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Alan Parrott Obituary
Age 48, peacefully at home, on Wednesday, July 2, 2008, of Spring Garden. Alan owned and operated his "Pub" on Spring Garden Avenue, since 1986. Beloved husband of Debbie (Seskey) Parrott; father of Alyse Marie,; son of M. Wayne and Doris (Engelhardt) Parrott; brother of Karen Parrott, Elaine (Robert) Morton and James Parrott; step-father of Robert Slepski (Krystal Kachinko) and Ginger Richard; grandfather of Devin, Mya and Mariah; God father of Kaylee Walton; He is uncle of Bobby, Kelly, Troy, Sean and many other lovoming nieces and nephews, uncles, aunts and friends. Visitation will be SUNDAY ONLY 1-4 and 7-9 p.m. at BRADY MEMORIAL HOME INC., 1151 Southside Avenue, Spring Hill/City View. Funeral Service will be Monday at 11 a.m.
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July 3, 2009
IN MEMORY OF THE FIRST YEAR OF AL'S DEATH. (JULY 2, 2009)
THE PARROTT FAMILY WOULD LIKE TO GIVE OUR SINCERE THANK-YOU TO ALL OF THE FRIENDS & NEIGHBORS WHO WERE SO SUPPORTIVE DURING THIS YEAR.
GOD BLESS YOU & YOUR FAMILIES. WISHING ALL OF YOU HAPPINESS & GOOD HEALTH
TAKE CARE DEBBIE & ALYSE
Kaylee Walton
August 28, 2008
GodFather, you are such an amazing guy, and its so hard to except tthe fact that your gone. I hope you lived your life to the fullest, because i know you brightened my life. I know your up there smiling down, i just cant see you. I hope your resting in peace, and just know that your in my heart<3 forever. I love you.
Rege Gibson
August 3, 2008
My sincere sympathy to Al's family. Being older than Al, I didn't have a growing up relationship with him, but I did know his sisters and cousins very well. I saw him and his family about 5 years ago and he just seemed to extend his happiness to those around him. It's tougher for those who are left behind, but console yourself with the thought that he is looking down and watching over you
Eaine Wilt (Gibson)
July 30, 2008
My Deepest Sympathy to Al's family, I didn't know him much but I know his sisters Karen and Elaine. I know he new my son Michael from the pub, and I hear he is a wonderful man. To all of his friends and family remember he is with the Lord and feeling much better. God Bless Al and all who was a part of his life. He will be in your hearts and dreams always.
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Tony and Suzy
July 22, 2008
To Al's family,
We were both very sad to hear of Al's passing. He was a great and generous man and we always enjoyed talking with him at the Pub. He will be greatly missed. Rest in Peace Al. God Bless him and his family at this hard time.
Stacey Trischler
July 17, 2008
Al it is still so hard to believe you are gone from all of your friends. You are loved and missed by so many. Kevin, Dick and Robbie miss you dearly. The click is not the same without you. I know how special you were to them and to me. I know God has you in a better place with no pain. We love you. I just pray that all of us can treasure forever the good times you brought to so many of us. We will never forget you.
Diane Rathbun
July 15, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Al will be missed and was loved by many. He had a heart of gold. May he rest in peace. I send my condolences to you all. Diane Rathbun (Rock) and family...
Parrott Family
July 14, 2008
The Parrott family wishes to thank all the friends who came to see Alan and expressed their feelings about him. We knew he was special to us, but never realized how many people knew and loved him as much as we did. They say the Lord takes the good ones early. He took Al from us too soon. Thanks to all of you, he will be with us forever. God bless each and everyone of you.
Karen Parrott
July 14, 2008
To my Little Brother,
We fought like crazy as little ones, it has been so long however that we always left each other with a big hug, a kiss on the cheek, and an “I love you”. I’m so proud of you and sooooo proud that you are my brother. You are loving, giving, and so kind. I always want to be around you and so did everyone. You’re so much fun to be with and so smart and intelligent. Anyone could talk to you about everything and anything. All the children in your life love and adore you. I always said you were Mom’s favorite and Elaine said you are everyone’s favorite- so true. When I did something wrong you would give me this disapproving but forgiving look. Always in a loving way, you taught us all to be better. When someone you loved was hurting, it was so obvious you were hurting 10 x’s as much. Love shined thru you Al. I love you with all my heart and my heart is broken as it’s never been broken. I miss you and cannot wait to be with you again.
