Ava Marie Detore

1990 - 2013

Ava Marie Detore obituary, 1990-2013, Verona, NJ

Ava Marie Detore

1990 - 2013

BORN

1990

DIED

2013

Ava Detore Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 18, 2013.
Ava Marie Detore age 23, of Verona, NJ, passed away on Saturday December 14, 2013. The family will receive their friends at the Quinn-Hopping Funeral Home 145 E. Mt. Pleasant Avenue Livingston, NJ, on Thursday December 19, 2013 from 2-9 PM with a Blessing Service at 8PM. Anyone who wishes to share a remembrance and or comment for Ava, may do so during the visitation or during the service. A private cremation service will be held Friday morning. Ava was a graduate of Montclair Kimberly Academy and Newark Academy. She attended George Washington University and completing her degree at Fordham University in Manhattan where she was an intern for the Sony Corporation and was preparing to pursue a Masters in Psychology. "I want to help teenage girls" Ava recently said. I want to teach them to empower themselves. Girls need to learn the skills that will help them work as a cohesive group. They need to be more respectful of one another. I want to help kids stop binge drinking in high school. Their brains are developing and it is detrimental". She wanted to use music as a way to reach kids. Ava was an active supporter of Operation Smile and was a dog rescuer. She had two dogs named Lyric I and Lyric II. Ava was a prolific artist and a girl who adored her brother and sister and all her friends. She loved to shop and wanted to have her own jewelry and handbag line one day. Her mother stated "We have been honored and privileged to be her parents. Her smile could light up the Empire State Building. Her heart was golden, I was recently walking down 10th Avenue in Manhattan with her, a homeless man came up to her smiling and said "what do you have for me today? Ava?" Beloved daughter of Robert and Debra Starita Detore, loving sister of Andrew Joseph and Tessia Mary Detore, dear granddaughter of Gloria and the late Joseph R. Starita and the late Mary and John Detore, Ava is also survived by many loving aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory either to Operation Smile 3641 Faculty Blvd. Virginia Beach, VA 23453, Feed the Children 1111 Corporate Rd North Brunswick, NJ 07902 or the Fine Arts Department c/o of Newark Academy 91 South Orange Avenue Livingston, NJ 07039.

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October 4, 2018

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August 1, 2017

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Betsy Margolis

October 4, 2018

my name is Betsy and I met Ava through a babysitting website. She babysat my boys both very young at the time- ages 4&5. I remember looking out the window seeing Ava helping my boys look at the cats and dogs in the window at a cat hospital and then a doggy daycare. She would bring my boys books and laugh with them. She loved them. Today I was wearing a sweatshirt form Fordham I asked her to buy for me, I gave her money for it bc I also went to Fordham and liked the sweatshirt on her. I thought of her and googled Ava Detore. I am deeply saddened to read that she passed away. I am in shock. Ava was loving, generous, kind, joyful, and dedicated to her family, her profession, and her dogs. She really loved being with my boys. I am so so sorry for this tremendous loss. Rest in peace, Ava. I hope you know you will never be forgotten. May your memory be a blessing.

JoJo

August 1, 2017

Love you Ava Marie.

Joann

August 1, 2017

Ava Marie, I love you more then you'll ever know. I miss you best friend.. the feeling never goes away, the pain never decreases. I know one day well meet again. Your are so beautiful and your truly the sweetest woman I have ever met. I love you so much shmava

Leanna Hogue Deming

August 25, 2016

Happy Birthday beautiful! I miss you terribly. Until we meet again.

ROBERTt DETORE

September 18, 2014

I WANT TO THANK EVERYONE WHO HAS TAKEN TIME TO EXPRESS THEIR CONDOLENCES ON THIS SITE..WE APPRECIATE IT VERY MUCH..AVA WAS THE LIGHT OF MY LIFE..I MISS HER EVERY SECOND OF THE DAY..KEEP HER IN YOUR PRAYERS..THANK [email protected]

March 25, 2014

Bob, I am so sorry to hear of your daughter's passing. I will pray for you and your family.
ken Krakaur 757-408-4314. please call me, I have been through this.

Claire Hughes

January 27, 2014

I keep you with me everyday

Claire Hughes

January 27, 2014

Ryan Johnson

January 20, 2014

I was not fortunate enough to spend a great deal of time with Ava in the short time that I knew her, however I felt that the time that we did spend together was a time that I will always remember as fruitful and inspiring. She immediately struck me as a wonderful young woman with a beautiful heart and a wonderful personality. The news of her passing was a great loss to many people close to me and I can only hope that the memory of her life will serve as an inspiration to those who were fortunate enough to call her a sister, a daughter, a cousin, a loved one or simply a friend. We will all miss you Ava, even those of us who did not know you well.

January 8, 2014

Ava was my best friend in the whole entire world and i could tell her things i could't tell anyone else. i love you ava rip best friend <3

Lori Grifa

January 6, 2014

To Bob and Family - My deepest sympathies for your terrible loss. I am sure words are of no help, but I hope prayers will.

