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ARJHAN MATTHEW BAGHERI
AGE: 25 BRIELLE
Arjhan Matthew Bagheri, 25, of Brielle, departed too young. He left this world unexpectedly Saturday, March 14, 2009. Born in Hackensack, he resided in Franklin Lakes for 10 years before moving to Brielle, where he has lived since. Arjhan was a graduate of Manasquan High School and Syracuse University. He worked as a gemologist for the family business in Wall Township. Arjhan loved working out, fishing, wakeboarding, snowboarding, and being with his friends. But most of all, Arjhan loved to spend time with his family.
Arjhan is survived by his loving parents, Kaz and Geraldine Bagheri; his sister, Daria; his brother, Jonyar; his loving grandmother Elinor; and numerous uncles, aunts, cousins, and many friends. He will be so dearly missed.
Arjhan, you were a kind, soft-spoken, gentle soul. Watch over your family until we reunite once again.
Visitation will be from 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. Wednesday, March 18 at O'Brien Funeral Home, Highway 35, Wall. A funeral mass will be offered at 9:30 a.m. Thursday, March 19 at St. Mark's Church, Sea Girt. Entombment will follow at St. Catharine's Mausoleum, Sea Girt. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Arjhan's name to IFRED, International Foundation for Research and Education on Depression, at www.ifred.org.
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Janessa
May 22, 2009
Dear Daria, Geri, Kaz, Jonyar and family,
I know it's been a while but mine and my family's thoughts are with you through this devastating time. We're so sorry to hear about the loss of Arjhan.
Love, Janessa and the Lockwood Family
Geri Bagheri
April 12, 2009
To my dear, loving, beautiful son,
I had the privilege to spend time with you the evening before you left us. The last time I got to see that beautiful smile was with you bending down hugging Lennon cheek to cheek. This picture will stay with me forever. You hugged Nanny, Lennon, and gave me a big kiss and hug goodbye saying “I’ll see you tomorrow.” I want you to know that I promise that I will remain courageous for your Dad, Daria, and Jonyar. You loved us all very, very much. I feel your presence even when I’m sleeping. My guidance is helping me to understand that we were all put on this earth for just a very short time; what will seem like a flash. We will reunite shortly. I will dream about this moment every second of my life. Until then, I love you, Arj.
I love you.
Mom
Reza Bagheri
April 8, 2009
My Dear brother Kaz and his loving family Geri, Daria & Jonyar,
I would like to express my deepest sympathy and condolences on behalf of our entire Bagheri family who are far away from you and can not reach or get in touch with you. I want you to know that your grief is our grief and your pain is our pain. I can not describe in words how disturbed and heartbroken we are by loosing such a kind and gentle member of our family, we might not be able to imagine how you feel but loosing Arjhan is nothing less painful than loosing our own child. Now life goes on and the past is past, we all have to surrender to the harsh moments in our lives and sometimes we have no choice but to continue with our lives without our love ones. Life is a trip, for some, this journey is short and for others it is a little longer. As poet Omar Khayam said, we all die someday and join the 7000 years olds.
Keep strong and together, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult and distressing time.
Reza Bagheri
Neda, Reza Alavi-kazemaini
April 7, 2009
Dear Kaz, Geri , Darya and Janyar,
Grief like the ocean comes in waves only to recede and come yet again but with it comes healing memories wash ashore and are bathed by the golden sun. Grab hold of those memories and let them fill the emptiness. May they bring you peace.
Our thoughts are with you.
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April 2, 2009
Dear Kaz, Geri, Daria and Jonyar,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you daily. May the strength of your family and friends provide you with comfort and love.
Love,
Deborah and Jay Lorenzo
March 31, 2009
Dear Kaz and family:
We are deeply sorry for your loss and cannot imagine what you must be going through. We wish you strength and patience throughout these difficult times.
Farid & Pouneh Hamidi
March 31, 2009
Dear Kaz,Geri,Daria and Jonyar,
Our thoughts and prayers remain with you. Hopefully,in time memories of Arjhan will bring warmth and comfort to you.
With love,
Barbara and Rich Kenderian
Vahid & Farideh Hamidi
March 30, 2009
Dear Kaz and family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God heals the paine and sarrow you are bearing
Paul Coleman
March 28, 2009
Dear Geri and Kaz,
My deepest sympathy to both of you and your family at this most difficult time. My thoughts are with you all.
Sara Cielazewicz
March 28, 2009
Dear Geri, Kaz, Daria and Jonyar,
I can not express the sadness I feel from the moment I heard of Arjhan's untimely death.