Love Karen
July 13, 2008
Debbie and Family,
You have our deepest sympathy in the passing of your beloved husband and father. May God hold him in the palm of his hand and give you strength in the coming days.
Bob and Annette Lippert (Boyers,Pa.)
July 10, 2008
To All The People Who Loved Al,
We were so sadden to hear of the passing of Al...... He was a very special man, he was always so nice!
May he rest in the Lord's arms and guide and protect all the people he loved~ until you all meet again.
With Love,
Alison and Boomie Pavlik
Kimberly Smith (Bauer)
July 10, 2008
Mr.& Mrs. Parrott,Jimmy,Alyse,Debbie & family,
Al will be sorely missed by all those who knew him and loved him. He was a great boss and I will miss him. I remember when I gave him my notice that I was moving to Arizona and he had a month to find a replacement and he said " What you can't fly in a couple of nights a week" that was the nicest things a boss could have ever said to let me know that I was going to be missed. Now we all will miss him! My prayers are with you all and Heaven gains another Angel. REST IN PEACE AL.
Mitzi & George Noe
July 9, 2008
To the Parrott Family,
So sorry about Al you have our deepest sympathy you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Paul Hendricks
July 9, 2008
To the parrot family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.Al was always a happy and loveable guy more like a bear than a bird.He was a credit to society and will be missed.
Sandy Manski
July 9, 2008
Ginger, Bobby, Alysia, My deepest sympathy to you. I know how much Al meant to each of you. May you know that he will still be watching out for you.
Patricia Daly
July 8, 2008
To Al's family & Ginger, Ginger I can see you are truly hurting all he would of you is to look after his little girl &to Al's family please accept our deepest sympathy Patti & Shamus Daly
Kelly Morton
July 8, 2008
I was lucky growing up, not only did I have 2 wonderful parents and 2 loving grandparents, I was fortunate enough to have Aunts and Uncles that treated me as one of their own children. I guess that was one of the benefits of being the only grandchild for 8 years! Aunt Karen, my god mother, Uncle Jim, and of course Uncle Al were always there for me.
My Uncle Al was a great man. He was a son, a father, a husband, a brother, a brother-in-law, a step-dad, a grandpa; he was an uncle, nephew, cousin, and most of all a friend. He was kind, caring, gentle, thoughtful, compassionate, giving, and loyal, and those are not all of his wonderful qualities. He was the type of guy that would give you the shirt off of his back and then ask what he can do next. He touched the lives of all that he met and helped everyone in this room at least once in their lives.
When I was little Uncle Al taught me to catch a ball with one hand, he took me to my first penguins game, and instilled in me a love (well somewhat) of sports. I can’t remember a time that he wasn’t making me laugh or teaching me something, even when he was yelling, he was no scarier than a teddy bear.
Uncle Al loved all sports, and loved to play golf. He liked opera and his favorite was “Phantom of the Opera.” He loved to go on trips with Alyse and was especially proud of the business he started when I was a little girl. He loved to sing and anyone who heard him would say that he was quite good.
Words cannot describe the sadness I feel inside and I know he will always be watching over me and everyone in this room. When each person in his life achieves something he will be there to cheer them along. When one of his girls get married, or has a child, when someone graduates from school or gets a promotion he will be watching and we will always know that he would have been proud. Uncle Al was always there for me, Bobby, Troy, Sean, Alyse, Bobby, Ginger, Mya, Mariah, and Devin when we succeeded, and when we failed. He didn’t see failure but saw room to grow and change.
I found this poem while writing this and it seemed fitting to read it here today.
Miss Me, But Let Me Go
When I come to the end of the road,
and the sun has set for me.
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room.
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little-but not too long,
and not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that was once shared.
Miss me, but let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take, and each must go alone.
It’s all a part of the master’s plan, a step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick of heart, go to the friends we know.
Bear your sorrow in good deeds. Miss me, but let me go.
I think that Al would have liked this poem as at the end it states to honor him/grieve for him, by doing good deeds. My uncle Al spent his life helping others and would want that lesson to continue in each and every one of us sitting here today.
The more we want to hold on to someone the harder it is to let them go. As we say good-bye to Al we should hold onto the happy memories so that Al will always bring a smile to our faces.
Love always and forever,
Kelly Lee
Chuck Zeuner
July 8, 2008
So sorry to hear that Al has passed. I used to work with him at Lum's in town. He was always a good guy and took care to make sure that you were taken care of also. Liked the late night poker games with him. I hadn't thought of him in quite some time, but I sure will miss never being able to get together with him again.
