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Betsy Margolis
October 4, 2018
my name is Betsy and I met Ava through a babysitting website. She babysat my boys both very young at the time- ages 4&5. I remember looking out the window seeing Ava helping my boys look at the cats and dogs in the window at a cat hospital and then a doggy daycare. She would bring my boys books and laugh with them. She loved them. Today I was wearing a sweatshirt form Fordham I asked her to buy for me, I gave her money for it bc I also went to Fordham and liked the sweatshirt on her. I thought of her and googled Ava Detore. I am deeply saddened to read that she passed away. I am in shock. Ava was loving, generous, kind, joyful, and dedicated to her family, her profession, and her dogs. She really loved being with my boys. I am so so sorry for this tremendous loss. Rest in peace, Ava. I hope you know you will never be forgotten. May your memory be a blessing.
JoJo
August 1, 2017
Love you Ava Marie.
Joann
August 1, 2017
Ava Marie, I love you more then you'll ever know. I miss you best friend.. the feeling never goes away, the pain never decreases. I know one day well meet again. Your are so beautiful and your truly the sweetest woman I have ever met. I love you so much shmava
Leanna Hogue Deming
August 25, 2016
Happy Birthday beautiful! I miss you terribly. Until we meet again.
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ROBERTt DETORE
September 18, 2014
I WANT TO THANK EVERYONE WHO HAS TAKEN TIME TO EXPRESS THEIR CONDOLENCES ON THIS SITE..WE APPRECIATE IT VERY MUCH..AVA WAS THE LIGHT OF MY LIFE..I MISS HER EVERY SECOND OF THE DAY..KEEP HER IN YOUR PRAYERS..THANK [email protected]
March 25, 2014
Bob, I am so sorry to hear of your daughter's passing. I will pray for you and your family.
ken Krakaur 757-408-4314. please call me, I have been through this.
Claire Hughes
January 27, 2014
I keep you with me everyday
Claire Hughes
January 27, 2014
Ryan Johnson
January 20, 2014
I was not fortunate enough to spend a great deal of time with Ava in the short time that I knew her, however I felt that the time that we did spend together was a time that I will always remember as fruitful and inspiring. She immediately struck me as a wonderful young woman with a beautiful heart and a wonderful personality. The news of her passing was a great loss to many people close to me and I can only hope that the memory of her life will serve as an inspiration to those who were fortunate enough to call her a sister, a daughter, a cousin, a loved one or simply a friend. We will all miss you Ava, even those of us who did not know you well.
January 8, 2014
Ava was my best friend in the whole entire world and i could tell her things i could't tell anyone else. i love you ava rip best friend <3
Lori Grifa
January 6, 2014
To Bob and Family - My deepest sympathies for your terrible loss. I am sure words are of no help, but I hope prayers will.
Frank LaRosa
December 31, 2013
You helped me to realize a daughter us the most precious thing in the world and I left and she has been with me since...gid bless you ava !
Kathleen Catanach
December 29, 2013
Love and Light to all of you who knew her.
Bonnie Sharkey
December 25, 2013
Today and always, may loving memories of Ava bring you peace, comfort, and strength.
December 23, 2013
Bob and family: Please accept our sincere and profound sympathy on the loss of your beautiful daughter. She and your family are in our prayers.
Bob and Joy(Pech) Beck
Marie McNeely
December 21, 2013
Our hearts go out to your family. Eva was a lovely, kind and beautiful girl and a very good friend to our son, Pete.
Marie & Jim McNeely
Octavia P
December 21, 2013
Ava,
I love you so much thank you for being my friend when I had no one I'm just finding out today I just wanted it to be a stupid joke please know your always in my heart
December 20, 2013
Heartfelt condolences go out to the DeTore family. No words can describe how sorry we are for your loss. You are in our prayers. Mark and Gerry Lamendola
Michael Carousis
December 20, 2013
Our deepest condolences and heartfelt thoughts are with you and your family on the loss of your beautiful Ava Marie. With a heavy heart we send our deepest sympathy.
Vannette & Michael
December 20, 2013
Bob and Family,
Our deepest condolences to you and all your family members.
Jack and Rosemary Sayers
edward bristow
December 20, 2013
I am deeply saddened and convey my heartfelt condolences. I taught Ava and Fordham and knew her well.
