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Alfred Marchand Obituary
After working his way up the ranks to lieutenant over 21 years with his hometown police department in New Mexico, Marchand was making vacation reservations when he happened upon a job posting for flight attendants late last year, his wife's best friend said.
On a whim, he signed up, said Connie Lane. "He just decided to do something really different. It really surprised us."
As it turned out, he loved it.
He and his wife of four years, Rebecca, had met for the weekend in Boston. She was scheduled to fly back to New Mexico when her husband flew off to work, but the pair almost changed plans to spend a few more hours together in the air. She considered switching to fly on his plane.
In the end, she worried that she might not be able to rearrange her flights to get home and kept her original plan.
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Memories and Condolences
for Alfred Marchand
Paul Veneto
December 29, 2024
Think of you often my friend.RIP.
PAULIESPUSH
Rene (Al) Melendez
March 22, 2024
What a tragedy! My heart still aches twenty three years later. I once went on a missions trip with him at a colonia in Juarez Mexico. He loved the Lord and had a servants heart. I believe the building housed orphans and they were putting the finishing touches to the two story cinder block building. That was the last time I remember seeing my brother in Christ. What a blessing it was to know him.
Joshua Marchand
August 24, 2021
Thank you all for your prayers and continued support in honoring my dad.
Mary Ehlenfeldt
August 23, 2021
Backing the Blue, and those that served. He died doing what he loved. This 9/11 I participate in the 9/11 Remembrance Run. I'll be carrying a tag with Alfred Marchand's name, and remembering the honor with which he served others. For personal reasons, I was hoping I would be able to run this race for a first responder, or a member of the flight crew. Not that the passengers were not equally important. I just had my reasons. But, I didn't specify, and would have been honored either way. I am honored to race for Alfred Marchand. Not only was he a first responder, but that day he was part of the flight crew. I can think of no greater honor. May his family find peace, and know his life, and service is not forgotten.
Danny Taylor
September 11, 2020
Just remembering...
That we were about the same age, in our early 20s, when Al took a night class from me at NMSU/Alamogordo...
That Al came to our house, in full patrolman's uniform, at our request, when four-year-old Jerico shoplifted some Michael Jackson bubble-gum cards and spoke to him so tenderly...
That Joshua and Jerico, who grew up on the same street, went on to play high-school football together...
That our lives were blessed by knowing Al Marchand.
Kayla Sowers
September 11, 2020
19 years today that we got the call to confirm you were on the second plane. 19 years its been since we last hugged you, heard your voice.19 years since we heard your laugh you crazy jokes u told that made no sense but made us laugh. 19 years we lived our lives living without you in them.19 years that a day doesnt go by we think about you.19 years just wish this day never happened or you didnt get on that plane. I know god called you for a reason to grt on that flight that day. I know its not fair but things happen for a reason.i wish you were here to see us kids grow up. I wish u were here to see your grandkids grow up.i wish u were here to see your son grow up to such amazing father,husband,brother and cousin. I know i will see you again one day miss you so much uncle al love kayla
Daryl Arzdorf
September 12, 2019
I am remembering Alfred as a classmate and friend at Shanley HS in Fargo. I tell Als story every September 11 to the classes I teach. Even now that I am retired and substitute teach. His story is an inspiration to all who hear it.
Danielle
August 29, 2019
Hello, my name is Danielle, I am a sophomore at Shanley High School, which is the same high school that Alfred went to when he lived in ND. I am learning and researching him, and the great and wonderful things that he did. My love and prayers go to his family and I wanted you to know that he is not forgotten and the world misses him.
