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Jason Vogel
May 31, 2025
The Melvin J. Tonkon Scholarship for future doctors kickstarted the college career of my son, Ben Vogel, and helped him get through USC. After USC he worked for 2 years doing medical research at Children's Hospital Los Angeles. Next year he will enter medical school at a UCLA. I hope that he will have the same kind of impact as Dr. Tonkon and can pay forward the generosity of his family's scholarship. Thank you Edie and sons.
Peter Collins
August 10, 2024
Mel was my `brother´ from across the sea.
From the day we met in 1969, we were close.
When he came to my home and stayed for two weeks, my mother treated him like a son, and when my wife and I went to America in 1975, his dear parents, welcomed us like long lost family.
We flew out to Sacramento and spent two weeks with Mel, his wife Edie and baby Jayson, and had a great time.
In 1987, we went to Jayson´s Barmitzvah in Newport Beach which was fantastic!
In 1995, I flew to California on my own, as my darling Jo passed away in 1992. What a beautiful home in Laguna Beach!
And what a vacation!
In 2004. I went to Jayson´s wedding, where I saw Mel for the last time.
The sad news that he had died was a terrible shock to me and my family.
He is always in my haart!
A wonderful kind human being!
Peter Collins
Bushey,
England
Peter Collins
August 9, 2020
My ‘brother’ ! Memories in California in 1975, 1987, and 1995.
Memories in Philadelphia in 2004,
Memories in London on many occasions, but significantly In 1991.
I look at the photos and DVD’s, and am so glad that l still have them!
My family and l will never forget his warmth and generosity.
Peter Collins,
Londo,
England
PETER COLLINS
July 20, 2020
Mel was my 'brother'.
From the first time we met in Mallorca in 1969,until his death in 2006. Even though I lived in London, England, we corresponded often.
When he came to London, after we had first met in Mallorca, he stayed in my home for two weeks, and my mother called him 'her third son'.
When my late wife Jo, and I, visited his dear parents Laura and Cy in 1975, it was like meeting our family, and they treated us like we were the Royal Family. Then, we flew out to Sacramento, where Mel was living with his wife Edie, we had a fantastic time!
In 1987, my family flew to America again, and stayed in Mel's beach house, and went to Mel's older son Jayson's barmitzvah in Newport Beach, an evening I will always remember.
After my dear wife Jo passed away tragically in 1992, three years later, I flew out to Mel's newly designed beach house in Laguna Beach, and spent two weeks there, having peace, and getting away from the stress of trying to bring up two young children. Mel and Edie were so supportive, and even when I arrived after a 12 hour flight, they put on a party for me as I had flown out on my birthday.
In 1991, Mel and Edie came to London to attend my son Gary's barmitzvah, and Mel made a fantastic speech.
About ten years later, I was at Jayson's wedding in Philadelphia, and that was the last time I saw Mel, although we corresponded via he phone or by letter.
He then told me about his cancer, and how he fought against it, and then the day after my first grandchild was born, on August 2nd 2006, Jayson called me, in tears, telling me that his dad had died.
I cried also. Such a fine human being, who had helped to save countless lives, who was so kind and considerate to all who knew him, especially me, was no longer here.
My 'Brother' Mel! He will always be in my heart, I will cherish the times we shared together.
Peter Collins, London, England.
P.S. I decided to look up Mel's name on google, just two week's before the fourteenth anniversary of Mel's passing. As usual I will contact Jayson then, but felt now, that I had to say a few words.
A K
September 7, 2006
Dr. Tonkon was the best doctor i have ever been to. He was always very attentive to my concerns and spent all the time I needed. I wish other doctors were so professional and personaly vested in your health as he was.
I will miss him trmendously.
Deborah Best
August 31, 2006
I was so shocked to find out today that Dr. Mel had passed. I had no idea he was ill. It was clearly evident that he was a man who loved what he did and loved to teach and share. Dr. Mel was a real Mensch ! I will miss him along with the care he took of my heart. He and his Staff were immediately responsive to their patients. I hope all those he taught takes that one lesson with them. My heartfelt condolences to all his Family, Friends, Co-Workers and his Patients.
Helene Newman
August 26, 2006
Mel was a special man. I will miss him deeply. He and my husband Bob were life long friends. Mel will always be alive in our hearts. We had so many happy times with Mel and Edie.
I feel so sad but so happy to have known Mel. Helene
Jennifer Clark
August 26, 2006
Dr. Tonkon taught me so much during the 4 years I worked for him. He was a wonderful physician. Rest in peace Dr. T.
Ben (BH) Barnett
August 25, 2006
Dr. Mel Tonkon, my Doctor (both as a Cardiologist and Internist) and whom I also considered as a friend for the past 12 years, and for my wife Clory for the past 5 years. I feel blessed to have found him and known him. He was an unusually great man and his passing will be a big loss to all.
I saw him just three weeks before his death, I had no idea he was ill. He looked fine, big smile as usual, and warm conversation as well.
He always went above and beyond for me. Over the years he helped me with problems not even directly related to my health. A very compassionate as well as a real standup guy! He always took the time to show interest in my life as well as my health. My annual physicals and test were always thorough. Unlike most Doctors I have had, he would always follow up with a complete and easy to read professional looking report for my records. At times over the years when I had a question and would dial in his directory number at his office, on more than one occasion he would answer the phone himself instead of letting it go to the answering machine. He would always take the time to help. With his busy schedule, this always amazed me. He was a real man who would tell me when I was being a "putz", and comfort me when I needed it. In his practice he would do those little extra things; newsletters, healthy snacks, as well as coffee and tea in the waiting room.
He was an amazing man and inspired many. His Curriculum Vitae was over 60 pages long.
In this day and age it is a rare gift to have the security of having a phsician like Dr. Tonkon was, but I believe that Mel is still looking out for us all in some angelic way.
May God always bless his family!
Life is very short, live everyday and every minute well.
Art Liss
August 25, 2006
Mel was my oldest friend going back to Junior H.S. He and I vowed at our high school graduation in 1963 to call each other New Years Eve of the year 2000. A 37 year old promise made, and promise kept.
G. Sabine
August 24, 2006
Dr. Tonkon graciously attended to my Mother on Mother's Day while she was in Hoag Hospital several years ago. I will never forget his kindness.
Sam and Raylene Goldstein
August 23, 2006
We wake up each day thinking Mel is still with us as before. That seems to come with the memories of the good times together. Mel, you will be missed and never forgotten.
Bob Vargo
August 21, 2006
I only knew Dr. Tonkon for one year. He helped me with the smoking cessation program at Apex Research Institute. He was an expert in his field and will be sorely missed. Condolences to his family.
Jenny Haire
August 21, 2006
It was a pleasure being an employee of Dr T for ten years. I will miss him deeply. Seeing him on a regular basis will truly be difficult.
Michael Remais
August 20, 2006
Dr. Tonkon will be remembered as the very caring physician of our father. He made the world a better place.
August 16, 2006
Joe and Lorraine Criniti
Michael J. Tabas
August 16, 2006
From one MJT to another MJT, he always wore a smile.
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