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Daughter
April 4, 2023
Mom, wow..it´s been 15 years since I got to hear your voice or give you a hug. So much has happened in that time. I got married and had a little boy. He knows his grandma boo from stories that I will continue to tell him. He´s four years old! Dad and I went to see your favorite movie "Pillow Talk" in the movie theater this year. I reminisced on all of the parts that you used to laugh at. Love you and miss you everyday. Love you infinity my sweet mother

#hisonesie ❤❤❤
Daughter & grandson
April 16, 2019
Happy Heavenly 70th birthday to the best mom in the world!! I miss you so very much! I know that you are smiling, looking down on us from heaven! You have a 4th grandson now!! We think about you all of the time! We love you infinity ❤
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April 16, 2019
Mother, HAPPY 70th! It's an absolutely gorgeous day here in Louisville today. Perfect day for a woman of such beauty inside and out. As always thinking about you and missing you like crazy. Thank you for being such a ray of sunshine in my and so many others lives.
♥♥♥♥♥ XOXOXOXO - Your Teddy Bear
Bradley Pacanowski
September 5, 2018
For your TEN year anniversary of your passing. It was a nice trip to Radom, Il with Dad, Brent and Val. We miss you more than you know. Lost Aunt Sue in November and then Brian this past April. All very shocked but we know you're in good company. More love than I know how to express. ♥♥♥
Your Teddy Bear
Bradley Pacanowski
February 10, 2016
As the 8th year of you being gone approaches I just wanted to let you know I love you and have not stopped thinking about you. I am pretty sure you helped dad get through his brain aneurysm. I know you want him with you but please be gracious and give us plenty of years with him. I know you're always with me and thank you for watching out for all of us. Kisses and big hugs! -love your teddy bear
daughter
November 2, 2014
Hello Mother. I just wanted to thank you and God for looking over dad during these past horrible three months. I know that with your help, he can recover and get back to his normal life. I love you soo very much and I miss you everyday. I love you infinity. XO
Valerie Pacanowski
January 12, 2013
Thinking about you more and more as it approaches 5 years since you have passed. I know that you are helping me plan my wedding. I wish that you could be here in person,but I know that you will be watching from heaven as your one and only daughter walks down the isle with your husband to marry your future son in law. I love you infinity :). Xoxoxo
daughter
November 1, 2012
Happy All Saints day to my mother, a saint in her own way. I love you mom!!!
Valerie Pacanowski
June 10, 2012
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you mom. Dreams with you in them are the best because I can see you & hear your voice. Life goes on, but you will always be that one piece missing from mine. I love you infinity!!!!!!

Good times!
April 1, 2012
John and Ric Blankenship
March 30, 2012
Bradley , and Family , our thought and prayers are with you and your family. We are so sorry of your loss..Pleas don't hesitate to ask us for a ear or shoulder. We are always here for you..
With all our love and prayers ,
John and Ric
Bradley Pacanowski
March 29, 2012
You are always going to be everything to me. I love you so much. Hate that you are not physically here, but I have always felt you with me inside myself. I love you always mother.
Bradley Pacanowski
May 12, 2011
The light inside me for you will never grow dark. I love you always.

Bradley (youngest son) and Barbara
Bradley Pacanowski
May 12, 2011

family photo 2007
January 23, 2011
Teddy Bear
November 16, 2010
Words barely express how much it hurts not to have you around. I miss your voice, hugs and kisses so much. I know you are always watching over us and always around but as time goes by it feel I miss you more and more. I love you always.
Bradley Pacanowski
November 16, 2010
I miss you like crazy mother. I know you are well and always watching over us... but I can't express how much I miss your hugs and kisses. I love you so much mother.
daughter
November 12, 2010
Miss you mom! I love you!
daughter
June 24, 2009
Still miss you mother! I love you infinity!

