Arni MAY Obituary
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Rachel Gonzales
September 4, 2014
To Anne and family, this is Rachel Gonzales singer in Honolulu. I used to sing with Betty Loo Taylor and even sang at Rossini's one year. I had the best time ever and never forgot your family and Arni. I hope this note finds everyone in good health and I only have good memories of Arni, and Ann. Take care and God Bless! Rachel
SUE CLEMENTS
November 23, 2012
MAY FAMILY, I DON'T SEE YOU OFTEN, BUT YOU OCCUPY A VERY SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART. I KNOW TIMES ARE SOMEWHAT STRESSFUL, WITH ME ALSO, BUT WHEN I LOOK BACK AND RECALL ARNI IN MY MIND, I FEEL HE WOULD SAY 'you are all doing fine' HE WAS A VERY SPIRITUAL HUMAN BEING , BUT A VERY CARING PERSON. DON'T EVER LET IT BE SAID THAT I DON'T THINK ABOUT ALL OF YOU AND YOUR WELL BEING. I THINK YOU ARE THE MOST AMAZINGLY TOGETHER FAMILY I HAVE EVER KNOWN. THERE IS ONLY ONE WORD. LOVE. YOU GUYS HAVE IT ALL.
WITH LOVE
SUE
January 7, 2012
My condolences to the May family. I have many memories of Arni, but one that sticks out in my mind was at one of his Saturday afternoon sessions. Many years ago, I wound up playing guitar and singing by myself in the first set - bandmates were late as I recall. After a tune or three, Arni came up to the stage sat behind the drums and said something to the effect of, looks like you could use some help, I'll play until the band shows up. That was Arni - ready to do what he could to support the musicians and his club. He will be missed.
Olaf de Shield
Shayne May
January 4, 2012
Remember me and all my good...
Forgive my weakness & times misunderstood...
I made you cry, I made you laugh...
I paved the way for you to walk your path...
Though you no longer see me, I am always here...
So still talk to me and share your fears...
I'm here to guide you in all you do, and if you look within, you'll find your truth...
Please take me with you when you're having fun...
When you walk in the rain, or you feel the sun...
I'll be there to laugh and share your love...
And I'll carry you when the times get tough...
You can always see me in your dreams,
So visit me, and come often please!
Remember me in all you do...and my love for you will see you through..,
...in memory of my dear departed father in law, Arni May
written bye my amazing wife Shannon love you honey.
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Andrea Lee-Aloni
December 21, 2011
My parents and I were deeply saddened to hear of Arni's passing. Arni was such a sweet sweet man and we loved visiting you-all at your restaurant(s) over the years. We have many great memories from hanging at your restaurant and my parents have many more great memories hanging with you guys back in Ottawa. Our condolences to your family from the Lee family. Arni's smiling face will be greatly missed by us.
Rhoda Bodnoff
December 21, 2011
Dear Anne and family
Please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of your dear husband Arni!
Rhoda Bodnoff
December 19, 2011
Russ and I are terribly saddened by Arni's passing, and we would like to express our deepest condolences to the May family, and a truly wonderful family they are. Arni's friendship to my father, Teddy McCann was one that we were blessed with, and will never forget, and, we will always be grateful for the love Arni had for Dad.
Pamela McCann-Aldrich, and Russell Aldrich
La Quinta, California
December 19, 2011
My condolences to the May family. Arni provided our city with a great music venue that contributed to the history of Vancouver music.
Doug Cuthbert (Vancouver)
Debby Holley
December 18, 2011
I met Arni when I first started racquetball about 27 years ago and played in tournaments at the Denman Club. He was always so welcoming and I felt he looked out for me and I really appreciated that kindness. Annie and family - I am very sorry for your loss. He was a special man.
December 18, 2011
Arni, Anne, Mark, Steve and Shane., we have known you and your family for over 30 years from Racquetball and all the great tournaments he helped to organize. I had the privilege to meet the Mays at the JCC in the early eighties and for years have really enjoyed their comaraderie. Arni would always ask how my family was doing and he would sincerely listen. For years Mark and I enjoy playing racquetball together and we have a lot of fun. Arni will surely be missed. We will be thinking of him often. Terry and Leona Chong
Christiane Hébert
December 18, 2011
Dear Anne, Steve,Shane,Mark. Arni was a beautiful friendly giant with a heart of gold. When he smile he could light up the darkest of days, when he hugs you he meant business, you could feel what a loving man he was and when he spoke french with me, his choice of words were very colourful to say the least and so funny, his laughter was contagious. His energy and hard work were endless. Did he ever sleep ?? Always so busy but he never forgot his friends no matter the time and distance. He created a unique place for all music and food lover that became a home sweet home for many of us. Thank you Arni for being who you were, a wonderful friend, a great musician, a loving family man and most of all a beautiful soul.. We will never forget you. I was away to QC for 4 years. I was hoping to see you and Anne and the boys soon. I will take a rain check Arni, until we meet again. Heaven is a lucky place to have you. Shalom my friend. I would tell you to rest in Peace but knowing you , you are already playing music with Linton and company. The angels must really be singing now!!
