Alex Kapitanski

A selfless dedicated man who brought spirit to those who serve in the military everywhere they encountered him.
And let us not forget that Alex himself was a Veteran as well.

Alex will be forever remembered, and perhaps there should be a monument so that young people can learn about this singularly dedicated man and his tireless work on behalf of service men and women.

Semper Fidelis that was Alex's legacy.

Respetfully
Joseph Manuto
Captain USMC, Ret.

A hell of a patriot. Nearly 30 years ago, when stationed at Camp Pendleton, the Flag Man had a justly earned reknown. I personally worked with Mr. Kapitanski on several ceromonies and I truly respected the man and the work that he did, for The Corps, For his Country. Lord knows when he got to Heaven, there was a flag display honoring his arrival therein. Semper Fi Flag Man, thank you forever for all you did.

So sorry to hear of "Alex, the Flagman's" passing. He was especially proud to share his stories and display his many flags at our events. He was an inspiration to us and we are fortunate to have known him.

Dear Allen and family, I have admired and respected from afar your father for many years. What a so needed example he set, especially for our young people.

May our Lord comfort you and your family in your loss.

I suspect Art is among those greeting your dad as he went to spend his Eternal Life with Jesus.

In His Love,
Bev Bosch

Our hearts go out to his family, he was an icon in the Oceanside community.
He will be missed.

Alex holds a special place in my heart, thoughts and prayers. Over the years his support of MAG-39 was a display of his deep love and patriotism for this country and touched thousands of people. "Alex the Flagman" will always be remembered.

Semper Fi,
BGen Michael A. Rocco, USMC

Allan & Family,
Sorry on the passing of Alex. Alex will always have a special place in many hearts in North County, we will miss him dearly.
Best,
Blanca Schneider
CSA Girls Softball

My deepest condolences to all the family.
Alex represented all that is great in this country and his patriotic enthusiasm and example has inspired countless numbers of Marines to give their best to their country and people like Alex.
Alex will always be with us because his spirit is the spirit of America.
Alex, John Phillip Sousa, and George M. Cohan (who composed "You're A Grand Old Flag") would have made a great team.
Semper Fi
Jesse Sunderland/Retired USMC musician.

Alex, you have made such a large impact in my life. Having been with the marine Corps for well over 20 years now, both your flags and your spirit have been instrumental in every ceremony I have had the opportunity to be a part of. While we will miss you and the spirit of liberty that you so selflessly embraced, I now know that a huge array of flags will be awaiting me in heaven when my time comes.

Ed, We are so sorry to hear about your Dad. He was the most patriotic person we knew. Oceanside won't be the same without him. Our thoughts are with you and the other family members at this time.

Alex is my great uncle, my grandmother was his brother, Gladys Groonell, of Westport Connecticut. My condolences go out to his family. He accomplished a great amont in his life and we are all very pround of him.

Tim Groonell and The Groonell Family, Beverely Lisa, Thomas , Peter

Alex is my great uncle, my grandmother was his brother, Gladys Groonell, of Westport Connecticut. My condolences go out to his family. He accomplished a great amont in his life and we are all very pround of him.

I met Mr. Kapitanski when I was about 12 or 13,while in Girl Scouts with his daughter Emilyann. He along with one of the mothers drove a bunch of us Girl Scouts to Calico where we camped for the weekend.

As the years went by and I grew up, I would run into him, and he always remembered me. I ended up working for 2 local banks from 1975 until 2005, and whenever I saw him, I ALWAYS got up to give him a hug and ask about Emi. He was so proud of all of his children, and I felt honored to know him.

The last time I saw him was when this photo was taken, and I am so so glad now that I had my husband pull over so I could get out and once again say hi AND get my picture taken with him!

He was one of those people whom you thought would just live forever, and I not only felt honored to have known him, but also extremely proud to have known him. As long as I live, I will never see a flag without thinking of him.

God Bless all of you Emilyann...I'll never forget your dad.

Sincerely, Yogi aka

God made "one of a kind" individuals to bring forth the importance of love.dedication and reverence to so many. Alex was one...who will live in everyone's heart.

Alex, I don't think you realized how many lives you touched by your unconditional love for your country and fellow man. You were a great role model for our Carlsbad youth and thanks for helping embed the great memories that we all have from our participation in the Carlbad Youth Baseball program.

Alex Kapitanski brought his flag collection to every POW/MIA Service of Remembrance at Naval Hospital Camp Pendleton since it began in 1990. The Flag Man would arrive early and set up at the memorial site, join me for coffee and breakfast, stay for the ceremony, and then take down his flags. He always had stories to tell to those in attendance. I was proud to know him and glad I was able to share that early morning time with him each year. He was a true patriot and loved his country - it always showed. The Flag Man will be missed, but like many others, I will be thinking of Alex whenever I see our flag flying. May he rest in peace!

Alex,
We will never forget your love of country and the youth of our community. You've left a permanent mark on our ballfields and ballplayers with the beautiful flag displays, and unwavering commitment to service. Mr. Flag Man, you've left a mark on many of us that will never be washed away.

Alex,
We will never forget your love of country and the youth of our community. You've left a permanent mark on our ballfields and ballplayers with the beautiful flag displays, and unwavering commitment to service. Mr. Flag Man, you've left a mark on many of us that will never be washed away.

WE LIVED IN OCEANSIDE MANY YEARS AGO AND REMEMBER THE FLAG MAN AND THE FEELING OF PRIDE FOR OUR COUNTRY WHEN WE SAW THE FLAGS ON DISPLAY.TODAY IN A SMALL TOWN IN NORTH CAROLINA WE WILL FLY THE FLAG TO HONOR MR.KAPITANSKI.

My favorite hymn ends with –

‘…If the Army or the Navy should ever look on Heaven's scenes,
they will find the streets are guarded, by United States Marines....’

We all can now rest assured that those same streets will now be forever lined with Alex’s beloved flags…

God Bless, Flag Man...

We will always remember The Flag Man after spending so many years in Oceanside. He brought joy and patriotism to our lives.

Candy Forde Charlet and family
Hurricane, Utah

We thank you for your service to our country & our community. May the Lord bless & lift your family up for strength & encouragement through these difficult times.
Ron Schroder & Family

I will miss your civic pride and patriotism. May your flag forever wave. Rest in Peace.

He was more then the "man that brought the flags" He was the man that brought the respect for the flag. We will miss him and all he brought to life.

I first met Alex when I was working at Food Mart in Oceanside. He had such a pride and LOVE for his country. I always enjoyed our talks. I have seen him a few times over the years and I was still awed by his dedication and hard work . Not only were his flag displays beautiful, but a reminder to everyone to love your country and that freedom is not free!! We have lost a great man.
my condolences to the family for their loss...treasure the memories.
We all will.
Linda Wingate

ED, Our condolences to you and your family. May your great father and War Hero rest in peace in the hands of your Lord.

The Collier family