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Nathan H.
July 6, 2025
I know Scott has been gone a while now. I just wanted to share that he sponsored me early in sobriety after my sponsor died. I am 39 years sober now and will always be grateful for the example and kindness showed me back in my very early days of sobriety. He made a difference and the world was made better for knowing him.
Diane
June 26, 2025
Scott you were the first circuit speaker I saw in my first year at the gratitude round up June 1993. Forever memorable and will always be grateful for finding your talks on youtube.
Trish S.
June 18, 2025
Scott, your spirit lives on forever with the message you so freely shared. Your speaker tapes are helping addicts/alcoholics to this day, including this one ;-). How special this program of now 90 years is. Whether Bill and Dr. Bob could foresee the future of AA and the program of recovery back then or not is immaterial to the hands of God and mind of man all over it. Page 68 of the Big Book states: "The verdict of the ages is that all men of faith have courage. They trust their God. We do not apologize for God, instead we LET him demonstrate through us what he can do". Thank you for your courage and faith, Scott. You indeed LET Him demonstrate through your own work, what he can do. Long live AA.
tom cunliffe
June 3, 2025
Scott was my sponcer from 1989 until 1993 ,thanks to him I learned the program of AA ,and have a life today .
Trey Williams
April 24, 2025
Thank you for sharing your message about how AA saved your marriage. I am back with my wife of38 years and have hope and the tools to be with the love of my life as long as God keeps us together.
Friend of Bill's
September 6, 2024
Thank you, so much.
Reggie Jones
June 5, 2024
I was just remembering Scott and his positive message and outstanding personality that shone thru as he shared. I had the blessing of hearing/seeing Scott in person at the Sunflower Roundup in Kansas City, Ks on Feb 25, 1994. I listen every once in a while. Loved how he told the newcomer with a plan, "don't use the plan, tell us the plan, we want to hear your plan" so funny but true! Hope his wife and boys are well.
Reggie J, Princeton, TX
Adam P.
May 8, 2024
The love your spirit transcends is working miracles in my life today.
Bill Bird
October 23, 2023
Dear Scott, I was a student and radio broadcaster at a national convention in L.A. in 1984- April of 1984 at Studio City,CA and a member of a recovery program. I needed a meeting, called Central Office and you picked me up and took me to the Friday Log Cabin Group Candlelight Mtg. Thank you , Scott. In 1997, a friend gave me a copy of one of your talks. Our lives were saved by the miracles " in the rooms". Peace.
Tyler
February 6, 2023
Your speaking points have truly impacted me and my friends immensely. I was sad to hear upon listening to you speak that you had passed. I wish I had the honor to meet you but I know I'll meet you after this life brother. Thank you for your service and sharing your experience, strength, and hope.
Liz Eiger
June 2, 2022
Scott, my precious cousin. You were a blessing in my life. I am so happy we got to spend time together at Aunt Rose's 90th and my Mom's 90th birthdays. May you always be a light in the darkness. XOXO
John
October 5, 2021
Scott, thanks for everything. I cherish the recordings. They continue to help me tremendously. God bless you and your family.
Phoenix Redhawk
February 22, 2021
My precious cousin - I've been thinking about you so much the last few days. I love going through childhood and "grown up" photos of you / us. You were always my #1, my special cousin that I could just be myself with. Your smile, laugh and your presence will always remain with me. You touched so many lives. May you be at peace and may your words of wisdom continue to touch lives and hearts. Love you gigantically!
Erin
October 23, 2020
Dear Scott,
Thank you so very much for your message of hope. Twelve years after your passing, I feel your big presence & strength through the recordings. Your wisdom brings me such clarity and relief. May peace be with you and your family.
Erin
Dai McBride
September 21, 2020
RIP Scott thanks for ur wisdom
Paul Harvey
August 27, 2020
I cannot say how moved I am to hear the passing of this wonderful example of the AA message. I have spent the last 2 days listening to Scott and his and Nancy’s story lit my heart. God bless Scott and thank you for showing me what is important.
