Barbara Nelson Warley

Barbara Nelson Warley obituary, Williamsburg, VA

Barbara Nelson Warley

Barbara Warley Obituary

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WILLIAMSBURG - Barbara Nelson Warley, formerly of Newport News, died suddenly on February 21, 2014 in Williamsburg. She was born in Spokane, Washington and grew up in Coeur d'Alene Idaho. At age 19, she joined United Airlines and was based in New York City. There she met her husband of forty-two years, John Caldwell Warley, Jr. They married on December 18, 1971 in Washington D.C.'s National Cathedral. In 1972 they moved to Newport News, where John worked as an Assistant Commonwealth Attorney and she promoted special events at Thalhimers. In 1991 Barbara donated a kidney to her late sister, Beth Nelson Hutchison. Barbara and John, together with children MaryBeth and Carter, moved to San Miguel de Allende, Mexico, where Barbara was active in Patronato Pro Ninos, an organization dedicated to serving the medical needs of Mexican children. Later, in Beaufort, South Carolina, she served as marketing and public relations director for Friends of Caroline Hospice and worked with troubled youth at the Beaufort Marine Institute. In these things, and all she did, Barbara put others before herself. The House of Warley mourns the loss of its spirit, its soul, its heart. She is survived by John, son John Caldwell Warley, III, his wife Nessa Snyder Warley, his daughter Addington Eliza Warley of Charleston, S.C.; son Nelson V. Warley, his wife Heather Partridge Warley, their children Anna Barnwell Warley and Ellis Nelson Warley of Wallingford, PA.; daughter MaryBeth Warley Lockwood and her husband Andrew Lockwood of San Diego, CA.; and son Carter Barnwell Warley, his wife Erin Gemma, and sons Elijah McCall Gemma and Oliver Barnwell Warley of Williamsburg; her nephew Christopher Duplessis, his wife Ann Duplessis, and their children Nelson, Tucker and Johnson of Charlotte, N.C.; her nieces Rachel Langenderfer and her husband Matt and their children Jack, Christopher, Nick and Matt of Cincinnati, OH.; Barbara Hutchison of Boise, Idaho, and Helen Hutchison of Charlotte, N.C. A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, February 25, at noon at Bucktrout Funeral Home, 4124 Ironbound Road, Williamsburg.

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Michele DeRosa

February 18, 2024

Think of her often. My love to you all, Michele DeRosa

Ruth Kear

March 1, 2014

San Miguel de Allende will never forget this radiant woman and her smile. She shall be missed by every one who knew her.

March 1, 2014

John and family
We were so sorry to learn of your family's great loss. On behalf of the John Florance, Jr. clan (Lila, John, Peter, Mary Ann and Tish) know that you have been in our thoughts and prayers. In 1982, Rob and I were married in Va. Beach and your family attended. I remember Barbara's infectious smile and sparkle! God Bless,
Mary Ann Saunders

Marcus King

February 28, 2014

I fondly remember Barbara from Thalhimers and had so much fun working with her. I am so sorry for this bright spirit being lost!

Lee Carpenter Mitchell

February 28, 2014

Dear John, I am so sad to hear about Barbara's passing. Remembering life on Dean's Circle and our kids' friendships, my heart stretches out to yours, to Carter and Mary Beth, and all your family in your grieving time. May you have release in your tears through the love in your hearts.

Suzy & Shawn Pistey

February 27, 2014

Dear Warley family,

Our warmest thoughts and prayers go out to each of you during this difficult time. Barbara was such a vibrant lady and we were very lucky to have known her. Hoping you find peace in the days ahead.

February 25, 2014

I was so sorry to learn that Barbara passed away. I knew Barbara when she hosted the fashion shows at Thalhimers. I was the day time telephone operator for many years. The picture of Barbara is the way I remember her. So beautiful, with a great personality. God bless you all during this sad time. Lil Moses Newport News

Sandra Ramsey Garofolo

February 25, 2014

John, we were so saddened to hear about Barbara - what a beautiful lady she was - you, your children and grandchildren are in our prayers and thoughts.

Bob Giannini

February 25, 2014

John, So very sorry for your loss. So many years have passed since we were growing up at Cook's Terrace. God Bless you and your family. With my deepest sympahty, Bob Giannini

February 25, 2014

John, the years have passed, and I have kept up with you and your career. I followed you in your Citadel experience, and as I read Pat Conroy, I always looked for a reference to you and John Bowditch. I am saddened by Barbara's death and pray that God will comfort you and in time give you peace! As you know, we York High grads stick together! Doug Kanney, YHS, '64

Rob Feathers

February 25, 2014

Our hearts are joined with yours as you mourn the loss of this wonderful, giving woman. Reading the obituary, it's so obvious that Barbara lived her life in service to others. What a great example to those around her. May your happy memories of your wife/mother provide you comfort during the days ahead. Love to all.

February 24, 2014

George and I were privileged to know Barbara. We remember her support, shining personality, and friendship.
Love, George and Ginny Ross

February 24, 2014

Dear John and family,
Barbara was one of the sweetest, most vibrant people I've ever met: beautiful inside and out. To say that she'll be missed is a terrible understatement. I knew she was valiant; I just didn't know how incredibly, fiercely valiant she was. I'm so glad I had the privilege to know her.
With much sympathy,
Kathy Snodgrass

Michele & Ralph DeRosa

February 24, 2014

All of us are blessed to have known Barbara, she is at peace.

Cathi & Bill McMickle

February 24, 2014

My dear dear friends, I received a call from my Williamsburg friend, Sue, just this morning about Barbara. Knowing that she had been a survivor I was deeply sadden to hear she had died. It was wonderful that we had gotten together for Carter's wedding & lunch in S.C. befor that. I have such fond memories of our friendship. Barbara truely brought light & soul to those who are fortunate to have known & loved her.

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