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Jen Lenau
October 24, 2020
Jen Lenau
October 24, 2020
Jen Lenau
October 24, 2020
Another year Grandpa without you physically being here...I know you are ALWAYS with us in spirit and memories. So many changes with the Chuda family growing in size, Jacey made her 1st Communion and Jacob made his Confirmation this year and then Covid 19 happened. Such a strange year but throughout it all I know you have been watching over us. Fifteen years is too long to not have heard your voice, received a card or hugged you. Please know you are forever missed and loved and that your legacy lives on. I know you are watching down over all your children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren and that we are making you proud. Give Grandma a hug and kiss from all of us. We love and miss you ❤❤
Tom Chuda
October 24, 2020
Best father a boy kid have. Always found the time for his boys!
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Scott C
October 21, 2020
Papa. Miss you so much.
Wish you were here to see Grace and Neil. They are so adventurous and curious.
Thank you for being who you were and for still looking over the family. There have been many times in my navy career that things went south but something “you” were there in spirit.
Love you
2 of your granddaughters-Jacey and Juliana
Jen Lenau
October 20, 2019
Hi Grandpa-I look back on the pictures and messages and can't believe it has been 14 years since you have been gone. Jacob is almost 15 years old and Jacey just turned 8 years old. Life is going by so fast and your memories live on. My only wish is that Jacob got to spend more time with you and you got to meet Jacey and all your other grandchildren. You now have 10 great grandchildren and one on the way-I know you are proud and the Chuda name lives on. I know you know I talk to you, Grandma and Grammy on my daily walks and see signs of you in my daily life. Please keep those signs coming and know how much you are loved and missed by all of us. Your legacy lives on Grandpa and I know you are watching over all of us and looking down with so much pride and love. You are forever missed and in our hearts. I love and miss you Grandpa-Jenny xoxo
Thomas Chuda
July 13, 2011
Hey Dad, Just wanted to let you know that you are going to be a Great Grandpa again. Jen is pregnant and due at the end of October. Everyone is excited. Kevin and Cynthia are on their honeymoon in Italy. Kevin loves working on his house... I wonder where he got that? All is well here and I still miss you like crazy! Tom
Tom Chuda
April 27, 2011
Dear Dad, Happy Birthday. Sorry it took so long to acknowledge your birthday, but we had Mom down this weekend to celebrate both of your birthdays and we had a houseful of people. It was just like before you died, all of us (15) around the table.. talking, eating, laughing, etc. It still isn't any easier even after 5 years. Dad, I love you and I will never forget. Happy Birthday, Tom
Tom Chuda
October 17, 2010
Dear Dad, I want to let you know that your grandson Kevin got married last weekend. You would have been proud of him. He stood tall and you would have enjoyed yourself. I told Kevin that "Grandpa is here" and he started to cry. We all love you lots. Love Always, Tom
Tom Chuda
June 25, 2010
Dear Dad, Your flag flew high on my flag pole on Fathers Day. It is still not easy getting through Fathers Day. Not buying a present or card for you is still difficult. I think of you often and know that you are in a better place. Happy Fathers Day Dad. Tom
Jen Lenau
April 27, 2010
Grandpa-
I can't believe another year has gone by...time goes by so fast (I am watching Jacob grow right in front of my eyes). We flew your flag on your Birthday and we are always thinking of you. We miss you very much and pray that you are watching over all of us. We love you Grandpa! Love always, Jenny
Thomas Chuda
April 23, 2010
Happy Birthday Dad, Went by to see you today and left you some flowers. We then went to go see Mom. She looks good and misses you a lot. Dad, we all miss you greatly, especially me. I think about you everyday. Love, Tom
Tom Chuda
December 29, 2009
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Dad. As usual we all talked about you around the Christmas tree. We all remembered your little dancing christmas tree that was motion activated. I told the kids about the little house ornament we had on the tree when I was a kid. Whenever you checked the lights to see which bulb burned out, you always made the light illuminating the house red. Mom would get upset and yell at us for changing the bulb. She never figured it out. Happy Holidays Dad, Love Tom
October 25, 2009
Grandpa we all miss you and can't believe it has been 4 years. You are always in our hearts, thoughts, prayers and memories. We all know that you are our angel looking down on us. We miss you and love you forever!
