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Betty Charles Obituary

I'm Betty Jo (Dody) Rhodes Hartsfield Pelton Charles. I was born in Dora, N.M. on July 18, 1926. I am the youngest of 12 children of William Hartwell Arnolphus Rhodes and Aletha Lorena Smith. I am survived by one sister, Billie Jean Rhodes Barton. In 1946, I married William Grant Hartsfield. We became the proud parents of Jack Lane and William Rhodes Hartsfield. My first husband preceded me in death, and in 1953, I married William Paul Pelton. We were blessed with a daughter, Paula Louise Pelton. In 1973, I took the opportunity to move to Lahaina, Hawaii where I enjoyed 12 years working and living on Maui. In 1985, I moved home to Las Cruces and married my long-time friend, John Oliver (J.O.) Charles. We became a blended family, adding four more sons, Henry Allan, John Oliver, James Edger and William Lee Charles. Gladly, I worked with J. O. in the operation of the Charles Pecan Farm. I was preceded in death by my husband J. O. In addition, I am survived by numerous nephews, nieces, grandchildren and great-grand children. I leave behind many wonderful friends who are invited to join my family at the memorial service that will be held at 1 p.m. on Friday, Feb. 22, 2013 in the La Paz-Grahams Funeral Home, 555 W. Amador, Las Cruces, NM 88001. In lieu of flowers please make donations to Mesilla Valley Hospice, 299 E. Montana, Las Cruces, NM 88005.

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Published by Las Cruces Sun-News from Feb. 20 to Feb. 21, 2013.

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February 20, 2013

Condolences from the Lee Matkin family. She made J.O. very happy and was a fine lady.

Marlena Beyer

February 20, 2013

My heart is broken.
All my hugs and love to all her children and grand-children ~ especially Bill, Jack & Paula. Its been so wonderful knowing Betty & J.O., I will miss her so very much.

February 20, 2013

Betty, you were always so kind to me, thank you and rest in peace. Gabriela Trujillo-Aguirre

Jamie Chang

February 20, 2013

Paula,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Jamie Chang

Cheryl and Klaus Cuthbert

February 20, 2013

We are sorry to hear of your loss Paula. Please accept our sincere sympathy. We pray the memories that you hold dear will be of comfort to you. God Bless her soul.

Cherie Stewart

February 20, 2013

I Love You Mama! You Will Always Be In My Heart. I Will Always Cherish The Beautiful Memories. Thank You For Allowing Me The Privilege (Yes It Is And Was A Privilege) To Become A Part Of Yours And J.O.'s Family. I Love You Much Mama!

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