many.
My prayers are with your family.

~Anna, Anthony, and Christopher Schellens

December 6, 2010

Dear Stephanie, Michael and Danielle, My deepest condolences on the loss of your son. It saddens me. Thinking of you, Mia Vijt

Emma Richardson

December 6, 2010

Martin,

I will always say it is best to celebrate someone's life not their death; i had a fabulous time with you in belgium, far too many wild memories. i was so pleased to have met up a few years ago and see how much we hadn't really changed. You truly were one of a kind and i will never forget you.

Foster Johnson

December 5, 2010

Martin,

I really enjoyed all the times that we spent together. I will always remember you for being a fun guy with a sense of humor. I can't believe that you are gone, but i trust that you have found peace bro and my prayers are with you...

Michael Richardson

December 5, 2010

Martin,
I don't even know what to say right now, this is all so sudden and shocking. You were a crazy kid and we had some great times. Me, you, and lucky had some crazy adventures together that I will never forget and that I still talk about to this day. You are a true friend and I'm going to miss you man. I'm sure you are at peace now brother.
-Your Homie

Diana

December 5, 2010

Martin,

I have been fortunate enough to say I knew you even if only for a few brief years .

I first knew you when you were still a boy and then I knew you as a sweet teenager. When I saw you last you just turned 20 and I saw you becoming a fine young man .

I always thought to myself that if I had a boy I would like him to be like you - a bit mischievous as boys usually are but good to the core .

I remember hugging you each time you left for US and hugging you each time you came back to Belgium.

I can hardly believe you are gone and that you will not be coming back here this January and that I will not see you and hug you again.

I just hope you knew how much you were loved and how much you will be missed.

Your uncle Jerry and I will always keep you in our hearts and we will always remember
you !

Love,
Diana

Ludo Magnus

December 5, 2010

Dear Martin,

The first time I really got to know you was in August 2007 when I visited your family in Beverly Hills.
I must say, I will never forget the wonderful time we had all together.
I will always remember how funny you were with your great sense of humour. You were marvellous.

A few months ago you joined your father to Belgium for a longer period, I learned to know you even better.
We had our conversations about life, and how you felt, discussions about what the future would bring
and I discovered during these talks that you were a smart guy ready to make something of your life!

The project Capricio that we started up together with your father was for you a hit.
You transferred into a hard working man with a goal to achieve, make this project a winner!
Everybody was so proud of you and you quickly captured everyone’s heart.
Everywhere I came I heard that you were a great, nice and gentle person.

When we talked 2 weeks ago on your way to the gym, you shone like never before.
You were so proud of yourself, your body looking stronger every day, everything…you were really happy!
And that me feel good and was sure that we would meet again in a few weeks….

Martin, it is a shock for all of us that you left us so soon, so unforeseen, not ready yet.
It is tough for your parents and sister to have to continue their life without you.
We will all miss your smile, your jokes, everything, we will miss YOU!
But remember you will always be in our hearts.
We wish you all the best my friend!
Ludo

Emily Lunt

December 4, 2010

Dear Michael, Danielle & Stephanie,

I am so deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
All my love

Emily

December 4, 2010

Oh Martin, you are far too young to be gone! It has been a long time since I have seen you; but I remember you and your wonderful family so very clearly. You came to AIS, not so sure about this school in Antwerp or these new kids and new ways of doing things. But your warmth and humor touched everyone who met you and you settled in and became a good friend to so many in your class. Every teacher who worked with you was touched by you: your determination, your mind, your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with your Mom, Dad and Danielle at this time.

Karen Chambers

wendy Canipel

December 4, 2010

Dear Michael,Stephanie and Danielle, our deepest condolencens.
Wendy and Bruno

Danielle Carroll

December 4, 2010

Dear Stephanie, Michael and Danielle,
I love you all and I am deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief and always.
Love, Cousin Danielle

December 4, 2010

Dear Stefanie, Micheal and Danielle, it was with great shock and sadness that we heard the news of Martin's death. We will always remember Martin as a boy who enjoyed the company of his friends and having fun to the max, full of energy and a good friend to our son, Chris. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Noelene and Stuart Hosking

December 4, 2010

Dearest Stephanie, Michael and Danielle, I am so sorry for your loss and the pain that you must be feeling at this time. Martin was such a loving, kind young man with an infectious laugh and wonderful sense of humor. I will always remember the energy he brought with him everywhere he went. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Julie Campos

Andreea

December 4, 2010

Dear Martin,

You will always have a special place in our harts...
We will miss you very much

Richard Lunt

December 3, 2010

You will be missed

Auntie Kristen

December 3, 2010

I have this memory of Martin sleeping next to his mom while she was sleeping. He was holding her robe, sucking his thumb and rubbing her back and I will never forget that because I would only hope my boys would love me that much. I will love and miss you everyday

Linda Cox

December 3, 2010

Martin was so sweet and tendered hearted to me and his great grandmother Mimi. How concerned he was about his family. I was privileged to be able hold him in my arms a few minutes after he was born.

