Barry Irmer

Barry Irmer obituary, Reading, MA

Barry Irmer

Barry Irmer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 23, 2022.
Barry David Irmer, 52, died unexpectedly, Sunday, August 21, 2022, in Reading, MA. He was born in Danvers, MA, and was the son of Gerard and the late Jean (Robinson) Irmer. He is survived by his cherished sons, John and Kevin and their loving mother Karen Murphy, sister Debra Fuss and her husband David; his nieces and nephews Jenny Fuss and James, Jack, and Kate Murphy; best friends John and Carrie Dwyer; and many other close friends and extended family.

Barry was loved by all and known as a great guy. He was a longtime youth baseball coach in Cooperstown and loved coaching his sons in Reading. Barry was a graduate of Masconomet High School in Boxford, MA. He worked in sales, most recently at EcoLab.

Visiting hours will be held on Thursday, August 25, 2022, from 1:30pm-3pm followed by a brief service at Reading Memorial High School in the Performing Arts Center, 62 Oakland Road, Reading, MA.

In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that remembrances be made in the form of contributions to the GoFundMe page: https://gofund.me/dbb68da9 to support the boys in their future endeavors.

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August 28, 2022

Sandy and Steven Roda posted to the memorial.

August 25, 2022

Carol Terriciano posted to the memorial.

August 24, 2022

Reposa Family posted to the memorial.

Sandy and Steven Roda

August 28, 2022

Our deepest sympathy to you Jerry and your family over this tragic loss.

Carol Terriciano

August 25, 2022

Karen, sorry about the loss of Barry. I hope the boys will be ok.

Reposa Family

August 24, 2022

Karen, we are so sorry for you family´s loss. You are in our hearts and prayers.

Janice Hallaman

August 24, 2022

With prayers for all kinds of healing to Karen,John,Kevin,Debra,David,Jenny and his father Jerry,my dear friend and classmate to say good-bye to someone who meant so much,

Joanne Fitzpatrick

August 24, 2022

Karen, John, & Kevin,
Just so sorry to be hearing about your loss. So difficult. Always remember: "We love you all the numbers."

Jeanine Bero

August 23, 2022

Sending condolences to your family! I worked with Barry many years ago at Piney Bowes. He was such a kind man. Sorry to see him gone at a young age. Thinking of you all.

The Marino´s

August 23, 2022

We are so sorry for your loss. Sending love and healing wishes to all.

Shelley Lynch

August 23, 2022

So very sorry to hear about the loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.

stacy clough

August 22, 2022

My sincere condolences to the entire family. My son had the pleasure of having Barry as a coach last season.. such a great man and coach. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.

Ronald and Carol Pavao

August 22, 2022

Dear Karen,Johnny,Kevin,Debbie and our dear friend Jerry,There are no words for the sadness you all feel!May you find peace in your memories...Our love and sympathy..Ronnie and Carol Pavao

Dana (Ujhely) Schukert

August 22, 2022

Dear Debbie and all the family I am so sorry about Barry. I remember him fondly. He always had a smile for everyone and I remember he loved the Bruins

Lauren LeComte

August 22, 2022

Karen, John, & Kevin and Extended Family,

Our love and prayers are with you at this time and always.

Love, Lauren & Mark

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