Gina Angelo
December 31, 2019
I'm sad to discover Scott Redman has passed. He was the main speaker years ago at a conference in Lake Geneva, WI. His sharing shifted gears in my recovery. He brought humor to recovery from a deadly disease. Blessings to his wife, Nancy & his children. I carry his message.
June 7, 2019
Scott was a friend, I met him in the rooms and we became friends. He is an important part of my life.
Piri
June 6, 2019
In 1976 I was a 15 year old student (member? Camper?) for a 6 week summerstock program at Robert Louis Stevenson school in NYC. Scott was our director. Naturaly as a young shy & less than trusting girl I was in awe of him - him with his filterless Pall Malls & "larger than any room" personality could ever contain but that summer was transformative for me. New to NY, new to improv, new to new people. I have always treasured that summer & the encouragement and acceptance Scott always showed. Fast forward to 2001 (myself 9 years sober) & I'm at a Round Up in the Antelope Valley, CA. It's HIM. Isn't it amazing the people we have these very strong connections to - whenever in your life - end up running into us again. In the program. We ARE the chosen ones. What a special, special man. I'm sorry he has left us but so, so grateful to have known him as a kid & then to have had his path cross mine again as an adult.
Kimberly Pence
January 12, 2019
Heard one of your talks on YouTube tonight. You had the magic and where one of the pockets of enthusiasm that I live to find.
Helen Griffiths
June 8, 2018
A friend I never knew, but feel like I do... I got sober after Scott's passing, just wanted to say that even when he's gone he's helping me along my path with the most uplifting, truly inspirational tapes that I have had and am having the pleasure of listening to on an almost weekly basis.
Evon Had
February 7, 2018
I was driving today and needed to hear your voice, I put on your DVD and listened to your speak in N.Y after 9/11. I love the story of the woman that made the tree her GOD ,one day the city came in and cut the tree down, the woman was running after the garbage truck and said OH GOD PLEASE SAVE ME TREE.
Richard Williams
January 24, 2018
Heard your name mentioned today at Moorpark and it made me smile and reminded me how grateful I am to have known you! Miss You Still!
James S
June 6, 2017
Remembering you today, as I do every day. I would have never believed when we met how you would change my life. Your light still shines brightly even when you took it to another room. Much love
Benny Wonka
April 23, 2017
I was so blessed by Scott's powerful message. Godspeed my homey...
Chip B.
July 8, 2008
I have several of Scott's recordings, which have been an incredible gift to me. His ability to bring humor into an often depressing subject was amazing. He taught me the value of laughing at the things we've done and thought, while realizing the seriousness of the disease.
Scott will be missed but certainly not forgotten.
Patrick T
July 1, 2008
I just heard Scott's message for the first time, maybe by some act of my HP, or maybe he was just bumped up on XA due to his death....either way, it was powerfull and funny. It was soo amazing i had to know more about this man.....I am sad at what i found. However he is now with that one that we cannot fully understand in our mortal human state, and i hope now he does!
May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back.May the sun shine warm upon your face.May the rains fall soft upon your fields and until we meet again, May the Lord hold you in the palm of His hand.
Kathleen McGrath
June 30, 2008
I never met Scott personally, but his warmth and humor and honesty are palpable and I'm grateful that he will remain with many of us in his recordings. My deepest sympathies to Nancy and Micah and Jesse. It's awful to lose such a wonderful light and vibrant presence. Yet, he made it clear that each of you gave as much to his life as he did to yours. His deep love for each of you has healed and enriched my own family relationships in ways impossible to describe.
Chris Lyons
June 30, 2008
Scott was a very special person and helped many people with his message. I've seen him him speak and listen to his CD's and always went awy feeling better. Thank you Scott for touching so many lives. Your family and friends are in my prayers.
Kate Rake
June 25, 2008
I have been listening to a wonderful set of CDs on the steps and I wanted to contact you to say thank you for the insights and inspiration so I "googled" your name. I had no idea you had taken your light to another room. Thank you for your journey and how it touched mine.
Barbara Adams
June 23, 2008
Scott was a beautiful soul. I'm grateful I got to know him a litte. I'm thinking of you and your family. I send you a big hug. I'm sorry truly sorry for your loss.
