Antone Starkey

(Son) Paul Starkey:
In memory of your father Paul, our Parrish in Tarpon Springs, Florida has collected a sum of revenue to be forwarded to Indiana.
I see no existing forwarding address to mail-rate the envelope.

To the Starkey family,
Tony earned the respect of everyone who met him. I had the privilege of meeting Tony in 1975 when I started working at the Welfare Dept. Once being a student at Calumet myself, (same time as Paul) Tony and I started talking a lot. I loved hearing his stories of being a bus driver for the school, his Scouting experiences, his family, and "Mama" whom he adored. His writings in the DPWette often brought laughter as well as a lump in the throat. His craftmanship furnished the Welfare Dept. We were all a little upset when some of those things started disappearing during "modernization". However, many of his projects, such as mail bins, are still being utilized today. I can still see Tony calling bingo at Blessed Sacrament, urging him to call "my number". Even though I haven't physically seen Tony since his retirement party, I can still see his warm smile and the twinkle in his eyes. We're all very fortunate to have known him. God bless all of you and be with you now and in the future.

Dear Tony my dear friend you will be missed and all who knew you were blessed. Tony was not just a friend,coworker and go to guy. He was a legend and one who was always used as an example for kindness,humility and excellence. He was joy to all who knew him. I love you my friend. Bert

Dear Paul:

Our church in Tarpon Springs, Florida during mass, Our father mentioned you dads name.
We all prayed for Mr. Starkey. Knowing where Mr. Starkey is, I wait for my day to feel the arms of My Lord around me.
I will continue prayer for you Paul, A letter for you Paul is on it's way to Hebron.
Let Me Pray: DEAR LORD, REACH DOWN & EMBRACE THESE CHILDREN, THE VACANCY THEY FILL DURING THIS MOMENT. YOUR POLISHED STRENGTH LORD, WILL GUIDE THEM THROUGH THIS JOURNEY.
LORD, TOUCH EACH CHILDS HEAD RIGHT NOW, HEAL THERE PAIN

Paul,

You may not remember me but we worked together at Gary National Bank, Dunes Branch many years ago. I was sorry to read about the loss of your father and I just wanted to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I still remember after all these years how close you were to your family. I know that God will get you through the tough times and will never let you forget the good times.
May God continue to Bless all of you.

Paul,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. A friend from the old neighborhood on 39th ct.
Debbie Nelson (czernoch)

To Paul Starkey Jr.
My Teacher @ Calumet High School

When I think of Paul Starkey, I think of a mentor with continuous smiles shared to us students @ CHS 1972-75.
I live in Florida, And wish the miles were not between us. But our thoughts are with you.
I will never forget being your neighbor, And seeing such a wonderful family in the Starkey house @ 41st & Grant.
Your fathers temporary assignment here is ful-filled, His precious life now with the lord, IS ETERNAL.
Praise God for his forever happiness.
Mr Starkey, Enjoy Gods Eternal rewards for your kindness to us all here.
To the Starkey family, From The Dearings in Florida.
Our devine prayers, Are asking for comfort to all of you.
I can never forget the kindness Paul that you gave us, Not just as your neighbor, but pushing us to achieve @ Calumet High School back in the 70's.
To every Starkey Loved One, May my hand from Florida, Absorb your sadness.

Carl Dearing
Holiday, Florida
Email [email protected]

May God Be With You All

Grandpa--
I've been dreding this day for a very long time. You were just not my grandfather, you were like my father, and my best friend! You were there with me when I was in boy scouts, and also helped me in Track and Field! Told me all about the days when you ran track and Boy Scouting days. Having you as my grandfather was more than a blessing, right now its so hard to discribe how greatful I am to have a grandfather like you! Little Eric and I love you so much and will miss you more than anything!!!

We Love You Gramps!
Eric and Little Eric

Dad,

Last Thursday was one of the worse and hardest days of my life; I lost my father and best friend. How can I ever begin to thank you for being the BEST father a son could ever ask for? You were more than my dad; you were my teacher, coach, confidant, mentor, and my best friend. I will always cherish the memories you have given me throughout my life. When I was young, you always made sure my brothers and sisters and I, as well as mom, had a vacation somewhere, be it a trip around Lake Michigan (I can still close my eyes and envision myself standing on the front seat of the car between you and mom, I was 5 yrs old, while Toni, Jimmy, and Patti were in the back seat) or out east, or just a lazy week at a rented cabin in Monticello.

