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Patrick Lyons DeYoung

1926 - 2016

Patrick Lyons DeYoung obituary, 1926-2016, Los Angeles, CA

Patrick DeYoung Obituary

August 2, 1926 - November 11, 2016 On the evening of Veteran's Day, we lost our beloved Patrick to complications following surgery. He lived each of his 90 years with unparalleled gusto, a huge heart, constant curiosity, few complaints, and wholly devoted to his family. He was truly loved and will be missed by all. Beginning in his birthplace of Ann Arbor, Michigan in 1926, Patrick lived all over the world. He lived with his grandparents for a time in Hawaii, sold airplanes in Mexico, South America and Washington DC, worked for the Marshall Plan in Paris, served on numerous boards in Santa Barbara, and regularly escaped to his family's home in Big Sur. He graduated from Canoga Park High School, then Stanford University after spending a year in the Navy where he was unable to serve due to poor eyesight. He spend the last twenty years married to his beloved wife Marilyn (Missy) Chandler DeYoung and living in Santa Barbara, where he could be spotted around town in his white Firebird convertible, always looking dapper in a hat and sport coat. He is survived by his wife Missy and many children, stepchildren and grandchildren. His children are Danny and Celia DeYoung, Gloria DeYoung, Linda DeYoung and Pat and Stephanie DeYoung. His stepchildren are Torrey Ann, Athena and Paget Mitchell, Harry Chandler, Cathleen and Terry Eckhardt, Michael and Sheryl Chandler and Carolyn Chandler. His grandchildren are Jordan Titzman, Spencer Titzman, Emma DeYoung Stoddard, Alexandra Ghinn, Finnoula Ghinn and Cordelia DeYoung. He has 15 Chandler step-grandchildren. A memorial service will be held at All Saints by the Sea Episcopal Church in Montecito at 4:30 pm on Saturday, November 26, 2016. Donations may be sent to the Young America Foundation, 217 State Street, Santa Barbara, CA 93101.

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Nov. 16 to Nov. 17, 2016.

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November 14, 2017

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your loved one. May reflecting on all the good times youve share together help ease the pain that you now feel. May the God of all comfort strengthen you during this time of sadness and His promise for the future bring you peace. (Hosea 13:14)

November 14, 2017

My sincere condolences to Mr. DeYoungs loving wife and extended family. Take comfort in the words in the book of John 6:40; Thru His word HE gives us the hope of seeing our loved one again.
Rest in peace. You will be missed.

Julia---

Laura Briggin

November 23, 2016

Having just sat by Patrick and Missy at their wonderful memorial they hosted for my mom Bootie I am honored to be an extended member of the tribe. With condolences to Missy- sending my love. Laura

November 21, 2016

Our deepest sympathies to Missy and all of those he has left with us. May he Rest In Peace having
lived an incredibly full life. Bill&Sue Bauman

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