Love always,
Jenny, Jamie and Jacob
Tom Chuda
October 24, 2009
Dearest Dad, Words can not say how much I miss you. It seems like yesterday that you were here, yet it has been 4 years since your passing. Again, your flag flies high on my flag pole. Mom misses you and sees you in her "dreams." Believe me, you are not forgotten!!
Love, Tom
Thomas Chuda
June 22, 2009
Hey Dad, Happy Father's Day. All my kids were here yesterday. I am very fortunate to have such great kids... but its still not the same celebrating Fathers Day without you. Dad, I miss you and want to let you know that Mom is safe and your boys are doing well... God Bless Tom
John Chuda
April 23, 2009
Happy 86th Birthday dad. I can`t believe it has almost been 4 years since you left us ALL. Mom`s Birthday is tomorrow, and miss celebrating both your Birthdays together.
We will ALWAYS miss you Dad!
Love,
Your son John
Tom Chuda
April 22, 2009
Well Dad, Happy Birthday. It doesn't get any easier, and its been almost 4 years. April just doesn't seem the same, not celebrating your birthday or Mom's birthday. Mom is in a good place now over in Brookline. It's kind of surprising, the lilac tree that I took from your house, hasn't bloomed since you died. It is growing great, but lacks the gentle touch you used to give it. Happy 86th birthday!! Love, Tom
Jen Lenau
October 29, 2008
Grandpa-
I can't believe another year has gone by and I miss you even more (it is true when they say absence makes the heart grow fonder). Always know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and think of you often (especially around the holidays). Please continue to watch over Grandma and keep her healthy, safe and a new found happiness. All my love, Jenny
P.S. Jacob is almost 4 and everyday I wish he was able to "get to know you" but I know that you are looking down on him and watching him grow over the years.
Thomas Chuda
October 26, 2008
Dear Dad, Your flag was flying high this weekend, even though it was at half-staff. I fly it for you on your birthday and the date of your death. Until I die, your flag will fly outside my house. You are always in my thoughts. Love Always, Tom
Thomas Chuda
April 22, 2008
Dearest Dad,
Happy Birthday. Here it is the eve of the third birthday of yours without you. A day doesn't go by that I don't think about you. I have taken the liberty of enclosing a letter I got from one of John's friends. He is losing his father to Alzheimers and had nothing but great things to say about you. I was not surprised, and was very proud. Here is what he said:
Tom,
As my Dad approaches his
final days, I cannot help
but think about your Dad. HE
was a guiding force for me
for the many years I was
fatherless. The patience and
concern he showed for John
and his idiot friend (me)
was the blueprint for my own
parenting in ways. I thought
of him from time to time as
I grew in the Navy and faced
those who would do me or our
country harm. I am a better
man for having known your
Dad and, of course, your
Mom. Send her my love and
best wishes.
Dave
Dad, I took your great grandson fishing this past weekend for the first time. Jacob thought the worms were "Yucky" but enjoyed catching three sun fish. It reminded me of you taking Bob and me to Spy pond to catch sun fish or to Castle Island for flounder. You should be proud of how your family came out.
Dave Wynn was right when he said, you established the blueprint for my own parenting ways. You live on in many peoples hearts and minds.
Happy Birthday Dad, Love Always, Tom
Thomas Chuda
February 8, 2008
Hi Dad,
It's been a while since I have written you, but a day doesn't go by that I don't think of you. The holidays have come and gone but they weren't the same. Our traditions have slowly changed since you died, but your spirit is still with us. Everytime Jen or Kevin see some inanimate object dancing as a result of a motion detector built into it, they immediately talk about you and that stupid Christmas tree you liked so much. Remember, you would clap your hands and the tree would sing and dance.
Dad, you would be so proud of your great grandson Jacob. He is the smartest thing going, and cute as can be. (Boy, I sound just like you) I am so glad you were able to enjoy your grand kids, because they are a gift from God (that you can return to their parents when you want to) I am proud to claim the title of "Grumpy," and hope I am half as good as a grumpy, as you were as a Grandpa. Dad, help guide me to be the best Grumpy possible. I made a lot of mistakes as a father, but I am working on a clean slate with Jacob. Help me be the best I can be. I am listening and talking to you everyday.
Love, Tom
John Chuda
October 27, 2007
Hi Dad,
Two years have gone by already, and ALL of us have you in our thoughts and prayers,dad. The world is scary without you but I know your watching over us ALL.