Charlene Jones
August 19, 2018
Dear family of Alfred Marchland..my name is Charlene Marie Jones Flight attendant with American airlines based in BOS Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts..please forgive me for waiting 17 year's to offer you my sincere condolences for your son and husband Alfred..it took me until 2006 to finally visit NYC..I stood there and cried..I still cry..please know Alfred loved his career with United airlines..almost every flight attendant I know love what they DO..I commend Alfred for his bravery and commitment to his career..I salute and honor him..my mother in heaven always told me when you see a cardinal bird it means a loved one is close..I believe it..being from BOS I see cardinals a lot..I believe its my parents my friends family and my fellow crewmembers looking over me..I am one of the last flight attendants left from the original flight 11..that was my flight for year's..betty ong was my best friend..please know when you are eating riding in a car..sitting on your couch Alfred is on your shoulder..I shall NOT ever forget my crewmembers..may you always have tailwinds behind you slowly and gently pushing you forward..you have a wonderful brilliant son who did his career first class..God bless your family forever..Charlene Marie Jones Flight attendant American airlines BOS Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts
Amar Smith
July 20, 2018
Rip Love Amar
Michelle Meade
September 11, 2016
Thinking of you today...as we finished our interviews at United and were waiting for transport back...we were told not to say that we had been hired to the others in the lobby, but you took one look at my face and smiled at me..."You got the job, too, right?" I laughed, not knowing then you were a cop and could read people well...we chatted and I left that day with a new friend. Miss your smile and ability to put anyone at ease.
Diane Green-Hartley
September 11, 2016
I am wearing the bracelet I ordered with inscription: ALFRED MARCHAND UA #175 CREW. I wear it every year in Sept. So when people ask, I can share that you talked to my cousin 2 months before. You told her if a plane were ever to go dowm, you would have a few moments to bring a whole planeload of people to know Jesus before they left this world. God please bless Al's family today.
Ralph and Lori Crump
September 11, 2016
Miss you brother.
Novel Johansen
September 10, 2016
Even though I didn't know it, we were cousins by marriage. Regret not knowing you. But, we will have a family reunion. I appreciate your dedication n devotion to service. Loving you.
Del Newberry
January 22, 2016
Thanks Alfred for your great service in law enforcement and then your great service in the air. I lift up your family, friends and co-workers today. I pray for them to feel a bit of comfort, encouragement and peace today. Much love from Texas,
September 12, 2015
I had many different things I could say about AL I first met him in 84. ..he was the first responder at all of my factory adventures. .we both had a tramatic experience on my 30th birthday@6:30 am September 28th. ...he was by my side. ..When We Were Able To Talk About It WE Both Agreed WE Hated OUR Jobs. ..he wanted to see the world. .I just wanted to get away from the same pressure cooker. We both accomplished that. ..he was an amazing influence on my life. .
Melissa Blue
September 24, 2014
Again, so happy that they had another flight attendant who really loved his job and who really loved to fly in their last hours, all the passengers did to make their last moments pleasant .... it does really matter to know that fact. I know that God is watching over you and all the others in Heaven & your life wasn't wasted. You died for all of us.
Helen Kristensen
September 11, 2014
I met Al on a Toronto to Chicago flight in summer 2001. He was not working the flight but his enthusiasm for his new career was infectious. I was so impressed and proud to have someone like him representing United. He was truly amazing.
Angela Ritter
September 11, 2014
I was flying Sept 9th to indiana with my then 4 wk old daughter Al was my flight attendant....He sat with me and held my hand during take off cause I hate flying...then when my daughter got fussy he picked her up and just carried her all over the plane....she instantly feel in love with him and just cuddled him the whole flight....we talked about where we were from and when he told me he was from Alamo I told him my grandparents were there he told me to look him up the next time I was there and gave both of us the biggest hugs before we got off the plane....I was crushed when I heard he died....every year since then I make sure and tell my story about him...I dont ever want to forget.
Richard Alvarez
September 10, 2014
Thinking of you today LT. Lieutenant Marchand was my shift commander at the Alamogordo Police Dept. He was a kind and gentle person who always saw the good in people.
S J. Friscia II
August 7, 2014
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Jayne Martinez
July 23, 2014
I am a Flight Attendant for Alaska Airlines and I had the pleasure of meeting Alfred on his way to interview for his Flight Attendant position with United Airlines. My crew and I didn't believe him when he told us what he was doing because he was so tough and burly and didn't seem to fit "the mold". Actually, I thought he was teasing us or making fun of us. However, after talking to him for awhile we realized how kind and lighthearted he was and so very personable that we were sure that he indeed would fit into the Flight Attendant world. We started giving him advice, interview tips and asked him practice questions to get him prepared for his interview. (which I have felt guilt for ever since 9/11) My heart absolutely broke when I saw his face on the news that horrible day. I'm sure he would have been hired with or without our help but i still can't help but feel a bit of responsibility for his fate. We had a lot of fun with him on that flight and I will never forget him. Alfred left a lasting impression on me and my heart still aches for someone I knew for less than 2 hours. On 9/11/2014 I will be doing a stair climb in honor of all the innocent people lost that day and I will where the name Alfred G. Marchand with pride while doing it. RIP Alfred
Joshua Marchand
July 22, 2014
What up pops!!! figured I'd drop a line> Love you dad> Joshua Marchand
February 7, 2014
I was a flight attendant for United Airlines and I remember flying with him once, he was friendly, I got the feeling that he was a good person.
