Alan DeSILVA Obituary
BSc Honours PhD
June 1, 1982 - Feb 25, 2013
With heavy hearts, we announce Alan's sudden death at the young age of 30.
Husband, Father, Son, Brother, Friend, Educator, Entrepreneur, Biologist, Scientist, Funnyman, Self-Empower-er, Mentor, Leader and Musician. Alan will be remembered by his genuine smile, loving heart, and witty sense of humour. He passionately lived out his purpose to ELEVATE everyone he met. Alan truly left this world a better and brighter place.
Left to continue his legacy is his wife, Renee and his children, Gabriel (three) and Anjali (two); his parents, Alexander and Celine; siblings, Darryl (Priya) DeSilva, Jennifer (Brian) Smeenk, and Reggie (Marivic) Nicolas; nieces, nephews and Godchildren, Lily, Leah, Josh, Grace, Mike, Marcus, Chris, Caitlyn, Max, Mary and Simon as well as numerous amazing family and friends.
There will be a trust fund set up for Alan's children. Details will be finalized by the weekend.
A Visitation will be held on Saturday, March 2, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. at Connelly- McKinley Funeral Home, 10011 - 114 Street, Edmonton. A Prayer Service will take place at the same location on Sunday, March 3, 2013 at 6:00 p.m. followed by a visitation until 9:00 p.m. Reverend Mike Dechant, OMI will Celebrate a Mass of Christian Burial at St. Charles Parish, 17653 - 112 Street, Edmonton on Monday, March 4, 2013 at 11:00 a.m.
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Renee DeSilva
October 29, 2014
Thank you so much everyone for your kind words. I still come back here every now and then. A very special thank you to Iffat Nitol for keeping this online. If you are able, please email me at [email protected] so I can thank you personally. :)
Donna Blanck (née Bunag)
April 19, 2013
My deepest condolences to you Renee and your family for this profound loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you need anything Please let me know. My sincerest regards...
Rayanna
April 16, 2013
Dear Renee,
I just wanted to send my regards and support to you and your family. Alan has taught me a lot from swimming lessons at the y to leadership roles and giving back to the community at church. My thoughts and prayers are always with you and the family. God Bless.
Venetia Noronha
March 23, 2013
Dear Renee, at the outset, please accept my deepest sympathies on the loss of such a charismatic Alan. You do not know me, but your father-in-law Alex is related to my mum Celine Monis (nee Rasquinha) and she passed on the news to me..Since then, not a day has gone by, when I do not remember Alan and lift him in my prayers. He truly lived life to the fullest and is an inspiration to all...Infact even now when I look at the video of your nuptials when you sang during your wedding vows, I could see the love in his eyes and his smile. Just want you to know that he is watching you all from above and you have to be strong for your children....
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Sachin Katyal
March 16, 2013
Renee, please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. I had known Alan briefly during our overlap in graduate school, however; over the years we always chatted whenever we saw each other. I was shocked when news reached me and my first thoughts went to you and your kids. Knowing Alan, and from reading this guest book, you are a very strong, inspirational and uplifting individual which will undoubtedly help you and your children through this difficult time.
David and Sharon Bennett
March 15, 2013
Dear Renee,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
March 11, 2013
Dear Renee, We were in India when the sad news hit us. We have no words to express our condolence to your and his family. We will see you when we arrive in Edmonton. God bless you. chacko.
March 9, 2013
Dear Renee, our thoughts and prayers are with you, we will miss Alan. Thank you for being such an incredible inspiration to all of us. You and Alan have both truly elevated many people through this time, love,Indra and Stirling
Indra and Stirling
March 8, 2013
Dear Renee, Stirling and I have been meaning to sign this guest book. The news of Alan's passing led us both to feel sick to our stomachs. We will continue to keep you and Gabe and Anj in our prayers. The services for Alan were beautiful and inspirational, I was touched in a very deep way by the service on Monday.You have an incredibly beautiful spirit. We know Alan will always be with you and Gab and Anj, we pray that you will always feel and know his presence and that you will always have all the comfort and strength that you need.Thank you to both you and Alan for blessing us just by being the amazing people that you both are, love Indra and Stirling
Cristina Rotundo
March 8, 2013
I went to high school with Allan but we were not particularly close. I can tell u though that from a distance I felt I might as well be close friends with him-- he gave off a happy, enlightened, energy that you do not see from many people. I wish i was closer to him. Over the years since, I am not surprised he has accomplished the many things he has. He was a stand up man and I give my whole heart to his family. I wish I could have been in Edmonton to express my sympathies in person.
