BARRY PICKERING

BARRY PICKERING

BARRY PICKERING Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Nov. 21, 2007 to Feb. 25, 2009.
WITH the death at the weekend of Barry Pickering, Hexham has lost one of the most colourful characters it has ever known. Behind an outwardly camp and outrageous persona, he was dedicated to the promotion of the wellbeing of Hexham. Although he didn’t become involved in public life until he was 60, he will go down in Hexham’s annals as one of the most memorable mayors the town ever had. He made success in the Northumbria and Britain in Bloom competitions his personal crusade during his two-year mayoralty. When the judges were due, he would be out with his strimmer and his trowel, dispatching overgrown grass and unwelcome weeds with zeal. And he even braved the wrath of the district’s traders by organising the removal of unauthorised advertising signs which he felt detracted from the appearance of the town. But his hard work and attention to detail were rewarded in 2005, when Hexham won the national Britain in Bloom large town category, as well as an accompanying Silver Gilt award and the title of best tourism town. Hexham was also anointed England’s favourite market town by Country Life magazine during his time as mayor. He was born in Hexham in 1937, the son of Joseph and Thora Pickering, who used to run a timber yard on Tyne Green which evolved into the Riverside caravan park. With the outbreak of the Second World War, Barry was evacuated to Nenthead, where he did his early schooling, but he returned to Hexham as a pupil at the town’s Queen Elizabeth Grammar School. On leaving school, he went to work for the Haltwhistle-based Smith and Walton paint company. Eventually, be became a sales representative for the company, travelling all over Britain, and he spent time living in Ireland and in Glasgow. He then had a switch of career, becoming involved in the insurance and estate agency world, opening an office in Newcastle. In 1989, however, he returned to Hexham to take over the caravan park, while partner Tony Davidson developed a limousine hire business from the same address. Under Barry’s expert guidance, the caravan park became hugely successful, and achieved the coveted five-star rose award for a decade. He also became very much involved in the limousine business, where his talents as a very gifted mechanic were put to good use. Tony said: “Mechanical engineering was his first love and he rebuilt a vintage Rolls Royce virtually from scratch. “He had his own lathe and milling equipment, and made many of the parts himself.” As well as his Rolls Royce, he also had a Daimler, and an MG Midget he built for Tony. Barry was a member of both the Rolls Royce and Daimler Owners’ Clubs. His other great passions were snorkelling and scuba diving, which he pursued all over the world – even off the cold Northumbrian coast. He also enjoyed travel, and made an annual pilgrimage to Thailand, as well as enjoying other Asian holidays. He first made an impact on the local government scene in 2000 when, standing as a Conservative, he won a dual by-election for the Hexham Gilesgate seat on both Tynedale Council and Hexham Town Council, caused by the death of another former mayor, Coun. Norman Reed. Soon afterwards, he was elected to Northumberland County Council, but he did not seek re-election to County Hall. From the outset, he made no secret of his sexual orientation and once offered to be the fairy on top of Hexham’s Christmas tree! Tributes have been pouring in all week, led by officers and staff from Tynedale Council. Council leader Coun. Michael Walton said: “I will miss Barry greatly both as a friend and a councillor. “He was never afraid to get down and dirty when something needed doing, and his legacy will be the improvements to Tynedale and Hexham in particular that his work instigated.” Tynedale chief executive Richard Robson added: “Barry Pickering was an inspirational councillor who cared passionately about Tynedale as well as his home patch of Hexham. “He worked tirelessly, taking the lead role in a number of environmental and recycling projects that made a real difference to people’s lives in the area. “I think, however, he would have been most proud of both his term as Mayor of Hexham Town Council and his success in championing Northumbria and Britain in Bloom and ‘England’s Favourite Market Town’. “He cared passionately about the parks and their displays and could often be found assisting the staff with weeding and maintenance as well as taking the lead role in presenting the parks to visiting inspectors by driving them around in his vintage Rolls Royce. “Barry was a larger than life character, full of humour and wit, and yet with a deeply held care for and commitment to the area, and we shall miss him. “Our thoughts and kind wishes go to his partner Tony, his family and friends.” Barry was also held in high regard by the Rector of Hexham, Canon Graham Usher, who said a prayer at his civic partnership celebration at Langley Castle. Canon Usher said: “Barry was a great and lively character who put his heart and soul into representing the interests of local people. “His two years as Mayor of Hexham, supported behind the scenes by Tony, centred on hard work, a personal pride in his town, and not a little touch of outrageous flair.” Present Mayor of Hexham, Coun. J.B. Jonas, who spent two years as Barry’s deputy, also paid tribute. He said: “He had this rather bluff and tough exterior, but underneath, you could not find a kinder nor a more generous person. “He was the catalyst which brought about all Hexham’s success in the Britain in Bloom awards.” The funeral service at Hexham Abbey on Monday morning is expected to be one of the biggest Hexham has seen in many years. Barry, who organised his own funeral service, requested no flowers, but has asked for donations to any of three charities; Macmillan Nurses, the Tynedale Community Hospice, or the St Wilfrid’s Project at the Abbey.