My memories of Arjhan were when he use to babysit for our son Chris and we came home one night to find them playing intently with Ninja turtles and accessories. It was almost as if our coming home disturbed them as they just carried on. The five year difference didn't matter. Boys will be boys!
I always knew him to be a shy person but always friendly enough to greet me with a big smile and be respectful.
I can't imagine the pain that you are all feeling but hope that the fond memories of his life shared with you lessens the pain over time.
I am certain that he would want you both to be strong for Daria and Jonyar, as he always knew you to be, and to always support each other when needed.
You are all in my prayers!
With Love,
Sara and Chris Cielazewicz
Hamid Hamidi
March 28, 2009
Dear Kaz, Geri,Daria and jonyar.There's not a moment that we don't think about you and feel your pain.We ask God to guide you through these difficult days.Arjhan is in God's hands ,a better place that we are in .You are in our prayers and thoughts .Arjhan joon , until we meet again. Love , Hamid and Farima Hamidi
March 27, 2009
March 27, 2009
Dear Kaz, Geri, Daria & Jonyar,
We continue to keep all of you in our thoughts & prayers at this very difficult time. I will always remember Arjhan for his kind ways. Kaz... you & Geri raised a real gentleman that you can always be proud of. Here is a poem my Mom wrote 40 years ago after the passing of my brother.
Memories of the ones we love
will always cast their glow,
Oh Lord we put him in thy hands
he's with you in heaven we know.
Forever in our hearts he will remain,
until we meet again.
Until then Arjhan!
With Love & Prayers,
Donna Wallster & Family.
March 27, 2009
My dearest Arjhan,
There has never been a more loving relationship. You had the kind, gentle, and beautiful soul of your father, and he the gift of a beautiful son.
Thank you for making me part of your family and life. You will forever be etched in my heart.
Peace and love to my Kaz, Daria, Jonyar, and their wonderful family.
Love always,
Robbin Lindsay
Two such as you with such master
speed, cannot be parted nor be swept
away, from one another once you
agree, that life is only life
forever more, together wing to wing
and oar to oar.
maryam, behzad and kiana nobakht
March 27, 2009
Dear Kaz,Geri, Daria and Jonyar
Words cannot express our feelings, because the loss of child and brother is so difficult to bear, we can only imagine. we share your grife.
God bless you all, and we believe arjhan is in heaven looking out for you.
Pari Janati
March 27, 2009
Dear Kaz,
I am very sad for you and your family. I just could imagine how painful this must be.
May your memories give you strength to get through this and
the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.
Jeian Rastegarpanah
March 20, 2009
Dear Bagheri family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. The times I did spend with him when I was younger were always fun. God Bless you all and I hope when I come home from Iraq I can see you guys.
valerie guenther
March 19, 2009
Dear Bagheri Family, I was Arjhan's bus driver in grammer school. I was so shocked and saddened to hear about him. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Valerie Guenther ( Mrs. G.)
andre warcel
March 19, 2009
Dear Kaz and family,
I met you only once when i visited you last year in your shop. I was with my son Ran and Arjhan accompanied us back to our hotel in New York. In this short ride (1/2 hour) we had a very nice conversation and he really impressed us. He was very nice, soft spoken and spoke with enthusiasm about his love of the nature, his love of fishing and other things.
So it was with great sadness that i learned the bad news.
My sincere condolences for the great loss
andre warcel
Joe, Piera, and Jessica Wavro
March 19, 2009
Dear Kaz, Geri, Daria, and Jonyar,
We are deeply saddened by the loss of Arjhan. Your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers. If you need to talk, please do not not hesitate to reach out.
Again, our deepest sympathy to all of you.
Pam & Ken Indahl
March 18, 2009
Dearest Kaz,
Ken and I are away in Utah and deeply regret not being able to support you during such a painful time. So so very sorry for your loss seems so inadaquate compared to the feelings we have for you right now.
So many hugs and so many kisses along with our love.
With sincere sympathy. Pam & Ken
Justin Ives
March 18, 2009
I was fortunate enough to live with Arjhan for my last 2+ years at Syracuse. He was kind, funny, comforting, and enthusiastic. I will always be filled with the memories I have of him that bring an instant smile to my face. My heart and thoughts go out to the whole family. I think Arjhan was such a special person to all he encountered and I will always be grateful I get to call him friend.
Lynne and Dan Capauno
March 18, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Arjhan Will forever be in our heart. We are always there to talk. Please know we extend our love and prayers to the whole family. We love you guys.
Patrick Smith
March 18, 2009
Dear Kaz and Family, I am saddened to hear of your loss and can not imagine how you must be feeling - just remember you have so many friends around you to lean on and talk to for support. We care about your family and will help you get through this tough time in any way we can.