Joel Hershman

December 3, 2010

You are now in peace my beloved nephew

Travis Swords

December 3, 2010

You live on in my heart always.

Rocket

December 3, 2010

Martin is beautiful now and forever.

Poppy

December 3, 2010

I loved How Martin was such a loving and sweet child.

Uncle Danny

December 3, 2010

I remember how we always laughed at the same things especially with the kids. I think he really enjoyed being around the Kids. I love you.

Dyllan Stubo

December 3, 2010

I remember his deep voice and how he would give us good gifts. Sometimes. I will miss you.

Nicolas Clavel

December 3, 2010

I remember how Martin would always play with me and throw me on the couch! I will always miss you.

Sean Stubo

December 3, 2010

I think the word extreme describes Martin. He could do anything, and I looked up to him so much. I will always love you.

Lucas Clavel

December 3, 2010

I will always love you.

Ryan Stubo

December 3, 2010

I will always remember you.

gail kennel

December 3, 2010

Dear Michael,Stephanie and Danielle,
Words are very inadequate to express the sorrow I am feeling.Please accept my heartfelt condolences.May God bless you,and endow you with his love and care.
Love Cousin Gail

Suzanne McKemey

December 3, 2010

Oh Martin,

I remember how quiet and nervous you were when you joined our third grade class at AIS. However, you landed in a special group of boys and girls. They immediately saw in you a boy with a huge heart who would be a warm and funny friend. It wasn't long until it seemed that you had been at AIS for years rather than just a few days.

It breaks my heart to write in a memorial guestbook for you. I am thankful that your family moved to Belgium and I got to be your teacher. You touched a lot of lives at AIS and you will live on in our hearts.

With much love,

Davene

December 3, 2010

This Song is from me to you Martin, I know you are always going to be with us in our hearts!!!

