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Frederic Updike Obituary
Updike III
July 12, 1940-
May 14, 2020
Niceville, Florida- Frederic Updike III, 79, of Niceville, Florida died May 14, 2020. Fred was born July 12, 1940 in Montour Falls, New York.
He was the second oldest of 8 childrenborn to the late Frederic Updike and Emelia Brablc Updike.
Fred grew up in Trumansburg, New York and loved to return there often. Fred attended Trumansburg High School and later received a Bachelors degree in Business from Troy University.. He was medically retired from the US Army and was especially proud of his service as an Airborne and a Special Forces soldier.
He settled with his family in Columbus, Georgia where he worked for various automobile dealers, real estate and mortgage companies. He thoroughly enjoyed life and spending time with family and friends, many who were life long. Fred also enjoyed reading, cooking, being on the golf course and shag dancing. He had a quick wit and a sense of humor that he never lost. He will be truly missed and loved by many.
In addition to his parents, Fred was preceded in death by his wife, Judy Updike, son Freddie Updike, and brothers David Updike, Richard Updike and John Updike.
He is survived by his four children Vicki Hardage, Missy Lemons (Donnie), Johnny Updike (Stephanie) and Jenny James (Shane), sisters Sue Updike Younger, Eunice Esbjoernsson, Marie Updike and Debra Updike (Wayne) and grandchildren, Chase Hardage, Haley Hardage, Caden Lemons, Max Lemons, John Updike, Freddie Updike, Adalyn Updike, Sydney James and Ellie James, numerous cousins nieces and nephews and his beloved dog Jazzy.
Fred requested in lieu of flowers to please buy a Veteran a meal-and wants to tell everyone thanks for the memories. A celebration of his life will be determined at a later date.
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David Wegmann
May 23, 2020
I really enjoyed being a friend with Fred, he always had a way to make you smile reguardless of the situation you were in, and if you were in the Army it was very common to find yourself in that type moment in Life..I will always feel honored that God blessed me with such a friend and fellow SF brother. Your family will be in my prayers, and I know Fred will be helping to make us feel welcome when we cross over to our permanent RON with him..Dave Wegmann
DAVID REYNOLDS
May 23, 2020
What sad news. The most upbeat, happy, soldier in the world, moving on to the final rally point. Fred was a friend and a mentor.....what a loss for us. Rest easy, old soldier.....we'll meet again in that celestial RON.
Bill Morgan
May 23, 2020
Fred was a dear friend. I am saddened to hear of his passing and so soon after Judy. He loved the military and remained close with Green b
Berets and Rangers in the Eglin AFB area and his rigger unit from the 82d Airborne Division. I will miss him greatly. I would like to know of plans for his memorial service. Rest in Peace Fred!
Perry Ward
May 22, 2020
Fred was a professional Soldier; I worked with him during the 70's and he had the first cell phone that we had ever seen. Always helping others and he will be remembered.
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Fred and Tippy "I don't remember ever having had a cowboy shirt, but clearly I had!"
Cousin Willie
May 20, 2020
Steve Gardner
May 20, 2020
What a wonderful man. Always happy and upbeat. It was a joy to have known him. His family should be very proud of Fred's kindness.
Art Angell
May 20, 2020
Art and Fred met in basic training for the US Army in Ft. Dix, NJ before either of them were even thinking about getting arrived. How ironic that they both settled in Columbus, Ga...and many beautiful memories through the years. Fred will always been remembered by all of us whose lives he touched. Heartfelt condolences to all of Freds family. Rest In Peace, Fred....
Gary Turner
May 20, 2020
"Old soldiers never die they just fade away".
Fred and I (old soldiers) had a special relationship. I never served with him but I wish I had. I will miss him and his cheerful smile.
Gary Turner
May 20, 2020
Fred and I were "old soldier" friends. I never served with him but I wished I had. I will miss our chats and his smile.
Mike Hodge
May 20, 2020
Always enjoyed seeing Fred at the dances in Columbus and at the beach. Also, the fun times playing golf when we were in Florida. We will miss him, prayers for the family.
Jerry & Marilyn Westbrooks
May 20, 2020
Rest In Peace, my friend! See you & Judy at the beach in Shag dancing heaven
Candy Miller
May 19, 2020
Fred & Judy were such good friends; Steve & I treasure the good times we shared!
Smokey Patrick
May 19, 2020
Fred was always a pleasure to be around at reunion functions with Judy. We all loved Scrog & Fred was just a natural extension of her. He just seemed to fit. I'm sure they are shagging away again. R.I.P. Fred
RD Johnson
May 19, 2020
R.I.P., my friend. It was a pleasure to know you as a friend in recent years, and to visit with you and Judy at Blue Water Bay. Will always remember you fondly as my friend.
R Dudley Johnson
Cumming, GA
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