PS:I would love to see you Anne. Love and hugs xoxo Christiane
Stuart Duncan
December 17, 2011
Condolences to Arni's family and many friends. Arni sponsored our ball team out of Connaught Park for many years, and it was a priviledge for all of us to have known him.
PATRICIA DEAN
December 17, 2011
I had the pleasure of meeting Arni and Anne at Rossini's and was fortunate to be asked to sit in with Linton Garner as well.
What great people to provide such a great venue for up and coming Jazz artists to perform in. RIP Arni...
Sue Clements
December 17, 2011
My dear friend Anne and all the family,
I'm so very sad for all of you. Ive always looked at your family with respect and am in awe over how close you all are. I will miss Arni. I will always remember how he struggled and I tried my best to tell him how lucky he was to have the family who loved him so much.Ive known you boys since high school and have tremendous respect for you and the wonderful wife's you have chosen.
Anne, I love you very much and only wish I would have known when the service was. But I'll always been there for you because you are a very special friend. Arni is the same place as my Dad and I hope that they are peacefull and free of pain.
Love always
Sue
Allan Holender
December 16, 2011
My deepest condolences to all of you, Anne and the boys. You know how much Arni meant to me. From the moment we met we shared not only a passion and joy for Jazz but a deep Jewish connection that made us instant friends. Having him with me every Saturday night on Big Als Dance Party on AM 1040 for those two memorable years was pure joy. I still have the tapes. You will be missed "boych" by your dear friends, the jazz musicians you introduced to Vancouver,the Rossini regulars,your dear friends from all over the world, and most importantly you will be missed by me Arni. I know Linton has already welcomed you into his arms...you missed him so much and now you are both playing a set together and forever.
December 16, 2011
Arni and Anne's yearly visits to Honolulu would have him sitting in on drums at my gig. We became instant friends through music. He brought Betty Loo and I up to Vancouver to play at Rossini's (Kit's Beach and Old Town), sharing the bill with Ray Brown. What a joyous experience...Everyone we met loved Arni as much as we did. He was deservedly beloved by all. I will miss his visits and his calls, that deep voice so filled with aloha. God hold you close, Arni, and watch over your family and loved ones. You're a special mensch and will always live in my heart...Jimmy Borges, Waikiki
Diane Clairmont
December 16, 2011
I'm proud to have been your friend and 'sister'. Arni's legacy is his amazing family - his warmth, love and, especially, his quirky humour shine through you all! Shalom, my dear friend! Always here for you - with love, Di, Vancouver, BC
Tim Deveau
December 16, 2011
Anne, I was so sorry to hear of Arnis passing on Tuesday. I will always have such fond memories of all of you from the Rossinis days, being luckey enough to be a part of all the great shows, but I will have fonder memories of all the great talks that Arni and I had. Arni meant a lot to me and I will miss him it was such a honor to know him and all of you. My thourhts and prayers will also be with all of you.
Sincerely, Tim Deveau
December 15, 2011
My deepest condolences to the family although I have not seen you for quite awhile. Arni will always be a special person in my life and we all had so much fun together playing racquetball and softball. I wish I could be there to give you all a hug! Love you all, Gracie Shaw
December 15, 2011
Arnie you gave us all so much pleasure with your Rossini's restaurant will miss you dearly may you rest in peace
Warren Longpre
Muriel & Harry Mendelson
December 15, 2011
Our sincerest condolence for the loss of Arnie. We always looked forward, when visiting Mitchell, for an evening at Rossinis & seeing Arnie, it was the highlight of our visit being greeted by his warm smile. He will be greatly missed.
MItch Mayberger
December 15, 2011
Uncle Arnie - You are adored and missed tremendously but also remembered and never forgotten. I will do whatever i can to ensure your and your brothers legacy to continue on forever. I love you very much and hope we will reunite together one day. Youre the best! Isabelle, Mitch, Mathis & Maya.
Rick Hill
December 15, 2011
My sincere condolences to the May family. Arni was truly an amazing person and allowed many musicians to play at Rossini's. He had a profound impact on my youngest son telling stories of his days with Elvis. He will be missed by all that new him.
Deb Faurot
December 15, 2011
Arni will be sadly missed by all his Rossini friends, family and musicians ... all of us who had the privilege of sharing in his life experiences. Arni's legacy for bringing people together and helping others will always be remembered. My deepest condolences to the entire May Family.
rodney felton
December 15, 2011
safe journey my friend you will be missed
aloha for all the times we have had together
Ruth Zabelle
December 15, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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