Joanne Dionne
March 7, 2013
Dear Renée,
Please accept my sincere condolences. We cherish the memory of Alan. May he live in God's glory and may the Lord console you and your beloved family. We remember you from your time at Madonna House Belgium in 2005. Lovingly, Joanne and the community in Belgium.
March 6, 2013
Alan had an amazing energy and positive attitude, always. I'll always remember his passion during seminars and drive on the basketball court. My sincerest condolences.
Kuba
Agnes Baptist and Anita Wagner
March 5, 2013
Alex,Celine,Renee,children and all of your family,please accept our deepest sympathies for the shocking loss of your beloved Alan. Renee, in church, we have always admired you, Alan and your sweet little children. Our thoughts and prayers are also with you.
Pat Krukewich
March 5, 2013
Dear Renee and family, I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Alan's passing. When you spoke of your deep love and respect for him, I knew he was your companion for life. Unfortunately some live shorter lives on earth but all we can do is be thankful for the time we shared and journeyed with them. We were all blessed having known Alan! May God comfort all of you. Heaven has gained another 'Angel'. Remember him in your heart and he will always be there to comfort you.
Thomas Gillard
March 4, 2013
I hadn't seen Alan in quite some time, but my heart aches to hear of his passing. I have fond memories of playing basketball and cards with Alan in our junior high days. His welcoming smile and laughter is something I'll never forget. My sincerest condolences.
Francis, Veronica & Calvin Lee
March 4, 2013
Renee, we are very sorry to hear about Alan. I have seen him play & sang in Church and truly an inspirational man. Our thought and prayers are with you & your beautiful children.
Laura Currie
March 4, 2013
Renee, my deepest condolences for the loss of dear man who was dearly loved. Thing of you all at this time of sorrow.
Randy & Corrie Galscock
March 3, 2013
Dear Renee, Gabriel, Anjali and family
Alan's smile will be forever captured in our memory! His love and adoration for you Renee was so evident.You were the perfect wife for him.
We are so sorry for your pain, please know you and your family are in our prayers.
Alan finished strong!
God Bless You
Love you,
Giselle and Tony Cordeiro
March 3, 2013
Renee and family...We will be thinking of all of you and praying for comfort, healing and peace.
Patsy Hwong( Mrs Joseph Yong)
March 3, 2013
Renee my deep condolences for loss of Alan. He shall live a new life in heaven and you shall continue your new life on earth till you both meet again in heaven.
Though I do not know Alan personally, I always recall his cheerful smile and charisma and his deep love for you and the youth ministry.
May You be strong for the sake of your children and I truly believe our lord Jesus will guide you always because you are so dedicated to the service of The Lord.
March 3, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Lynn Catena
March 2, 2013
Renee and family, so very sorry for your loss, these darker days will become lighter; God will give you the strength you need to get through this, my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family, with love,
Jennifer Colmer
March 2, 2013
I can count my closest friends on 2 hands and Alan was one of them. I am a better person for knowing him. I will never forget his love, passion, courage, strength and his incredible faith! Rest In Peace my dear friend and brother. We will take good care of Renee and the kids! Love you x
Laura Rivera
March 2, 2013
Renee, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I will never forget how kind and friendly Alan was to Chris and I. We are praying for you!
Love,
Laura Rivera and Matthew Henschke; Chris Rivera
Eugene and Liesse Saldanha
March 2, 2013
Dearesr Renee, Gabriel, Anjali, Alex, Celine and family,
Alan was a pure diamond to both of us,to all in the Liturgy Council and Liturgy Committee,to all those who knew him in St. Charles Parish, and to those many friends, relations and students his life touched. To you all so near and dear to him, the diamond may be lost but its sparkle will forever glow in your hearts. May God`s love be a buffer against the forces of loss, anger, despair and intense pain that you are going through in these dark days. We pray the sparkle of that diamond sustain you in those moments of darkness.