Alison Pitt
September 11, 2013
I had the pleasure of flying with Alfred on LHR-BOS in June 2001,we worked together in the Business Cabin. He made a great impression on me as he was so humble in his ways. I took the mickey out of him for running around after demanding passengers when he could have been enjoying a peaceful retirement. His answer was that he felt blessed to have the opportunity to do something new and get benefits which enabled him to visit his family on the west coast. I remember thinking what a great attitude he had to life.
Now I feel blessed to have met him
Jeff Cook
September 11, 2013
Never forgetting.... Al was a great guy.
Daryl Arzdorf
September 11, 2013
Al and I went to Shanley High together. Al was a gentle soul and a kind spirt full of joy. I share his story with my High school students at Mankato East each year on this date. Al you do make a difference.
May 11, 2012
After twelve years remembering, I sat next to a church friend when she started discussing her original childhood residence being from Brooklyn and the towers were still standing. I started to think about the second plane and Lt. A. Marchand as well. May God send his blessings. Amen.
M Diaz
October 30, 2011
I never shared this with anyone, but I met Alfred in a London pub at Piccadilly Circus in June of 2001. I was with a friend when he sat next to us and asked if we were American. When we answered yes, he seemed pretty excited to meet two Americans in a pub full of what appeared to be semi rowdy Brits. I remember him to be a very friendly person. Our conversation was mainly on how much he loved what he did, and his prior law enforcement carrier. When I saw his face on 9/11, I recognized him right away, I was shocked to say the least. We just met this man randomly, in London, three months before the most horrific day in American history, and he was caught in the middle of it. I told the friend I was with in London, and she couldn't believe it either. We asked each other what could it have meant. I still wonder to this day. I don't believe in coincidences, so I know there was a reason for us to run into this man three months before his untimely death in a London pub. Unfortunately, I don't think I will ever figure it out. My God rest his soul, and may God bring peace to his surviving family.
Josh Heath
October 7, 2011
Alfred's mother Irene, lived next door to my family when I was very young. In fact she babysat me when my folks needed. Alfred would visit, and I can remember from early childhood to early teens, his visits. Josh if you read this, your Dad was a one of a kind!
Diane Thorsen
September 10, 2011
I wear a memorial bracelet with Alfred Marchand's name. My cousin sat by him on a flight back from Hawaii a few months before Sept. 11. Al told my cousin that he loved people and that he figured if a plane were ever to go down, he would be there to bring a whole plane full of people to know Jesus before they died. This touched my heart and when I read about him being a man of God who served others, I sent for the bracelet. That way I can share his testimony with anyone who asks.
Yvette Givens
September 14, 2010
We will never forget you Al! You are our hero!! We are at peace that you are enjoying your heavenly home where there are no sorrows or pain...rest in peace and enjoy God's fellowship! We hold you in our hearts forever!!
Peggy Childers
September 11, 2010
To the family of Alfred G. Marchand:
Alfred gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our heroes of September 11 be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you.
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Brittany
September 11, 2010
I cant believe its been nine years! AL i will never forget you and what an amazing man you were.. and your peanut butter cookies and that you can get everything at walmart! you are missed very much.. we will never forget!
THE NOW GROWN UP LITTLE GIRL WHO'S LIFE ALFRED CHANGED FOR THE BETTER
Marcella Nixon
September 11, 2010
Marcella Nixon
September 11, 2010
I am the mother of Holly Hanks and she looked up to him with a pure sincere heart even 9 years later it hurts her to know of this tragic loss.
Jeff Cook
September 11, 2010
Always remembering Al, and thinking of him. He was a sterling example of what 'a man should be.'