Your son,
x,o
John
Jenny Lenau
October 26, 2007
Grandpa-
I can't believe that it has been 2 years that you have been gone (physically but not from our thoughts). We miss you very much and we talk about you all the time bringing up stories from the past and the wonderful memories. Jacob has grown up so big and he is hilarious-he would make you laugh. We all miss you terribly and continue to look down over all of your family.
With love,
Jenny
Tom Chuda
October 25, 2007
Dad, I went by to see you yesterday, and it was hard to believe that you have been gone for two years. Lisa got married last month and you were mentioned at the service. I knew you were there, because everyone had a great time. I think this book is very aptly named "Legacy." Your legacy lives on through your four sons. The Chudas live on, because you were such a great role model. I was lucky to have known you and been your son. You are always in my thoughts..... Tom
Richard Chuda
October 24, 2007
It's hard to believe that it has been two years since I said good bye to you. Please keep looking over all of us.
Scott Chuda
April 23, 2007
Papa,
Even with all I have been through since I moved to Michigan, I feel comfortable and at peace, because I know you are close. I think about you all the time and with baseball season picking up it makes me think about you even more. I miss the times we had in the front yard, where you would pitch to me for hours on end. I miss seeing you with grandma everytime I go over to visit, but it would be wrong of me to want you back, because you are at peace and are able to remember all the memories you had over your life.
I miss you like crazy and think about you always. Peace Pops.
JOHN CHUDA
April 22, 2007
Happy Birthday dad,
Two years come and gone, and another birthday without you.I think of all the fond happy memories you gave us ALL which I miss avery single passing day. Your always in my prayers dad,
Happy 84th Birthday
Your son,
John
Jennifer Lenau
April 20, 2007
Grandpa-
Although I haven't written in awhile you know that I think of you all the time. It means so much to me when Jacob sits on the bench in dad's garden and says, "Hi Papa" as he looks down at your picture. You would enjoy him so much and I wish he would have been able to see you dressed up like a clown. I make sure he knows who you are by stories, pictures and the forever memories. We miss you very much and love you even more.
Love,
Jenny
Tom Chuda
April 19, 2007
Dad, Another Spring is upon us and we continue to have rain. Maybe the heavens are crying because of what is happening down here. I can't believe it is going to be another birthday without you. It was always kind of funny to think about whether it was yours or mom's birthday we were going to celebrate each year. Now it is just Mom's. I thought it was going to get easier but I guess God has other plans.
Believe it or not, I am finding more and more stuff for your memory book. There is a reunion scheduled for the July 4th weekend for the crew of the USS Bunker Hill. I plan on trying to attend to see if anybody remembers you. There is also a reunion for the USS Cascade in Boston in September. You would be amazed at what the book looks like now. The book brings me closer to you. I also found copies of the Monument newspaper that you read on board the Bunker Hill. All of the boys have copies and Mom, and they are reading them to see if you are mentioned anywhere.
Dad, Happy Birthday. Love Always, Tom, Bev, Jen, Kevin, Jamie and Jacob!
linda cruz
February 16, 2007
DEAR UNCLE TONY, I FIRST WANT TO THANK TOM FOR THIS GUEST BOOK. I JUST WANT TO DROP A LINE TO YOUR FAMILY AND LET THEM KNOW THAT YOUR SISTER CAROLINE IS DOIN WELL, WE MISS YOU DEARLY, IF AUNT MARY GETS THIS MESSAGE WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH,
SORRY WE HAVEN'T BEEN IN TOUCH PLEASE CALL MOM/CAROLINE 414 489-9047 TO THE REST OF THY FAMILY TAKE CARE OF EACH OTHER KEEP IN TOUCH, LOVE ALWAYS YOUR COUSIN LINDA AND KIDS STEVE, GEORGE, ANGEL, MY HUSBAND STEVE
UNCLE TONY PLEASE GIVE BOBBY & MY DAD A BIG HUG AND KISS AND TELL I MISS THEM SO MUCH, I LOVE YOU LINDA
Richard Chuda
October 27, 2006
It's been a year since you passed. We think of you all the time. Rest in Peace. Rich
Scott Chuda
September 19, 2006
Grandpa,
I can't believe it has almost been a year since we lost you. I think about you everyday, and every moment I can I remember all the times I got to spend with you. Though I have a regret and I know you go through life with regrets but this one haunts me everyday. I feel that I didn't spend as much time with you when you were sick and helpless as you did with me when I was young and helpless. I feel I let you down and I wish there was a way to make it up to you, though I know there is not. Papa, I miss you so much and I wish I could see you just one last time, so that we can play baseball again and you can dress up as a clown and most of all, so that I can see what a true, honest and loving man should look like. Love you Papa
John Chuda
June 18, 2006
Dear Dad,
Wow, first Father`s day without you, but we did visit you today for appreciating all the memories you gave to ALL of us. I`ll always remember you dad every day, and especially every Fathers day. I know now for sure your with the Angels in heavan watching over us ALL
Your son,
John
Richard Chuda
June 15, 2006
Dad; This is going to be the first Father's Day without you. It will not be the same without you. You helped me be the father that I am, and I am proud of that. The kids mention how the birds that you loved to feed are probably wondering where you are. It seems to be getting a bit easier and then I can't get you out of my mind. You were the best father and grandfather. Love Rich
Thomas Chuda
May 11, 2006
Dad, I miss you tremendously. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you. You didn't say much, but all we needed was your presence. Now that your gone, the family seems to have lost its compass. Even though you really weren't with us in mind and spirit the last couple of years, you were still the head of the family. Please help mom and the grand kids get through this, because I can forsee some troublesome times on the horizon. I have your picture out at the flag pole and talk with you every day. I flew your flag on your birthday dad. A man could never have asked for a better father. God Bless you Dad. Love Tom.