Eugene and Liesse.
Bill & Susan Gergely
March 2, 2013
We are Deeply saddened by the sudden passing of Alan. He was a true inspiration to all that came in contact with him and I am proud to call him a Friend. To Renee and your Beautiful Family all of our Thoughts, Prayers and Love.
Michael Machado
March 2, 2013
Dear Renee, Celine, Alex, Darryl and the entire bereaved family,
It was with great regret, shock and sadness we came to know about the untimely death of Alan. It was sad news for all who know him for his greatness and also loved him for his principles and dedication in life for his family, always placing love of duty above his comforts. To miss such a loving person is a great loss which can never be recouped. Our thoughts are with you at this hour and we pray for your peace of mind and comfort in your sad bereavement. Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
May the beautiful memories of beloved Alan soften your grief and bring you comfort in the thought that the joy and happiness he brought in your family will live forever in your hearts. When we wipe your tears away, we sincerely say: “We are with you in your sorrow”.
From: Sharel, Evelyn & Michael Machado, Heidelberg, Germany.
Anthony Summers
March 2, 2013
He was one of the greatest teachers, always had a smile, happy to do what he was doing, funny. He will be missed greatly, I hope the family is doing well after the loss, it hit us all so suddenly. I still can't believe it, he was a great man and I wish he could have continued to enlighten everyone he met. I'll always remember him
Archie and Rory Ignacio
March 2, 2013
Renee, we grieve with you on the sudden passing of Alan. We are still in shock that this tragedy actually happen. We will greatly miss Alan. He has done so many wonderful things in such a short time and he is such a genuine person. He is an inspiration to many, a friend to a multitude, a pillar in his family and the catholic community and most of all, a loving person, husband and father. May Alan's spirit guide you and your children in the unforeseen future. May God's mercy and compassion console and comfort you and may His Holy Spirit strengthens you in this most difficult of time. May Alan's soul rest in peace.
Ralph & Brenda Philip
March 2, 2013
Renee, it was not difficult to find words to describe your wonderful husband.....Godly, Loving, Uplifting, Sensitive, Wise (beyond his years), Courageous, Gentle, Passionate....we could go on and on!! We have been deeply saddened by the loss of Alan. We will miss his presence in the future but take comfort in knowing that his influence will long remain with us. We thank God for the privilege of knowing such an AMAZING human being. One quote that helped us when we lost my sister tragically was "Do not weep because it is over but smile because it happened". May you find comfort and strength in God's arms. Our LOVE and PRAYERS are with you, your beautiful children and Alan's family today and in the future. ((HUGS))
Nina Budd
March 2, 2013
Dear DeSilva Family,
My deepest, deepest condolences. I did not teach Alan at Archbishop MacDonald High School but remember him as a valued classmate of my daughter, Emily. Our thoughts and prayers are with Alan on his journey as well as with all of you as you journey on in the Light and with the Gift of your memories and stories of him. Alan has left you the treasure of who he was, has been, and is for all whom he touched. We honor him by remembering.
Belinda Panganiban
March 2, 2013
Celine and Alex, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am very sorry for your loss. Celine, please know that all your co-workers at the RAH are thinking of you and are deeply saddened by this news.
John & Margie Van Beek
March 2, 2013
The sad news has reached us here. Both of us have lost our spouses and know that this is a dark and difficult chapter for you. Faith , family and friends will be your strength and will get you though. There are no words just a hug.
Dave Perron
March 1, 2013
All the best to the family
Kylie Younghans
March 1, 2013
Alan was an amazing teacher! He lightened the class with his intelligence, ease and funny personality. You will be missed greatly.Thoughts, prays and love to his family xoxo
Patricia, Shawn, and Micah Arboleda-Ng
March 1, 2013
We remember when Renee's parents died and Alan became Renee's rock during that sad period. We remember Alan saying, "We choose to put our spouse's needs first…happiness is marrying your best friend..our marriage is based out of deep friendship and faith." We remember, the DeSilvas saying "the best gift they can give their children is to love each other. So they show affection and respect for each other in their presence. ..Their love for each other is just a glimpse of the love that God has for all his people." We remember Alan's full life, "Husband, Father, Son, Brother, Friend, Educator, Entrepreneur, Biologist, Scientist, Funnyman, Self-Empower-er, Mentor, Leader and Musician". We remember a
"Young Life Cut Short...
