Arthur J. Pendleton

1930 - 2020

Arthur J. Pendleton obituary, 1930-2020, Belmont, NC

Arthur J. Pendleton

1930 - 2020

Arthur Pendleton Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 24, 2020.
Father Arthur J. Pendleton, O.S.B., a monk and priest of Belmont Abbey, passed over to the Lord on Friday evening, February 21, at his home in the monastery. He was born on January 24, 1930 in Providence, RI, the son of the late Arthur N. Pendleton and Mary Agnes Ryan Pendleton.

He earned a B.S. in Textile Chemistry and Coloring from the Rhode Island School of Design, and an M.S. in Textile Engineering from the Institute of Textile Technology in Charlottesville, VA. He pursued further studies in Chemistry, earning an M.S. from the University of Notre Dame, and his PhD from Clemson University.

After coming to the Carolinas to work in the textile industry, Father Arthur entered the monastery at Belmont Abbey in August 1958. He made his first profession of vows on January 27, 1960, and was ordained a priest on June 4, 1964. In the monastery, Father Arthur served as Prior under four different superiors, as well as Administrator of the Abbey. He was much sought after as a confessor and spiritual director. At Belmont Abbey College, he was a professor in the Chemistry Department for forty years, fifteen of which he was the Department Chair. Father Arthur was an exemplary monk, a holy priest, a demanding teacher with a passion for his subject and his students, and a respected and much-loved colleague and friend. He was a mentor to countless students who were drawn by his gentle smile and genuine goodness.

He was preceded in death by his parents, and by his brother John. He is survived by the monks of Belmont Abbey, his sister and brother-in-law Judith and Harry Hoitink, his sister-in-law Jane Pendleton, and his nephews John Christopher Hoitink, Craig Michel Hoitink, Frederic Pieter Hoitink.

Father Arthur's body will be received in the basilica at Belmont Abbey on Monday evening, February 24, at 7:00 p.m at Vespers, followed by the Rosary and viewing. The Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Tuesday, February 25, at 3:30 p.m. with burial following in the abbey cemetery. Memorial gifts may be made to Belmont Abbey College, 100 Belmont Mt Holly Rd, Belmont, NC 28012.

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Robert Breiner

April 27, 2020

Father Arthur was one of the most demanding chemistry teachers ever. He gave his students 110 % of his knowledge and talent to make us better students and more responsible adults.

Thank you for all you have done for us.

See you in Organic lab in heaven (hopefully for me).

Dr. Bob Breiner 1976

Lloyd White

February 29, 2020

Father Arthur was an awesome teacher with a passion for chemistry and student success. We all dreaded taking organic chemistry but loved the person teaching it. I have thought about him often and am truly sorry to know that he has passed. God speed.

Wade Kirkland

February 27, 2020

Oh my! FR Arthur was such a fine man. I met him years ago and helped him with his hearing. Over time, we became friends. He taught me many things. But mostly, he taught me that kindness matters.

Ed. G. Mathis ('01).

February 26, 2020

Sincere Condolences,

Stephen Driscoll

February 24, 2020

Father Arthur was a dear friend of the Driscoll family. My father, Edward M Driscoll attended the Rhode Island School of Design with Arthur. May you rest in peace.

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