Benjamin A. Desmarais

Benjamin A. Desmarais obituary, Manchester, NH

Benjamin A. Desmarais

Benjamin Desmarais Obituary

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Benjamin A. Desmarais, 30, of Manchester, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, June 10, 2017 at his residence of a drug overdose. Born in Manchester, he was the son of Albert and Theresa (Chaput) Desmarais. A beloved father, son, brother, and friend, Ben's family was paramount in his life. Ben cherished time spent with his young son, making priceless memories at every opportunity. In his spare time, Ben enjoyed all season hiking with his father, Al, and brother, Mike. A diehard New England Sports fan, Ben could recite all the stats of Boston sports. He was especially passionate about the New England Patriots. A selfless young man, Ben would do anything for his family and friends. Ben will be best remembered for his kind heart and zest for life. Ben is survived by his son, Bryson; mother, Theresa Desmarais; father, Albert Desmarais, Jr.; brother, Michael Desmarais; maternal grandfather, Richard Chaput and wife Pauline; maternal grandmother, June Bernaby and husband Peter; girlfriend and life partner, Brittany Paradise; two nieces, Skylar and Alison; dear family friends, Edward and Janice Stefanik; uncle, Richard Chaput and wife Rose; several aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. Ben was predeceased by his paternal grandparents, Albert J. Desmarais, Sr., and Irene Desmarais. ARRANGEMENTS: His Visitation will be held in the Phaneuf Funeral Homes and Crematorium, 243 Hanover St., Manchester, on Thursday, June 15 from 5:00 to 7:00P.M. followed by a Funeral Service at 7:00P.M. Friends and relatives invited. In lieu of flowers, expressions of sympathy may be made in Ben's memory to assist with the cost of funeral arrangements at https://funds.gofundme.com/dashboard/ben-desmarais-funeral-expences/share/getpanel?panel=fbshare&start=1.

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June 15, 2017

Grace Chapman posted to the memorial.

June 14, 2017

Dr.Laurence Kelly posted to the memorial.

June 13, 2017

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Grace Chapman

June 15, 2017

Dear Teri and Al.
Ben was a beautiful person inside and out.
Ben etched his love in so many hearts.
Time may dull the pain I want you to know I'm here with a shoulder or an ear or anything else you need.
I keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Dr.Laurence Kelly

June 14, 2017

Dear Theresa,
You are a great mother and fantastic person. I am so sorry for this terrible loss. The world is less bright without Ben. Dr.Kelly

Sandra Nicoll

June 13, 2017

Time will heal the pain of your loss. May your memories keep you strong. My thoughts and prayers are with you. (Moriah's Mom)

Eveleen Barcomb

June 13, 2017

I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss, Teri and Al. Although Ben struggled for a good part of his life, he had a kind heart and truly loved his son Bryson and his partner Brittany - not to mention his neices, brother and parents. May he Rest In Peace. God bless. -Eveleen

Leigh Routhier

June 13, 2017

I remember Ben as a young boy at the Manchester Boys & Girls Club. He was full of fun, full of mischief, and the sweetest kid on the planet. I loved when he hung around the reception desk where I worked! His mere presence always made my day so much better! My heartfelt condolences to the Desmarais family; you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Noreen Pond

June 12, 2017

RIP Ben, may your memory be eternal. I am so sorry for your loss, Theresa and family

Lynn Eaton

June 12, 2017

My love is with all of you. Ben was a wonderful young man, loving and kind. Teri and Al, you gave him all you could and he knew how much you loved him. You are in my prayers, as is Ben. Lynn Eaton

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June 15, 2017

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