Do not judge a song by its duration
Nor by the number of its notes
Judge it by the richness of its contents
Sometimes those unfinished are among the most poignant…
Do not judge a song by its duration
Nor by the number of its notes
Judge it by the way it touches and lifts the soul
Sometimes those unfinished are among the most beautiful…
And when something has enriched your life
And when it's melody lingers on in your heart.
Is it unfinished?
Or is it endless? (author unknown)"
Michelle Cameron
March 1, 2013
Renee, I was honored when you sang and played at my wedding in 2002, and again very grateful when you sang at my husbands funeral in 2008.
It will be a long and difficult road. Your beautiful children will be the reason you function for the first few months. And then the fog will lift.
I wish I could offer words of advice to get you through, something to make it easier, but there are none. One foot in front of another, one day at a time.
I am so very sorry. God bless.
Lisa McAllister
March 1, 2013
Alan was an amazing biology professor at the University of Alberta Augustana Campus to myself and the many other students he taught. He will be missed by the entire University. Thoughts go out to his many friends and family.
Michael Machado
March 1, 2013
Dear Renee, Celine, Alex, Darryl and the entire bereaved family,
It was with great regret, shock and sadness we heard from Jecintha over phone about the untimely death of Alan. It was sad news for all who know him for his greatness and also loved him for his principles and dedication in life for his family, always placing love of duty above his comforts. To miss such a loving person is a great loss which can never be recouped. Our thoughts are with you at this hour and we pray for your peace of mind and comfort in your sad bereavement. Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
May the beautiful memories of beloved Alan soften your grief and bring you comfort in the thought that the joy and happiness he brought in your family will live forever in your hearts. When we wipe your tears away, we sincerely say: “We are with you in your sorrow”.
Affectionately yours,
Sharel, Evelyn & Michael Machado.
Beautiful family photo taken Sunday, February 24, 2013.
March 1, 2013
Sheena MacLeod
March 1, 2013
Alan was always fun to be around. Joyful, entertaining, and engaging. He lifted those around him up with his presence. He will be missed.
Lisa Rizzi
March 1, 2013
Alan,
You were always a great classmate and student. To hear of your passing is very difficult to comprehend. Why must the good die so young? You have touched the lives of so many and will never be forgotten. Rest in peace old friend. I pray for all your family and friends that they find comfort knowing you are now their angel.
Pauline McMaster
March 1, 2013
I had the great pleasure of meeting Alan at the Castle Downs YMCA. There Alan was a life guard, swimming instructor and MOD. You knew immediately that you were in the presence of someone very special. Alan was genuinely kind, sincere, funny, brilliant, respectful and had a great love for his family. I remember a special day at the Y, Alan had planned a surprise party for his girl friend, now his wife, he was so excited it was contagious! All of us are so heart broken for your family. Speaking with so many of your Y friends we all feel very BLESSED that we all had the opportunity to meet such a beautiful human being! God Bless to you and your family!
Tarandeep Sehgal
March 1, 2013
My deepest condolences Renee. I never met Alan but from all that I have heard and read about him I know he was a special soul. May God give you the strength and courage during this difficult time. Alan will always be with you in spirit and in everything you do. Death leaves a heartache that no one can heal, Love leaves a memory that no one can steal. Hugs
Kasia Kornik
March 1, 2013
Wonderful family man and a true gentleman. You will be sadly missed Alan.
February 28, 2013
Alan was such a kind hearted man, always made me laugh in class. I am glad I got the opportunity to be one of his students. He will be missed greatly.
Amanda Lutes
February 28, 2013
Alan was so full of love for his family, his faith and God. May we always remember to continue elevating each other as he did. We miss you, Alan!