Jennifer Lenau
May 11, 2006
Grandpa- I have been meaning to write in your book for awhile but instead I have been praying to you every night while standing over Jacob sleeping. You are very much missed and loved by all of your family but I know that you are constantly with us throughout every day and night. I consider you our guardian angel and that you are looking down over each and every one of us. We are lucky to have had you in our lives and you continue to be part of our lives through memory, stories and prayers. I love you Grandpa and miss you!
Love,
Jenny
Scott Chuda
May 9, 2006
Papa,
I am about to end my second year of college, I never thought i would ever say that, especially without you here.
I miss you so much Papa, and i think about you constantly. The worst part about this is that i will never see you and grandma again together as happy as can be. I miss you Papa but i know you are in a better place .
I LOVE YOU PAPA
Scott Chuda
May 9, 2006
Papa,
I'm about to finish my second year of college, never thought i would say that, especially without you to hear it. I miss you more than words could explain, and i think about you often, especially when i have a minute to myself. I know you are watching over grandma right now, and i miss the fact that i will never see you two together again. I miss you papa, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.
Richard Chuda
April 18, 2006
Easter was not the same this year. Springtime had its way of renewing you. We miss you. Rich
Richard Chuda
February 24, 2006
Dad; When you just think life is getting easier, another sucker punch comes along.
First off, thanks for getting Mom and John out of the house safely. I just feel that you were there. Thank goodness you are in a better place. The thought of you being there and not being able to get out of the house has overwhelmed me. You also would not be able to comprehend what has happened to your home either. Lots of memories went up in flames. Give mom the strength to move on and close this chapter. It may be cruel but she should take the money and run. The thought of rebuilding is going to consume her. Let her enjoy the rest of her life and not deal with all of this. Love. Rich
Tom Chuda
February 13, 2006
Dad, we all got your message "life goes on." I am so glad you put in a good word and got Mom and John out of the house okay. The house is almost a total loss, and you know something, I feel like I experienced another death in the family. You don't know how much that house meant to me. Working in the basement, throwing snowballs in the backyard, tossing Richard off the back porch. Dad, I guess I have to move on,but its so hard. That house meant so much to me, it was my childhood. Its not like just moving away, at least you can come back and visit. The house is gutted and it will never be the same, even if Mom rebuilds. Dad, I love you and miss you. Please help me get through this. Love Always, Tom
Great Grandson Jacob and Grand Daughter Jen celebrating their birthdays
January 25, 2006
Grandson Kevin and Great Grandson Jacob visit Santa for the first time at the Legion Hall
Tom Chuda
January 25, 2006
Dad, Its taken me a while to talk with you again. You know how much Thanksgiving and Christmas mean to me. The Holidays just weren't the same without you and I feel bad that my kids and grandson didn't get to be with you this year. Everybody loved just having you with us and drinking a Sombrero and surrounded by Mom or one of the kids. I can see you right now playing the piano and laughing and joking. It's strange what you remember about a person. I have attached 2 pictures. One is your Grandson Kevin and Great Grandson Jacob visiting Santa at the American Legion Christmas party. Can you tell Jacob wasn't happy to see him. (Do you remember taking Bob and me to the Legion for Christmas?) The second picture is your grandson Jacob and his mom Jen with a birthday cake. We have celebrated Jacob's and Jen's birthdays since you left, and you are always there. It might seem silly adding pictures to the gallery, because you were there in spirit, I just want to do so to feel closer to you. God Bless you Dad, it doesn't get any easier.
