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Gerald Kottmann Obituary

Gerald Eugene Kottmann July 29, 1965 – July 11, 2013 Gerald Eugene Kottmann passed away suddenly July 11, 2013 in Las Cruces, N.M., at the age of 47. Gerald was born in Los Alamos, N.M. on July 29, 1965. He is survived by his mother Diana Kottmann, his father John Kottmann, both of Los Alamos, and sisters Carole Zanone (Jon) of Colorado Springs, Colo., and Lisa McPeek-Brannen (Scott) of Farmington, N.M. He is also survived by niece Jessica Cordova, nephews Zachary and Austin Zanone, and Kevin McPeek III. He is also survived by maternal grandmother Doris Schonfeld of Lebanon, Mo., uncle Fred Schonfeld of Lebanon, Mo., and aunt Anna Bower (Joel), of Richmond, Calif. Also surviving is uncle Oscar Kottmann (Glynthia) of Davenport, Iowa, and aunt Faith Somers of Kendallville, Ind., and several cousins. He was preceded in death by maternal grandfather Fred Schonfeld in 2006. Gerald is also survived by his longtime friend, Delphine Tomei, whose dedicated love and care for Gerald throughout his last year was immeasurable. Gerald spent his childhood in Los Alamos, and graduated from Los Alamos High School in 1983. He studied music education at New Mexico State University in Las Cruces, N.M., ultimately working as Production Manager with the NMSU music department. He was a vital asset to the music department, involved in countless productions throughout his career. Music was always Gerald's passion and he enthusiastically shared that love with all who knew him. Gerald will be remembered for his keen sense of humor, quick wit, and zest for life even when times were tough. He embraced everybody, and treated everyone equally. He was a mentor to many, and a loyal friend to all. He will be missed. There will be a Celebration of Gerald's life at 2 p.m. Wednesday, July 17 at the Atkinson Recital Hall, NMSU Music Department on the NMSU Campus. In accordance with Gerald's wishes, his cremated remains will be interred at Guaje Pines Cemetery in Los Alamos at a later date, to be announced.

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Published by Las Cruces Sun-News on Jul. 16, 2013.

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Terri Alter

August 2, 2013

You will be missed.It was fun working with you in the recital hall.I regret that I didn't stay in touch after nmsu.My loss.
I'm sorry for your loss-whoever you are reading this now.

Victor Gibbs

July 21, 2013

I knew Ger throughout his life, and spoke at his memorial. He was my oldest friend, and now leaves a very large hole in my being.

Joe Luke

July 20, 2013

Gerry was always a good friend, enthusiastic supporter, and will be missed by those he touched.

Ann Marie Jones

July 20, 2013

I've know him since 1st grade at Pinon and went to school with him through high school. Hard to see him go. He will be missed!

Emily Duensing

July 20, 2013

I was in Gerald's graduation class in Los Alamos, and I remember him as a quiet, gentle soul with a quick wit and smile to match. Sounds like he was doing what he loved and accomplished so much. The posts testify to those many he touched. My prayers are with his family and friends who will miss him.

Harry McCaffrey

July 17, 2013

I met Gerald over 24 years ago, and worked with him all these years on Chamber Ballet productions and NM Senior Olympic dance and talent competitions. He was a talented, patient, intelligent, smart, humerous, really nice guy to work with. I enjoyed talking with Gerald on various subjects. He was a man of great potential, held back by health problems, but he touched a lot of people in positive ways. I'll miss you my friend, and certainly not forget you.

Ariel Lynn Foster

July 16, 2013

Gerald was my boss at the Atkinson Recital Hall for years, my mentor and my friend. He helped guide me to be a better person and to pursue my dreams in music. You will be so missed Ger!

camille Rendal

July 16, 2013

I too worked with Gerald on the Roswell project, as the artist.
We had that wonderful TV interview together. He was a brilliant composer. My prayers go out to his friends and family.

July 16, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of Gerald's passing. He was a brilliant composer and marvelous individual. He composed my music for the Intergalactic Belly Dance for the Roswell 97 performances. He lives forever in his music.

July 16, 2013

I knew Jer for many years, first as a student, then as performer who benefitted countless times from his expertise in handling the many facets of managing our recital and concert venues. A really sweet guy who would go out of his way to provide not only essential service but all the little extras that make a performer's life easier. Thanks again, Jer--we'll miss you.

July 15, 2013

so sorry , will miss you catman. Diana II.

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