Love, Barbara
Amber McMillion
June 23, 2008
I just got done listening to a speaker CD of Scott's and immediately did a search because I wanted to put a face to such a powerful and entertaining message. This was not at all the thing I expected to find.
My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and his sons during this time.
William N.
June 22, 2008
My deepest sympathies and heartfelt condolences go out to Scott's family. May God bless you and give you strength for your tragic loss.
Scott, you will be missed by thousands. You taught me a lot just by seeing you in the rooms and speaking to you whenever you would visit Carlsbad and Vista. I am profoundly grateful for your friendship and your message will stay with me forever. You taught me to laugh at myself and not to take myself so seriously. Knowing you was a gift and a true blessing. May your legacy and spirit live on.
Wynter Spencer
June 19, 2008
Scott made me laugh, when I all I wanted to do was cry. Scott brought me comfort as only someone who spoke from the heart can. I wanted to see him in person, but I will be forever grateful that I got to hear his message. Prayers for your family.
Linda Gardner
June 17, 2008
Scott was an inspiration to me and I will never forget him. My love and best wishes to Nancy and his boys.
Jeffrey Singer
June 17, 2008
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. May G-d Bless you during your time of mourning.
Kimberly Clawson
June 16, 2008
Scott's words and humor have been true blessings in my life. Peace to your family.
Teresa B.
June 16, 2008
Scott was a wonderful example. He will be missed. But his message will live on.
David Knox
June 16, 2008
Nancy, I am so sorry for your loss. Scott helped me in ways that I you could not imagine.
Bridget Cassidy
June 16, 2008
I heard Scott for the first time on tape and then in person in Milwaukee, WI. He brought laugther and lightness into my life. I will never forget his humor, the way he spoke so lovingly of his family, and his eloquent message of recovery.
Deborah Jackson
June 16, 2008
Hi, I've learned so much from Scott and have never had the priviledge of meeting him..I thank you all for sharing him with us..he is now one of those wonderful stars in the sky. Sending you blessings.. Deborah
David Edelfelt
June 15, 2008
To Scott: Thank you: for sharing yourself with us, your experience, your strength, your hope, your humor, your time, and mostly your love of Life. You will be missed, but you will live on through your recorded talks as long as there are devices to play them and people who will want to listen to your wit and wisdom -- in other words, forever.
To Scott's Family: Thank you for sharing Scott with us. May your heavy hearts be touched by the tender love of the God whom Scott loved to talk and joke about... and who now has welcomed Scott to a very special place in His presence.
To Scott's Thousands of Friends and Admirers: Let us all honor this beautiful spirit by living something Scott believed; by being real... by bringing a smile to someone else's face... by passing along the gifts we've been given, and by doing the best we can to live happy, joyous and free lives, a day at a time.
with gratitude,
taylor t
June 15, 2008
Nothing was funny when I was first coming around. I just was not getting it. My sponsor, in desperation, sent me some tapes. One of them was a talk of Scott R's. He made me laugh, a lot!!!..I know that helped open the crack for God to start getting bigger. I am so grateful to him. What a sad thing for your family. I am so sorry.
Annette W
June 15, 2008
What an inspiration Scott has been in my life and many others. I'm grateful to have had the opportunity to meet him and hear him speak many times in the past few years. God bless the family and may they know Scott brought comfort and love to so many.
C
June 15, 2008
Scott's humor was infectious and his ability to "get up and try again" no matter what was truly inspirational. He touched my heart many times - may his humor, heart and courage continue in all of us. Blessings to his family and friends as you go through these next few weeks and months, I will keep all of you in my prayers.
LaVerne Hayes
June 15, 2008
always remember god got your back and keep laughter alive, he would have wanted that..
Sheila Armstrong
June 15, 2008
I always felt better by just being around Scott. The love for his boys and Nancy was in every talk he ever gave. Like scott always said " I don't like change that I don't like." This is one of those. Thank you for your hope and laughter, I will miss you my friend.