Denise Holterman
March 18, 2009
I was Arjhan's fifth grade teacher. He was such a quietly playful and caring boy then, and I am sure he grew into a man with the same calm and loving ways. My deepest sympathy is being sent to all of your family.
kelly fuchs
March 17, 2009
Dear Beghari Family, Arjhan was always a good boy/guy and man..we watch them turn from boys to men so quickly..he was any mothers dream...they grow up too fast..he was so very polite and kind always..heaven is a better place today.. he was a tall dark handsome devil ! That smile...Our kids were long time friends and loved him dearly... Love and prayers forever...The Fuchs Family, Manasquan.
Parker Howe
March 17, 2009
Arjhan Your were a great person to be around at all times. I am so grate full that we become friends and have such good times together. I will deeply miss you bro. You and my brother can have some good times together now. Cause I know were ever you are you will be happy and make other around you happy as you did for me. My sympathy go to your family. Deeply miss Love you Arjhan
Marlene DiLauri
March 17, 2009
John and I were deeply saddened by the sudden loss of your son Matthew. Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time, Marlene and John
raymond fort
March 17, 2009
Arjhan, may you and Kolby continue to dream your dreams together.
Rick, Shirley-Jo, and Erica-Jo Strader
March 17, 2009
Dear Geri, Kaz, Jonyar, Daria and Elinor: We are so sorry and heart-sick for all of you. We can only imagine the immense pain and loss you are feeling right now.
Arjhan was an actual customer of mine once - I remember removing several thousand viruses off his computer and how amazed he was at the sheer number of them! I also remember how cool he was with life and how he cherished his family and friends.
Based on my limited exposure to Arjhan and what Geri would tell me about him, I felt he possessed a genuinely good soul and had a real, positive influence on everyone around him.
I believe Arjhan will be missed more than anyone could ever know.
Each of you are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Rick, Shirley-Jo and Erica-Jo Strader and Joseph Zatorski (Sj's dad)
Joe Sernio
March 17, 2009
You are all in my prayers. If there is anything at all i can do please let me know.
Joe Sernio
Frank, Elisabeth, Monica and Eva Karloczy
March 17, 2009
We had the pleasure of being your neighors and friends in Franklin Lakes for 10 years. We send our deepest sympathy during this difficult time. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Jane & Charles Lorenzo
March 17, 2009
Our deepest sympathy to
Gerry, Kaz and family on your devastating loss. You are in our prayers. God bless all of you.
Nicole Cioffi
March 17, 2009
My deepest sympathy to your family. I was lucky enough to know Arjhan throughout my elementary and high school years, and he was taken from you far too soon.
Kyle Fort
March 17, 2009
I Love you Arjhan thanks for the great friendship and your never ending kindness. "Say Hello to Heaven"
Steve McCormack
March 17, 2009
I was fortunate enough to know and have Arjhan as a friend. We hung out a lot and had great times together that i will never forget and cherish forever. I was appalled when i heard what had happened and still cannot believe it. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family. His presence enlightened every room he stepped into. I will miss you buddy, you were a great friend.
Linda Langheld
March 17, 2009
You have been in our thoughts and prayers since hearing of your sad news. We will always remember Arjhan warmly. Linda and John Langheld, Tyler Mate
cheryl mueller
March 17, 2009
Please accept our deepest sympathy at this time.
garrett brignoli
March 17, 2009
I met Arjhan my first year of college upon being paired as roommates. I will never forget the smirks, the goofs, and the relentlessness laughs that unfolded. a kind soft spoken spirit, he will truly be missed in my heart. my sympathies to all his close friends and family.
Deb Priolo
March 17, 2009
Arjhan was a wonderful person and we are simply heartbroken for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Nicole Probo
March 17, 2009
Daria and Family, my heart goes out to all of you during this hard time. Please stay strong. You are all in my prayers.
-Nicole
Kathryn Beelitz
March 17, 2009
Words alone cannot express how sorry we are on the loss of Arjhan. You have our deepest heartfelt sympathy. May you Geri, Kaz, Daria and Jonyar find peace with time. You will always be in our hearts and prayers.
Love, Eric, Kathy, Andrew and Luke
Amanda Hattie
March 17, 2009
I graduated with him and I was so sad to hear about this. I am so sorry to his family.
Amanda Welch class of 2002
Pat Walsh
March 17, 2009
Please accept the heartfelt sorrows of the Walsh Family in Manasquan. (Colleen's parents)
Kelly Vostal
March 17, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
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