Deepest Condolences and Much Love from the Oberholster Family.

~~~A Song For A Broken Heart~~~

I still remember, one November,
When I saw his smiling face.
That beautiful child with a spirit so wild,
full of hope and a future so great.

Its hard to think how we once were,
He was a best friend and so much more,
I hate the word was cause it means that he aint here, though I know he watching over like before.

Hearts so pure, so broken and unsure,
and even though we struggle
its together we get through,
and now hes gone and i want him
back so much it hurts.
Its gonna a take while to mend our broken hearts.

Its hard to think how we once were,
running in the sun,
with a luck so fast
it all goes by like a flash,
cant undo wats been done.

I'll pray for his soul,
so precious to God.
At least we know now the pain is gone.
I'll wait for the day,
to see his face again,
we will always share the laughs,
the pain, and the Love.

Its hard to think,
but I wont forget you,
You are always in our hearts.
Its hard to think,
that a life can be taken,
better not take for granted,
what we got.

Your life was never in vain,
because you touched us all,
and though we cant see you,
nothing can keep us apart.

Its hard to think how we once were,
Martin was our best friend
and so much more,
I hate the word was
cause it means, that he
aint here tho i know,
Martin will always be watching
over us, just like before.

Keirsten Fischer

December 3, 2010

Dear Martin -

I can't believe you're gone.

Though I spent limited time with you, you made such an impression on me. I felt like you were my little nephew, as you were Kristen's and each time I saw you, it made me hopeful that I would be as close to my nephew as he grew, just as you and Kristen remained close.

Your family loved you so much and I'm so sad for their hurt and pain for missing you in their lives. You were very special and brought them many years laughs and love that they shared with us. Those are the memories they will hold on to, to keep you close in their hearts and you will forever live there.

You'll be missed Martin and I feel blessed to have known you.

Rest in Peace.

Keirsten

Susan Ontiveros

December 3, 2010

Martin, You were a special student and a warm and wonderful young man. Your smile and laugh lit up any room you were in and even though it has been a long time since I have seen you, you will be in my heart forever.
My love to Danielle and your parents. They are in my thoughts and prayers.
Much love always.

Scott Family

December 3, 2010

Our deepest condolences.

John Wouters

December 3, 2010

I was so sorry to hear from your loss. Mu thoughts and love go out to you Michael, Stephanie and Danielle. Plase let me know if there is something i can do for you in this sad time or even later.

John Wouters

December 3, 2010

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
My love and thoughts go out to you Michael, Stephanie and Danielle and the whole Hershman Family.

Mindy Bacola

December 2, 2010

I have know the Hershman family for as long as I can remember. My thoughts and love go to Michael, Stephanie and Danielle.

I really can remember the joyous occasions that I spent getting to know Martin Hershman. I remember his beautiful Bar Mitzvah, I was so impressed by him...and more recently at a summer family BBQ I remember being upstairs in Martin's room we talked, and he showed me his things, and photos his father gave to him. Martin Hershman was truly a special person and I was lucky to have spent the time I did around him.

Simon & Sandy Bacola

December 2, 2010

To The Hershman Family,
We cannot imagine your pain. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your entire family.

Love,
The Bacola Family

Christopher Hosking

December 2, 2010

To Martin:

When we met, we were just little boys in a strange new world. But, instantly, you became my best friend, and from there we had the time of our lives.

At times you lead me through our childhood, and at other times I lead you. Always protecting each other, always there for one another.

Now all my fond memories of earlier times are those shared with you.

But as we hit our teens you had to leave, and I remember growing angry. Angry that we couldn’t always be carelessly young and together.

We saw each other again though, in lucky moments. Where you came back, or in a golden summer when I was gifted with staying with you and your family.

Yet when we last saw each other, we were still just boys.
And it breaks my heart now that we will not shake hands as young men.
That we can never now see each other as the strong men we were always going to become.

Now, as before, you have left. This time there is no anger - this time there is only the emptiness of a strange world without you, and a true appreciation for ever having met you.
You were always the stronger between us two, Martin.

I always have been, and forever will be, a best friend to you.

I love you brother.

Michael Mazor

December 2, 2010

Oh man, it's been so long since the last time I saw you... I still remember your dog,Lucky... I remember the times we had massive pillow fights in my garden and would just have a blast...

You're someone I never forgot about, I just wish I had stayed in touch with you..

You won't be forgotten, and that's a promise

Love, Michael.

December 2, 2010

I only recently got introduced to Danielle by my roommate, but in the short time i've known her, I've learned that she's such a good person with a really big heart. Danielle, I'm sure your brother was the same way and I am really sorry for your loss. I know what it's like to lose someone so close to you... But as long as you embrace all the love that Martin had in his life- and all the love and support you still have in yours- you will stay strong.

-Jackie Lopez, UCLA

Natalie Verbraeken

December 2, 2010

Dear Martin,

We will miss you so much... You'll always be Rayn's big cousin. Forever in our hearts. Sara-Rayn & Natalie

Danielle Hershman

December 2, 2010

<3 XOXO Martin.

Lucky and Martin.

Danielle Hershman

December 2, 2010

Dear Martin,

I don't know what happened or how or why. I just want you to know that I love you very much. Mom and Dad miss you incredibly....You were so loved.

I wish we had more time to talk but when I think about everything, every memory that sticks out it just shows me what an amazing person you were.

Remember how much you loved sunflowers when you were a kid? Or the damn goldfish that kept dying on you. For a week straight I remember we got a new goldfish every day. Or when we got Lucky? Lucky misses you too. Dumb dog is all out of sorts.

Remember when we'd travel together? And we felt so "grown up" traveling on our own. Or when we moved to LA and you turned 18...we went to the hookah bar together. Or all those conversations we had on the phone together. Talking about health and I loved how you took interest in my school asking me about it.

The whole family is here. They all love you. I love you.

Your Big Sister

Top of Citidelle Dinant

Gerald Stubo

December 2, 2010

Mohawk

Gerald Stubo

December 2, 2010

Andrea giving Martin Haircut

Gerald Stubo

December 2, 2010

Verdun

Gerald Stubo

December 2, 2010

point du hoc

Gerald Stubo

December 2, 2010

Bayeux

Gerald Stubo

December 2, 2010

kayaking lesse river

Gerald Stubo

December 2, 2010

kayaking lesse river

Gerald Stubo

December 2, 2010

Dinant Citadelle

Gerald Stubo

December 2, 2010

Dinant Cathedral

Gerald Stubo

December 2, 2010

gerald stubo

December 2, 2010

Dear Martin, Together we went on trips that took us to Dinant , Normandy, Amiens , Somme River Valley, Bastogne and Verdun. Revered ground where we paid our respects and often pondered the many young men that had fallen in the countless battlefields that gave rise to such Monuments and Memorials throughout Europe. It was historic, educating, inspiring, often surreal, but always fun. I now pay my honor and respects to you, for painfully you will no longer be next to me, but forever in my heart. I will love you and remember you always, Uncle Jerry