Sara Dyck
February 28, 2013
As one of my first university professors, Alan showed me his good spirit and love of knowledge, inspiring me to view my education in a different way. Having him as a lab instructor in another class allowed me to get to know him a little more personally, he was always there to help even amidst his stacks of marking, working on his thesis and all the other great things he was involved in. He always wore a smile, was genuine, approachable, funny and kind. My heart aches for his family, a wonderful person has been lost, but his legacy lives on through the knowledge he has passed onto me and countless numbers of other students. May he always be remembered and watch over us all from a better place.
Michelle Costa
February 28, 2013
It will be hard to go on without you Alan. You made the difference.
Neil Haave
February 28, 2013
Alan was a great colleague and friend. Always keen to do whatever he could for his students and always interested in & supportive of the teaching ideas of his colleagues. He will be greatly missed.
Nicholas Nelson
February 28, 2013
Alan was one of the best professors I have ever had. He was a genuine, caring person who really did make you feel good when you were in his presence. I will always remember how he would start our classes by asking "Whats gotten better since I seen you last?" and the best part was that he would actually sit and listen to us for a good couple minutes because he genuinely wanted to know. He definitely had a great impact on me, and will be greatly missed. I wish all the best to his family.
Brad & Wynter Philip
February 28, 2013
The news of Alan's passing was heartbreaking and has left us deeply saddened. Alan was an amazing example of a devoted husband, father and friend. In the few short years we knew Alan we were truly blessed to call him a friend. Alan was always the type of friend you wanted and he left you feeling better? about yourself after seeing him. His impact on not only his family and friends, but the world in general will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family Renee. We are here for you and your family in any way that we can be Renee. The world is alot less bright today then it was a few days ago. Rest in peace my friend.
Holly Yurkoski
February 28, 2013
I am glad I was able to have Alan for a professor for my first semester and I'm regretful that I will not be able to have future classes with him. It was truly a gift knowing him and I'm glad that he was able to teach me, no matter how short our time together was.
To the family I am truly sorry for your loss and I wish you all the best at this time.
February 28, 2013
Dr. Desilva was an amazing professor and a really good person. All his lessons were always filled with humor, and his passion for his work was evident. I will truly miss and remember him, and keep his family in my prayers.
Greg + Elly Gelasco
February 28, 2013
Renee, our prayers are with you and your wonderful children and your family and friends! We feel blessed to have known Alan and our prayers are with you at this painful time in your life! May all your loved ones embrace you and surround you with prayer and support !! As time passes may you find comfort in the memories you have in your heart! Hugging you with love...
Isabella Wong
February 28, 2013
What an honor to have you as my colleague, Alan! You have been a great friend, coworker, supporter, and a great instructor for your students! You will be missed so dearly. Renee, may the love around you help you through the days ahead. God bless you, my dear.
Melissa hills
February 28, 2013
From a colleague at MacEwan, I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Leanne and Joey Ure
February 28, 2013
With heavy hearts we are deeply sadden by Alan leaving us so tragically. Alan, we will miss your smile and how you made everyone enjoy your company and your music. Renee, We love you and will continue to be with you on your journey,our thoughts and prayers will always be with you and your familiy.
Raja Mita
February 28, 2013
My heart goes out to Rene and the kids. May God give you strength in these difficult times. What a blessing to have known Alan. I will miss you dearly. You truly will remain an inspiration to us all. And I will never forget you.
Kathleen Pagilagan
February 28, 2013
He made a huge difference with our parish @ St. Charles ... you and your family were some of the people I looked forward to seeing every weekend ... May God bless you and your family especially through this tragic time. You will never be forgotten, ever in our lives. rest peacefully in paradise Alan.
Jacob LaKusta
February 28, 2013
My thoughts are with your family. You were an amazing teacher and you made each day a pleasure. We will all miss you.
Fr. Joselito Empleo Cantal/ family
February 28, 2013
Renne just be strong for your children. Your faith will give you the courage to be strong, live life and be at peace. Thank you for sharing your gift of singing at Auntie zeny's funeral. God Bless...
Jack Lin
February 28, 2013
Alan is a person who went beyond what was expected of him. He changed many lives for the better and many people will cherish what he has left us.
Tina, Mel and David Vaz
February 28, 2013
We are deeply saddened to hear the sudden passing of Alan. Our heartfelt sympathies to Renee and his kids, his parents and Darryl and family. He will remain in our hearts and prayers.