John Chuda
January 23, 2006
Dear Dad,
Just to let you know dad it wasn`t the same without you, we all missed your enjoyment, and laughter this past Christamas,and you opening gifts from ALL of us the (Chuda`s). We both missed you popping the cork
and ringing in the New Year, 2006!
I was so fortunate to have a loving and caring dad such as you, and to ALL you came in contact with. Dad you`ll never be forgotten, and The Veterens of Foreign War, (VFW) dedicated a bronze plaque in your name
I`ll ALWAYS love you Dad, RIP,
Your son,
John
scott chuda
January 17, 2006
Grandpa,
Christmas and New Years has come and gone. Emma and I were at your house for New Years and it was a really good time, but it was not as much fun because you were not there to enjoy it with us.
Now, i am back at school and missing you even more because i know if two years when i graduate that you will not be there, and when i tryout for the hockey team and make it next year, my plan, you will not be there at the Agannis Arena to see me play. However, knowing that you are comfortable now comforts me and your love gives me strength. i think about you constantly Papa.
I LOVE YOU and MISS YOU greatly.
December 4, 2005
If you look in the dictionary under "gentleman" you would probably find a picture of my father-in-law, Tony Chuda. He was the kindest, quietest, most "gentle" man I have ever had the priviledge of knowing. He was never judgemental, nor confrontational. His love for his family was always evident.
I have been a Chuda for 31 years, and for all those years he filled a void in my life as being my "second" Dad. I hope I somehow filled a void in his life as being his "daughter".
I miss you Dad but will always have a bit of you in Tom, Kevin, Jen, and now Jacob.
Lots of Love,
Bev
Tom Chuda
December 4, 2005
We just celebrated your great grandson's first birthday. We also got a chance to celebrate Jamie and Jen's housewarming. Dad you would love their house. Jamie is doing a great job and doing a lot of the work himself. He sure could use your advice on fixing things. You always had the greatest ideas. Dad, everytime Jacob sees me he crawls right up to me and wants me to pick him up. He makes me feel so good inside. I now know why you loved being a grandpa. He is just starting to walk, he should be toddling by Christmas.
Thomas Chuda
November 26, 2005
Well Dad, It's over. Thanksgiving just wasn't the same without you! It seems like everyone wants me to do what you used to do, carve the turkey, give the youngest at the table the turkey leg, have the youngest sit next to grandpa. Dad it's tough, everybody loved you and our traditions have come back to haunt us. Jacob celebrated his first Thanksgiving and you would have been proud. He is a Chuda through and through. We all toasted you and said how much we missed you. Mom is doing extremely well and is looking at your memory book right now. You would be happy with the way it came out. We all miss you very much. Love, Tom
Tom Chuda
November 23, 2005
Well Dad, Its the day before Thanksgiving and you're not going to be here. It's going to be tough, especially when I have to carve the turkey.(Everyone knows that was your job). We will be thinking of you as always. Dad it hasn't gotten any easier. Jacob is going to be great, but will miss you giving him the drumstick. Happy Thanksgiving Dad. Love, Tom.
scott chuda
November 18, 2005
grandpa,
one of my fondest memories of you, was whenever we were leaving i could tell you loved us and didn't want us to leave because grandma would say "Tony go get some drinks for the kids" and in your funny little way you'd reply "ok ok fine, GEEZ" ill never forget that or you forever.
i love you papa
Tom, Jacob (Great Grandson), & Great Grand Pa Tony
Thomas Chuda
November 5, 2005
I am fortunate enough to have witnessed my father play with his great grandson Jacob James Lenau. This is a picture of me, Jacob and Dad at Jacob's christening party. As usual, my Dad had a great time with his sons, grand children and great grand child. I miss you Dad!
My Dad at the World War II Memorial!
November 4, 2005
Dad and me in New Hampshire. (Scott & Bev in the background)
November 4, 2005
One of my Dad's favorite past times, spending time with his grand kids!!
