Ben Arkward

Ben Arkward obituary, CHARLOTTESVILLE, VA

Ben Arkward

Ben Arkward Obituary

Published by Daily Progress from Aug. 18 to Aug. 21, 2013.
Ben Arkward Ben Arkward, 71, departed this life at his home in Troy, Virginia on Thursday, August 8, 2013. He was born March 29, 1942, at University of Virginia Hospital, Charlottesville, Virginia, the son of the late Clarence Everett and Marie Maggie Hunter Awkward. He was also preceded in death by two brothers, Clarence Awkward and John Awkward; and a sister, Matilda McQuaige. Ben leaves to cherish his memory, his devoted wife of 46 years, Theresa Arkward, who took care of him until his departure; two children, a son, Benjamin Arkward Jr of Orange, Virginia, and a daughter, Jessica Garland of Kents Store, Virginia; one son-in-law, Robert W Garland Jr of Kents Store, Virginia; very special mother-in-law, Lucy Lee Shepherd; two grandchildren, Khalil Redman of York, Pennsylvania, Malya Garland of Kents Store, Virginia; siblings, Mary Johnson of York, Pennsylvania, Barbara Nelson (Harold) of Wrightsville, Pennsylvania, Elizabeth Newton (Larry) of Troy, Virginia, Richard Arkward (Jacqueline) of Dover, Pennsylvania; four sisters-in-law; and three brothers-in-law; and a host of many family and friends. He had four special buddies, Henry Shepherd, Owen Carter, John "Pete" Howard, and Truman "Junie" Carter. Ben attended the public school systems of Albemarle County in Virginia and graduated from St. Emma Military Academy in Powhatan Virginia. He also attended various colleges and took classes before entering the U.S. Army and fought in the Vietnam War. He was employed by the Fluvanna County Sheriff department for many years until his retirement. Ben was a free spirited person who loved life and always loved to help and encourage others. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend and will always be missed. A Graveside Memorial Service will be held 1 p.m. Saturday, August 24, 2013, at the Arkward's Family Cemetery, Arkquaige Lane in Troy, Virginia with the Reverend Philip A. Carter officiating. J. F. Bell Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements. www.jfbellfuneralhome.com


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August 13, 2014

Lisa Ritter posted to the memorial.

August 13, 2014

Lisa Ritter posted to the memorial.

August 13, 2014

Lisa Ritter posted to the memorial.

Lisa Ritter

August 13, 2014

I miss you Benny so much, even though you were my uncle but more like a brother. Going through so much right now, and I miss not being able to receive your advice. My prayers go out to Aunt Theresa and your children and grandchildren. I know they're missing a great man. Benny you will always stay with me in spirit. Love Lisa

Lisa Ritter

August 13, 2014

I miss you Benny so much, even though you were my uncle but more like a brother. Going through so much right now, and I miss not being able to receive your advice. My prayers go out to Aunt Theresa and your children and grandchildren. I know they're missing a great man. Benny you will always say with me in spirit. Love Lisa

Lisa Ritter

August 13, 2014

I miss you Benny so much, enough though you were my uncle but more like a brother. Going through so much right now, and I miss not being able to receive your advice. My prayers go out to Aunt Theresa and your children and grandchildren. I know they're missing a great man. Benny you will always say with me in spirit. Love Lisa

Rosa Thomas

August 27, 2013

Ben,
So sorry to hear of the passing of your father. Hope God will keep you in his loving arms as you grieve.

LISA RITTER

August 26, 2013

To a wonderful man who was a great uncle to me and also a big brother. I will truly miss him and will always treasure the time I spent with him. My love goes out to Aunt Theresa his children and grandchildren.

August 25, 2013

James Claxton

August 23, 2013

Ben Arkward and family, we of SEMA class of 61 will remember you and your brother fondly. We know you are in a better place. May God bless and comfort your family .

August 23, 2013

Jessica,
I am so sorry to hear of your Father's passing. Praying for God to comfort you during this difficult time.

Sharon and Donald Wheeler

mary jenkins

August 22, 2013

I am so sorry for the lost of your loved one.Ben was a very sweet person.Always had a smile on his face. always willing to help his fellow man. Will be praying for your family.