Frank LaRosa

December 31, 2013

You helped me to realize a daughter us the most precious thing in the world and I left and she has been with me since...gid bless you ava !

Kathleen Catanach

December 29, 2013

Love and Light to all of you who knew her.

Bonnie Sharkey

December 25, 2013

Today and always, may loving memories of Ava bring you peace, comfort, and strength.

December 23, 2013

Bob and family: Please accept our sincere and profound sympathy on the loss of your beautiful daughter. She and your family are in our prayers.
Bob and Joy(Pech) Beck

Marie McNeely

December 21, 2013

Our hearts go out to your family. Eva was a lovely, kind and beautiful girl and a very good friend to our son, Pete.

Marie & Jim McNeely

Octavia P

December 21, 2013

Ava,
I love you so much thank you for being my friend when I had no one I'm just finding out today I just wanted it to be a stupid joke please know your always in my heart

December 20, 2013

Heartfelt condolences go out to the DeTore family. No words can describe how sorry we are for your loss. You are in our prayers. Mark and Gerry Lamendola

Michael Carousis

December 20, 2013

Our deepest condolences and heartfelt thoughts are with you and your family on the loss of your beautiful Ava Marie. With a heavy heart we send our deepest sympathy.
Vannette & Michael

December 20, 2013

Bob and Family,

Our deepest condolences to you and all your family members.


Jack and Rosemary Sayers

edward bristow

December 20, 2013

I am deeply saddened and convey my heartfelt condolences. I taught Ava and Fordham and knew her well.

Toby Russo

December 20, 2013

My Deepest condolences.

Jeffrey and Blake Durocher & Family

December 20, 2013

Heartfelt prayers and condolences to the Detore family. Ava was a special young woman with a smile and personality that lit up any room she entered. We will all cherish the moments spent with her. She was deeply loved by all who knew her, and we will never ever forget her. We wish your family the best in this hard time. We love you Ava!

Robert & Nicole Orrick

December 19, 2013

Dear Bob & Family,
Our deepest condolences for the loss of your daughter Ava Marie. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Stephen Tobia

December 19, 2013

My condolences to the Detore family. Eternal rest grant unto her O Lord and may she rest in peace. Amen

December 19, 2013

To the Detore Family, My deepest deepest sympathies are with you, a loss of a child is devastating... No words can ever be said, You will be in my prayers daily, I will pray that the Lord bring you comfort,at night a peaceful sleep and the strength of God to get you thru this loss. We know she will forever RIP...

Jacky Grindrod

December 19, 2013

Words can't express how sad this is. Ava was a stellar addition to the Congressman's office, where I came to know her. Her light shined very brightly. My deepest sympathies go to the Detore family for this most profound loss.

December 19, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. With deep sympathy, The Nochimson Family.

G. Freeman

December 19, 2013

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

December 19, 2013

Debbie Bob and Family,

This was sent from our relatives in Italy when we lost Diane,

Death is nothing,
I have simply crossed over to the other side.
I am me,
you are you.
What we were for each other, we are still.
Give me the name you have always given me.
Speak to me like you have always done.
Don't use a different tone,
Don't be solemn or sad.
Keep laughing at what made us laugh together...
Smile. Think of me, smile with me.
Say my name at home,
like it has always been said,
without any empashis at all,
without traces of shadow.
Life signifies what it has always signified.
It is what it has always been:
the cord is not cut.
Why should I be out of your thoughts
just because I am out of your sight?
I am not far.
Just on the other side of the road.

(Charles Peguy)
(1873 – 1914)

Your cousins
Barb and Steve

December 19, 2013

My condolences to the Detore family. May memories of time spent with Ava warm your hearts. Lean on God for comfort and the hope he gives of seeing our passed loved ones again.

December 19, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to the Detore family. An unimaginable loss. Our memories of Ava are of a happy-go-lucky girl who loved her friends and who was kind, and funny. Please accept these condolences, and know the good memories will shine on.
The Harbeck Family

Patty Bryant (Ellie Kiernans sister)

December 19, 2013

To the Family...

My heartfelt sympathies for the loss of your daughter, one of God's angels taken too soon from us. May she Rest In Peace.

December 18, 2013

While words cannot express our sadness for your great loss, we know Ava's light and signature smile will shine forever. It is our prayer that the memories you cherish will comfort you now and bring you peace forever more. We loved Ava and will miss her dearly. With heavy hearts, Ernest, Dale, Ashley and Morgan Booker

December 18, 2013

To the Detore Family, Our deepest sympathies are with you during your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.

Solomon, MeLinda and Jordan Taylor (Pingry School)

Judy and Ron Ciuffreda

December 18, 2013

We extend our sincere condolences. May God give you strength and bless Ava with eternal peace. Judy and Ron Ciuffreda

Bettina Bering

December 18, 2013

Dear Debra and Bob, we are devastated to hear about your beautiful daughter's sudden death, our hearts go out to you. Growing up on Crestmont Road, Ava was Maxi's very first friend, and we just can't believe she is gone. Please accept our most sincere condolences.

jason luttgens

December 18, 2013

sorry you lost a great light of love too soon. all the lives she touched are the better for it, i'm sure.