Sarah
December 17, 2009
To the family of Alfred Marchand,
Just wanted you to know that I still have the silver wrist band with Alfred Marchand engraved on it. It is a reminder of a special life that was taken that tragic day in Sept. of 2001. I know he was muched loved and still missed horribly. God Bless You.
Erica
September 11, 2009
Al hard to believe its been 8 years! You are missed everyday and not a day goes by that we dont remember you. You were such a great man who seemed to always know the right thing to say and do. I wish you were with us now but I know that you live on in our hearts forever. We miss you!
Brian Castelli
September 11, 2009
8 years since the day that changed all of us at United Airlines forever. Al you were such a kind and loving man and inspirational colleague every time this day returns upon us I remember you and the others aboard 175 that Tuesday morning.
Jeremy Varner
September 11, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Melinda Casares
August 2, 2009
Well Al.. its comin around again. We will get thru it like we have the past 7 yrs. but just know each year that it goes by, it NEVER gets easier! You would think i would miss u less and less as time goes by, but it is exactly the opposite. I miss you more and more! I still cant believe you're gone... U have been such a HUGE influince in my life. I remember when we went to Canada and u were driving me to the mall. I wanted to take a picture and accidentally opened the back of the camera. All the pictures that you took of family and friends in North Dakota were gone!! but u didnt get mad, u just looked at me and even tho i know u wanted to yell, u jus shrugged it off n said u would go get some new film. U always had that comfort feeling about u that always made me feel safe! i know u are still with me now and i hope i make u proud. Although i wish i could see u as i walk down the isle, or have you hold my children when they are born, i know u will be rite there with me thru it all. I honestly believe you are my guardian angel, and will get me thru life, as you would if u were still here with us. I love you so much and miss u incredibly!!!! See u soon! Love ur tunia.. <3
Bekah Graham
February 19, 2009
I stumbled upon this web site and saw a great opportunity to express how much I miss Uncle Al and wish he was here to tell a "story bout a man named Jed" to my 2 beautiful daughters, one born Sept 10th just the day before he went to heaven.... He loved telling this silly story to children.
Although in a better place, he is dearly missed.I know he is above watching over us.
Cynthia
August 3, 2008
Al miss your smiling face your anniversary is coming and I would like you to know I haven't quite made to New Mexico but only 1 hr away see you on the other side one day your friend and co-worker
cynthia Santos
August 3, 2008
My prayers are always with the Marchand family I worked that morning at the Boston Domicile I will never forget Al's face , he lived for a short time in New Bedford were I was born and I told him I was going to retire in Alber,New Mexico ,United Air Lines lost a good man. I lost a good friend. My heart,and prayers go out to Mrs.Marchand and family.
Rosalynn Bell
September 25, 2007
I only met Al once but he was good guy. I'm sorry for the loss of Al, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Remember he's in a better and far happier place and he's with Papa, Mildred and Carol. As well as those who knew and missed.
With Love,
Rosalynn
September 12, 2007
May St. Michael the Archangel continue to safeguard law officers in Alamogordo wherever they may be in these times of uncertainty and keep vigil watch over your loved in heaven. Amen.
Andrea Miles
September 12, 2007
Boy, yesterday (9/11/07) was so hard. I don't think there is a day that goes by that I don't think of Al. I will never forget Sep. 11, 2001. I am scarred by it's affects....even now, six years later.
I worked closely with Al several years ago, while I was Sales Mgr. at the Cellular One office in Alamogordo. Although I only knew him in a professional capacity, I thought a lot of him. Al was always professional, gracious and kind.
I remember hearing his name on the television news, on that day and my heart literally broke into a million pieces. All I could think about was his family. I still hurt for you all.
I wear a silver bracelet with Al's name and flight number engraved on it, in his memory. It serves as a reminder of just how precious life really is. I will never, ever forget. My life was changed forever on that day. I owe a huge debt of gratitude that can't ever be repaid.
To the family, know you're thought of often. We don't know eachother, but we are brothers & sisters in Christ. One day, we'll all be together.....what a glorious day that will be!
Be Blessed....You are truly loved.
P Tabbernor
June 17, 2007
In memory....
JANET MONCAYO (HARRIS)
March 26, 2007
I think of your family often as I went to school with Joshua and remember Al always saying hi to me as i walked to school with my cousin. My prayers are always with you and your family.