Joyce Davis
July 8, 2008
To Al's family and friends,
Even though a light went out in our lives with Al's passing, there will always be a smile on the faces and in the eyes of those who remember him. I have been honored to have Al as a friend for over 20 years. I started going to Al's pub when times were tough and I thought that to drink seemed the only answer to my problems, when in reality I found the answer to be Al. His heart and personality filled the room and the lives of those he touched. Life is much happier for me now and part of the reason for that is because of Al. Please know that I will miss him always. He may be gone but he will never ever be forgotten.
Hank Kasavich
July 7, 2008
Debbie,
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Ginger
July 7, 2008
How does one say goodbye when everything on the inside wants time to just stop so you can catch up. With everyday that passes I feel my heart breaking as the time starts without you. Al had special relationships with so many of us and there is an air of emptiness within us that will stay there until we all meet in heaven together again.
I’ve heard people speak of great men and I truly believe Al touched on everything that is deserving of that title. He loved unconditionally and without expectations. His motives for loving were pure and selfless. The only time he would really get angry with me or anyone he loved is if they doing something that caused them pain. Al hated to see anyone sad or in pain. It would hurt him more than it would hurt us and it would come out in disappointment until we were at peace again and then he would genuinely be happy. He always waited with open and forgiving arms. I’m really going to miss that.
One of my favorite memories of Al is one that always brings me comfort. Al came into my life when I was about 12 years old. I was very headstrong and wanted things my way and if I couldn’t have it like that I would put up the biggest fight and I wouldn’t back down. Thankfully my mom was the same way and wouldn’t back down when it came to keeping my safe and out of trouble. I am pretty sure Al was completely unprepared for dealing with an over dramatic, over emotional girl and he walked right into the fire between me and my mom. I remember…he would just stand on the sidelines, scared to death to breath. It always ended with my mom winning and me in my room crying a river. Even though I was wrong, he hated to hear me cry. He always ended up coming up to my room and knocking on the door. I would open it up to see him standing there with a gift bag of perfume or sometimes a really pretty vase of flowers. No one has ever done that when I was wrong. He wouldn’t say much. He would just sit on my bed with me and give me the warmest hug. He always made me feel so safe and like everything would be okay. I would always break down and cry and he would just keep hugging me. The only thing he would say is, “You know your mother is right and she loves you.” To this day he is the only one that knows when something is not right with me and when he hugs me I still break down like a little girl.
I can honestly say my sister Alyse had a very special relationship with her father. From the first day he laid eyes on her she wrapped him around her little pinky and stole his heart. She changed his whole purpose in life. He taught her to golf, he would take her to play catch or practice with the bat. He has this quiet strength and I see that Alyse has got the best part of him. She is a very strong girl and doesn’t make a lot of commotion. The relationship between them too grew into buddies. When Al had free-time he would immediately call Alyse and try to fit into her busy teenage schedule…but she always made time for her dad, not because she felt obligated but because they truly loved to hang out with each other. Al was complete and free-spirited when he was with her. They share a sarcastic sense of humor as they would bickered back and forth in car rides or at home watching t.v. You could see that they both loved every minute of it. I know Alyse will cherish those special memories in her heart always. She has a very powerful guardian angel over her now. Al is gone physically but, anywhere you see Alyse you know Al is all around her in spirit.
May our memories of Al make us smile when we are sad just as he would have done for us in life. I always knew Al had the voice of an angel but, the one thing I didn’t know was that he really was an angel all along. For that I am blessed and grateful to have had him in my life. Physically Al is gone but I believe in my heart his spirit is singing with the angels now. If I close my eyes and listen I can hear him.
Al, now you are the light in the lord, live as the children of the light. You will be missed Al but too great to ever be forgotten
Mark Braun, Spike's Beer Distributor
July 7, 2008
To the Parrott Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you in this difficult time. I have known Al for many years and he was a great man. Please let me know if there is anything I can do during this difficult time. Al - rest in peace - we'll miss you!
Joan Engelhardt
July 7, 2008
Aunt Doris, Uncle Wayne and Family,
Words cannot express what I know you have gone through recently. The only comfort I can offer is that Alan is certainly in good company in Heaven! Love Joan Engelhardt
Dave Kaminski
July 7, 2008
Al was a very funny man who, made us laugh with his humor and, hardy laugh. He will be missed! Not the same at Valliants. Only the good die young! Al, it was a pleasure! We will see each other again someday my friend.