December 18, 2013

RIP Ava

JH

December 18, 2013

So sorry to hear of your lost. Draw close to god and he will draw close to you. James 4:8

Ron and Kathy Weber

December 18, 2013

Ron and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. We know that there are no words to comfort you. Just remember to keep her memories and she will be with you always. Bob, your kindness to us when Karl dies will always be remembered. We are sorry we cannot be there to comfort you. This is something no one can understand except those who have endured the loss of a child. Try and stay strong. Our thoughts are with you.

December 18, 2013

Ava & Father

December 18, 2013

Ava & Tessia

December 18, 2013

Skateboard Ava

December 18, 2013

Ava with her cousin Nick

December 18, 2013

December 18, 2013

Ava & Mother

December 18, 2013

Andrew & Ava

December 18, 2013

Andrew & Ava

December 18, 2013

December 18, 2013

Margaret Gonzales

December 18, 2013

My deepest sympathy in your sadness and loss. I remember Ava's sweetness. MKA Primary School

December 18, 2013

Bob and family....I am so sorry for you...I just heard about Ava...there are no words but only my prayers for you. Diane Lodise

BangZ Salon

December 18, 2013

The staff of BangZ Salon would like to extend our deepest condolences to the entire Detore family during this time. May you rest in peace Ava.

December 17, 2013

We were all saddened to hear about Ava's passing. I remember her with always a smile and very polite. She will be missed by many. God Bless Her. Lisa and the Abramson family

Beverly Winkler

December 17, 2013

Our deepest sympathies. Our hearts and prayers are with you all. Much love, the Winkler Family

Katharine Mehan

December 17, 2013

I envy heaven for it took an angel from us December 14th, 2013. Rest in paradise, my sweet, beautiful baby cousin. I will keep you in my heart forever, constantly reminding myself to follow in your big hearted and generous ways. I love you, Ava.

Samantha Cruise

December 17, 2013

Words cannot express how sorry I am for the loss of Ava. My thoughts & prayers are with you.

Denise & Clifton

December 17, 2013

Words alone can't express how saddened we are to hear of your loss. We will keep your family in our prayers.

December 17, 2013

Ava, beautiful on the inside and out. She was quick to hug you and say I love you... Gentle, kind and a heart that was golden to the core. You will be missed but never ever forgotten. We love you.
Your cousins,
Xoxoxo
Nikki and Joelle

Stacey Bender

December 17, 2013

My deepest condolences to the Detore family during this time. Rest in peace Ava.

Willard Taylor

December 17, 2013

Ava was a wonderful young woman and I was proud to know her during her years at Newark Academy. There are no words to express how much she will be missed.

December 17, 2013

My deepest sympathy to you. May God comfort you, and give you strength.

Bob and Peg Weakley

December 17, 2013

Bob and family, our deepest condolences, please know that thoughts and prayers are with you during this dificult time.

Jackie Dunn-Toler

December 17, 2013

From Labor to Blessed Reward.
You have my deepest sympathy.

Jackie Dunn-Toler

Brett Byron

December 17, 2013

My prayers and condolences to the family of Ava. She was beautiful inside and out. God Bless you all.

Catherine Doran

December 17, 2013

As Ava's roommate at Fordham University I was so blessed to get to know her and become friends. Ava was such a kind, vibrant, and loving person. She will be greatly missed by all and her memory will continue to live on through the powerful impact she had on others. My thoughts and prayers are with the Detore family.

Joe Calabrese

December 17, 2013

I am so saddened to hear of Ava's sudden passing, and my heart felt sympathy goes out the Detore family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. So very sorry for your loss

Phil Fiore

December 17, 2013

Our Condolences to the entire Detore Family - our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Phil and Debbie Fiore

Rich DiBianca

December 17, 2013

Our hearts our with you, Detores. Ava brought a lot of joy to us at Newark Academy.

December 17, 2013

With heartfelt sympathy--indeed, Ava had a smile that lit up the room.
Stephanie Acquadro
Newark Academy

December 17, 2013

Condolences to the family and friends. Please take comfort in God's words at Romans 8:35-39.

December 17, 2013

RIP

December 17, 2013

With heartfelt sympathy. ~Lisa Gibson

Larry & Connie Raymond

December 17, 2013

To The Detore Family
We will pray for Ava,She touched our lives!!

Phyllis & Howard Dobbins

December 17, 2013

Prayers of peace to our loving family during this extremely difficult time..

December 17, 2013

to Detore Family:
With our deepest condolences,

Kevin & Beth O'Toole

Beautiful girl!

Deb Mongiardo-Hamilton

December 17, 2013

December 17, 2013

My condolences to the Family. Ava's desires and achievements are treasures to hold near and dear to your heart. During this time of separation my our Heaven Father the God of all comfort shower you with comfort that is surely needed at this time of distress.

Deb Mongiardo-Hamilton

December 17, 2013

I love you so very much Ava. You were the angel God was looking for and he found you. Rest in peace sweet girl. You will never be forgotten. I love you so so so much!!

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