Anita Miriam Zastrow

Anita Miriam Zastrow obituary, Scottsdale, AZ

Anita Miriam Zastrow

Anita Zastrow Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 10, 2024.
Zastrow, Anita Miriam (Odens) was born on August 28, 1945 in Yankton, South Dakota to Philip and Eva (Kastein) Odens. She grew up on a farm and attended Perkins School in rural BonHomme County before attending Springfield High School. After graduating from high school in 1963, she attended Southern State College in Springfield where she received her degree in Business Education and English. While in college, Anita met her lifetime love. She married Laurence Joseph Zastrow on August 18, 1967 in Springfield before moving to Vermillion, SD.

Anita was a lifelong learner. She loved school and proudly began her teaching career at Elk Point High School while Lary attended law school. During the summer of 1970, Anita and Lary moved to Rapid City, SD where they welcomed both of their daughters, Stephanie (Jason) Ley, Western Springs, IL and Stacie (Joseph VanTassel) Zastrow, Phoenix, AZ. While in Rapid City, she worked as the assistant to the President and taught at National College of Business. Anita later continued her teaching career at Belle Fourche High School where she taught Business English and was the cheerleading coach. She also taught at T.F. Riggs High School in Pierre, SD before joining Lary for the remainder of their careers working for the State Bar of South Dakota. Retirement brought Anita and Lary to Scottsdale, Arizona where she died peacefully on May 7 surrounded by her family following a fourteen month battle with metastatic breast cancer.

Anita was actively involved within her community. She loved organizing events and activities as much as she loved meeting new people and making new connections locally and across the globe. For much of her adult life, Anita volunteered her time to many groups that were incredibly important to her. Some of those organizations were Zonta International, AAUW (American Association of University Women), United Methodist Women (Pierre and Scottsdale), P.E.O., BPW (Business & Professional Women), and the Pierre/Ft. Pierre Genealogical Society. She was particularly passionate about causes related to education, women's rights and social justice.

One of her most cherished roles was that of grandmother. Anita loved and was extremely proud of her three 'favorite' grandchildren. She was always happy to share photos and stories of her twin grandchildren, Marit and Henning Ley, and her youngest grandson, Skye Zastrow Durnford. She and Lary attended countless school performances, sport events, and dance recitals regardless of location and miles required to reach them. Anita was thrilled that a whole family trip to Germany took place recently after several years of discussing and planning.

Anita was preceded in death by her parents, her brother, Robert Odens, and twin grandsons, Daniel and Caleb Ley.

Plans for Memorial services in Scottsdale and South Dakota are being made. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Hospice of the Valley by accessing a mail-in form or making an online donation at hov.org/donate/.

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May 18, 2024

Darlys Davidson posted to the memorial.

May 11, 2024

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May 11, 2024

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Darlys Davidson

May 18, 2024

Anita was my typing and shorthand teacher. We loved her and when she left we made a cake and put "Goodbye, we will miss you" in shorthand.

Shirley Javurek

May 11, 2024

I met Anita when she and Lary worked at the State Bar. She was friendly, kind, funny and a good person. Wonderful friend. She shared and listened. Fiercely proud of her family. Missing her.

Jackie Zell

May 11, 2024

Lary and family, we have many fond memories of our times together and share your loss. May God comfort you during this difficult time. Bob and Jackie

Darlene Braun

May 11, 2024

Lary, I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember her smile, she was never without it! Darlene Braun

JoAnn Lagge

May 11, 2024

I am so sorry for your loss. Anita and I were in BPW together. She was always so encouraging and supportive. I feel very blessed to have known her.
Rest in peace my friend.
Prayers for all who will miss her deeply.

Jo Prang

May 11, 2024

Anita was an influential woman who passionately and tirelessly worked for Zonta. She inspired me to not only remain a Zontian for 35 years, she taught me to be vigorously involved in thr issues Zonta represents. Even though we belonged to different clubs, we were correspondents until she moved to AZ to retire. I am saddened by her cancer struggle, but know that God has welcomed her to a land of no pain and suffering. May He comfort your family as we fondly remember Anita.

m szabo

May 10, 2024

proud to have meet her.

Bonnie

May 10, 2024

Anita shared her dynamite smile frequently and it was warm and welcoming. She was a devoted mother and our youngest kids played together. She was a technology whiz and I was so envious. She was always giving of her time and talents. I look forward to celebrating her life when there is a memorial in SD. With deepest sympathy for this devastating loss.
Bonnie Carr

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