MYA PELLETTIRO
July 6, 2008
i love you pappy
i will miss you
love, MYA
Patti Herman
July 6, 2008
To Al's family, Al was a great man always someone to talk to He will be missed by everyone who knew him. God Bless
July 6, 2008
To Al's family, Al was a great man always someone to talk to He will be missed by everyone who knew him. God Bless
Jennifer Papania
July 6, 2008
All the Parrott family,
We are deeply saddened with Al's passing. He was such a fabulous, good-hearted, funny man. He brought lots of laughter to his family and especially his friends and the "pub." Along with all the "legendary" football journeys! He is sorely missed. Gods Speed, AL. We love ya, Buddy.
Jennifer Papania, Jimmerz / Bob McTague
Judy Bummer
July 6, 2008
Debbie and family, I am so sorry for your loss.
Kevin and Lynn Sheahen
July 6, 2008
Dear Alyse,
Words cannot explain your loss from this world, but we are here for you whenever you need us.
Your father was one of the best men that I have met. He was more concerned for your welfare than he was for himself. He was a father that we all looked up to.
Remember the things that he would tell you, what he wanted you to do and what he did not want you to do. He knew more about your best interests than anyone else.
Devan, Mya and Maria, you will not forget him either. He loved each of you, too.
Bobby and Ginger, I know that Al was the stabilising force in your lives, too, and that he is missed already.
We are always here for you,
Love,
Uncle Kevin and Aunt Lynn
Bob, Krystal, and Devin
July 6, 2008
Al,
We miss you so much. Were not really sure how we are going to get through this. You were such a loving, caring, unselfish man. Thank you for all your guidance and tough love. Thank you for being a great step-father and grandfather. Devin thought the world of you. Every time we walked into Parrott's, Devin would ask, "Pappy can I have some gum?" You would through him over your shoulder's and tickle him until he would say "Please pappy, Please can I have some gum." You were trying to teach him to say please anytime he asked for something, but I'm not sure how well it work because he love's to be tickled, and you knew that. The both of you got so much enjoyment out of that. Those are the simple memories that we will cherish and carry with us forever. We love you and miss you!!
Tom and Mari TOTIN
July 6, 2008
To Al's family and many friends, our deepest sympathies. I was lucky enough to work with Al back in the Lums days. Al was our manager, but more than that he was our friend. Many great memories. So sad to hear this awful news. You are all in our prayers.
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al as fred flinstone on halloween!!
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little al
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al and alyse swimming in the pool
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alyse mya and al at the aviary
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krystal (elf) al (santa) and ginger at the christmas party
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al, alyse, and mya swimming in the pool
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al teaching alyse golf
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thumbs up :)
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Roberta Walton
July 5, 2008
Debbie, Alyse and entire family . On behalf of the entire Walton family we would like to express our deepest sympathy. There are no words to ease the pain but please know that we are here for you both now and always.
Ginger Richard
July 5, 2008
Dear lil sis,
I know you are sad sweetie and it hurts me so bad to know that. Daddy is with you in your heart and memories now. If you read all the things in this guest book you will see what a great man you had as your father. You have a very powerful guardian angel watching over you now. He can be with you anywhere. You are the love of his life and he cherished every moment with you. You have a big sis that loves you dearly and wants to do anything for you. I will stay by your side through this. So please always keep that in mind. Lets plan a drive-in movie next weekend for your dad.
I love you,
Sis
Ginger Richard
July 5, 2008
Dear Mrs. Parrott, Mr. Parrott, Elaine, Karen, Jimmy, and Kelly,
I am so sorry for your loss. You all stood by Al's side and never left. It makes me so sad when I think of what you all are going through. Al is a great man and it all started at home with you all. Be proud. I know Mrs. Parrott told me he was the family's rock...well he still is and now he watching over you all the time. You all have one of the strongest guardian angels now. Al loved you all so much...you could always see it in his eyes when he spoke of all of you. If you feel sad or weak...its ok. He is right there with you (your rock) and he will make sure you all get through. You are all in my prayers and in my heart as we go through this.
All my love,
Ginger
Ginger Richard
July 5, 2008
Dear Mom (Debbie),
I want to thank you taking such good care of our stepfather, father, grandfather. You were a blessing to all of us. You gave us comfort, peace, and togetherness when we all needed it the most. I'll never forget how peaceful he looked at home. You did a really good job taking care of Al and us... better than any nurse could have done. I want you to know we are all so proud of you. You are a very strong woman. Al is going to continue watching over you and Alyse as he always did. He is your angel too now. Be strong Mom.