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Irene Tomkinson (nee Walton)

August 11, 2008

I first knew Barry when he lived along the road from us at Southlands, in Hexham. His parents and mine played golf and bridge together. He was always mending/ restoring some vehicle out on the street when I came out to play. I can remember that he introduced me to the skill of ironing; I can even remember the item - a gentleman's handkerchief! God Bless Barry...

Carolynne Dixon

February 29, 2008

Barry attended my father's (Henry Smith)funeral and said some very kind words. Dad will be waiting to say Hello again to Barry and help him settle in "up there". God Bless.

Cynthia Fairley

December 26, 2007

Hello Darling!!
Those words will remain with me for ever and I miss them like blazes now. Will never forget you - neither will Tonykins. Hope you have a Rolls Royce in heaven.

Stuart Fairley

December 16, 2007

I have known Barry and Tony for many years through my parents and the RREC. Although I didn't keep up a regular dialogue with him, it was always a fascinating and delightful experience to keep up with Barrys' news and, often outrageous, exploits. He and Tony have shown much kindness and generosity to my family over the years, and we thank you for this. You will be greatly missed, Barry, one of lifes most generous Gentlemen.

Wherever you now are Barry, I sincerely hope you're having a ball!

My thoughts at this time are with Tony and the family. God Bless.

Ray Boyle

December 6, 2007

You were always kind to me and my mates when we camped many times at your campsite in hexham as kids,it's the end of an era for me.Thank you for your kindness and generousity but more important thanks for being you.

God Bless My friend x

Janet Wormold

December 4, 2007

Barry was a great supporter of Changing Attitude. He was a friend to many and he will be missed greatly. Rest in peace.

Convenor for Changing Attitude
Newcastle/Durham Dioocese

Elizabeth and Julie Robson

November 26, 2007

Barry touched our lives and will
remain in our hearts, as an honest,
caring and considerate giant among
men.
Hexham has lost a person who will be remembered in many ways, but to us he was "Barry our friend"
Our thoughts are with Tony.

sandra wilson

November 26, 2007

I am glad i had the pleasure of knowing you . You did a lot for me Barry and i thank you . You will be sadly missed .
sweet dreams xx

David Evans

November 24, 2007

Althought I only new Barry a few years, he was always full of life and always had time for everyone.
I will his him.
Sleep well.

Councillor Derek Kennedy Liberal Democrat Leader

November 23, 2007

Barry was a colourful character. His commitment, efforts and achievement as a Councillor and particularly his 2 year stint as Mayor were impressive. Hexham has lost a big personality

Hayley Beattie

November 23, 2007

So many of my happy memories of being a journalist in Hexham include Barry, he always had a tale to tell and a joke to share. One of the strangests moments in my career was conducting an interview with him over the phone when he was on holiday in Thailand, even when he was miles away he would always spare a moment for you. He will be a real miss around the town, one of life's great characters.

Colin Ashworth

November 23, 2007

I knew Barry since his days in Newcastle and we met in 1989. He was a loyal, passionate. friend and would always help in any way he could. He will be sadly missed.

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