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Dawn Sproules
September 23, 2006
God Bless the Marchand Family,I hope and pray you find peace and happiness in your hearts.You will be in my prayers always.
Mary Swayzee (Avila)
September 14, 2006
I thought of you often these past couple of days and each time I'm reminded of 9/11. I lived next door to you on Ridgecrest. I'll never forget you driving down the street in your little pick up truck and your cute son Josh. You are missed.
trisha and chris coble
September 13, 2006
we miss uncle al and we love you aunt becky
September 11, 2006
Ralph and Lori Crump
September 11, 2006
On this the fifth anniversary of the attacks on our country and our way of life, Lori and I wish to honor the memory of our good friend and brother in Christ, Al. We will continue your ministry of serving others as we move from Alamogordo to Clovis.
All our Love to Becky and Josh
Chris Annen
September 11, 2006
Becky, On this day especially, you make it into our thoughts. We knew you guys from church. Our prayers go out to you and your boys. May God's strength and peace be yours. Lots of Love,
Mark, Chris, Laura, David, and John Annen.
September 7, 2006
Lighted vigils are kept for your loved one. May the Lord keep your family. Amen.
eric lockovitch
September 6, 2006
I will be reading Alfred's name this year on 9/11. I want to understand the story behind each name I read. I know how it feels to hear their name read that day.
Sara
August 20, 2006
After loosing someone in 9-11 I know the pain your family is going through. May god be with you and your family. All of you were hero's and will always be remembered.
Holly-Marie Hanks
January 29, 2006
Mrs. Marchand it has been 4 years since he left us and we still keep you in our thoughts and prayers....I was in your friend Summer Walters class when Mr Marchand left us
October 4, 2005
We will never forget your loved one who had done great service to your community. Now he's looking after and protecting your family from heaven under angel's wings. In memory. God Bless the Men in Blue. Amen.
Scena H.
September 12, 2005
Beck - I am still here thinking of you and the boys. Not a day has gone by that I have failed to pray for all of you. I love you all so much. Please let me know if there are any needs. I am here.
L.O.M. @ St. Peter's Catholic Ministry
September 7, 2005
May the Lord console you in this time of need. Keeping you loved one in our prayers. St. Michael the Archangel, patron of police(active and retired), pray for the fallen. God Bless you.
September 7, 2005
May the Archangel: St. Michael accompany you in heaven. Amen.
Mark B
August 27, 2004
To the Family:
I am truely sorry for your loss. Rest assured that your loved one will not only be remembered by you, but by the rest of the country as well, for a long time to come. May God Bless you and keep you all close to his heart. May he also accept Alfred's soul into his care from now to eternity.
Brian Marchand
July 22, 2004
I first met Officer Marchand while I was stationed at Holloman AFB 1979-1983. He helped my wife and I on a routine call. We spoke for a while to see if we were related in anyway, but I don't think we were. I was shocked when I heard his name on 9-11. May God Bless your family Al, for you are a true American Hero.
Joey Mask
March 15, 2004
I'm very sorry that your loved one is gone.My prayers will always be with you for many moons to come.
anita young
September 13, 2003
After two years, our prayers and thoughts are still with you and all others that lost their loved ones in this trajedy. God Bless.
Joey Nash
September 11, 2003
I am formerly from Albuquerque New Mexico and I just wanted to send my deepest condolences. I am sure Alfred is safe and happy in heaven.
Jo-Anne Inglis
September 11, 2003
Today is the day of remembrance, but our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Your Canadian family.
Janet Pieper-Mathis
September 11, 2003
I am sorry. I did not know him personaly but home is home and we have to stick together. Janet.
CHRISTOPHER CARMICHAEL
September 11, 2003
DEAR AL... MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY... MISS YOU GUY... CHRISTOPHER
Kathy Swaringen
April 16, 2003
1 mile was walked to honor the life of Alfred and all the family, friends and loved ones left behind. May you find some comfort in knowing that you still do not grieve alone. We will never forget.
Alfred, rest in peace.
Dorothy Engle
October 5, 2002
Dear Rebecca and Josh,
I never met Al personally, though I did see him in church. He always seemed happy and joy-full! My thoughts and prayers are with you, hope to meet you someday at church, early service. I can just imagine Jen showing Al around Heaven! What a time they must be having!