November 4, 2005
Tony and Mary at their Grand Daughter Jen's Wedding, 2000
November 4, 2005
James Lenau
November 4, 2005
I met Grandpa Chuda for the first time on Thanksgiving Day 1997. I had only been dating Jennifer for a couple of months, but I felt very comfortable with her family. Grandpa not only welcomed me into his home that day, but he welcomed me into the family. At that time I had no idea what the future held for me and Jen, but I knew I wanted to learn more about her grandfather. I never had the chance to know either one of my grandfathers, so when I had the opportunity to listen to all the great stories about Grandpa, I paid close attention. Military service is a very special thing in this family and I had the priviledge of sharing some special moments with a true WWII hero. God Bless You, Antony Chuda. Thank you for your service to our country and our family. I salute you. Rest in peace.
Love....Jamie
scott chuda
November 4, 2005
Grandpa, i just wanted to thank you for everything this week. with four tests it was very stressful and nerve-racking, but thanks to you, you comforted me and helped me get through the week without flipping out once on anyone, because you showed me how to live life, happy and jolly.
i love you papa.
you are the greatest grandfather anyone could ever have. thank you for everything you've ever done and will do for me.
Kendra Hinchliffe
November 3, 2005
To the Chuda Family:
I remember Mr.Chuda bringing many smiles and laughter to all the family parties and occasions I attended. I'll never forget the warm loving smile he wore everytime I saw him, whether behind a big red nose or not. It was a pleasure to know him, and the lasting memories will forever remain in my heart. Rich, Sheryl, Scott, Shel, Mone, and Reeder... lots of love, your in my thoughts!
John Chuda
November 3, 2005
My dad, Antony J. Chuda,was an insperation to ALL that new him. He was a true dad which God broke the mold when he was born the oldest son of 14, brothers and sisters. I new a lot about my dad, but still learning more about his past growing up in West Allis, WI. I know I whont get to know ALL the history of my dad growing up during the 1940`s Depression, WWII when my dad met my mom in the Old S. Boston Navy yard. but sure know his name will live on ALWAYS in my thoughts and prayers. I love you Dad, I`ll ALWAYS be thinking of you
Love ALWAYS,
Your son,
John
Mary Byrne
October 31, 2005
After knowing Mr. Chuda for over 20 years yet not really knowing him until now I think this is how he would feel for all of you he left behind:
I'M FREE
Don't grieve for me now ~ I'm free;
I'm following the path God laid for me;
I took his hand when I heard him call; I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day; To laugh, to love, to play; Tasks left undone must stay that way; I found that peace at the close of day.
If my parting has left a void; Then fill it with remembered joy; A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss; Ah yes, these things I too will miss.
Be not burdened with time of sorrow; I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow; My life's been full, I've savored much; Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief; Don't lengthen it now with undue grief; Lift up your heart and share with me; God wanted me now. He set me free.
Richard Chuda
October 31, 2005
This is the eulogy that I expressed for my father.
"We all have different images of being successful. Dad was from a simpler time, when devotion to your country, your family and your God were your measures of success.
As a young boy in Wisconsin, my dad drew his strength from the Croation church, which was close to his home. He sought and found comfort there since his step father did not treat him well. Each trip home, he would try to visit, hopefully during the Czech festival that he enjoyed. He had a job delivering for a local bakery, way too young and small to reach the pedals he would stand to operate the truck. He received money for his mother but most importantly, bread for his brothers and sisters. As I found out only recently, there were many times that the food he brought home was the only food in the house. Since he was the oldest, he already felt a responsibility to care for his mother's growing family. He sacrificed the joys of childhood to be the provider, a role he would carry throughout his lifetime. When he entered the Navy during WW II he sent every dime that he could home to his mother.
Once he married Mary, the love of his life, he worked hard as a master all around machinist. He perfected his skills for 40 years at Payne Elevator. Whenever we got on an elevator together we would check the name plate to see if it was a "Payne". To this day I still check that plate. I once asked him why he did not move on to other companies. He said that he never wanted to put at risk what was dear to him, his family. His job was dirty but one that he enjoyed. When you visited him at the shop he enthusiastically gave you a grand tour, showing you each machine and describing what it did. He made sure that everyone kne you were visiting. His job enabled him to provide for his family and buy a home. Not a mansion, but a two family. One that would be home for his growing family but also his mother and father in law. After all they gave him Mary, his one and only.