Toby Russo
December 20, 2013
My Deepest condolences.
Jeffrey and Blake Durocher & Family
December 20, 2013
Heartfelt prayers and condolences to the Detore family. Ava was a special young woman with a smile and personality that lit up any room she entered. We will all cherish the moments spent with her. She was deeply loved by all who knew her, and we will never ever forget her. We wish your family the best in this hard time. We love you Ava!
Robert & Nicole Orrick
December 19, 2013
Dear Bob & Family,
Our deepest condolences for the loss of your daughter Ava Marie. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Stephen Tobia
December 19, 2013
My condolences to the Detore family. Eternal rest grant unto her O Lord and may she rest in peace. Amen
December 19, 2013
To the Detore Family, My deepest deepest sympathies are with you, a loss of a child is devastating... No words can ever be said, You will be in my prayers daily, I will pray that the Lord bring you comfort,at night a peaceful sleep and the strength of God to get you thru this loss. We know she will forever RIP...
Jacky Grindrod
December 19, 2013
Words can't express how sad this is. Ava was a stellar addition to the Congressman's office, where I came to know her. Her light shined very brightly. My deepest sympathies go to the Detore family for this most profound loss.
December 19, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. With deep sympathy, The Nochimson Family.
G. Freeman
December 19, 2013
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
December 19, 2013
Debbie Bob and Family,
This was sent from our relatives in Italy when we lost Diane,
Death is nothing,
I have simply crossed over to the other side.
I am me,
you are you.
What we were for each other, we are still.
Give me the name you have always given me.
Speak to me like you have always done.
Don't use a different tone,
Don't be solemn or sad.
Keep laughing at what made us laugh together...
Smile. Think of me, smile with me.
Say my name at home,
like it has always been said,
without any empashis at all,
without traces of shadow.
Life signifies what it has always signified.
It is what it has always been:
the cord is not cut.
Why should I be out of your thoughts
just because I am out of your sight?
I am not far.
Just on the other side of the road.
(Charles Peguy)
(1873 – 1914)
Your cousins
Barb and Steve
December 19, 2013
My condolences to the Detore family. May memories of time spent with Ava warm your hearts. Lean on God for comfort and the hope he gives of seeing our passed loved ones again.
December 19, 2013
Our deepest sympathy to the Detore family. An unimaginable loss. Our memories of Ava are of a happy-go-lucky girl who loved her friends and who was kind, and funny. Please accept these condolences, and know the good memories will shine on.
The Harbeck Family
Patty Bryant (Ellie Kiernans sister)
December 19, 2013
To the Family...
My heartfelt sympathies for the loss of your daughter, one of God's angels taken too soon from us. May she Rest In Peace.
December 18, 2013
While words cannot express our sadness for your great loss, we know Ava's light and signature smile will shine forever. It is our prayer that the memories you cherish will comfort you now and bring you peace forever more. We loved Ava and will miss her dearly. With heavy hearts, Ernest, Dale, Ashley and Morgan Booker
December 18, 2013
To the Detore Family, Our deepest sympathies are with you during your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.
Solomon, MeLinda and Jordan Taylor (Pingry School)
Judy and Ron Ciuffreda
December 18, 2013
We extend our sincere condolences. May God give you strength and bless Ava with eternal peace. Judy and Ron Ciuffreda
Bettina Bering
December 18, 2013
Dear Debra and Bob, we are devastated to hear about your beautiful daughter's sudden death, our hearts go out to you. Growing up on Crestmont Road, Ava was Maxi's very first friend, and we just can't believe she is gone. Please accept our most sincere condolences.
jason luttgens
December 18, 2013
sorry you lost a great light of love too soon. all the lives she touched are the better for it, i'm sure.
December 18, 2013
RIP Ava
JH
December 18, 2013
So sorry to hear of your lost. Draw close to god and he will draw close to you. James 4:8
Ron and Kathy Weber
December 18, 2013
Ron and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. We know that there are no words to comfort you. Just remember to keep her memories and she will be with you always. Bob, your kindness to us when Karl dies will always be remembered. We are sorry we cannot be there to comfort you. This is something no one can understand except those who have endured the loss of a child. Try and stay strong. Our thoughts are with you.
