Barbara Jean Otey

Barbara Jean Otey obituary, Indianapolis, IN

Barbara Jean Otey

Barbara Otey Obituary

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Barbara Jean Otey, age 84, passed away quietly in her sleep on April 2, 2015, at Community North Hospital, Indianapolis. Visitation will be 12 noon to 2:00 PM Saturday, April 4, at Flanner and Buchanan – Carmel, 325 East Carmel Drive, Carmel, Indiana, 46032, followed by a brief memorial service. In keeping with her love of photographs, friends and family are invited to bring and share special pictures of Barbara doing the things she loved. Burial will be at Glen Cove Cemetery in Knightstown immediately after the service. Barbara was born on April 20, 1930 in Farmland, Indiana, the daughter of Guy and Bertha Ruble. The family moved to Muncie, Indiana where Barbara and her sister, Georgiana grew up. Barbara was a model for Ball Stores of Muncie. She graduated from Ball State Teachers College and was a founding member of Alpha Chi Omega Sorority of Ball State. Upon graduation she married Charles William Stroup, the family moved to League City, Texas for a brief period then returned to Knightstown, Indiana where Barbara achieved a Master's in Education, then Specialist in Education Degree and taught elementary school children until her retirement. Barbara's life was filled with family and many cherished friends. Later in life she married Earl Otey of Indianapolis. The Stroup-Otey Family enjoyed many holidays and special events at their home. Barbara loved entertaining and attending theater and symphony with her many friends. She frequently traveled with friends and family. Among her travels were Canada, Belgium, Luxemburg, Great Britain, France, Netherlands, Mexico, Costa Rica, Panama Canal, Greece, Turkey, the Caribbean, Alaska, and Hawaii. She continued to model for CARA charities fashion shows and Tri Kappa Knightstown Sorority events well past the age of 80. Barbara was a member and past president of Garden Club, several Bridge Clubs in Knightstown and Indianapolis, and a member of Castleton United Methodist Church. Barbara is preceded in death by her parents, Guy Clifford and Bertha Fern Ruble, her devoted husband Earl Otey, and beloved sister Georgiana Davis. She is survived by a son, Bruce Stroup of Boerne, Texas and daughter Julia (Stroup) Butera of Wichita Falls, Texas, daughter in law Mary Jo (Gross) Stroup, son in law Adam Butera and three dearly loved granddaughters Katherine Stroup, Michele Stroup, and Aria Butera. The family would like to thank the staff of Community North Hospital, Castleton United Methodist Church and the many friends who have provided support and prayer during this time.

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April 4, 2015

Kimberley posted to the memorial.

April 4, 2015

Raynola posted to the memorial.

April 4, 2015

Michael Wilkinson posted to the memorial.

From a visit in October 2014. This was a postcard I sent her.

Kimberley

April 4, 2015

Raynola

April 4, 2015

Sorry for your loss Kimberly, I know how much you loved her.

Michael Wilkinson

April 4, 2015

Mrs. Stroup was one of my favorite teachers. One couldn't have asked for a sweeter, kinder kindergarten teacher. Sincere sympathies to her family and friends.

Kimberley and Howie Broyles

April 4, 2015

I loved my Auntie Barb and have so many good memories of spending time with family in Knightstown and, later, with her in Indy when I was an adult. Much love to you all from our families.

Shelli (Ottinger) Griffin

April 4, 2015

I am very sorry for your family's great loss. I will remember her fondly and as a wonderful kindergarten teacher. She discovered that I was an avid lip reader and that I couldn't hear much and had to break the news to my parents. I'm sure it was as much a shock to her as it was for them and thanks to her we were able to get the medical attention needed. I will always remember her sense of calm, her humor and the love she had for her students.

Dana True

April 3, 2015

Barb was a big part of my families life for many years. I have thought of her, Julie and Bruce many times throughout the years. Loved them all, it was a very special time while they were in my life, great memories, RIP Barb, love Dana

Jerry Kopp

April 3, 2015

A great teacher and lady. A true friend to my mother.

Dawnuell Ellis-Herron

April 3, 2015

So sad to hear..she was my kindergarten teacher...my condolences to the family

Mary Fausset Brydges

April 3, 2015

So sorry to hear of your mm's passing. She was a great lady.

April 3, 2015

Phyllis Beltz (from Beauty shop. Had not known Barb very long but loved her and enjoyed her. She will be missed. So sorry for your loss here on earth.

Renee Reynolds-Brown

April 3, 2015

So sad to hear of Barb's passing. She was a kind lady and one of my favorite teacher's. My condolences to her family.

Diane Dunham

April 2, 2015

I am very sorry to hear of Barbara's passing. She was always very kind to me and was a great friend to my mother, Polly Brown. We will miss Barbara very much.

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