Lisa M
June 13, 2008
Scott will be missed by thousands. I am so grateful to have met him and to have had the chance to hear him speak. His humor and wit will be missed terribly - -thank goodness we can listen to his CDs over and over and over......God bless the whole Redman family.
Diane Vermette
June 13, 2008
To Scott's family,
May you have all the laughter, love, and spirit filled generosity your loved one so freely gave. He will be sorely missed but never gone.
Christine Barrera
June 13, 2008
I was truly touched but Scott's honesty and his ability to share his human side with others--
My deepest sympathy to the Redman family and all his loved ones.
Debi Roberts
June 13, 2008
I will never forget the sound of Scott's words, "Well, we're getting the gift now!", followed by that wonderful, infectious laugh. While his words might have been said with sarcasm, it is with all sincerity that I say Scott was a gift to all of us who heard him share.
Don France
June 13, 2008
To Scott's Family...
I met and heard Scott when he spoke in Danville, CA and he touched my heart with his humor and humility. I often listen to the cd of his talk so I know he will live on through his words. Thank you for sharing him with us! My deepest sympathy for your loss.
Priscilla Huitt
June 12, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the Redman family. Scott always spoke of his love for his family.
He touched my heart and life as he has many. His story will continue to help countless others in the years to come.
Priscilla H., Norman, OK
Anna Christina Nelson
June 12, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to the family. It hurts to lose a loved one. Scott helped a lot of people and he will be missed greatly by many.
Brian R.
June 12, 2008
In 1995 I heard Scott for the 1st time @ Seaside, OR. He changed my life. In 1999 I saw him again in Olympia, WA. I was looking forward to seeing him recently in Olympia again. He was missed by all. With love from Washington
Kevin Deal
June 11, 2008
I wish I suddenly didn't burst out in tears. Knowing you were going to hear Scott speak was something that would guarantee a great night with good vibes and go home feeling like the world really is OK.
Were it not for our affiliation, I would never meet people of this quality. I know your higher power awaits you with open arms Scott.
Julie Poirier
June 11, 2008
I will never forget Scott Redmond. I loved who he was, what he shared and what he did for me through his example and sharing of this program. May God's blessings and amazing grace be upon his family and dear friends always. He will be so missed.
Noreen Loftus-Spilman
June 11, 2008
I thank you, Scott, for trudging the road of happy destiny with us. You will be missed.
To the Redmond family, thank you for giving us your precious time with Scott. I am so sorry for your loss
Blessings
liz snell
June 11, 2008
to Scott's family, may God be with you and thank you for sharing Scott with us on the week-ends and week days. love ya
June 11, 2008
steve b.
thanks scott you'll live on
Suzanne W
June 11, 2008
Scott has influenced my spiritual life beyond measure. I've only met him once, but I've listened to him speak hundreds of times. I will continue to, for his legacy will live on in his message. God bless to his family and friends.
Jason D.
June 11, 2008
I really enjoyed what little time I spent with him in person, his words long meant a lot to me.
Sally Clausen
June 10, 2008
Dear Family of Scott,
Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers during these tough times.
in spirit
Sally...
Gary Coffman
June 10, 2008
Scott was a great example to many!!
Hilarious man... At the time of his death i happen to have one of his cd's still in the disc changer in my car. He always gave me so much hope and cracked me up at the same time!!!
Peace to the family... Thanks scott!!!
Rob & Angie B.
June 10, 2008
I asked God for strength that I may achieve and I was made weak that I might humbly learn to obey.
I asked God for health that I might do great things and I was given sickness and I did miracles.
I asked God for power that I might have the praise of others and I was given powerlessness that I might feel the need of God.
I asked God for all things that I might enjoy life and I was given life that I might enjoy all things.
I got nothing that I asked for but everything that I hoped for.
Almost despite myself, my unspoken prayers were answered and I am among those most richly blessed.
Thank you Redman family for sharing Scott with us and teaching us about, "Throwing Buicks at each other."
'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God
will not protect you.'
With a heavy heart we pray....
Micki Baudoin
June 10, 2008
What a great spirit and sense of humor. Over the past many "one day at a time(s)", I have always gotten a smile when I think of, or hear, Scott. For him, I will continue to do so. Nancy and kids, please accept my heartfelt sympathy in this time of grief.