Brian Castelli
October 3, 2002
Al I wish you were here still. You were suppose to show me how to use flash on my web-site. However I can't blame you. I wonder still what happened in the airplane that day but its hard to think and accept the fact that I will never know. You will always along with the rest of your fellow crew members be my hero!
PAUL VENETO
October 2, 2002
AL I MISS YOU SO MUCH,YOU MAD ME LAUGH EVERY TIME WE FLEW TOGETHER. I KNOW YOU TOOK CARE OF BUISNESS UP THERE, AND IM SO PROUD OF YOU. I ONLY WISH I COULD HAVE BEEN THERE TO HELP YOU. WHAT A GREAT GUY YOU ARE. YOUR BOYS ARE LUCKY TO HAVE SUCH A GREAT FATHER. I THINK AND TALK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME. YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. ITS NOT THE SAME ANYMORE UP THERE WITH OUT YOU. REST IN PEACE MY FLYING PARTNER. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. PAUL VENETO-FLIGHT ATTENDANT UNITED-BOS
Holly-Marie Hanks
September 17, 2002
To the Marchand family:
You may remember me from the volar program and I just wanted to say god bless you and I know its hard. We will all miss him very much!
Kathy and Ron Larkin
September 11, 2002
Al was a very special guy. Al and our son, Craig, were Room-mates while in flight attendant training for United Airlines. He has a special place in our hearts. I will always remember his calm, reassuring, and caring personality. He talked about how tough it was to go back to studying (to be a flight attendent)... especially as an adult. He would laugh at how hard he had to work to keep up with the studys while it all came so easy to Craig. It was pleasure to meet him at the graduation ceremony. He was so proud to be a Flight Attendent.
Becky and family...please accepts our thoughts and prayers. You are so lucky to have been blessed with such a wonderful husband, father and friend.
Kathy and Ron Larkin
Darren
September 11, 2002
You are a hero in our hearts. We miss you among our ranks, and promise to honor your memory by continuing your love of flight. Watch over us as we continue to fly.. You are our guardian angel.
Albert Northrup
September 10, 2002
Dear Merchand Family,
Growing up in Alomogordo, I was only a little boy when I met Al. He worked with my father, Albert Northrup in DPS. I know that he is resting in the arms of Jesus. From what I know, he was close friends with my father. I know that they are catching up on old times together. Mr. Merchand was a beacon of light and hope on that dreadful day. We will see him again one day. May God richly bless you all.
Kelly Blackburn
September 9, 2002
TO The Marchand Family,
I attend St Pius X High School in Houston Texas. This week we are remembering those who were killed on September 11th. We, along with other schools, made wrist bands with all the victims names printed on them. I received Mr. Marchand's wrist band. On the day of September 10th I will be fasting in honor of him. I will keep him and his family in my thoughts and prayers and hope that time will heal.
lori sillmann
September 9, 2002
Becky, My thoughts and prayers are still with you, the boys, and your family. I remember Al always smiling and hugging and generally making the day better, every Sunday that I saw him.... We are blessed to have your family as a part of our church family. I pray God continue to give you strength. Love, Lori
Caroline Serio
September 8, 2002
To the Marchand Family,
My husband and I have not lived in New Mexico long, but we had heard of Mr. Marchand and the wonderful things he did for this community. We did not the have the pleasure of knowing this wonderful man, but be assured My husband and I stood vigil with other fellow town people and I arrived at the police station to lie flowers in his honor upon hearing the news. Mrs. Marchand our hearts were with you and your family on the frightful day last year, and are with America on it's quest for peace. Sincerely,
Roberto Chavez
September 2, 2002
I did not know Alfred but I send my deepest sympathy to his family and friends.
Angela & Anthony Clement
August 22, 2002
You will never be forgotten!!! Rest in peace and God Bless you and the ones that you left behind.
Rebecca Marchand
June 25, 2002
Thank you to all that have prayed for our family. Al was a wonderful man and I'm so blessed to have spent 8 1/2 years of my life with him. I am proud to have been his wife, even for the short time that we had together.
God used Al that day and is continuing to use his story to this day. With the Lord's strength, I will continue to tell his story and carry his legacy on. He made us proud and I know he was in God's will on 9/11.