Barbara photos taken by Earl
January 11, 2009

Barbara, Shaws Garden Spring 1969
January 11, 2009

Gerald and Barbara relaxing
November 10, 2008

Bradley and Barbara / June 1979
November 10, 2008
Earl AuBuchon
June 21, 2008
I'm so sorry for your loss. I just learned of Barbara's passing. We were friends many years a go and I still think of her with kindness. After reading the postings I see that she was the wonderful person that was my friend. May she rest in the love of her family and friends.
Valerie (daughter) Pacanowski
April 29, 2008
Thank you to everyone that has helped our family out in this time of mourning. It has been a long month..but we could not have got through it without the love of family & friends. Barbara continues to give us strength to move forward. She will always be missed. Bless you all.
Valerie ( daughter) Pacanowski
April 16, 2008
Happy Birthday mother...I love you soo much & I miss you more & more everyday. God gave me the best mother in the whole world!
Patrick and Barbara Browne
April 14, 2008
Packy...It is difficult to find the words to express our sorrow. You are in our thoughts....
Susan Pacanowski
April 12, 2008
Barbara was my sister, friend, and my family. I will miss her forever. She took great pride in her husband, children, and grandchildren. In some ways, she was my mentor. I learned allot from her, she taught me how to say 'I love you' and show my emotions and feelings of love. I love you Barb, and always will.
Raymond Kowalczyk
April 2, 2008
To my nephew Jerry, my great nephews Brent and Bradley, and my great niece Valerie: Please accept my sympathies on your loss. Barbara was a good person and we will always remember her. I was honored to have her call me "Uncle Ray." I am sorry I did not get to see you in Radom or when you came to St. Louis. You are all in my prayers. Love, Uncle Ray K.
Nancy Kowalczyk
April 2, 2008
Barbara showed the world true strength, courage, and unconditional love. I remember as a child meeting my future cousin, Barb, and I was struck with awe. Would she really be the one to marry my awesome cousin, Jerry? Her happiness and her kindness toward everyone, especially to us little kids, was unmatched. She made my brothers and I feel important at every family gathering. I adored her and I always will. Barb taught us all how to live and love. Godspeed, cousin Barb. I love you and your beautiful family, my dear cousins.
Phil Mocca
April 1, 2008
My special memory of Barb was fishing with her. She got so excited and so happy to catch a fish with Jerry and Phil (Me). We truly have some great memories of our fishing. I am so happy I was a special person with Barb and fishing.
Love Always Phil Mocca
Margaert Nellesen
April 1, 2008
Elaine and Family, May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Gary Willis
April 1, 2008
Pac,
We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Gary and Nicole Willis
Patsy mocca
March 31, 2008
My Barbie Doll: Barb was a very special person, she was full of love for everyone. She never had an unkind word for anyone. She loved her Jerry (Perry) with all her heart. She always called him Dearest and my brother would melt in her hands. She raised her family well and showed us all what a family should be. She was a compassionate person and so beautiful , I am so grateful that I have many memories with her. She was a true friend and my sister in Christ. She loved her Perry, family but most of all loved
God, and now God has given her eternal life. Love Pat
Amy and Kenny LaFollette
March 31, 2008
Jerry;
We are so sorry for your loss. Barbara was a great woman and she will be missed. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jeff and Anne McBride
March 31, 2008
Pacee, Please accept our heartfelt condolances on your loss. May God give you and your family strength and understanding in this time of need. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Macee
Troy Masden
March 31, 2008
I am so sorry for your family's loss. May God give you all strength in these trying times. My family and I will keep you all in our prayers.
Dennis & Roberta Arnett
March 31, 2008
Pac,
We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything we can do, please do not hesitate to let us know! Pac you have been a great friend for many years and we love you!
Jim and Lois Guerin
March 31, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Jim and Lois Guerin
Lynda Willis
March 31, 2008
God will give you all strength.
Ashley Watson
March 31, 2008
Valerie and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers at this extremely difficult time. Val, please do not hesitate to call if you need anything at all. Love you!
Rick & Jennifer Via
March 30, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss may god be with you and your family.
We Love You Packy
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