December 18, 2013
Ava & Father
December 18, 2013
Ava & Tessia
December 18, 2013
Skateboard Ava
December 18, 2013
Ava with her cousin Nick
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Ava & Mother
December 18, 2013
Andrew & Ava
December 18, 2013
Andrew & Ava
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Margaret Gonzales
December 18, 2013
My deepest sympathy in your sadness and loss. I remember Ava's sweetness. MKA Primary School
December 18, 2013
Bob and family....I am so sorry for you...I just heard about Ava...there are no words but only my prayers for you. Diane Lodise
BangZ Salon
December 18, 2013
The staff of BangZ Salon would like to extend our deepest condolences to the entire Detore family during this time. May you rest in peace Ava.
December 17, 2013
We were all saddened to hear about Ava's passing. I remember her with always a smile and very polite. She will be missed by many. God Bless Her. Lisa and the Abramson family
Beverly Winkler
December 17, 2013
Our deepest sympathies. Our hearts and prayers are with you all. Much love, the Winkler Family
Katharine Mehan
December 17, 2013
I envy heaven for it took an angel from us December 14th, 2013. Rest in paradise, my sweet, beautiful baby cousin. I will keep you in my heart forever, constantly reminding myself to follow in your big hearted and generous ways. I love you, Ava.
Samantha Cruise
December 17, 2013
Words cannot express how sorry I am for the loss of Ava. My thoughts & prayers are with you.
Denise & Clifton
December 17, 2013
Words alone can't express how saddened we are to hear of your loss. We will keep your family in our prayers.
December 17, 2013
Ava, beautiful on the inside and out. She was quick to hug you and say I love you... Gentle, kind and a heart that was golden to the core. You will be missed but never ever forgotten. We love you.
Your cousins,
Xoxoxo
Nikki and Joelle
Stacey Bender
December 17, 2013
My deepest condolences to the Detore family during this time. Rest in peace Ava.
Willard Taylor
December 17, 2013
Ava was a wonderful young woman and I was proud to know her during her years at Newark Academy. There are no words to express how much she will be missed.
December 17, 2013
My deepest sympathy to you. May God comfort you, and give you strength.
Bob and Peg Weakley
December 17, 2013
Bob and family, our deepest condolences, please know that thoughts and prayers are with you during this dificult time.
Jackie Dunn-Toler
December 17, 2013
From Labor to Blessed Reward.
You have my deepest sympathy.
Jackie Dunn-Toler
Brett Byron
December 17, 2013
My prayers and condolences to the family of Ava. She was beautiful inside and out. God Bless you all.
Catherine Doran
December 17, 2013
As Ava's roommate at Fordham University I was so blessed to get to know her and become friends. Ava was such a kind, vibrant, and loving person. She will be greatly missed by all and her memory will continue to live on through the powerful impact she had on others. My thoughts and prayers are with the Detore family.
Joe Calabrese
December 17, 2013
I am so saddened to hear of Ava's sudden passing, and my heart felt sympathy goes out the Detore family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. So very sorry for your loss
Phil Fiore
December 17, 2013
Our Condolences to the entire Detore Family - our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Phil and Debbie Fiore
Rich DiBianca
December 17, 2013
Our hearts our with you, Detores. Ava brought a lot of joy to us at Newark Academy.
December 17, 2013
With heartfelt sympathy--indeed, Ava had a smile that lit up the room.
Stephanie Acquadro
Newark Academy
December 17, 2013
Condolences to the family and friends. Please take comfort in God's words at Romans 8:35-39.
December 17, 2013
RIP
December 17, 2013
With heartfelt sympathy. ~Lisa Gibson
Larry & Connie Raymond
December 17, 2013
To The Detore Family
We will pray for Ava,She touched our lives!!
Phyllis & Howard Dobbins
December 17, 2013
Prayers of peace to our loving family during this extremely difficult time..
December 17, 2013
to Detore Family:
With our deepest condolences,
Kevin & Beth O'Toole
Beautiful girl!
Deb Mongiardo-Hamilton
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
My condolences to the Family. Ava's desires and achievements are treasures to hold near and dear to your heart. During this time of separation my our Heaven Father the God of all comfort shower you with comfort that is surely needed at this time of distress.
Deb Mongiardo-Hamilton
December 17, 2013
I love you so very much Ava. You were the angel God was looking for and he found you. Rest in peace sweet girl. You will never be forgotten. I love you so so so much!!
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