Rebecca Marchand
Debbie Brandle
June 2, 2002
To the Marchand family,
May God give you comfort and strength during your times of sorrow and need, and may you find comfort in the fact that people all over the country are praying for Alfred and his family. It takes a very special type of person to be an airline attendant and I'm glad that Alfred was able to experience the joy of doing a job that he loved. May God Bless you all until you are with him again.
Laurie McCarthy
May 8, 2002
Al, Your warmth, sincerity and sense of humor were a blessing to me, and all those who knew you. I know your faith was a blessing on that horrible day. I pray for your family who has suffered a great loss. you are greatly missed. I know youve found your way home and that brings me comfort. I was blessed to have known you.
Peace,
Laurie
JANICE CINKO
March 6, 2002
AL GRADUATED FROM FLIGHT ATTENDANT TRAINING A WEEK BEFORE I DID. WE WERE BOTH BASED IN BOSTON AND IT WAS SUCH A SHOCK WHEN I FOUND OUT THAT HE WAS WORKING FLIGHT #175. MY CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY AND PLEASE KNOW THAT AL WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED AS A VERY SPECIAL PERSON - MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOUR FAMILY. ALWAYS IN REMEMBERANCE - JANICE CINKO
Lenny Miller
February 6, 2002
To my old friend AL, I sure do miss you. From the day I bought my sat. dish from you in 85 to the last time we met at Memories in Alamogordo, you were always special, I just did not know how much. We will keep an eye on Josh for you. RIP my friend.
Lenny
Celine Rochon
February 5, 2002
My thoughts are with you.
Teresa Jahn
January 12, 2002
We thank Alfred for the time he protected others as a police officer. Such a dedication comes with a brave, warm and caring heart. May his courage, life and love continue living in all who love him. Our hearts cry with you in your great loss of Alfred.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Alma Causey
January 9, 2002
I was born and raised in Alamogordo, NM. As a matter of fact, I grew up at 1306 Ridgrecrest Ct. Though I never met Al personally, I did see him many times when I went to visit my parents, Louis and Hortensia Avila. They knew him and his wife Becky very well. They've been next-door neighbors for almost 20 years. My prayers to Becky and the boys. God bless you all and God Bless America!
Elizabeth (Serna) Parkkonen
January 9, 2002
I knew Al since 1986 and I always thought he was such a nice person. I was so sad when I heard of his death, until I heard Rebecca and Josh mention how Al had come to know the Lord. I then knew that your husband and Josh your father had a purpose for being on that flight that morning. I believe he was doing exactly what he had a passion for and that was speaking to people on that flight about Our Great Savior and Lord. I'm sure your purpose here on Earth is to continue speaking of the Lord to others just as Al did on his way home.
God Bless you all and my thoughts and prayers are with your family and Al.
Liz Parkkonen
January 8, 2002
Ayn DuBois
December 17, 2001
I knew Al over 20 years ago when I lived next door to him in a trailer court. He always impressed me by being one of the most likable of people with concern and care for everyone. I bought a Mercy Band and was going to choose his name because I knew him. When I read that he had become a Christian somewhere in the past 20 years I realized why the Lord checked me from choosing his name. He fulfilled his mission on this earth and his family is secure in the Lord's hands right now. So I have another family to pray for as I prayed for my neighbors 20 years ago. The Lord is faithful and that is an awesome fact. May you go with God, Rebecca, the Lord will sustain you and hold you up. Your husband wears a crown of life that is imperishable.
Rita Gatt
November 5, 2001
Dear Family of Alfred Marchand, I am so sorry for the loss of a great man. I had heard the interview with his son and wife on the morning show while I was in my car. To hear there was a christian on one of those flights, just gave me so much hope. I am so thankful for your husband being there to lead someone to the lord in those last minutes. He must be so proud to have a wife and son that will proclaim their christian faith on National television. I have told so many of your husbands story. You are in my thoughts and prayers. :)
Laura Mellott
October 12, 2001
I was born and raised in Hobbs, NM and was stunned to see a New Mexico person listed as a victim. May God Bless the Marchand family and take comfort in the fact that GOD IS IN CONTROL!
God Bless You!!
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