Barbara Anne Waddell Gray

1935 - 2025

Barbara Anne Waddell Gray obituary, 1935-2025, Winchester, VA

Barbara Anne Waddell Gray

1935 - 2025

BORN

1935

DIED

2025

Barbara Gray Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 29, 2025.
Barbara (Waddell) Gray was born in Fauquier County, VA to James and Fannie Waddell. She married William L Gray of Middleburg, VA in 1956. She is survived by her husband and her only child, Melissa Gray York, and her son-in law, James F York, of Leesburg, VA, her granddaughter, Samantha Martin, grandson-in-law, Jeremy Martin, and great-grandson, Jordan Martin, all of Arlington, VA and her grandson, William A York, and grand-daughter in law, Ana York, of Alexandria, VA and her sister-in-law, Gene Waddell, of Nokesville, VA.

Barbara graduated from Osbourne High School in Manassas, VA with a certificate in cosmetology. She was a hairdresser in Middleburg, VA until moving to Charlottesville, VA in 1963. For years she was an active volunteer with her daughter's elementary and high schools and also volunteered at her grandchildren's elementary school. She also, for years, helped her husband with the horses on their various farms and even learned to ride a horse to be out with her husband and daughter.

The family would like to thank the caregivers and staff of Orchard Ridge in Winchester, VA for all of their care of Barbara.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Middleburg Humane Foundation to honor Barbara's love of dogs and horses.

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James Yowell

December 29, 2025

Sorry to hear about Aunt Barbara. My thoughts and prayers are with Uncle William and the family!
James Lee Yowell
Winchester, Virginia

James Lee Yowell

December 29, 2025

Sorry to hear about Aunt Barbara. My thoughts and prayers go out to Uncle William and the family!
James Lee Yowell
Winchester, Virginia

David Oliver Welsh

December 29, 2025

David and Jane Welsh
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