Dad, truly loved his family especially his sons, whether he was cubmaster for our scout pack or playing touch football on Harding Avenue with the neighborhood kids. He even sacrificed a broken bone or two of his own along the way. I often wondered how many boys mom had, four or five. Dad was a member of the VFW Clow troupe, They performed at Christmas parties bringing laughter and joy to both young and old. Many a wide eyed child received one of his balloon animals, not perfect but just use your imagination, the kids did not care. Dad loved wearing that outfit, especially the big green size 22 sneakers. Even after the clown troupe faded, he continued to provide entertainment at family birthday parties. When I had daughters I asked him for advise and he politely told me, Can't help you there, all I have is boys, I was on my own. I cannot forget the joy that dad found in tinkering, especially with numbers. A significant date or the addition of a new family member, a daughter in law or grandchild were special, meant a new set of numbers to add to that little piece of paper he kept in his wallet. Who knows they could be the lucky numbers he was looking for.
Thank you was never something that dad accepted comfortably. He had a job to do and he did it. We visited the WW II Memorial last year and strangers, recognizing him as a veteran, came up to him and shook his hand, thanking him for his service. Even without his advancing Alzheimer's, he would have wondered why was he being thanked. He was just a simple man, who did his job, keeping his family and country safe. A tear came to my eye when he came to the Wisconsin state memorial and he snapped a salute. I guess in his own way he was finally accepting his thank you.
On behalf of my dad, I want to thank you for touching my father's life, for helping him be successful, on his terms. And thank you dad for being a gentle man, a friend, a brother, a father and a devoted husband. Rest in Peace."
Jenny Lenau (Chuda)
October 30, 2005
I was the oldest grandchild and feel priveleged to have had Grandpa in my life for 29 years. He was the most kind and gentle man and would do anything for his family. I feel lucky to have had my Grandpa at my wedding and be a part of his great grandson's life (if only for 10 months). I only wish Jacob would have the memories that I have and hold so dear to my heart of my wonderful Grandpa. I have the pictures and stories to always share with Jacob and he will always know the brave and loving great-grandpa that we were all blessed to have in our lives. I love you Grandpa and you will always be loved and never forgotten! Rest in peace.
All my love,
Jenny xoxo
Emma DeVault
October 29, 2005
To the Chuda family,
I'm so sorry to hear about Grandpa Chuda. I know you all are going to miss him very much. I remember when he tried to teach me some Czech! He was a great and I regret only meeting him three years ago, I wish it was longer. I hope everyone stays strong. My thoughts are with you all.
Sheryl Chuda
October 29, 2005
I've been a Chuda for over 20 years now. Rich & I lived above Tony and Mary for the first 5 years we were married. I had the good fortune to get to know them both on a daily basis.
My memories are scattered and in no particular order.
"My birthday? Four Twenty-twee twenty-twee".....Antony, no H..."People always ask me if I'm Italian"......The way he'd tip his head to one side.......The way he'd adjust his glasses.....His smile....His laugh....."Watch your mouth it sounds like hell"!......Lottery tickets.....the Numbers Game.....Father's Day at Medeival Manor, Dad jousting with bread.....Countless birthday parties in a clown suit, Daniel Boone balloon hats for every single kid at every party.....Taking out the trash to have a Winchester behind the garage!......"Sheryl, your father-in-law may be the shortest in the family but if you can't find something, look up!" I never paid attention to rafters before Dad...........Coffee in the morning,coffee after dinner......He always waited on all of us.....His never ending devotion to Mom......When we went out for dinner he always ordered whatever Mom did.......Czech bread is actually called Potica. Making Potica is time consuming,but Dad was always happy. It's no secret, I made it for Dad. Papa gets the first slice......Carving the turkey at Thanksgiving. The youngest sits next to Papa..........."Speak up so Papa can hear you"......"Tony, the kids are here!" The way his face lit up whenever we came to visit. He hated to see us go.......The hours he spent pitching baseballs to Scott when he was so little......Tony was very proud of his 4 sons. But Bev and I knew how much he loved us. We never did anything wrong. It was always Tom's or Rich's fault!.......Tony's garden was small but he could grow anything. You could see his corn stalks from Trapelo Road!......The multitude of birds outside the kitchen window. The contraptions he created to keep the squirrels away........Measure twice, cut once. In Tony's case, it was more like measure 3 or 4 times before he cut. But whatever he made was always very well done........Swimming in the ocean down the Cape, or Snake Pond near Tom & Bev's or at Belmont Pool. Diving off the diving board to entertain the grandkids (and his kids for that matter). Grandma never going in the water. Grandpa never coming out of the water!......Red and white mints, his favorite and always in his pocket.......Dad dancing the polka. Me attempting to polka with Dad......Red and white mints in a wreath and a large bag of bird seed were part of his Christmas gifts every year.......The trip to Washington D.C., his salute at the World War II Memorial......Jenny's wedding. Dad dancing with Mom. The last couple on the dance floor because they were married the longest......Watching Dad play with Jacob at his Christening party. He was back. If only for a half hour. Watching Dad wave at Jacob made all those memories of how he played with my kids come back.......Dad loved his 3 grandsons. They will carry on his name. But Papa was crazy about his 5 girls!.......He never sat still, unless the Bruins were playing. He raised puttering to an art form. Always fixing something.