August 22, 2013

Teresa, Ben, Jessica,
My heart goes out to your family, Benny to my family was one of Gods blessings. He cared about people and always tried to help make a difference. May god help you in the days to come.If I can be of any help just call.
Your neighbors, Dora, Dale Estes

Gwen McQuaige-Hicks

August 21, 2013

Words can't begin to express my sorrow for the Arkward family, my family..... My heart goes out!!!! He, my Uncle Bubba, will forever be in my heart!!! Love you!

Bernie, McKinley,& Charles

August 21, 2013

We will miss your love and guidance. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this time of sorrow.
Love to all,

August 21, 2013

Theresa,
I did not know Bennie but I know he was a special person with a special wife. I remember you showing me his yearbook from the military academy. Best wishes David Pealer

Joseph Daniels

August 21, 2013

FATHER…
Most of us are fortunate enough to have one, Caring, Stern, Hardworking, Disciplined, Respected, Feared, Fun-Loving and Concerned…FATHER, I have had five.
The most recent that just departed is my uncle, Benjamin Arkward Sr. A constant reminder of my Grandmother, Bubba was my craft's teacher and Advisor. He showed me at an early age how to use tools, equipment, and machinery. How to respect mine and other people's property and advised me as I grew into a man about life and its many twists and turns.
Yeah, there were many things he lectured me on that I did not want to hear, but he never told me anything that would not benefit me in the long run. They say an “Arkward…can cut you with words”, let me just say the switch is a part of their arsenal as well.
I'll miss:
The talks we shared
The building projects he supervised
The wood that we chopped
The card games we played
The stories that were told
The music that was played
And in total the Wisdom that he gave
I MISS YOU…Bubba

Your Nephew

Sharon Bland

August 21, 2013

Jessica and family,

So sorry about the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May you hold the memories near and dear through this difficult time and always. God bless.

Carolyn Richardson

August 21, 2013

My God Bless you all.

Catrina and Joe Murphy

August 21, 2013

I send all of my love to my sister and the family. One of my memories will be that over all of the years as far back as I can remember, when I walk through the door, Benny is always sitting there in his chair smiling. His stories also tell us of the many lives that he has touched and impacted over the years. We love you.

Zelda Walker

August 20, 2013

Mrs. Arkward, Jessica and Ben,
My prayers are with you all through this difficult time. May God help you heal.

Helen Price Bransom

August 19, 2013

Teresa, I am so sorrowed to hear about Ben, he was a very nice guy, always smiling
My prayers are with you and your family

August 19, 2013

To the Family of Benjamin Arkward, May Almighty God comfort you in your sorrow. I will always have very good memories of Benjamin. I knew him over fifty years ago as a military cadet at the Saint Emma Military Academy. I was proud of the fact that his brother, Richard, succeeded me as the leader of the cadet company that I commanded my senior year. I was very happy to learn that Benjamin had also become a cadet officer. May he rest in peace. I shall always remember him. Marshall Cabiness, Saint Emma Military Academy, Class of 1961.

Ricky & Janice Scott

August 19, 2013

Theressa, Jessica & Ben, you have my heart felt sorry in the passing of Benny I can't say enough about him as he always helped others and always could make people laugh with his uncanny wit, we all are better for knowing him may God bless.

Roxanne Jones

August 18, 2013

Teresa & Family may God comfort you all during your time of loss. Mr. Arkward will be missed but never forgot. He taught me so much. He was a great man! Roxa

Patricia Christmas

August 18, 2013

To the Arkward Family: We are so sorry for the loss of your loved one. May God wrap his arms around you all during your time of sorrow. Patricia Christmas & Family

August 18, 2013

August 18, 2013

Our prayers are with the family at this time. Ben was a very special person to us. Peggy & Brian Flick

August 18, 2013

To Teresa, Ben and Jessica: I am so sorry to hear about Benny. I only heard about it today 8-19-13.God Bless all of you and help you through this very difficult time. I always thought so much of Benny as I do with all of you. If there is anything at all I can do for you please call on me. Benny will be missed in our community. He was an outstanding person.
Love to all
Catherine Palmer

Tammy Payne-Frazier

August 18, 2013

To Jessica and Ben my prayers are with you. Your dad was such a funny guy and sweetheart. It was a pleasure knowing him. May God be with you and your family.

Kimberly Haislip

August 18, 2013

Theresa, Jessica, and Ben, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband and father. May God wrap you in his loving arms, and give you the strength you need at this difficult time.

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