Thank you for instilling in me a strong belief in God and my Catholic religion, and a love for my country (even though I don't agree with everything the government does!) Thanks for getting me involved in the Boy Scouts, a time in my life I will always remember (forgetting my silverware on camp outs and having to find you at your camp and take yours - how did you eat your food?)
I will cherish all of our confidential talks, times when I was feeling down and you spoke some sense into me and brightened my day. Thank you (and mom) for being my right and left hands when I was in my auto accident in 1971 and was laid up in bed for 3 1/2 months. I know that it was not easy for either of you to see me that way. I hope that I have made you proud as your son - I tried to do what you and mom always taught me. I am proud to be a Starkey - to me, the BEST family on the earth. I guess you have to be a Starkey, or related to one, to know and understand the special bond and closeness we have for one another.

Dad, even though you are not here with us physically, you will always be in my heart, on my mind, and in my prayers. I will try my best to continue to make you and mom proud of me. I know when you left us, mom, grandma & grandpa Starkey, Toni Marie, Uncle Joe, Aunt Elsie, Uncel Butch, Larry and all of our deceased relatives where waiting at heavens gate with open arms and smiles on their faces. You are with mom again, the love of your life.

Please ask Jesus to give Toni, Jim, Patti, Mary Ann, Butch, myself and all of us the strength to make it through the next few days, as well as the coming weeks, months, and years.

I love you dad - rest in peace.

Your second son - Paul

Paul,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. You may not remember me, but we were neighbors throughout school. I lived on 39th Ct. My e-mail is....
[email protected]

Tony was a great person and full of knowledge and kindness. I worked with him at the Welfare Department from 1954 until he retired. Having a holiday lunch with him, Kathy and other retirees was always a pleasure.

Be Blessed

To the Starkey family
My sympathies go out to you at this time of Tony's passing. I started working at the welfare department in 1974 (and still work there). Tony was awesome to work with. He would always find a way to make things better in our office. Not only his superior craftsmanship, but also his positive attitude (and sense of humor). He could converse with anyone with ease, whether the talk was simplistic or highly intellectual. Also, many of the fixtures he created are still in use, even though our office has moved a few times. Everyone truly missed him when he left the department in 1991. There will never be another one like "Tony". My prayers are with the family at this time of your loss.

Paul
I was so sorry to hear about your father. It sounds like he had a very eventful life. May he rest in peace. You might not remember me. I went to Blessed Sacrament church and in 7th grade like your cousin Joe Starkey. Here is my E-mail address [email protected]

Dad,

I just want to say "thank-you" for being the BEST father a son could ever want. Thank you for being the best role model around; because of you and mom, I have a strong faith and belief in God. I am blessed to be in the greatest family on earth. My family means everything to me. Thank you for always being there when I needed someone to talk to or confide in. Thanks for all you have taught me and always encouraging me to do my best in life. I know you are at peace in heaven with our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. I can see mom, your mom and dad, Aunt Elsie, Uncle Joe, Toni Marie, Uncle Butch, Larry, and all of our deceased relatives waiting for you and welcoming you with open arms into heaven. Words cannot describe how much you meant to me and how much I am going to miss you. I know things were hard for you after mom passed away; after almost 60 years of marriage, it had to be hard. I will never forget and will cherish forever our trips to the doctor and a nice lunch/dinner and conversation afterwards. Or, just getting together to visit and talk. You were always interested to find out what was going on in my life, as well as my sisters and brothers, Toni, Jim, Pat, Mary Ann and Butch. Unless you are a Starkey, one can never realize the tight bond that keeps us close and together. Many times throughout my life, I was told by friends that they envy me because of the best mom and dad and family I had.

Rest in peace dad, I love you. You will always be on my mind, in my heart and in my prayers. I know one day we will be together again. Please ask Jesus to give all of us the strength we need to get through the next few days and the coming weeks, months, and years.

Your second son - Paul

Grandpa I will miss you more than words can describe. You were my walking history book and my favorite Jeopardy contestant. I'm lucky to have had such a wonderful, caring, intellegent man as a Grandfather for 30 years. Now you're finally with the love of your life. I guess Grandma was ready for your teasing again. I love you forever and always!

G- Generous to all
R- Remembered everything
A- Always thoughtful and caring
N- Never ending love
D- Dear Man to all
P- Passion for History and God
A- Angel watching over us