Though I haven't had a conversation with you for quite some time, it's still so very hard to let you go.
Rest in Peace, Papa.
I Love You, Sheryl xo
scott chuda
October 29, 2005
papa,
i will always miss you but you have taught me many important lessons about life and if i become a quarter of the man you were i will be a much better person than i am now. i love you papa, rest in peace and you will never be forgotten.
i just want to thank all of you who effected my papa's life.
I LOVE YOU PAPA.
Siobhan S O'Connor
October 27, 2005
Sorry to hear the about the loss of a True Patriot. May it bring you comfort to know others care and understand.
Carleen Bast
October 27, 2005
Our sympathy is with you, your Mom, brothers and all.
Dan and Carleen Bast
Hal Moore
October 27, 2005
I lived across the street from the Chuda family from 1956-1971. In those days your family was your neighbors, the doors were always open. I will always remember Tony as being a happy person and respected him as if he were my own father. To the Chuda family, I would like to extend my sincere sympathy to all, you are in my prayers. Hal Moore, Bedford MA
Thomas Chuda
October 26, 2005
I am Antony Chuda's son and I want to tell you a little about my father. If you walked by him on the street, you probably didn't notice him because he wasn't anything out of the ordinary. He was however a very special man to me.
He was the oldest of 14 kids who grew up in Wisconsin. Being the oldest he was expected to grow up fast and take care of his family. He did this, and sacrificed his childhood for his brothers and sisters. My dad sacrificed his entire life and never complained.
He was a combat veteran of World War II, yet he never spoke about it. He saw men die, and even lost his childhood friend in the Marines, but still never talked about it. He worked 40 years in a job that paid little, but he stayed, because that was what was expected. He worked part-time jobs just to make ends meet, but you know what, he always had time for his 4 boys. He would come home from the machine shop exhausted, yet he would throw the ball in the driveway with us, or take us fishing on weekends, or be the cub master for 12 years.
My dad wasn't well educated, but he sure was smart. He could fix anything and do anything. He was quiet, yet observant. He only spoke when asked to, and never expressed his opinion (but you knew how he felt). With my dad, it wasn't book learning it was practical knowledge. He made sure education was emphasized in our family, however.
I only saw my dad cry twice in my life. Once when my baby sister Arlene died, and the second when he saw my son Kevin come home from the Marines in time for Thanksgiving. (He was scared for Kevin, because his childhood friend had died in the Marines, and he really didn't want Kevin in the Marines)
Antony Chuda was my hero. He was, quiet, unassuming, strong and most of all a father. I wish I had spent as much time with my two children as he did with his four sons. I apologize dad for not being like you when it comes to spending time with my kids, but I promise you that I will make up for it by being a great grandfather. Thanks for believing in me, and being there for me. I miss you already. God Bless You!! I hope you are playing horseshoes with Uncle Zoozoo right now. All my love, Tom
Linda Cruz
October 26, 2005
To Auntie Mary & SONS so sorry to hear about uncle tony. uncle tony will be sadly missed by all I will remember uncle tony and all the value and morals he has taught me I will remember all the wonderful times we had to together we have many good memories to keep close to us. send you and your family my condolences. sorry I was unable to be there for you. sending you all my love. with love Caroline Brzycki's younger daughter (DEAR NIECE LINDA CRUZ)
Caroline Brzycki
October 26, 2005
To the family of my loving brother i'm sending my love and sympathy to all. Tony will always be in my thoughts and prays.
Mary I wanted to be there for you and your family so very sorry I was unable to attend. Sending my love and prays to your family.
My brother Tony will be sadly missed by me and all of his Family in Wisconsin and all over the world.
With all my love Caroline Brzycki his (DEAR SISTER). (414)489-9047
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