We love you,
Ginger, Bobby, Krystal, Alyse, Mya, Devin, Mariah
Jan Bartlett
July 5, 2008
Dear Debbie and Alyse:
My deepest sympathy to you both at this very sad time. He is an angel watching over you both now.
Nancy Blobner
July 4, 2008
Dear mom and dad Parrott, Karen, and family,
I wish I could be there with you all at this difficult time. My prayers are with you each and every day. I pray that God will give you the strength and comfort that you need. I wanted you to know that I think of Al as an angel. Anyone who ever knew him knows that people like him don't come along often. But now he is an angel in heaven. Just know that he is looking down on you and smiling.
Rebecca, Rachel and Sarah Leech
July 4, 2008
Uncle Al,
We will always remember the fun times we had together. We will always remember when you came and visited us in VA and MD. We will never forget all the times you played Santa. We will miss you tonight at the fireworks. We know your in heaven and send you lots of love. We miss you!
shirley rogers
July 4, 2008
Aunt Doris, Uncle Wayne, & family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. I was so sad to hear the news. Alan will be missed by many. I pray that God grants you comfort and understanding. Love, Shirley
Ginger Richard
July 4, 2008
Al,
My heart is aching as I type this. You have the most beautiful soul and shed light everywhere you went. I'll never forget how your smile and energy could lighten my heart whenever you came around. We will miss going to the drive-in and movies with you and the sound of your laugh at the "Horten Hears a Who." You are a big kid at heart...that's why all the grandchildren loved you so. Mariah will miss you teasing her to get a kiss and Mya will miss your big, soft hugs. I will miss your fatherly love, support, and guidance. Who am I going to call now when I make the Dean's list again or some other accomplishment? You were always the first person I called ;) I will miss the pride, excitement, and encouragement you gave me but, at the same time I know you are right there with me now because I can feel it in my heart. We are going to continue our drive in trips with Alyse and I will teach her all the things you taught me about being moral and unselfish. I will try to carry on your light heartedness and love for making us smile and laugh. You are a gift to us from God and for that I am thankful for the time we had with you. I miss you so much Al... "The greatest man I have ever known."
Love always,
Ginger, Mya, and Mariah
Kathy Leech
July 4, 2008
Bobby, Ginger, Alyse,
Words can't hardly express what these last couple of weeks were for you. But I'm very proud of all of you. You did a incredible job taking care of your father and keeping him comfortable. You have another angel in heaven watching over you. Cherish every memory and continue taking good care of each other. Know I'm always thinking and praying for you.
Love and heartfelt sympathy,
Aunt Kathy
Stacey Trischler(Micklos)
July 4, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to all of you. I got the pleasure of meeting Al through Kevin and we will miss him dearly. He was such a teddy bear. I enjoyed his singing. May God bless all of you and give you peace.
Mark "Whitey" Gruber
July 4, 2008
Al.......
I am so glad I had the privilege of knowing you over these past twenty some years.... You are truly the most sincere and genuine good hearted person that I ever got to meet and know.... Thanks for being a great guy and friend.... I will never forget the fun we both had when you told (many times) the story of your meatball hoagie saving my life after one of your super super bowl parties.... Al, you have so many of your friends now in a great amount of sorrow because you were such a great person.... Thanks for being you and thanks for all you did for everyone over all these years. May God take care of you now Al....rest in peace.
Jim and Leanne Rosenberger/Cummings
July 4, 2008
With your wings held high
You put a smile on our face
With all your might
You always left your trace
Never did we see you frown
For your smile was never upside down
Why is it that you loved us so
was we part of your soul
You were always by our side
And although you are no longer on our shoulder
We can still feel your presence
Your fluff warming our heart
We will always miss you
And I know the favor will be returned some day
For when we see you once again
It will be in the sky where
You will once again hold your wings up high.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Parrott family.
Bill Martin
July 4, 2008
Al was a long time friend of mine who was always there for me when I needed a job.
He was always ther for "EVERYONE" that needed his help.
His sister Karen said that "He was a BIG MAN; but he had a HEART bigger then himself; so true.
I will miss my friend along with hundreds of others.
I hope that all that loved Al will keep him alive in thier memories and help him get his wish; that his daughter will have the gudience, support and love to see her through the years to come.
Farewell my friend; see ya on the first hole in HEAVEN.
Linette Ammer
July 4, 2008
Dear Debbie and Alyse:
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Linette
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