Laurie Adams
June 10, 2008
Dear Family and loved ones of Scott, We all hate it when one of us goes to the great beyond because we are never ready for that, but each one of us has our time. Scott gave love and laughter, probably right to the end, if I know anything about him. So how do you celebrate such a loss? With love and laughter and remembering all the funny things he did and said and how he loved each of you. As long as we have love in our hearts for him, he lives still. So you will meet again, in the mean time I hope you laugh and love and remember the good moments and stories because he would want you to be happy and move on after you grieve. What a bright light in our world. Thank you for sharing him with all of us...there are thousands of us around the world. He done good! My sympathy and my prayers with all of you.
Sue Church
June 10, 2008
Nancy
Scott will be greatly missed. He changed my life and that of many others with his story of getting the boys help.
I am so grateful for the weekend you and he spoke for us in Northern Illinois.
You and he have touched many hearts and God surely has a new angel.
God Bless You
Kim Cobb
June 10, 2008
My thoughts and Prayers go out to the family... Scott will be deeply missed....
Beth Hartley
June 10, 2008
Love and prayers to the family of this remarkable man - he touched hundreds of thousands of lives with his humor and outlook on life, and he will continue to live on as those of us around the country continue to tell his stories. So many phrases come to mind... "pay back ALL the money??" or one of my personal favorites "I guess you weren't specific enough with God when you told him you wanted to work for that company (the spatula story)". I am proud to be one of the ones whose life he touched.
Stephanie B.
June 10, 2008
We will miss Scott he touched alot of lives with his caring spirit.
Scott Crossland
June 10, 2008
Scott will be missed by so many people. I never knew Scott personally, but through his CDs I found hope & inspiration. My heart truly goes out to his family at this sad time.
Chuck Hartley
June 10, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with his family. I will miss Scott and "stealing" some of his humor.
brandee retherford
June 10, 2008
thoughts and prayers are with you-scott was a wonderful man and friend-he will be missed- brandee r. from norman, oklahoma
Terri Grusendorf
June 10, 2008
Every time that I've talked with Scott, he was always so grateful for his life. My heart and prayers goes out to his family. He was a great soul.
Michael Budd
June 10, 2008
Scott touched many lives with his wit and humor. He possessed a unique talent to help others and used it well.
Ajit
June 9, 2008
Nancy: Our deepest condolences to you and the family. A loved one here on earth has gone on to regale the souls up there with his wit and wisdom
May his soul rest in peace and God's grace be upon you and yours
Love
Vicki and Ajit
Prescilla & Gary Ingram
June 9, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you and you family during this time. Scott was always an example of love and friendship. He will be deeply missed.
Brandi Smith
June 9, 2008
Scott will be missed by so many who were lucky enough to have thier lives touched by his humor and unconditional love. I was blessed to have known him for the past 21 years. My love to his wife and the boys. Brandi, West Hills, CA
Elaine Wolf
June 9, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with Scot's family I am very sorry for your loss.
Krista Jasper
June 9, 2008
A beautiful spirit that effected millions - we will miss you dearly. Much love and light to your family and friends.
John Karwacki
June 9, 2008
Scott was a great speaker, an inspiration. Peace be with his wife and kids.
Jenni H.
June 9, 2008
Dear Family,
I never met Scott personally but he helped change my life. i head him at a conference and then later again and again though tapes and CD. He will be missed but not forgotten.
Corrie Long
June 9, 2008
Scott touched our lives and in doing so, changed our lives. We will miss him very much. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Sandy N
June 9, 2008
There was something quite unique about Scott. He was fully authentic, funny and intense so you pretty much always knew where you stood with him. He was a special friend and mentor and I will miss him greatly.
Kamden Seat
June 8, 2008
Scott was a special man and I'm grateful for the time I got to spend with him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
howard potratz
June 8, 2008
Scott was a very special friend for
many years and thru many things.
Happy Howard
Henry Stern
June 8, 2008
Scott was an important part of my life for many years, someone with whom I shared many things, and I will miss him very much.
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