Jean Dela Cruz
February 28, 2013
Rene, My heart goes out to you and your family. May the comfort of God help you through this difficult time. Please know that we are always here for you whether to talk to or a crying shoulder or even to just sit in silence. He will always guide you and your family. Trust in HIM through this difficult time... So sorry
Taylor Wilson
February 28, 2013
You were a great professor whose passion for learning and biology enabled me to realize that I want to major in biology for my science degree. You will be greatly missed at MacEwan. Thank you for all that you have taught me. Rest in peace, and God bless.
Elizabeth and Darius Chaves
February 28, 2013
Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with his Renee and their beautiful children. Alan was truly a joy and inspiration to us all xo
Chispa Day, November 28, 2009
Carmen Houle
February 28, 2013
Chispazo and Globetrotters will never be the same. I was honored to have you in my life. FUZZIES from earth to heaven dear friend.
Colleen Yiu
February 28, 2013
Alan, you will always live in our hearts and prayers. We will miss your presence but we know that your spirit will be here to guide your family and your team to continue the Legacy you began. May you rest in peace.
Sheri Rudyk
February 28, 2013
Alan was truly a good person with a big heart, he left a huge footprint in every life he walked through. He will be missed by all who were fortunate to have known him.
Peter and Shayna
February 28, 2013
an amazing man and an absolute light to so many people. Alan was so bright, smart, talented, personal, kind, and loving. Our hearts go out to all your family and friends. truly a huge loss.. we will always remember your smile and laugh, bubbly personality and attitude, and kind soul.
February 28, 2013
Renee, my heart and prayers re with you and your children. Audrey Waseylenko
Marliese Pasay
February 28, 2013
Such an inspiration. I was so blessed to have him as a prof.
Terence Leung
February 28, 2013
I am sad to have to write this much too soon. You were a great individual and it was my honor to have known you. You will truly be missed dearly. May your spirit rest in peace, my friend.
Esposito Baikie Families
February 28, 2013
Renee, Our condolences to you and your beautiful young children. May your heart be filled with the grace of the Lord through this difficult time. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Robert & Mary Beth Marinaro
February 28, 2013
We cannot express how sad we are in the passing of Alan. He was an amazing server and leader. We will miss him terribly! Prayers go out to his beautiful family.
Lindsey Kruper
February 28, 2013
I like to think there's a most excellent jazz jam session happening in heaven right now, Alan. Even though you're gone, you still inspire me to be my most amazing self. You will be missed.
Reginald Nicolas
February 28, 2013
http://youtu.be/bCZWht7-nRM
We love you Alan. We will never forget you.
February 28, 2013
His light is so bright. My heart is so heavy, but so full of love for you and your family.
Tanya Neves Schofield
February 28, 2013
A bright light blown out too soon. My heartfelt condolences to Renee and his young children and to all that knew and loved Alan.
Joy Quilala
February 28, 2013
there are no words to fully express our sadness at this tragic loss, but you are in the arms of our heavenly Father now, Alan... you will be missed but your legacy lives on in your beautiful wife and children.
Cari Letourneau
February 28, 2013
You've left big footprints on many hearts. Thank you for sharing your zest for life. Alan, you will not be forgotten.
Ryan Heit
February 28, 2013
I'm still no good at basketball despite all the pointers and practice you helped me with. And I'll always remember KB.
We've lost a great, generous man. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Brenda Kohut
February 28, 2013
Alan, your body was too fragile a vessel for your enormous spirit. Rest in peace knowing how very much you were loved by so many.
Kristin & Mark Kalmbach
February 28, 2013
We are deeply saddened by the early loss of one of the brightest lights to have ever lived. All of our love and support to the family.
Donna Duff
February 28, 2013
His passing has created a great void in so many lives. My thoughts are with his family and friends and the many wee children that will miss him.
Jared Gushattey
February 28, 2013
RIP Alan. Memories of playing street hockey at Denzels will stay with me forever. Take care of us from up there.
Dan and Joanne Friedt
February 28, 2013
Our love to you Renee and your beautiful family. We live in the joy and hope of the Resurrection.
Cynthia Nicolas-Castro
February 28, 2013
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. We will continue to pray for you and your family. Take care.
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